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<div class="bbWrapper">Time flys, it&#039;s been a year since I read TMF and joined the forum, and a lot of things have been changed except I still achieved nothing in Fastlane, lol.<br /> <br /> The biggest change is that I have been taking parental leave since November last year(my daughter was born in July, and I was working as a software developer), which is unpaid but the government supports about $1,000 per month, it seems enough for living so far because we have some savings but raise a child really cost a lot of money(and energy), and I don&#039;t think $1,000 per month can cover rest of the months until October this year, it&#039;s the problem I am currently facing.<br /> <br /> So some would ask why would I take the parental leave if I don&#039;t have enough money for living, and I would say I was planning to create my own business, I wanted to get started with website design freelance and build my own SaaS product(without any specific goal? how stupid).<br /> <br /> <b>What I have been doing for the past 4 months and did I make money?</b><br /> The start was pretty good, I&#039;ve got a website project from a friend of my friend in China in November, the project gets bigger and bigger and costs a lot more time than I expected, but I didn&#039;t raise the price. Anyway, I was supposed to be paid right after the Chinese new year but thanks to the coronavirus, companies are still not running properly in China.<br /> <br /> At the same time, I was talking with my friend about a software, which can help him solve some problems in his job. We were meeting every weekend to design and develop the app and talked about how to monetize if he can prove the value of the app to his boss, but thanks to coronavirus, we haven&#039;t seen each other for a month(the situation here in South Korea is pretty bad since last month and my wife doesn&#039;t allow me to go out because we have a baby, we can&#039;t take the risk). I finished the MVP last month and sent it to my friend to test, but he told me that his company is busy recently, so still waiting for his feedback, but I feel like he is losing interests, a little bit disappointed but the only thing I can do is wait since I don&#039;t want to push him on this.<br /> <br /> The last one is a web app that I always wanted to make, it allows people to share files between devices without installing any plugin or application. Since a lot of iPhone users are frustrated about sending files to the desktop, and there is still no easy way to do that, so I built one. If anyone interest, I can PM you the link.<br /> <br /> These are what I have done for the past few months, and actually, I felt good during this time, I spent most of my free time in front of my computer and coding, but I just feel like something isn&#039;t right after I have done all of this, not because I didn&#039;t make money, but because I don&#039;t have a clear goal yet, I was thinking about making the second project into SaaS, but I have to admit that I am losing interest too since no feedback and response from my friend. I am afraid that all the works I have done so far will turn into what is called action faking in this forum. <br /> <br /> <b>To summarize, I have been quite busy but didn&#039;t make a penny.</b><br /> This led me to look back and think about what I am doing and am I doing it right? the answer is I can&#039;t find an answer. I think it&#039;s because I don&#039;t have a strong goal, because of uncertainty. I become more and more confused, Indeed I want to be Fastlane, make a passive income system and spend more time with family, but on the other hand, I keep thinking about a job is not a bad thing(mostly because I have no income currently), I also enjoy programming and solve problems with coding. I think I am having a tough time mentally, I am not sure whether should I keep doing what I am doing or just go back to work, at least I can raise my child without worrying about the money if I go back.<br /> <br /> But I will figure this out.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">You took some action, that&#039;s great. <br /> Sort your priorities - what do you and your family need most at the moment? <br /> Secure those top 3 priorities, otherwise it will destroy your workflow OR it will catapult it - depends on how you handle pressure. <br /> Maybe get a part time job or even full time - if necessary.<br /> <br /> Then about the projects:<br /> Website design: Walk through the city, write down every company. Check their websites and webdesign. If crappy, built a demo, send them and add an offer with it. <br /> App: If it really works and there is noone else having the same solution. Why not promote it, maybe for free and start as a patreon? Or sell it on the stores for 99c. <br /> <br /> What I can read so far is: You did not approach enough people/ get in connection with potential customers and therefore you didn&#039;t earn much money yet. <br /> <br /> You did it the right way with the website and app. But after one client, you stopped. Repeat it. Then: repeat it again.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">Thanks for your reply!<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 74031" data-quote="Benedict" data-source="post: 857718" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=857718" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-857718">Benedict said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Maybe get a part time job or even full time - if necessary. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Yes, a part-time job is definitely a viable option.<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 74031" data-quote="Benedict" data-source="post: 857718" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=857718" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-857718">Benedict said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Website design: Walk through the city, write down every company. Check their websites and webdesign. If crappy, built a demo, send them and add an offer with it. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>I have searched some local websites that need a redesign but looks like they are all not maintained anymore, I thought I wouldn&#039;t get a response from those company, but this is only my own thoughts, and still worth a try.<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 74031" data-quote="Benedict" data-source="post: 857718" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=857718" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-857718">Benedict said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> App: If it really works and there is noone else having the same solution. Why not promote it, maybe for free and start as a patreon? Or sell it on the stores for 99c. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>The app is more like a customized solution for the situation of my friend, and this is why I am waiting for his feedback. If I want to promote this to others then the software needs some modification which is I barely can do myself because I don&#039;t familiar with this niche.<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 74031" data-quote="Benedict" data-source="post: 857718" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=857718" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-857718">Benedict said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> What I can read so far is: You did not approach enough people/ get in connection with potential customers and therefore you didn&#039;t earn much money yet. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>You are absolutely right, I&#039;m not good at networking with people, but I&#039;m trying!</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">“You can’t invoice for input.”<br /> <br /> “The market doesn’t pay for activity.”<br /> <br /> Both of these lines are by Blaise Brosnan.<br /> <br /> <br /> Did you focus too much on coding, and not enough on work that allowed you to send an invoice?<br /> <br /> You’re a programmer so you’re most comfortable building/coding things.<br /> <br /> It sounds like the next thing to figure out is how to get paid?<br /> <br /> Maybe this podcast might help:<br /> &gt; <a href="http://www.tropicalmba.com/services" target="_blank" class="link link--external" rel="noopener">www.tropicalmba.com/services</a></div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 23590" data-quote="Andy Black" data-source="post: 857730" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=857730" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-857730">Andy Black said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> “You can’t invoice for input.”<br /> <br /> “The market doesn’t pay for activity.”<br /> <br /> Both of these lines are by Blaise Brosnan.<br /> <br /> <br /> Did you focus too much on coding, and not enough on work that allowed you to send an invoice?<br /> <br /> You’re a programmer so you’re most comfortable building/coding things.<br /> <br /> It sounds like the next thing to figure out is how to get paid?<br /> <br /> Maybe this podcast might help:<br /> &gt; <a href="http://www.tropicalmba.com/services" target="_blank" class="link link--external" rel="nofollow ugc noopener">www.tropicalmba.com/services</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> Thanks for your reply Andy, you are one of I most respect in this forum, always learning a lot from you.<br /> <br /> And yes, I am more comfortable with coding than marketing or selling things. I can search for hours to resolve a bug but when it comes to selling, I really couldn&#039;t do much about it. <br /> <br /> Thanks for the link to podcast, I will check it out!<br /> <br /> Have a nice day sir!</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 64897" data-quote="ChewingCandy" data-source="post: 857707" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=857707" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-857707">ChewingCandy said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> This led me to look back and think about what I am doing and am I doing it right? the answer is I can&#039;t find an answer. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> Really focus on finding the answer.<br /> Sounds like you failed. It doesnt sound like you were action faking.<br /> Be sure to examine your fail, otherwise it may happen again because of the same reasons.<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 64897" data-quote="ChewingCandy" data-source="post: 857707" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=857707" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-857707">ChewingCandy said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> I finished the MVP last month and sent it to my friend to test, but he told me that his company is busy recently, so still waiting for his feedback, but I feel like he is losing interests, a little bit disappointed but the only thing I can do is wait since I don&#039;t want to push him on this. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>If you have a MVP, what are you waiting for?<br /> Get it out into the light, see what the market thinks.<br /> Never wait for feedback.<br /> The lack of feedback is also feedback.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 72236" data-quote="alexkuzmov" data-source="post: 857743" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=857743" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-857743">alexkuzmov said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Really focus on finding the answer.<br /> Sounds like you failed. It doesnt sound like you were action faking.<br /> Be sure to examine your fail, otherwise it may happen again because of the same reasons.<br /> <br /> <br /> If you have a MVP, what are you waiting for?<br /> Get it out into the light, see what the market thinks.<br /> Never wait for feedback.<br /> The lack of feedback is also feedback. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Thanks for your reply.<br /> <br /> The word failed is sounds better than action faking to me, haha.<br /> <br /> The reason I can’t promote the MVP to others is that it’s customized to my friend’s usage, and I have no knowledge about that niche. But I will try to modify it and make it usable for other companies as well.<br /> <br /> And then let people know about the product, which is the hardest thing to me.</div>
 

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