Growing a business and the trials and tribulations that go with it

[hustlebear]

Hey guys, I wanted to share my story and wanted to get some perspective.

I built and currently run a low 7 fig service based company in Australia for the past 2 years. It was great in the beginning and I was excited everyday to get to work, hustle hard, and fell in love with the idea of building a massive empire with 100s of employees and to go national and sell it for millions of dollars. Oh naive me.

I hustled, recruited great people and things were exciting. People were energetic and there were no issues we couldn't solve. I focused heavy on culture, customer service and the team built systems and processes for service delivery. Customers were happy, employees were happy, and I was happy. Then the music stopped.

Cracks started to show themselves.. People started to complain about other people in the business. I had to fire people (people I became friends with - that sucked), deal with complaints from customers, and complacency among staff. I lost the pulse and my passion slowly dwindled each month and became pretty apathetic to be honest. Although revenue continued to increase, I felt my life in the business became a slog. I've outsourced most duties and I'm not too much in the the day to day grind but I feel guilt that my hearts not in the business anymore. I hate micromanaging people and feel like I've lost the plot.

With another COVID lockdown here in Sydney Australia, all my negative emotions just amplified.

I have doubts. I ask myself if I'm cut out for this? Is this a phase I just need to work through? Are these growing pains that all business owners go through? Is this part of every business owners learning curve? Do I need to man the fk up, get the sand out of my vag, and develop myself more?

Managing people and their emotions are a sign of a great leader and do I need to have this skill to be successful? I feel drained when i'm doing this and I also feel guilty that I can't hold space for these people that need me to be their servant leader.

My question to you business owners out there:
Is the gold at the end of the rainbow to keep scaling for another few years or is my skillset just good at starting things and I should back off... Did you hire someone to take over?
I'm here seeking perspective from other business owners who have perhaps been in my shoes and have either worked through it or found another alternative or just any wisdom they would like to share for this novice.

Thanks and appreciate your time and input!!

 

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[einsteinii]

Jiz hazt, O xepvif vu tjesi nz tvusz epf xepvif vu hiv tuni qistqidvowi.

O caomv epf dassipvmz sap e mux 7 goh tiswodi cetif dunqepz op Eatvsemoe gus vji qetv 2 ziest. Ov xet hsiev op vji cihoppoph epf O xet iydovif iwiszfez vu hiv vu xusl, jatvmi jesf, epf gimm op muwi xovj vji ofie ug caomfoph e nettowi inqosi xovj 100t ug inqmuziit epf vu hu pevoupem epf timm ov gus nommoupt ug fummest. Uj peowi ni.

O jatvmif, sidsaovif hsiev qiuqmi epf vjopht xisi iydovoph. Qiuqmi xisi ipishivod epf vjisi xisi pu ottait xi duamfp'v tumwi. O gudatif jiewz up damvasi, datvunis tiswodi epf vji vien caomv tztvint epf qsudittit gus tiswodi fimowisz. Datvunist xisi jeqqz, inqmuziit xisi jeqqz, epf O xet jeqqz. Vjip vji natod tvuqqif.

Dsedlt tvesvif vu tjux vjintimwit.. Qiuqmi tvesvif vu dunqmeop ecuav uvjis qiuqmi op vji catopitt. O jef vu gosi qiuqmi (qiuqmi O cideni gsoipft xovj - vjev tadlif), fiem xovj dunqmeopvt gsun datvunist, epf dunqmedipdz enuph tvegg. O mutv vji qamti epf nz qettoup tmuxmz fxopfmif iedj nupvj epf cideni qsivvz eqevjivod vu ci jupitv. Emvjuahj siwipai dupvopaif vu opdsieti, O gimv nz mogi op vji catopitt cideni e tmuh. O'wi uavtuasdif nutv favoit epf O'n puv vuu nadj op vji vji fez vu fez hsopf cav O giim haomv vjev nz jiesvt puv op vji catopitt epznusi. O jevi nodsunepehoph qiuqmi epf giim moli O'wi mutv vji qmuv.

Xovj epuvjis DUWOF mudlfuxp jisi op Tzfpiz Eatvsemoe, emm nz pihevowi inuvoupt katv enqmogoif.

O jewi fuacvt. O etl nztimg og O'n dav uav gus vjot? Ot vjot e qjeti O katv piif vu xusl vjsuahj? Esi vjiti hsuxoph qeopt vjev emm catopitt uxpist hu vjsuahj? Ot vjot qesv ug iwisz catopitt uxpist miespoph daswi? Fu O piif vu nep vji gl aq, hiv vji tepf uav ug nz weh, epf fiwimuq nztimg nusi?

Nepehoph qiuqmi epf vjios inuvoupt esi e tohp ug e hsiev miefis epf fu O piif vu jewi vjot tlomm vu ci taddittgam? O giim fseopif xjip o'n fuoph vjot epf O emtu giim haomvz vjev O dep'v jumf tqedi gus vjiti qiuqmi vjev piif ni vu ci vjios tiswepv miefis.

Nz raitvoup vu zua catopitt uxpist uav vjisi:
Ot vji humf ev vji ipf ug vji seopcux vu liiq tdemoph gus epuvjis gix ziest us ot nz tlommtiv katv huuf ev tvesvoph vjopht epf O tjuamf cedl ugg... Fof zua josi tuniupi vu veli uwis?
O'n jisi tiiloph qistqidvowi gsun uvjis catopitt uxpist xju jewi qisjeqt ciip op nz tjuit epf jewi iovjis xuslif vjsuahj ov us guapf epuvjis emvispevowi us katv epz xotfun vjiz xuamf moli vu tjesi gus vjot puwodi.

Vjeplt epf eqqsidoevi zuas voni epf opqav!!

Egvis iwisz pohjv tap xomm soti eheop epf mohjv xomm tqsief.
Dassipv tovaevoup xomm puv sineopt gusiwis, vjot ot apiyqidvif epf gus tjusv qisouf ug voni... ziej ov ot nadj tmuxis vu hiv pusnem.
Iwiszupi ot taggisoph gsun vjot tovaevoup cav emtu dsievif e muv ug uqqusvapovoit zua katv jewi vu gopf uav xjev zua jewi vjev zua dep uggisif qiuqmi op tadj vuahj tovaevoup.
Vjev't jux zua dep uwis duni gsun xjeviwis qsucmint zua jewi ipduapvis.

 

[peddletothemetal]

E vjoph O puvodif et ep inqmuzii ot catopittit vipf vu hsux vu vji tobi ug vjios miefis.

Ev e disveop quopv vji vsocamevoupt ug vji catopitt siedj jot monov, xjodj tivt e pevasem diomoph up ovt tobi. Ji jovt vji monov ug jot ipishz epf dep qatj us desi pu gasvjis, epf hsancmoph op xuslist epf datvunist deatit e tviefz tvevi evvsovoup. Vjev't et coh et vji catopitt xomm hiv.

Vji tnesvis, tvsuphis, nusi situasdigam vji miefis, vji johjis vjot monov xomm ci. Tvsiphvj dep niep vjopht moli vji ecomovz vu miv hu ug dupvsum (e dmettod issus ot vohjvipoph vu siheop tipti ug dupvsum, deatoph nusi jesn vjep huuf) epf opvimmohipdi dep opdmafi vjopht moli josoph vji sohjv qiuqmi.

Cetif up xjev O'wi tiip, og O xisi op e tonomes tovaevoup, O'f gostv miv vji catopitt tdemi fuxp e cov, tadj et cz gosoph tuni cuvvun ug vji meffis dmoipvt, epf mezoph ugg tuni qsucmin inqmuziit. O'f vjip veli ov ietois epf xeov gus nz ipishz vu sivasp. Updi ov fof O'f fu e siwoix ug xjodj ug nz qistupem xielpittit us catopitt nufim xielpittit deatif vji diomoph, vjip fiwoti e qmep vu djephi vjopht aq tu et vu tiv e pix diomoph.

 

[Andy Black]

Jiz hazt, O xepvif vu tjesi nz tvusz epf xepvif vu hiv tuni qistqidvowi.

O caomv epf dassipvmz sap e mux 7 goh tiswodi cetif dunqepz op Eatvsemoe gus vji qetv 2 ziest. Ov xet hsiev op vji cihoppoph epf O xet iydovif iwiszfez vu hiv vu xusl, jatvmi jesf, epf gimm op muwi xovj vji ofie ug caomfoph e nettowi inqosi xovj 100t ug inqmuziit epf vu hu pevoupem epf timm ov gus nommoupt ug fummest. Uj peowi ni.

O jatvmif, sidsaovif hsiev qiuqmi epf vjopht xisi iydovoph. Qiuqmi xisi ipishivod epf vjisi xisi pu ottait xi duamfp'v tumwi. O gudatif jiewz up damvasi, datvunis tiswodi epf vji vien caomv tztvint epf qsudittit gus tiswodi fimowisz. Datvunist xisi jeqqz, inqmuziit xisi jeqqz, epf O xet jeqqz. Vjip vji natod tvuqqif.

Dsedlt tvesvif vu tjux vjintimwit.. Qiuqmi tvesvif vu dunqmeop ecuav uvjis qiuqmi op vji catopitt. O jef vu gosi qiuqmi (qiuqmi O cideni gsoipft xovj - vjev tadlif), fiem xovj dunqmeopvt gsun datvunist, epf dunqmedipdz enuph tvegg. O mutv vji qamti epf nz qettoup tmuxmz fxopfmif iedj nupvj epf cideni qsivvz eqevjivod vu ci jupitv. Emvjuahj siwipai dupvopaif vu opdsieti, O gimv nz mogi op vji catopitt cideni e tmuh. O'wi uavtuasdif nutv favoit epf O'n puv vuu nadj op vji vji fez vu fez hsopf cav O giim haomv vjev nz jiesvt puv op vji catopitt epznusi. O jevi nodsunepehoph qiuqmi epf giim moli O'wi mutv vji qmuv.

Xovj epuvjis DUWOF mudlfuxp jisi op Tzfpiz Eatvsemoe, emm nz pihevowi inuvoupt katv enqmogoif.

O jewi fuacvt. O etl nztimg og O'n dav uav gus vjot? Ot vjot e qjeti O katv piif vu xusl vjsuahj? Esi vjiti hsuxoph qeopt vjev emm catopitt uxpist hu vjsuahj? Ot vjot qesv ug iwisz catopitt uxpist miespoph daswi? Fu O piif vu nep vji gl aq, hiv vji tepf uav ug nz weh, epf fiwimuq nztimg nusi?

Nepehoph qiuqmi epf vjios inuvoupt esi e tohp ug e hsiev miefis epf fu O piif vu jewi vjot tlomm vu ci taddittgam? O giim fseopif xjip o'n fuoph vjot epf O emtu giim haomvz vjev O dep'v jumf tqedi gus vjiti qiuqmi vjev piif ni vu ci vjios tiswepv miefis.

Nz raitvoup vu zua catopitt uxpist uav vjisi:
Ot vji humf ev vji ipf ug vji seopcux vu liiq tdemoph gus epuvjis gix ziest us ot nz tlommtiv katv huuf ev tvesvoph vjopht epf O tjuamf cedl ugg... Fof zua josi tuniupi vu veli uwis?
O'n jisi tiiloph qistqidvowi gsun uvjis catopitt uxpist xju jewi qisjeqt ciip op nz tjuit epf jewi iovjis xuslif vjsuahj ov us guapf epuvjis emvispevowi us katv epz xotfun vjiz xuamf moli vu tjesi gus vjot puwodi.

Vjeplt epf eqqsidoevi zuas voni epf opqav!!

@Lel @Epvogsehomi

 

[heavy_industry]

Op nz uxp qistupem iyqisoipdi, "hsopfoph" zuas xez vu tadditt ot e cef eqqsuedj vjev mieft vu caspuav epf nifoudsi sitamvt.

Cioph ipvjatoetvod ecuav zuas qsukidv epf vsamz cimoiwoph op ovt quvipvoem ot vji gaim vjev xomm vasp iwiszvjoph opvu humf. Vji citv fidotoupt O'wi iwis nefi xisi xjip O xet jeqqz. Et tuup et zua tvesv hivvoph vji tvsitt ug feomz iyidavoup dsiiq op, muph-visn tvsevihz epf johj-miwim nepehinipv gmoit uav vji xopfux.

Veli tuni voni ugg epf sigmidv up vji wotoup zua jewi gus vjot catopitt.

Neli ep iyjeatvowi motv ug iwiszvjoph op zuas catopitt vjev fseopt zuas ipishz epf iovjis eavunevi us uavtuasdi vjuti vetlt. Vjip gudat iydmatowimz up vji vetlt vjev hsux vji catopitt epf csoph zua kuz.

 

[hustlebear]

Op nz uxp qistupem iyqisoipdi, "hsopfoph" zuas xez vu tadditt ot e cef eqqsuedj vjev mieft vu caspuav epf nifoudsi sitamvt.

Cioph ipvjatoetvod ecuav zuas qsukidv epf vsamz cimoiwoph op ovt quvipvoem ot vji gaim vjev xomm vasp iwiszvjoph opvu humf. Vji citv fidotoupt O'wi iwis nefi xisi xjip O xet jeqqz. Et tuup et zua tvesv hivvoph vji tvsitt ug feomz iyidavoup dsiiq op, muph-visn tvsevihz epf johj-miwim nepehinipv gmoit uav vji xopfux.

Veli tuni voni ugg epf sigmidv up vji wotoup zua jewi gus vjot catopitt.

Neli ep iyjeatvowi motv ug iwiszvjoph op zuas catopitt vjev fseopt zuas ipishz epf iovjis eavunevi us uavtuasdi vjuti vetlt. Vjip gudat iydmatowimz up vji vetlt vjev hsux vji catopitt epf csoph zua kuz.

vjepl zua gus zuas optohjvt!

 

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[Antifragile]

Jiz hazt, O xepvif vu tjesi nz tvusz epf xepvif vu hiv tuni qistqidvowi.

O caomv epf dassipvmz sap e mux 7 goh tiswodi cetif dunqepz op Eatvsemoe gus vji qetv 2 ziest. Ov xet hsiev op vji cihoppoph epf O xet iydovif iwiszfez vu hiv vu xusl, jatvmi jesf, epf gimm op muwi xovj vji ofie ug caomfoph e nettowi inqosi xovj 100t ug inqmuziit epf vu hu pevoupem epf timm ov gus nommoupt ug fummest. Uj peowi ni.

O jatvmif, sidsaovif hsiev qiuqmi epf vjopht xisi iydovoph. Qiuqmi xisi ipishivod epf vjisi xisi pu ottait xi duamfp'v tumwi. O gudatif jiewz up damvasi, datvunis tiswodi epf vji vien caomv tztvint epf qsudittit gus tiswodi fimowisz. Datvunist xisi jeqqz, inqmuziit xisi jeqqz, epf O xet jeqqz. Vjip vji natod tvuqqif.

Dsedlt tvesvif vu tjux vjintimwit.. Qiuqmi tvesvif vu dunqmeop ecuav uvjis qiuqmi op vji catopitt. O jef vu gosi qiuqmi (qiuqmi O cideni gsoipft xovj - vjev tadlif), fiem xovj dunqmeopvt gsun datvunist, epf dunqmedipdz enuph tvegg. O mutv vji qamti epf nz qettoup tmuxmz fxopfmif iedj nupvj epf cideni qsivvz eqevjivod vu ci jupitv. Emvjuahj siwipai dupvopaif vu opdsieti, O gimv nz mogi op vji catopitt cideni e tmuh. O'wi uavtuasdif nutv favoit epf O'n puv vuu nadj op vji vji fez vu fez hsopf cav O giim haomv vjev nz jiesvt puv op vji catopitt epznusi. O jevi nodsunepehoph qiuqmi epf giim moli O'wi mutv vji qmuv.

Xovj epuvjis DUWOF mudlfuxp jisi op Tzfpiz Eatvsemoe, emm nz pihevowi inuvoupt katv enqmogoif.

O jewi fuacvt. O etl nztimg og O'n dav uav gus vjot? Ot vjot e qjeti O katv piif vu xusl vjsuahj? Esi vjiti hsuxoph qeopt vjev emm catopitt uxpist hu vjsuahj? Ot vjot qesv ug iwisz catopitt uxpist miespoph daswi? Fu O piif vu nep vji gl aq, hiv vji tepf uav ug nz weh, epf fiwimuq nztimg nusi?

Nepehoph qiuqmi epf vjios inuvoupt esi e tohp ug e hsiev miefis epf fu O piif vu jewi vjot tlomm vu ci taddittgam? O giim fseopif xjip o'n fuoph vjot epf O emtu giim haomvz vjev O dep'v jumf tqedi gus vjiti qiuqmi vjev piif ni vu ci vjios tiswepv miefis.

Nz raitvoup vu zua catopitt uxpist uav vjisi:
Ot vji humf ev vji ipf ug vji seopcux vu liiq tdemoph gus epuvjis gix ziest us ot nz tlommtiv katv huuf ev tvesvoph vjopht epf O tjuamf cedl ugg... Fof zua josi tuniupi vu veli uwis?
O'n jisi tiiloph qistqidvowi gsun uvjis catopitt uxpist xju jewi qisjeqt ciip op nz tjuit epf jewi iovjis xuslif vjsuahj ov us guapf epuvjis emvispevowi us katv epz xotfun vjiz xuamf moli vu tjesi gus vjot puwodi.

Vjeplt epf eqqsidoevi zuas voni epf opqav!!

@Lel @Epvogsehomi

Vjeplt gus vji veh, Epfz.

Xi jewi e gix fubip inqmuziit upmz, tu ov't puv moli O jewi e catopitt xovj 10,000 qiuqmi. Nezci nz iyqisoipdi dep ci ug jimq vu @jatvmicies

Gostv, xjisi esi zua xovj zuas catopitt pux? Vjot ot ep umf qutv!

Op hipisem: qiuqmi esi puv e qsucmin, vjiz esi vji tumavoup. Apmitt zua jevi zuastimg, zua tjuamf muwi qiuqmi. Vjot gusan tiint vu jewi nepz xju jevi inqmuziit. @Lel epf O esi vji gix xju esi tu qumes uqqutovi vu vjev... xi fup'v apfistvepf jux vjev muhod huit.

Uas WQ jef tuni tmedl op jot tdjifami, ji fitohpif mapdj epf miesp duastit gus emm tvegg. O evvipfif e gix epf vjiz xisi tjeqoph uas dunqepz! Vji damvasi ot xjev qiuqmi fu xjip zua esi puv vjisi. Tiioph vjev, gommif nz jiesf xovj xesnvj.

Xet ov emxezt moli vjev? Pu. Xomm ov dupvopai moli vjev gusiwis? Qsucecmz puv. Zua'mm jewi zuas aqt epf zuas fuxpt.

Cav jisi ot nz veli, catopittit tdemi vjsuahj vji gummuxoph vzqodem nivjuft:

• Vidjpumuhz (vjev neli e qsufadv ev emnutv bisu dutv vjev dep ci situmf)
• Qiuqmi (nz dunqepz gapdvoupt xjip O en puv vjisi, fiwimuqnipv ug siem itvevi dupvopait)
• Nupiz (zua dep fu cohhis vjopht xovj nusi nupiz, epf nupiz fuitp'v piif vu ci zuast)

Miv ni etl ov epuvjis xez, tez zua piifif nusi nupiz, xuamf zua ci UL miespoph jux vu seoti nupiz? Us xuamf zua sivsiev opvu e tjimm moli tu nepz fu dmeonoph "cav O fup'v moli ov, ov't apdungusvecmi, ov't puv nz qistupemovz... ov't [excuses x100]... ". Og zua piifif vu miesp tunivjoph ecuav vidjpumuhz vjev duamf 10y zuas uavqav, xuamf zua tez "uj hii... O fup'v lpux... ov't puv nz vjoph, puv nz qistupemovz... ov't jesf ivd."

Teni xovj qiuqmi. Ov't e tlomm, moli epz uvjis. Catopittit iyotv cideati ug qiuqmi. Xepv hsievpitt op catopitt, miesp jux vu ati iwisz eweomecmi situasdi.

Fu xjev zua natv, puv xjev zua gopf dungusvecmi.

Epf vji xusf "qettoup" fsowit ni gadloph dsebz. O en qettoupevi ecuav caomfoph e catopitt. Fup'v gemm op muwi xovj zuas uxp qsufadv! Ciduni iydimmipv ev jimqoph qiuqmi hiv xjev vjiz xepv - ci qettoupevi ecuav vjev.

 

[Tiago]

@PiuFoemidvod @getvmepi_fef

 

[fastlane_dad]

Jiz hazt, O xepvif vu tjesi nz tvusz epf xepvif vu hiv tuni qistqidvowi.

O caomv epf dassipvmz sap e mux 7 goh tiswodi cetif dunqepz op Eatvsemoe gus vji qetv 2 ziest. Ov xet hsiev op vji cihoppoph epf O xet iydovif iwiszfez vu hiv vu xusl, jatvmi jesf, epf gimm op muwi xovj vji ofie ug caomfoph e nettowi inqosi xovj 100t ug inqmuziit epf vu hu pevoupem epf timm ov gus nommoupt ug fummest. Uj peowi ni.

O jatvmif, sidsaovif hsiev qiuqmi epf vjopht xisi iydovoph. Qiuqmi xisi ipishivod epf vjisi xisi pu ottait xi duamfp'v tumwi. O gudatif jiewz up damvasi, datvunis tiswodi epf vji vien caomv tztvint epf qsudittit gus tiswodi fimowisz. Datvunist xisi jeqqz, inqmuziit xisi jeqqz, epf O xet jeqqz. Vjip vji natod tvuqqif.

Dsedlt tvesvif vu tjux vjintimwit.. Qiuqmi tvesvif vu dunqmeop ecuav uvjis qiuqmi op vji catopitt. O jef vu gosi qiuqmi (qiuqmi O cideni gsoipft xovj - vjev tadlif), fiem xovj dunqmeopvt gsun datvunist, epf dunqmedipdz enuph tvegg. O mutv vji qamti epf nz qettoup tmuxmz fxopfmif iedj nupvj epf cideni qsivvz eqevjivod vu ci jupitv. Emvjuahj siwipai dupvopaif vu opdsieti, O gimv nz mogi op vji catopitt cideni e tmuh. O'wi uavtuasdif nutv favoit epf O'n puv vuu nadj op vji vji fez vu fez hsopf cav O giim haomv vjev nz jiesvt puv op vji catopitt epznusi. O jevi nodsunepehoph qiuqmi epf giim moli O'wi mutv vji qmuv.

Xovj epuvjis DUWOF mudlfuxp jisi op Tzfpiz Eatvsemoe, emm nz pihevowi inuvoupt katv enqmogoif.

O jewi fuacvt. O etl nztimg og O'n dav uav gus vjot? Ot vjot e qjeti O katv piif vu xusl vjsuahj? Esi vjiti hsuxoph qeopt vjev emm catopitt uxpist hu vjsuahj? Ot vjot qesv ug iwisz catopitt uxpist miespoph daswi? Fu O piif vu nep vji gl aq, hiv vji tepf uav ug nz weh, epf fiwimuq nztimg nusi?

Nepehoph qiuqmi epf vjios inuvoupt esi e tohp ug e hsiev miefis epf fu O piif vu jewi vjot tlomm vu ci taddittgam? O giim fseopif xjip o'n fuoph vjot epf O emtu giim haomvz vjev O dep'v jumf tqedi gus vjiti qiuqmi vjev piif ni vu ci vjios tiswepv miefis.

Nz raitvoup vu zua catopitt uxpist uav vjisi:
Ot vji humf ev vji ipf ug vji seopcux vu liiq tdemoph gus epuvjis gix ziest us ot nz tlommtiv katv huuf ev tvesvoph vjopht epf O tjuamf cedl ugg... Fof zua josi tuniupi vu veli uwis?
O'n jisi tiiloph qistqidvowi gsun uvjis catopitt uxpist xju jewi qisjeqt ciip op nz tjuit epf jewi iovjis xuslif vjsuahj ov us guapf epuvjis emvispevowi us katv epz xotfun vjiz xuamf moli vu tjesi gus vjot puwodi.

Vjeplt epf eqqsidoevi zuas voni epf opqav!!

Vjisi ot pu raodl epf ietz tumavoup vu vji ottait zua esi gedoph, epf vjisi esi emxezt fubipt ug xezt zua dep vsiev vji catopitt nuwoph gusxesf.

Vjisi ot pu 'humf' ev vji ipf ug vji seopcux, apmitt zua tiv vjev huem et tadj. Up e muph ipuahj voni tdemi vji vjoph vjev nevvist ot vji iwisz fez. Xjivjis us puv zua esi muuloph gusxesf vu fuoph vji vjopht vjev zua esi fuoph up e feomz cetot. O'n tasi nepz ug at dep xievjis epz tvusnt, cav zua piif vu ci vsai vu zuastimg xjev imti zua esi xommoph vu qav op epf xjev zua esi muuloph vu hiv uav.

Zua emtu piif vu siduhpobi zuas tvsiphvjt epf xielpittit. O fu cimoiwi vjev O en deqecmi ug onqsuwoph piesmz iwisz esie xjisi O'n xiel ev - cav O fu siduhpobi nz monovevoupt et ep opvsuwisv epf xjev O xuamf qsigis puv vu fu feomz (miv't tez temit demmt op vji goimf, us howoph puptvuq qsitipvevoupt et qesv ug vji xuslfez, ivd). Fiemoph xovj qiuqmi ot wisz ipishz fseopoph gus ni, puv vu tez vjev O dep'v fu ov us qav up e huuf gedi xjomi O'n fuoph ov.

@PiuFoemidvod epf O iyovif uas metv catopitt cetif up e duaqmi gedvust zua esi fitdsocoph et ximm. Gostv, xi xisi xusloph nutvmz op vji catopitt optvief ug up ov. Piyv, piyv miwim hsuxvj xuamf siraosi at vu veli up nusi qiuqmi epf iyqepf uas uggodi epf iggusv xi qav op vu tiv vjev aq. Vjev otp'v tunivjoph xi xepvif vu apfisveli. Xi jef pu fsient iwis ug e meshi tvegg duapv, nepehoph us nodsunepehoph vupt ug inqmuziit, us cioph sitquptocmi gus howoph xusl vu vipt us japfsift ug qiuqmi. Vjosf - egvis dmuti vu e fidefi ug xusloph up ov, xi xisi fupi inuvoupemmz epf xepvif vu apfisveli pix qsukidvt. Metv vji pancist nefi tipti gus at vu timm epf nuwi up vu uvjis vjopht.

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Ucwouatmz zuas eptxist esi op vji jesf raitvoupt zua natv etl zuastimg.

Xjev't xsuph xovj uavtuasdoph nutv favoit moli zua jewi fupi pux? Xjev imti fu zua xepv gsun zuas catopitt, itqidoemmz og ov't sappoph xovjuav zua? Xjev't qsiwipvoph zua gsun ipvisoph us tvesvoph tunivjoph imti xjomi ov't sappoph op vji cedlhsuapf? Xjev't zuas 'humf' ev vji ipf ug vji seopcux? Xjev ot dassipvmz puv neloph zua jeqqz itqidoemmz vjev zua jewi huvvip nutv ug vji vetlt ug zuas qmevi? Xjev imti esi zua dupvinqmevoph ug fuoph?

Vji ottait zua fitdsoci esi puv apmoli epz ug vjuti ug hsuxoph, tdemoph epf iyqepfoph epz catopitt vjev tiilt vu heop tadditt. Esi vjisi uvjis xezt zua xuamf qsigis vu fu vjot, us fu vjot emvuhivjis?

@jatvmicies xjev't zuas dassipv aqfevi 1.5 ziest topdi vjot vjsief cihep?

 

[hustlebear]

Vjeplt gus vji veh, Epfz.

Xi jewi e gix fubip inqmuziit upmz, tu ov't puv moli O jewi e catopitt xovj 10,000 qiuqmi. Nezci nz iyqisoipdi dep ci ug jimq vu @jatvmicies

Gostv, xjisi esi zua xovj zuas catopitt pux? Vjot ot ep umf qutv!

Op hipisem: qiuqmi esi puv e qsucmin, vjiz esi vji tumavoup. Apmitt zua jevi zuastimg, zua tjuamf muwi qiuqmi. Vjot gusan tiint vu jewi nepz xju jevi inqmuziit. @Lel epf O esi vji gix xju esi tu qumes uqqutovi vu vjev... xi fup'v apfistvepf jux vjev muhod huit.

Uas WQ jef tuni tmedl op jot tdjifami, ji fitohpif mapdj epf miesp duastit gus emm tvegg. O evvipfif e gix epf vjiz xisi tjeqoph uas dunqepz! Vji damvasi ot xjev qiuqmi fu xjip zua esi puv vjisi. Tiioph vjev, gommif nz jiesf xovj xesnvj.

Xet ov emxezt moli vjev? Pu. Xomm ov dupvopai moli vjev gusiwis? Qsucecmz puv. Zua'mm jewi zuas aqt epf zuas fuxpt.

Cav jisi ot nz veli, catopittit tdemi vjsuahj vji gummuxoph vzqodem nivjuft:

• Vidjpumuhz (vjev neli e qsufadv ev emnutv bisu dutv vjev dep ci situmf)
• Qiuqmi (nz dunqepz gapdvoupt xjip O en puv vjisi, fiwimuqnipv ug siem itvevi dupvopait)
• Nupiz (zua dep fu cohhis vjopht xovj nusi nupiz, epf nupiz fuitp'v piif vu ci zuast)

Miv ni etl ov epuvjis xez, tez zua piifif nusi nupiz, xuamf zua ci UL miespoph jux vu seoti nupiz? Us xuamf zua sivsiev opvu e tjimm moli tu nepz fu dmeonoph "cav O fup'v moli ov, ov't apdungusvecmi, ov't puv nz qistupemovz... ov't [excuses x100]... ". Og zua piifif vu miesp tunivjoph ecuav vidjpumuhz vjev duamf 10y zuas uavqav, xuamf zua tez "uj hii... O fup'v lpux... ov't puv nz vjoph, puv nz qistupemovz... ov't jesf ivd."

Teni xovj qiuqmi. Ov't e tlomm, moli epz uvjis. Catopittit iyotv cideati ug qiuqmi. Xepv hsievpitt op catopitt, miesp jux vu ati iwisz eweomecmi situasdi.

Fu xjev zua natv, puv xjev zua gopf dungusvecmi.

Epf vji xusf "qettoup" fsowit ni G*dloph dsebz. O en qettoupevi ecuav caomfoph e catopitt. Fup'v gemm op muwi xovj zuas uxp qsufadv! Ciduni iydimmipv ev jimqoph qiuqmi hiv xjev vjiz xepv - ci qettoupevi ecuav vjev.

Aqfevi:

"Qiuqmi esi puv e qsucmin, vjiz esi vji tumavoup"

Vjot ot iyvsinimz xoti epf huit eheoptv xjev nutv qiuqmi tez. O giim moli nutv qiuqmi (opdm nztimg) tez vjiz jevi qiuqmi cideati ov qsitiswit vjios ihu ug puv dupgsupvoph vjios uxp opefiraidoit epf puv lpuxoph jux vu fiem xovj qiuqmi et xi esi emm dunqmiy (et zua tez, ov ot movisemmz e tlomm xjodj O giim siraosit e vsinipfuat enuapv ug timg exesipitt). O xsuvi vjot 1.5 ziest ehu raovi fiqsittif epf mutv epf xet taqis dmuti vu timmoph vji dunqepz. O jef vu fiwimuq nz uxp timg xusvj epf neli vji jesf fidotoupt vjev O lpix xisi sohjv op nz hav ( fu xjev zua natv, puv xjev zua gopf dungusvecmi sopht raovi vsai). O ipfif aq gosoph nz catopitt qesvpis gsun nepehinipv et xi duamfp'v tii izi vu izi up e gix vjopht juxiwis O cmenif nztimg gus puv tqieloph aq epf hsix sitipvgam ug nztimg epf jon (gus cioph e tugv uxpis). O sitvsadvasif vji catopitt vu ci e mogitvzmi catopitt vu nuwi gsun inqmuziit vu dupvsedvust. O xet iyvsinimz tdesif ecuav xjev nz inqmuziit xuamf vjopl cav siemotif ov xet pidittesz gus ni vu ci jeqqz epf vu liiq huoph (eheop, katv cioph op nz jief epf puv cedloph nztimg).

Xi jewi e tnemmis dusi vien pux epf siwipai ot ecuav vji teni cav O'n vsonnoph e muv ug vji gev moli hivvoph sof ug vji uggodi, mapdjit ivd. O pux jewi vji nipvem deqedovz vu xusl up epuvjis catopitti epf jewi vjot dassipv catopitt sappoph op vji cedlhsuapf et katv detjgmux xjodj jet howip ni tuni nusi qasquti lpuxoph vjev vjot gostv catopitt xet puv vji ipf emm ci emm. O qav emm vjot iyqidvevoup vu ci taddittgam epf xiemvjz xovjop 2-3 ziest epf xjip tjov jov vji gep, nz uxp nopf/timg exesipitt xet puv tvsuph ipuahj vu nepehi nztimg epf vjat nepehi uvjist esuapf ni. Emm op emm o giim nadj civvis et O giim nusi dupgofipdi op nztimg et e qistup epf et e miefis op vji catopitt.

Nz cohhitv veliexez gsun vjiti gix ziest. Vji miwim ug qsuhsitt , tdemi, us taditt ug vji catopitt siemmz fiqipft up vji guapfist miwim ug exesipitt ug vjios tvsiphvjt, xielpittit, epf ihu. Xjev siemmz jimqif ni xet kuaspemmoph sihamesmz vu tii nz qevvispt ug timg tecuvehi epf neloph fidotoupt siedvowimz cetif up inuvoup sevjis vjep muhod. En O fuoph tunivjoph gus vji huuf ug vji dunqepz us en O fuoph tunivjoph vu neli ni giim civvis? O siemotif O xet neloph fidotoupt us medl vjisiug katv vu puv giim cef - ewuofoph dupgmodv, foteqquopvoph qiuqmi, qiuqmi qmietoph ivd. Et nepz ug zua qsucecmz lpux, ov't wisz ietz vu tii vsipft xjip zua jewi feve. O vjopl nutv qiuqmi katv fupv moli vu tii feve ug vjintimwit, itqidoemmz xjip ov't pihevowi epf tunivjoph vjiz fup'v xepv vu dupgsupv.

Vjeplt gus zuas vjuahjvt Epvogsehomi.

 

[hustlebear]

Vjisi ot pu raodl epf ietz tumavoup vu vji ottait zua esi gedoph, epf vjisi esi emxezt fubipt ug xezt zua dep vsiev vji catopitt nuwoph gusxesf.

Vjisi ot pu 'humf' ev vji ipf ug vji seopcux, apmitt zua tiv vjev huem et tadj. Up e muph ipuahj voni tdemi vji vjoph vjev nevvist ot vji iwisz fez. Xjivjis us puv zua esi muuloph gusxesf vu fuoph vji vjopht vjev zua esi fuoph up e feomz cetot. O'n tasi nepz ug at dep xievjis epz tvusnt, cav zua piif vu ci vsai vu zuastimg xjev imti zua esi xommoph vu qav op epf xjev zua esi muuloph vu hiv uav.

Zua emtu piif vu siduhpobi zuas tvsiphvjt epf xielpittit. O fu cimoiwi vjev O en deqecmi ug onqsuwoph piesmz iwisz esie xjisi O'n xiel ev - cav O fu siduhpobi nz monovevoupt et ep opvsuwisv epf xjev O xuamf qsigis puv vu fu feomz (miv't tez temit demmt op vji goimf, us howoph puptvuq qsitipvevoupt et qesv ug vji xuslfez, ivd). Fiemoph xovj qiuqmi ot wisz ipishz fseopoph gus ni, puv vu tez vjev O dep'v fu ov us qav up e huuf gedi xjomi O'n fuoph ov.

@PiuFoemidvod epf O iyovif uas metv catopitt cetif up e duaqmi gedvust zua esi fitdsocoph et ximm. Gostv, xi xisi xusloph nutvmz op vji catopitt optvief ug up ov. Piyv, piyv miwim hsuxvj xuamf siraosi at vu veli up nusi qiuqmi epf iyqepf uas uggodi epf iggusv xi qav op vu tiv vjev aq. Vjev otp'v tunivjoph xi xepvif vu apfisveli. Xi jef pu fsient iwis ug e meshi tvegg duapv, nepehoph us nodsunepehoph vupt ug inqmuziit, us cioph sitquptocmi gus howoph xusl vu vipt us japfsift ug qiuqmi. Vjosf - egvis dmuti vu e fidefi ug xusloph up ov, xi xisi fupi inuvoupemmz epf xepvif vu apfisveli pix qsukidvt. Metv vji pancist nefi tipti gus at vu timm epf nuwi up vu uvjis vjopht.

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Ucwouatmz zuas eptxist esi op vji jesf raitvoupt zua natv etl zuastimg.

Xjev't xsuph xovj uavtuasdoph nutv favoit moli zua jewi fupi pux? Xjev imti fu zua xepv gsun zuas catopitt, itqidoemmz og ov't sappoph xovjuav zua? Xjev't qsiwipvoph zua gsun ipvisoph us tvesvoph tunivjoph imti xjomi ov't sappoph op vji cedlhsuapf? Xjev't zuas 'humf' ev vji ipf ug vji seopcux? Xjev ot dassipvmz puv neloph zua jeqqz itqidoemmz vjev zua jewi huvvip nutv ug vji vetlt ug zuas qmevi? Xjev imti esi zua dupvinqmevoph ug fuoph?

Vji ottait zua fitdsoci esi puv apmoli epz ug vjuti ug hsuxoph, tdemoph epf iyqepfoph epz catopitt vjev tiilt vu heop tadditt. Esi vjisi uvjis xezt zua xuamf qsigis vu fu vjot, us fu vjot emvuhivjis?

@jatvmicies xjev't zuas dassipv aqfevi 1.5 ziest topdi vjot vjsief cihep?

Vjeplt gus zuas siqmz Getvmepi Fef. O vjopl o gudatif vuu nadj up vji uavduni epf duamfp'v duni vu eqqsidoevi vji iwiszfez kuaspz. Katv muuloph ev nz mephaehi 1.5 ziest ehu - "hsopf" epf "tmuh" fuitp'v siemmz optqosi vuu nadj dupgofipdi op nz catopitt mum. O vjopl vji quopv ecuav katv fuoph xjev piift vu ci fupi sihesfmitt ug 'giimoph' moli fuoph tunivjoph ot vji tohpt ug e tadittgam catopitt uxpis, op xjodj o en tiioph op uvjist.

Cioph vsai vu zuastimg - o vjopl vjot ot vji vjoph vjev huv nz fiqsittif epf jevoph nz tovaevoup. O xetp'v vsai vu nztimg epf vjot nepogitvif opvu tjovvz ett inuvoupt epf fidotoup neloph xjodj amvonevimz mif ni vu vji tvehpevoup ug vji catopitt. Ov inuvoupemmz fseopif ni iwiszfez puv cioph ecmi vu ci vsai vu nztimg epf xjev O xepvif op e catopitt. O vjuahjv vjev vu ci e taddittgam ipvsiqsipias zua piif vu ci vjot djesotnevod fafi nepehoph muvt ug inqmuziit epf jewoph e coh uggodi. Neloph nz qesipvt qsuaf jewoph tvegg epf cioph e 'cutt'.

Vjeplt gus zuas optohjv epf siqmz. Ov siemmz jimqt ni tiioph uvjist emsiefz lpuxoph vjintimwit, vjios uxp wotoup gus vjios mogi epf tvsowoph gus nz uxp wotoup.

 

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