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Change your language.... unfortunately it's not possible...
... I can't buy it...
...I can't even buy a car for myself....
...unfortunately I can't afford that either...
...I can't get a loan...
...So I'm helpless...
...then my life would be filled with happiness, but unfortunately that is unfulfillable
...And because of all that, I also suffer from depression, because not meeting my goal affected my mental health...
Remove "I can't" from your vocabulary.
Instead of saying, "I can't," start saying, "How can I?"
Your subconscious will start working on the problem and start finding solutions.
If your self-identity is "I'm helpless and everything I want is impossible to get," then yeah - that's going to be demoralizing. Of course that's going to affect your mental health.
This forum is about finding better solutions than working a slowlane or sidewalk job. In a slowlane job, of COURSE you're going to be limited.
How can you increase your income? Be creative.
How can you reduce your expenses? Be creative.
You can do more than you think you can.