Andy Black
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Free registration at the forum removes this block.This one might be a little provoking and is not intended to harm anybodies feelings. But it's a topic I'd like to get a perspective on this from you guys.
Most people don't value their time very well. Just look at the people standing in line for hours to get a freebie. Another great example are Gas prices. For those who don't know, here in Germany Gas costs roughly 2 times the price you pay in the US. Anyhow as soon as the price drops a few cents long lines start to form at the gas station. All the people are waiting 5, 10, 20 minutes to save a few cents. Years ago as a student I did it myself. When I see it nowadays, I simply drive by and decide to come back later if I don't absolutely have to fill up. I value my time more.
TMF explains the commandment of time and how important it is to have an asset that can exist without you're time being bound to it. The 4 hour work week and many other modern business and self development literature follow the same principle. There is always more money to be made but never more time to live.
The one thing that seems to consume most time in life are children. At least if you want to be a good parent, not leaving all education/parenting to your partner, the grandparents, the kindergarten, school or nannies. You want to be there for your children, don't you? But they will literally take away your freedom. Especially when small they schedule your entire day. No more freedom to go out whenever you like or work 16 hours a day. And isn't freedom what should be valued most? Or is it much more fullfilling to raise your own children than to have freedom of choice what to do with your time?
I think we can all agree that the best take on this is what MJ did. Become rich first and do whatever you want, e.g. found a family and spend much more time than anybody with a job ever can. But what if you're still in the fastlane, maybe and the beginning of your journey or not even started and want to have children now? Maybe it has to be soon because your spouse will be too old in a few years? Is it possible to spend enough time with your family and still work your a$$ off to become rich? Are you able to work at your peak all day when you've been awake 4 or 5 times a night because of your little one demanding it?
What's your take on this? Do you have children? If so how much time do you spend with them and how much do you work per week?
Or do you never ever want to have children and see them as a threat to your personal freedom? Or maybe you are in the fastlane because of your children in the first place? Does it motivate you that one day you will provide the best life possible for them?
Let me know.
Lol. You thought there'd be more drama from the parents in the forum?This thread has a lot less cyber-drama then I thought it would.
I'm thankful for this, and here's why. When you see smart people having kids AND fulfilling their dreams, it's one step against the rising tide of idiocracy. (See the movie "Idiocracy" if you don't know what I'm referring to.)I am older than most of you.
I have children older than most of yours. I have a child younger than most of yours. I have more freedom than most of you. Freedom is not mutually exclusive from children.
Thanks for the shout-out! It's true. I was working full time and had a grade-schooler. It meant I didn't get a lot of sleep while penning that breakout novel, but man, has it been worth it. Right now, I'm literally on a mountain top, overlooking a beautiful valley, and working from home on my own schedule.@ChickenHawk was a middle aged working Mom before she penned a book that allowed her to quit her job. She has more freedom than most of you.
I'm thankful for this, and here's why. When you see smart people having kids AND fulfilling their dreams, it's one step against the rising tide of idiocracy. (See the movie "Idiocracy" if you don't know what I'm referring to.)
Still 99% sure youll change your mind.
Cheap farm labor.A simpler question...
Why have children?
There is no greater joy for me than watching my kids grow and watching them experience the world. It's like a fountain of youth for me.
When I see them experience something for the first time, it often takes me back to that moment in my life.
When I see them struggle and then over come those struggles it gives me a feeling of pride that money simply cannot buy.
When I noticed a trait, quirk or expression that I know 100% is mine and not my wife's, I always get this strange feeling of gratification. Something I have never experienced via adrenaline, chemicals, God, money or sex. It's hard to describe and I'm sure it's some primal instinct to procreate or whatever, but again, nothing has ever given me these feelings before.
I have two daughters and I have made a lot of money over the years. I would trade all of that money for them in an instant.
I love this non-word-mincing crowd we have here.With all due respect, F*ck you.
Lol. I remember those days (not very long ago actually). Leaving out the front door, sneaking round the back and through the back-door, to spend the day hiding in a tiny broom cupboard of an office so they didn't know I was in the house. I hadn't expected it to be so hard to hear them playing in the other room and not being able to go give them a hug.But it sux because when I need to get shit done, there are constant interruptions.
A simpler question...
Why have children?
Elon- ( EL-ON) has time for everything including leading several public companies.
But really, the only once who knows the real answer is the people with children, since they are the only once who knows both sides of the story...
People who consciously opt out of reproduction are choosing the ultimate in slow lane - the genetic dead end!
My little freedom stealer doesn't let me have any funIts my ticket to life, travel, fun
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