<div class="bbWrapper">I would see this thread starting to turn around if any of the following actions occur:<br />
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<li data-xf-list-type="ul">OP finds 1 - 5 people to coach (free or paid) and actually does it and gets them good results</li>
<li data-xf-list-type="ul">Publishes 10+ Reels/Shorts/TikToks/Videos, etc. and starts gaining followers/subscribers</li>
<li data-xf-list-type="ul">Offers paid coaching to the above audience and someone actually buys</li>
<li data-xf-list-type="ul">Offers paid coaching to the above audience on live calls whether they accept or reject it</li>
<li data-xf-list-type="ul">Runs paid Facebook, YouTube, Google, or other ads that funnel people to a call or offer (in enough volume and for long enough time to see actual results)</li>
<li data-xf-list-type="ul">Hosts a local seminar/workshop/dating event or similar to attract local clients and gets word out about it (e.g. post in local Facebook groups or other places)</li>
<li data-xf-list-type="ul">Lands a few minutes on the local news to talk about dating and dating coaching or a dating event (at the event you will offer your coaching services)</li>
</ul>Those are just a few actions that would suggest OP might pull this off.<br />
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<li data-xf-list-type="ul">Setting up a website/social media</li>
<li data-xf-list-type="ul">Logo design, branding, colors, photography</li>
<li data-xf-list-type="ul">Taking a course on how to be a dating coach</li>
<li data-xf-list-type="ul">Posting an ad on the Fastlane forum</li>
<li data-xf-list-type="ul">Posting updates to this thread that imagine results without describing actionable steps taken toward getting those results</li>
</ul>To me, the challenge isn't that OP doesn't take action. It's that the actions he takes don't move things forward, and when it comes to momentum-building actions, he stops too soon to get the results he wants.<br />
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If you don't get over the<b><u> <span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255)">rejection </span></u></b>and not put in the <span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255)"><u><b>reps </b></u></span>nothing is gonna happen.
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This is really important because coaches make money on live Discovery (Sales) calls. You have to be comfortable talking to people about their problems, outlining how you'll solve them, and offering to solve those problems for $$$$$.<br />
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You also have to be comfortable getting rejected, and talking around/through that rejection to get to the sale, or reflecting on the rejection so you can overcome it next time.<br />
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Rejection is good. Every rejection is a chance to reflect on what didn't work, and to solve that specific problem. Every rejection is a failure of the system, and every failure can be corrected until there are no more failures, but that requires OP overcoming his endurance problem.<br />
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You can't get a sales job?
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There are sales jobs working directly for dating coaches that already have a team of sales people and a proven sales process that they're happy to teach. But it won't be comfortable getting the job.<br />
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The hiring person will ask him to sell them something during their interview. No matter how he does, they'll reject him at the end, tell him it was shit and he's not cut out for this line of work. If he persists, they might invite him to a second interview and do it again.<br />
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They want people who do not accept "no" as an answer. The purpose of the interview is weeding out people who give up too easily/soon, because these coach businesses are already doing all of the action steps I outlined above. They're willing to lose some sales while training sales people, but every time a sale isn't closed, it costs them thousands of dollars, plus time, effort, and energy, so they need the right people from the start.</div>
