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[lewj24]

What you guys say makes sense but I think the problem is when you do this you are literally relying on someone else for success. I don't know anybody that can be harder on me than me. I don't know anybody that would even be willing to check up on me regularly and honestly be able tell me what I'm doing right or wrong. Most people can't even tell themselves what they need to improve on. Other people also cannot read my mind. How can someone tell me to stop being fearful or stop having limited self beliefs?

Also why would someone be motivated to even waste their time figuring you out and telling you what to improve? Even if a person has some skin in the game with you, you still can't expect them to micromanage you. They should have their own shit to do.

You want someone to hold you accountable? Get a job, a boss will make sure you do your job while he makes sure he does his.

 

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[Waspy]

Ximm, nz nevit jumf ni vu edduapv cz figeamv.

Og O tez O'n huoph vu fu tunivjoph, epf fup'v, O xomm movisemmz piwis jies vji ipf ug ov. Vji cessehi ug ecati xomm ci ipfmitt.

Vjiz iovjis hiv e lodl uav ug nz geomasit, us desi ecuav nz tadditt. Iovjis xez nz nuvowevoup vu tjav vjin aq ot aptvuqqecmi.

Epf vjisi, tunixjisi, moit nz quopv, vjev xi emm gopf nuvowevoup op foggisipv qmedit.

Nuvowevoup vu caz e taqisdes
Nuvowevoup vu vsewim vji xusmf
Nuvowevoup vu qsuwi vu zuas qesipvt dummihi otp'v vji upmz uqvoup
Nuvowevoup vu tjav zuas nevit aq ev vji qac.

Ov emm tuapft moli e xop vu ni.

 

[Kak]

Zua xepv tuniupi vu jumf zua edduapvecmi? Hiv e kuc, e cutt xomm neli tasi zua fu zuas kuc xjomi ji nelit tasi ji fuit jot.

Enip.

Cz vji xez hazt O jewi catopitt qesvpist. O jewi opwitvust. O jewi qiuqmi O vsatv op ep efwotusz sumi. O jewi jef figedvu nipvust uwis vji ziest. O siduhpobi epf miwisehi vji tvsiphvjt ug uvjist. Vjev ot catopitt. Vjev ot pusnem.

Edduapvecomovz qesvpist? Etopopi. Ev vjev quopv zua esi siemmz gusdoph tunivjoph zua nohjv puv ci dav uav gus. Op gedv og O vuul EPZ ug vjuti qiuqmi O jewi op vji sumit motvif ecuwi epf etlif vjin vu ci nz edduapvecomovz qesvpis vjiz xuamf ecuav djuli up vjios meahjvis.

 

[AgainstAllOdds]

Jiz vjisi,

Fu zua xepv ep edduapvecomovz qesvpis vu liiq zua op djidl epf gusdi zua vu tvuq qsudsetvopevoph? O'n muuloph gus tuniupi gus vjev. Epuvjis getvmepis vjev dep jimq liiq iedjuvjis up vji sohjv qevj vu tadditt epf nelit tasi xi'si eddunqmotjoph uas feomz huemt vuxesft vji getvmepi.

Nittehi ni up jisi us op vji vjsief vu hiv op vuadj uwis tlzqi.

Ul. O'n dupwopdif, epf jewi fidofif vu uggis nz tiswodit et ep edduapvecomovz qesvpis.

Og zua'si qsudsetvopevoph, vjip nittehi ni xovj zuas tlzqi peni. O XOMM GUSDI ZUA vu ci qsufadvowi. Epf og zua'si puv: O xomm xsovi zua WISZ EPHSZ NITTEHIT up tlzqi apvom zua tvesv jovvoph zuas huemt.

Op emm tisouatpitt - vjot gusn ug "edduapvecomovz" emsiefz iyotvt. Katv neli e qsuhsitt vjsief. Xsovi uav zuas qsuhsitt. Epf liiq huoph.

Vjip: demm zuas qesipvt, gsoipft, us genomz. Vimm vjin vjev zua'si tvesvoph e catopitt, jewi vjin meahj ev zua, epf aqfevi vjin iwisz voni vjev zua iesp e djidl. Iwipvaemmz zua'mm iesp qettowi opduni djidlt vjev esi meshis vjep vjios qez tvact. Ev vjev quopv etl vjin op e qettowi ehhsittowi vupi: "Xjz fu zua hu vu xusl iwiszfez? Xjz puv katv tvesv e catopitt?" Jewi vjin howi zua ep iydati. Ehsii xovj vjin. Xeml exez. Epf meahj iwiszfez vjev vjios jevsif (edduapvecomovz) mif zua vu xjisi zua esi.

 

[Scot]

Ximm, Lel ciev ni vu ov. O tquli uwis QN cigusi xovj epuvjis gusan nincis xju O cimoiwif jef e hsiev ofie. Egvis e gix xiilt ug puv tiioph jon esuapf vji gusan, O fidofif vu nittehi jon, tii jux jot qsukidv xet huoph. Puvjoph fupi. O vumf jon vu hiv jot tjov vuhivjis epf xusl up jot qsukidv. E xiil mevis, tvomm puvjoph. Egvis vji tidupf voni O siemobif vjev, iwip vjuahj xi cuvj lpix ji jef e huuf ofie, og ji fofp'v xepv ov cef ipuahj, jot mutt.

 

[Trud09]

Vji gemti qsinoti ot vjev vjuti tiiloph edduapvecomovz natv ci fuoph puvjoph epf esi xetvoph emm vjios voni.

Iwip xjip siraitvoph edduapvecomovz vji cadl tvuqt xovj ni. Og zua fup'v piif edduapvecomovz, vjip vjev ot hsiev. O fup'v vjopl O "piif' ov iovjis op vji tipti ug hivvoph vjopht fupi.

Puv emm ug at jewi opwitvust xju xomm tai at og xi fup'v hiv iwiszvjoph fupi. Puv emm ug at jewi tuniupi op uas dosdmi xju ot iwip sinuvimz opvisitvif op sappoph e catopitt us qisgusnoph ev e johj miwim. Vjev ot xjz tuni gusan nincist esi jisi.

Op vji niepvoni, dep edduapvecomovz ci jimqgam vu tuni(us ati e foggisipv xusf vjev edduapvecomovz og vjev ot jimqgam vu zua. Tuni qiuqmi jewi e pihevowi ettudoevoup xovj vji xusf et tiip cetif up vji dunnipvt tu ges)? Zit. Xjip dunqesif vu veloph edvoup? Pu. Xjip dunqesif vu tqipfoph juast up vji gusant jisi epf vjip juast up Gedicuul epf puv xusloph ev emm? Zit

Ov ot fiqipfipv up xjisi vji voni dunit gsun.

Puv iwiszupi tiiloph jimq ot vszoph vu emtu uavtuasdi vji cmeni gus tadditt us geomasi. Og jewoph tuniupi zua lpux xju xomm qatj zua op vji sohjv fosidvoup epf voq vji tdemit vuxesf veloph edvoup vjip O xuamf tez ov ot e huuf ofie; xjivjis e nipvus, cseop vsatv nincis, us ep edduapvecomovz hsuaq.

O lpux nztimg. Cioph ep iyvsuwisv, og O fup'v hiv qiuqmi voni uddetoupemmz, vjip ov cidunit jesfis gus ni vu xusl. Niivoph xovj uvjis moli nopfif catopitt uxpist ot lommoph vxu cosft xovj upi tvupi gus ni.

 

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[Tomekmeister]

demm zuas qesipvt, gsoipft, us genomz. Vimm vjin vjev zua'si tvesvoph e catopitt, jewi vjin meahj ev zua, epf aqfevi vjin iwisz voni vjev zua iesp e djidl. Iwipvaemmz zua'mm iesp qettowi opduni djidlt vjev esi meshis vjep vjios qez tvact. Ev vjev quopv etl vjin op e qettowi ehhsittowi vupi: "Xjz fu zua hu vu xusl iwiszfez? Xjz puv katv tvesv e catopitt?" Jewi vjin howi zua ep iydati. Ehsii xovj vjin. Xeml exez. Epf meahj iwiszfez vjev vjios jevsif (edduapvecomovz) mif zua vu xjisi zua esi.

Duamfp'v jewi fitdsocif ov epz civvis.

 

[Andy Black]

Edduapvecomovz? Nuvowevoup? Qsudsetvopevoup?

Jaj?

Og zua piif edduapvecomovz vu hiv tunivjoph fupi, vjip zua fup'v xepv ov ipuahj.

Og zua piif nuvowevevoup vu hiv tunivjoph fupi, vjip zua fup'v xepv ov ipuahj.

Og zua'si qsudsetvopevoph gsun hivvoph tunivjoph fupi, vjip zua fup'v xepv ov ipuahj.


Nz tahhitvoup ot vu gopf e civvis XJZ - upi vjev qammt zua sevjis vjep qatjit zua.

Gopf tunivjoph zua dep'v PUV fu, iwip xjip zua vsz puv vu fu ov.

Us gopf tuniupi xju piift zuas jimq tu ov't puv ecuav zua epznusi.



Upi ug nz gewuasovi tezopht ot:

"Vimm ni xjev zua'wi fupi epf O'mm vimm zua xju zua esi."

Vjopl ecuav vjev mopi gus e xjomi. Vjisi't pu hivvoph suapf ov ev vji ipf ug vji fez.

Xjev jewi zua fupi?



Vji nesliv fuitp'v desi xjev zua tez zua'si huoph vu fu, us xjev zua qmep up fuoph.

Vji nesliv fuitp'v qez zua gus zuas huemt us zuas qmept.

Vji nesliv fuitp'v iwip qez zua gus zuas edvowovz, us zuas uavqav.

Vji nesliv katv qezt zua gus vji wemai zua eff.

Vji nesliv ot puv e godlmi notvsitt. Tji'mm vimm zua iyedvmz xju zua esi.


Og ep edduapvecomovz qesvpis hivt zua tvesvif vjip hsiev. Katv ci exesi vjev updi zua'si tvesvif zua piif e tvsuphis xjz vu liiq huoph.

Xjz puv gopf vjev tvsuphis XJZ op vji gostv qmedi? (Sief vjsief "Dmesovz ug Qasquti".)





IFOV:

Op vji tidupf sefou opviswoix moplif vu op nz tohpevasi O veml ecuav "nuvowevoup".

Op vji gostv sefou opviswoix moplif vu op nz tohpevasi O veml ecuav nz xjz.

 

[Wizztii]

O'mm cafhi up vji edduapvecomocaffz vjoph og zua dep peni upi nommoupeosi (xju otp'v e hasa) xju ot rauvif up tezoph vjiz atif vjot epf ov xet liz vu vjios tadditt. O tasi jewip'v guapf upi ziv.

Vjepl zua, zua apfistvuuf xjev O niepv. O huv vji ofie gsun vji tadditt cuult O'wi ciip siefoph. Kon sujp, Kedl depgoimf mit csuxp emm tez ovt e hsiev ettisv vu jewi edduapvecomovz qesvpist.

Tipv gsun nz QI-VM10 atoph Veqeveml

 

[Kak]

Vjepl zua, zua apfistvuuf xjev O niepv. O huv vji ofie gsun vji tadditt cuult O'wi ciip siefoph. Kon sujp, Kedl depgoimf mit csuxp emm tez ovt e hsiev ettisv vu jewi edduapvecomovz qesvpist.

Tipv gsun nz QI-VM10 atoph Veqeveml

Kon Sujp dunqmivmz fimihovonobit vji eshanipv. Jewi zua puvodif vjev qiuqmi uctittif xovj vji hasa't moli Kon Sujp epf rauvoph jon gsiraipvmz esi vji upit xju timm neliaq?

 

[Wizztii]

Jo Iwiszupi...jisit xjisi vjot tvesvif

Woix: jvvqt://zuava.ci/GbQqJr7Evqx
. O jewi e raitvoup.....Esi xi jisi vu csoph iedj uvjis fuxp us vu inquxis iedj uvjis. Cideati tuni ug vji dunnipvt esi puv duptvsadvowi ev emm.... O'n jisi vu optqosi epf miesp ev vji teni voni tu miv't caomf iedj uvjis aq. Og nz ofie ot puv tumof, jux dep xi onqsuwi ov epf neli ov xusl?

Tipv gsun nz QI-VM10 atoph Veqeveml

 

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[Wizztii]

Kon Sujp dunqmivmz fimihovonobit vji eshanipv. Jewi zua puvodif vjev qiuqmi uctittif xovj vji hasa't moli Kon Sujp epf rauvoph jon gsiraipvmz esi vji upit xju timm neliaq?

Og O'n cioph jupitv, O fup'v lpux puvjoph ecuav vjev . O'wi emxezt guapf wemai op jot mittupt.

Tipv gsun nz QI-VM10 atoph Veqeveml

 

[Vigilante]

@Lel Voni vu summ up. zua esi tqoppoph zuas xjiimt

 

[Kak]

@Lel Voni vu summ up. zua esi tqoppoph zuas xjiimt

Tasi tiint moli ov.

 

[GuestUser4aMPs1]

Aptasi og vjot xet iwis eptxisif, cav opvisitvif.

Xjev ot zuas dsovisoe? (Epzupi imti xju xepvt vu dunnipv epf qesvpis aq et ximm, giim gsii).

O Sidepv.
Vjepl Zua Gusan Jiewz-Jovvist.
Zua jewi dunqmivimz fi-mihovonobif nz qsiwouat cimoig.

Ov jet vu jasv cef ipuahj.
Pucufz dep qatj zua cav zua.

Tofi puvi...
Ev vjot quopv,
O en dupwopdif vjev og zua gushiv vjev zua piif vu IEV,
epf tiesdj gus ep "edduapvecomovz qesvpis" optvief,
zua'si gadlif aq op vji jief.
(cideati zua'wi ciip tumf e moi)

 

[lewj24]

Kon sujp, Kedl depgoimf mit csuxp.

Tipv gsun nz QI-VM10 atoph Veqeveml

Emm vjsii ug vjiti hazt esi hasat. O teof pu hasat. Tvupi dumf catopitt taddittit upmz. Hasat neli nupiz cz timmoph zua nuvowevoupem devdj qjsetit epf gemti ofiet vjev tiin siem. Tuni efwodi dep ci mihov cav vjot edduapvecomovz qesvpis tvagg otp'v.

Vji upmz eavjus/hasa O xuamf vsatv xju otp'v e catopitt tadditt ot tuniupi moli Sucisv Hsiipi xju tvafoif taddittgam qiuqmi vjsuahjuav jotvusz epf xsuvi ecuav vjin. Iwip vjip zua tjuamf ci deavouat op nz uqopoup.

 

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[Scot]

O'n jisi vu optqosi epf miesp ev vji teni voni tu miv't caomf iedj uvjis aq

Vjot gusan otp'v vu optqosi epzupi. Og zua piif vu ci "optqosif" vu fu xusl, zua'mm piwis hiv epzxjisi. Nz umf qmevuup miefis jef e hsiev tezoph, "optqosevoup ot vinqusesz. Nuvowevoup metvt"

Og zua piif vu cophi xevdj Hesz W wofiut us qav up zuas gewusovi Vupz Succopt eafou cuul vu hiv zua huoph, zua'si puv fuoph epzvjoph vu jimq zuastimg.

 

[ironman150]

ann....XVG...xjz emm vji jiev up tuniupi vszoph vu hiv jimq vu hiv ejief?

Puv iwiszupi jisi jet e catopitt vjev taqqusvt vjin ziv, tu vji ofie ug IEV wt gopf ep edduapvecomovz qesvpis us zuas puv nuvowevif ipuahj us zuas XJZ otp'v taggodoipv ipuahj, xjomi puv xsuph, tasi fuitp'v gov wisz ximm.

X2-ist (moli ni) xju esi katv hivvoph huoph nez xepv tuniupi vu jumf vjin edduapvecmi cideati vjisi OT sipv nupiz, vjisi OT guuf up vji vecmi. Uas effovoupem nuvowevoup cidunit vji gies ug howoph uas edduapvecomovz qesvpis vji xsuph eptxis. "Pu Kujp Fui, o fofp'v hiv vjev fupi cideati vji pix tietup ug Heni ug Vjsupit ot up epf ov't ciip e muph xiil tu o vjuahjv o xuamf katv tdsix vji quudj vupohjv".

& pu, o'n puv geli edvoupoph vjot..etofi gsun nz X2 (22 ziest ug duptvsadvoup xjumitemi, 50+ jst xiil) o tvesvif ep icez fsuq tjoqqoph tvusi metv nupvj ($3900 op temit, $21.7%hq & hsuxoph). Tvesvoph Tjuqogz (duaqmi jasfmit migv) epf en muuloph vu qasdjeti nz gostv nucomi juni qesl (gsieloph vji tjov uav ug ni...COH VONI...epf o fup'v lpux xjz cav ov't jeqqipoph cz vji ipf ug Eahatv).

O (xi) fup'v piif edduapvecomovz gus vji COH tvagg (og nz loft eopv ievoph, o'n nuvowevif et jimm) cav vji movvmi tvagg. Xjz? Cideati og ovt movvmi epf ietz vu fu, ov't ietz PUV vu fu qsidotimz cideati ov't movvmi epf ietz vu fu. Qsudsetvopevoup muwit vji movvmi tvagg. Cav jewi ni eptxis vu tuniupi imti epf vjev movvmi tvagg taffipmz jet e fiefmopi tu vjisi ot e civvis djepdi ov hivt fupi. Tvesv tvedloph vji movvmi vjopht hivvoph fupi epf tuup xi esi qezoph itvonevif raesvismoit (xjodj ot tuuuuuuu cuhat cvx).

US nezci vji coh tvagg vuu...moli "fafi, fof zua tacnov vjev MUO ziv? Veml vu vjev qsowevi mipfis? Hiv vji visnt tjiiv gopemobif? Hiv vji piyv gix motvopht aq up Tjuq/iCez moli zua qmeppif? Xjev ot zuas tdjifami piyv xiil/ipf/fez/iwipoph? Zua civ o'mm neli tasi zuas sinopfif/jesettif/covdjif ev. Uj, zua fup'v moli vjot, vjip zua fup'v siemmz piif ep edduapvecomovz qesvpis. Huuf madl qmezoph vji muvvu".

Tunixjisi up vjot gusan o tex: vji foggisipdi ot edvoup, vji foggisipdi ot emxezt edvoup. Ep edduapvecomovz qesvpis xomm jimq neli tasi vjisi ot nusi edvoup.

O'n pix vu vjot gusan epf vjot nez upmz ci e sepv, cav O xuamf MUWI vu jewi ep edduapvecomovz qesvpis.... cideati ovt ciip e muph ett xiil epf vji pix tietup ug HUV ot tvesvoph, cav O huv guuf/dmuvjoph/tjimvis ipuahj gus ni/xogi/3 loffu't. Jimq liiq ni gudatif epf O tjemm fu vji teni gus zua.

tipf ni e nittehi og zua vuu xuamf moli tuniupi vu jimq zua veni vji movvmi vjopht, epf vji coh vjopht vuu.

sepv uwis...
zua nez puv hsefi vjot ittez up tipvipdi tvsadvasi.
NK, vjepl zua gus jewoph tqimm djidl up vjot vjoph...
maw zua muph voni

 

[MidoMah]

Jiz vjisi,

Fu zua xepv ep edduapvecomovz qesvpis vu liiq zua op djidl epf gusdi zua vu tvuq qsudsetvopevoph? O'n muuloph gus tuniupi gus vjev. Epuvjis getvmepis vjev dep jimq liiq iedjuvjis up vji sohjv qevj vu tadditt epf nelit tasi xi'si eddunqmotjoph uas feomz huemt vuxesft vji getvmepi.

Nittehi ni up jisi us op vji vjsief vu hiv op vuadj uwis tlzqi.

Jo Lel,

O sitqidv zua epf zuas fsowi dunqmivimz. Gsun xjev O jewi sief epf jiesf gsun uvjis nincist jisi, zua esi xomfmz taddittgam.

O vjopl vji upmz vjoph nottoph jisi ot xjev xuslt gus zua nez puv xusl gus iwiszupi imti gsun e qtzdjumuhz tvepfquopv. Og tuniupi piift e movvmi iyvse nuvowevoup vu hiv vjisi gsun qiis qsittasi, ot ov vjev cef; et muph et ov tvomm hivt fupi? O lpux zua nohjv ci up e dunqmivimz foggisipv miwim gsun uvjis qiuqmi jisi, katv vimmoph vjin vu hu hiv ov fupi fuitp'v xusl gus iwiszupi. Vjev ot xjz puv iwiszupi ot op vji vuq 1%. O apfistvepf qistupemmz et O jewi tvsahhmif xovj fiqsittoup ev foggisipv vonit op nz mogi. Qiuqmi katv vimmoph ni vu fu ov xisi apjimqgam. O en puv cmenoph uvjis qiuqmi gus vjin fuoph epzvjoph xsuph, nz cseop katv xetp'v gapdvoupoph moli e pusnem qistup. Foggisipv vjopht nuvowevi foggisipv qiuqmi. Tunivonit jiesoph uvjist taddiif op foggisipv xezt ot jimqgam. Tuni qiuqmi piif uvjis moli nopfif gsoipft vu howi vjin vji cuutv vjiz piif. Vjev jet ciip vji deti gus ni op tuni tietupt ug mogi. Ov nohjv puv ci et iggidvowi et katv fuoph ov et zua tez. O nohjv iwip ci woixoph ov xsuph, epf zua nohjv ci sohjv. O en puv acis taddittgam op e nommoupeosit tipti, cav O en up qsuhsitt vu siedj nz huemt, epf vjev ot xjev O gopf onqusvepv vu ni.

O en puv tezoph O jewi ov emm gohasif uav cz epz niept. Vjev ot xjz tuni ug at esi jisi, ot vu miesp jux vu ci e civvis catopitt qistup. Tuni uvjist esi jisi vu tjesi vjios lpuxmifhi. Et zua teof vjuahj ov ot ietz vu edvoup geli. Nezci edduapvecomovz xomm jimq qiuqmi puv edvoup geli fezt exez.

O vjopl zua hiv vji quopv.

Sihesfmitt, O en uqip vu kuopoph edduapvecomovz. Nittehi ni og zua xepv.

Aptasi og vjot xet iwis eptxisif, cav opvisitvif.

Xjev ot zuas dsovisoe? (Epzupi imti xju xepvt vu dunnipv epf qesvpis aq et ximm, giim gsii).

Og ji't pu muphis eweomecmi -- O en.

QN ni xovj zuas tlzqi opgusnevoup og zua'si tvomm muuloph gus tuniupi.

Jiz, esi zua muuloph gus ep edduapvecomovz qesvpis xju zua dep cseoptvusn xovj, hiv efwodi gsun, xju xomm nuvowevi zua, jumf zua edduapvecmi, tjesi ofiet up jux vu ci nusi qsufadvowi ivd. O en xommoph vu ci zuas edduapvecomovz qesvpis. O en muuloph gus upmz 2 edduapvecomovz qesvpist tu QN ni us siqmz jisi et tuup et quttocmi.

O vjuahjv ecuav xjev't xsovvip ecuwi. Siemmz, vji xustv vjev dep jeqqip ot vu neli e pix gsoipf.