socaldude
Saturn Sedan and PT Cruiser enthusiast.
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Most of the Books out there on Confidence ABSOLUTELY SUCK SUCK SUCK SUCK!!! I have read a few and they all say the same garbage: Act as if! Change your body language! etc. STFU I say in my mind.
I can tell you that based on my OWN experience confidence is a MIND SET of MULTIPLE TRAITS.
NOT just 1 thing.
Here is what I think those traits are:
1. Self Importance- Having HIGH self esteem, Being able to walk into a bathroom mirror and say "i'm important!". Your OWN opinion of yourself is worth light years more than anybody else. put your back straight and walk like your a king.
2. Shameless- The ability to not be embarrassed about anything! If you accidently fart in public SO WHAT?! When I say shameless i'm talking about harmless stuff not bad stuff like stealing or anything immoral. If you slip and fall in front of a bunch of people, so what? EDIT: this will allow you to walk into a room with thousands of people watching you and be able to talk to all of them through a podium on a stage. Say to yourself "so what?'
3. Optimistic- The ability to tolerate uncertainty, to accept the fact that somethings cannot be accounted for.
4. Not self conscious- Speak your mind and think aloud. Cause those who mind don't matter and those who don't mind matter- Dr seuss.
5. Don't seek others approval- Face it no everyone is gonna like you or agree with you. its just not possible.
6. Be courageous- Don't be afraid of anything.
7. Being able to jump out of your comfort zone at any moment! - go talk to that girl at the gym no matter who is around or who is watching!
I hope this helps you in your intimate relationships or in Fastlane ventures. :seeya:
I can tell you that based on my OWN experience confidence is a MIND SET of MULTIPLE TRAITS.
NOT just 1 thing.
Here is what I think those traits are:
1. Self Importance- Having HIGH self esteem, Being able to walk into a bathroom mirror and say "i'm important!". Your OWN opinion of yourself is worth light years more than anybody else. put your back straight and walk like your a king.
2. Shameless- The ability to not be embarrassed about anything! If you accidently fart in public SO WHAT?! When I say shameless i'm talking about harmless stuff not bad stuff like stealing or anything immoral. If you slip and fall in front of a bunch of people, so what? EDIT: this will allow you to walk into a room with thousands of people watching you and be able to talk to all of them through a podium on a stage. Say to yourself "so what?'
3. Optimistic- The ability to tolerate uncertainty, to accept the fact that somethings cannot be accounted for.
4. Not self conscious- Speak your mind and think aloud. Cause those who mind don't matter and those who don't mind matter- Dr seuss.
5. Don't seek others approval- Face it no everyone is gonna like you or agree with you. its just not possible.
6. Be courageous- Don't be afraid of anything.
7. Being able to jump out of your comfort zone at any moment! - go talk to that girl at the gym no matter who is around or who is watching!
I hope this helps you in your intimate relationships or in Fastlane ventures. :seeya: