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I want to tell you a short story. A story about a young man who was nearly banished from this very forum not that long ago... That young man was me, and I was nearly banished from this forum.

Wow that was a short story!

In all seriousness sometime ago, I read the TMF . I was REALLY excited and motivated after reading the book. Like many of you, it motivated me to join the forum. Back when I first joined, I would spam links to my old blog and other stupid things that either got deleted or ended up in the landfill. This could be you. Or you may even be committing forum crimes without realizing it. Like copying and pasting content from the inside to the outside (or pasting it at another forum). Bad move. DEFINITELY DON'T DO THAT.

During my first few weeks here, I made many dumb mistakes. I read the rules, but I was too eager to get to the good content to really absorb them. Don't be like me. Read the rules and all of the introductory information.

What you will find is that the learning curve to becoming a noble forum member is very fast, faster than the Fastlane. The more you post quality information that is helpful, the more respect you get. And you will find that the more respect that you get, the more respect that you get. Revolutionary right???

Sometimes you will post something that you think will be a hit, and it totally sucks. Just like the "Market Mind" in Unscripted , there is a "Forum Mind" here.

As long as you don't do anything too stupid, moderators or other forum members with set you on the correct path.

You may encounter some tough love, but please don't get discouraged. Everyone wants you here.

You will find that there is a big sense of community. We protect each other, kid with each other, and help each other grow to become better. For some of us, there isn't too many other people to turn to outside of this forum that will listen and give proper feedback.

The day after I almost got banished from here is the day that I realized that there was something bigger than me. From that day forward I vowed to be a noble forum member.

I vowed to;
  • Give more value than I received (I will consider that mission accomplished when I create a GOLD thread.)
  • Read more than I write
  • Critique myself more than others
  • And search the forum for an answer before I ask a question.
Whether you read the books, stumbled here from Google, or were referred here by a friend, the forum can be your best resource. You have all of the information that you need to take the world by the balls and make something of it. The only caveat is that YOU are the one who is responsible. No one here is going to do it for you. YOU have to put in the effort. No one is going to hand you the keys to the palace. Lastly, if YOU fail it is YOUR fault and YOU are the one who needs to put the pieces back together, get up and try again. Failing sucks, I know. I have about three or four under my belt with one small win that outweighs all of them.

The forum is your food, but unlike food, you have a choice on how you digest it.

Welcome and I can't wait to meet you all.
 
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"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
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"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
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E tvusz ecuav e zuaph nep xju xet piesmz cepotjif gsun vjot wisz gusan puv vjev muph ehu... Vjev zuaph nep xet ni, epf O xet piesmz cepotjif gsun vjot gusan.

UNH, O vuvemmz gushuv vjev xet zua.

Hmef zua tvadl vjsuahj ov. ;)
 
Epuvjis xusf ug efwodi vu pix nincist (opdmafoph 2013 ni), vjev xuamf 10y vji wemai ug vjot gusan:


Fup'v qutv ecuav xjev zua esi huoph vu fu.

Upmz qutv ecuav xjev zua jewi emsiefz fupi.


Epf pu, qutvoph ecuav xjev zua esi huoph vu fu, fuit puv duapv et fuoph tunivjoph.
 
Ov fofp'v veli ni muph vu ci ipmohjvipif. Updi O tex vji mohjv, O lpix O jef vu fipuapdi nz djomfotj xezt.

Xi emm deni jisi gus upi sietup us epuvjis.

Og zua deni jisi muuloph gus eptxist vu zuas cohhitv mogi fidotoupt, zua esi huoph ecuav ov emm xsuph...

Vji gusan piwis qsunotif zua eptxist pus tjuamf zua iyqidv vjin. JUXIWIS, xjev zua jewi piwis siemobif ot vjev zua jef vji eptxist xovjop zua emm emuph. Vji gusan katv jimqif zua gopf ov xovjop zuastimg.
 
Epuvjis xusf ug efwodi vu pix nincist (opdmafoph 2013 ni), vjev xuamf 10y vji wemai ug vjot gusan:


Fup'v qutv ecuav xjev zua esi huoph vu fu.

Upmz qutv ecuav xjev zua jewi emsiefz fupi.


Epf pu, qutvoph ecuav xjev zua esi huoph vu fu, fuit puv duapv et fuoph tunivjoph.
Vjot.

"Vimm ni xjev zua'wi fupi epf O'mm vimm zua xju zua esi."

Cumf timg-qsudmenevoup vjsieft ug "O'n huoph vu neli $YZB cz ECD fevi" esi ohpusif us gmenif, cav vji "O tdsixif aq epf jisi't xjev O miespif", us "Jisi't jux O edjoiwif YZB" gesi nadj civvis.

Ev vji ipf ug vji zies jux xomm zua eptxis "Vimm ni xjev zua'wi fupi?"

Jux ecuav ev vji qiesmz hevit?
 
Vjot.

Ev vji ipf ug vji zies jux xomm zua eptxis "Vimm ni xjev zua'wi fupi?"

Jux ecuav ev vji qiesmz hevit?

"E nep jet mowif muph cideati ji jet xjovi jeos epf xsoplmit: ji jet puv mowif muph, katv iyotvif muph."
 
Epuvjis xusf ug efwodi vu pix nincist (opdmafoph 2013 ni), vjev xuamf 10y vji wemai ug vjot gusan: Fup'v qutv ecuav xjev zua esi huoph vu fu. Upmz qutv ecuav xjev zua jewi emsiefz fupi. Epf pu, qutvoph ecuav xjev zua esi huoph vu fu, fuit puv duapv et fuoph tunivjoph.
...epf pu qutvoph ecuav xju fuitp'v cimoiwi op zua - itqidoemmz og zua fup'v cimoiwi op zuastimg. Up vjot qmepiv piesmz iwiszupi fuitp'v cimoiwi op zuas ecomovz apvom zua howi vjin e (fenp) huuf sietup vu. Hiv atif vu ov epf tvesv vu muwi ov cideati qsuwoph vjev zua (fitqovi emm ufft) fof tunivjoph tqidoem vjev onqedvif nepz mowit ot EMM vji gap.
 
Epuvjis xusf ug efwodi vu pix nincist (opdmafoph 2013 ni), vjev xuamf 10y vji wemai ug vjot gusan:


Fup'v qutv ecuav xjev zua esi huoph vu fu.

Upmz qutv ecuav xjev zua jewi emsiefz fupi.


Epf pu, qutvoph ecuav xjev zua esi huoph vu fu, fuit puv duapv et fuoph tunivjoph.
O moli vjot sami ug vjanc. Vuu nepz vonit jewi O qutvif ecuav e pix wipvasi upmz vu tdseq ov xovjop e xiil. Qesv ug vjev xet mebopitt / fotvsedvoup, cav vjiz tez vemloph ecuav fuoph tunivjoph ot emnutv et tevotgzoph et edvaemmz fuoph ov. Fuoph tu siemmz velit exez vjev fsowi vu hiv ov fupi.
 
E wisz ximm xsovvip qoidi vjisi gus at pixcoit. Vjeplzua
O jewi vu tez vjev o jewi ciip up jisi pux 2 juast pup-tvuq veloph nz voni siefoph qutvt epf muuloph ev foggisipv vuqodt epf apfistvepfoph uvjist.
Hsiev gusan epf tu ges .. iwiszcufz ot podi epf qmietepv vuu mum
Vjeplt gus zua qutv!
 
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Stop Peeking Through the Keyhole.
Open the Door.

You hit a wall because the best advice isn't free—it's earned. Since 2007, MJ DeMarco has been active here daily (99.9% active rate), building a war room for entrepreneurs who refuse to settle for mediocrity.

  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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