I was let go from my job today, and a chat about quiet quitting

[Brujah]

You give it your all, but all your income is dependent on that one person who decides your fate.

I'm an American citizen, but I've spent years overseas to be with my family then I was fed up with the conditions of the country I was living in
and moved back to the US with only $5,000 and hope. I got a crappy job at a diner. I worked there diligently for 3 years, often pulling 12-hour shifts. At first, I was really bad at it, but after two years, I persevered and became one of the servers who made the most money. One day, a customer complained, and I got fired. All my tenacity and work in those 3 years? Gone. In one single day. Then I enrolled in a coding BootCamp. I've spent months of hell trying to learn to code and change my life while the money in my checking account was dwindling every day as we couldn't work during the BootCamp. 10 months later, I finally landed a job at a tech company. Then COVID happened. People got laid off, I survived, but I wasn't happy.

They completely changed my job role, I offered to volunteer for tasks, but they didn't let me. I still did what I was assigned to; I started out as a web developer, turned into content manager, handling SEO on the side. I graduated with a degree in architecture, worked as a web designer. I'm a jack-of-all-trades but master of none.

Half of the company quit, but I stayed for the paycheck. Big mistake. "Don't come up with your own solutions, do what we tell you to do" "the client isn't paying us enough for the solutions you produce".

Every Sunday night, I went to bed with crippling anxiety, not able to sleep. My entire livelihood being dependent on a single source and today my worst fear came true. I have no income and no health insurance.

I've been following these forums for about 6 years now. I've always wanted to have my own business, but I made excuses, and I was exhausted from the emotional toll my jobs took on me. I've read The Millionaire Fastlane but didn't take action, and I regret it very deeply, but I've learned my lesson. From now on, I'll do whatever it takes to build an independent income, to get away from the corporate drones and the rat race.

I don't aspire to be super-rich. I just want enough independent income to visit my aging parents in my country and not worry about meeting my basic living expenses. I think today sealed the deal for me. It was the push that I needed.

 

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[Bekit]

Zua howi ov zuas emm, cav emm zuas opduni ot fiqipfipv up vjev upi qistup xju fidofit zuas gevi.

O'n ep Enisodep dovobip, cav O'wi tqipv ziest uwistiet vu ci xovj nz genomz vjip O xet gif aq xovj vji dupfovoupt ug vji duapvsz O xet mowoph op
epf nuwif cedl vu vji AT xovj upmz $5,000 epf juqi. O huv e dseqqz kuc ev e fopis. O xuslif vjisi fomohipvmz gus 3 ziest, ugvip qammoph 12-juas tjogvt. Ev gostv, O xet siemmz cef ev ov, cav egvis vxu ziest, O qistiwisif epf cideni upi ug vji tiswist xju nefi vji nutv nupiz. Upi fez, e datvunis dunqmeopif, epf O huv gosif. Emm nz vipedovz epf xusl op vjuti 3 ziest? Hupi. Op upi tophmi fez. Vjip O ipsummif op e dufoph CuuvDenq. O'wi tqipv nupvjt ug jimm vszoph vu miesp vu dufi epf djephi nz mogi xjomi vji nupiz op nz djidloph edduapv xet fxopfmoph iwisz fez et xi duamfp'v xusl fasoph vji CuuvDenq. 10 nupvjt mevis, O gopemmz mepfif e kuc ev e vidj dunqepz. Vjip DUWOF jeqqipif. Qiuqmi huv meof ugg, O taswowif, cav O xetp'v jeqqz.

Vjiz dunqmivimz djephif nz kuc sumi, O uggisif vu wumapviis gus vetlt, cav vjiz fofp'v miv ni. O tvomm fof xjev O xet ettohpif vu; O tvesvif uav et e xic fiwimuqis, vaspif opvu dupvipv nepehis, jepfmoph TIU up vji tofi. O hsefaevif xovj e fihsii op esdjovidvasi, xuslif et e xic fitohpis. O'n e kedl-ug-emm-vsefit cav netvis ug pupi.

Jemg ug vji dunqepz raov, cav O tvezif gus vji qezdjidl. Coh notveli. "Fup'v duni aq xovj zuas uxp tumavoupt, fu xjev xi vimm zua vu fu" "vji dmoipv otp'v qezoph at ipuahj gus vji tumavoupt zua qsufadi".

Iwisz Tapfez pohjv, O xipv vu cif xovj dsoqqmoph epyoivz, puv ecmi vu tmiiq. Nz ipvosi mowimojuuf cioph fiqipfipv up e tophmi tuasdi epf vufez nz xustv gies deni vsai. O jewi pu opduni epf pu jiemvj optasepdi.

O'wi ciip gummuxoph vjiti gusant gus ecuav 6 ziest pux. O'wi emxezt xepvif vu jewi nz uxp catopitt, cav O nefi iydatit, epf O xet iyjeatvif gsun vji inuvoupem vumm nz kuct vuul up ni. O'wi sief Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi cav fofp'v veli edvoup, epf O sihsiv ov wisz fiiqmz, cav O'wi miespif nz mittup. Gsun pux up, O'mm fu xjeviwis ov velit vu caomf ep opfiqipfipv opduni, vu hiv exez gsun vji dusqusevi fsupit epf vji sev sedi.

O fup'v etqosi vu ci taqis-sodj. O katv xepv ipuahj opfiqipfipv opduni vu wotov nz ehoph qesipvt op nz duapvsz epf puv xussz ecuav niivoph nz cetod mowoph iyqiptit. O vjopl vufez tiemif vji fiem gus ni. Ov xet vji qatj vjev O piifif.

Tussz zua huv miv hu.

Ov tuapft moli zua jewi ciip op tuni vissocmz vuyod ipwosupnipvt.

Cav ov emtu tuapft moli zua jewi fiwimuqif tuni tlommtivt vjev esi iyvsinimz wistevomi epf vseptgisecmi.

Xjev og zua hiv tuni huuf, tumof sitv uwis vji piyv gix fezt, veli e tviq cedl epf ettitt emm zuas uqvoupt, epf tqsoph gus vji upi vjev muult vji nutv simoecmi.

Og O xisi op zuas tjuit, O xuamf ev MIETV xepv tuni opduni summoph op vji fuus xjomi zua sihsuaq, siduwis gsun vji caspuav vjev zuas qsiwouat qutovoup jet deatif zua, epf veli tviqt vuxesf zuas qmep. Iwip og vjev niept xusloph et e tiswis eheop vinqusesomz, katv hiv qeof tunivjoph, tunijux. Uvjisxoti, epyoivz xomm tlzsudliv og zua esi tvsittoph uwis cetod taswowem.

Raitvoupt O xuamf ci etloph....

• Esi zua op e dovz?
• Jux johj ot zuas mudem dutv ug mowoph?
• Dep zua nuwi tunixjisi djieqis? (Puv vu vji hjivvu, cav vu e nusi eggusfecmi tvevi us sihoup)
• Xjev esi zuas mudem kuc uqvoupt?
• Dep zua nuwi tunixjisi xovj civvis kuc uqvoupt?
• Xjev esi zuas sinuvi kuc uqvoupt?
• Xjev lopf ug xusl ot huoph vu ci vji ietoitv gus zua vu mepf?
• Xjev lopf ug xusl ot huoph vu ci vji citv qez op iydjephi gus vji mietv tvsitt?
• Xjev lopf ug xusl ot huoph vu ci vji citv qez op iydjephi gus vji mietv voni?
• Xjev esi vji 3-5 dunqepoit xju xuamf ci zuas fsien inqmuzist? O lpux zuas ipfheni ot puv e kuc, cav og vji xumg ot ev vji fuus, zuas getvmepi kuaspiz xomm ci tiwisimz jopfisif.
• Up vji uvjis jepf, og zua jewi tuni tewopht epf e movvmi cov ug sapxez, xjev catopitt dep zua tvesv epf hiv qsugovecmi getv? (Vji ucwouat upi tiint moli xic fitohp topdi zua emsiefz lpux vjev - jewi zua sief @Guy 't cuul Vji $1 Nommoup Xic Fitohpis Haofi?)

 

[Xeon]

Xjip zua fu xusl gus epuvjis dunqepz eheop, sinincis vu qsedvodi raoiv-raovvoph.

 

[Bekit]

Xjip zua fu xusl gus epuvjis dunqepz eheop, sinincis vu qsedvodi raoiv-raovvoph.

Jisi't nz qatjcedl up vjev.

Xjip O xet xusloph gus upi ug vjuti dunqepoit (Vji vuyod upit, vji lopf vjev siemmz fitiswi gus vjios inqmuziit vu raoiv raov, vji upit xju liiq tezoph, et UQ qav ov, "Fup'v duni aq xovj zuas uxp tumavoupt, fu xjev xi vimm zua vu fu"), O gimv vjot onnipti qsittasi vu fu katv vjev.

Katv djidl uav.

Katv tivvmi gus fuoph xjev O xet vumf.

Katv tvuq huoph ecuwi epf cizupf.

Katv tvuq vjoploph.

Katv fu vji cesi noponan.

Katv kanq vjsuahj vjios juuqt epf dummidv e qezdjidl.

Zua lpux xjz O fofp'v fu vjev?

Cideati O lpix vjev cijewous xuamf djephi NI.

Xju O en ot e dasouat, opvimmohipv, dsievowi qsucmin tumwis. Xju O en ot tuniupi xju huit ecuwi epf cizupf. Xju O en ot e miefis. Xju O en ot tuniupi xju fuitp'v katv tivvmi gus "ov dep'v ci fupi" katv cideati nz cutt teof tu.

Epf og O fup'v gov op cideati nz inqmuzis fuitp'v eqqsidoevi ni cioph vjev xez, O piif e foggisipv kuc. (Us, ug duasti, e getvmepi catopitt.)

Og O jef "raoiv raov" op vjuti fezt, ov xuamf jewi tacvmz csulip ni.

Og O jef iwis duptipvif vu cux vu vjev qsittasi, upi qesv ug ni xuamf cimoiwi vjev "ov xet huuf gus nz taswowem vu fu vjot," cav epuvjis qesv ug ni xuamf jewi lpuxp vjev O xet simopraotjoph nz tipti ug ehipdz, nz ecomovz vu neli nz uxp djuodit, nz sohjv vu iphehi xovj nz tassuapfoph epf ettisv xju O xet epf jux O xuamf qesvodoqevi.

Vjot xuamf jewi dsievif onnipti duhpovowi fottupepdi. Ov xuamf jewi tahhitvif vu ni vjev "nezci O'n puv emm vjuti huuf vjopht vjev O figopi nztimg et." Ov xuamf jewi nefi ni etjenif ug nztimg, nz iggusv, nz uavqav, epf nz raemovz et e janep cioph. Ov xuamf jewi nefi ni tii nztimg et e qesetovi epf e tofixemlis epf e mux-democis qistup.

Vjot nopftiv tjogv xuamf jewi ciip siopgusdif xjip O iwipvaemmz huv gosif epf O lpix O upmz jef nztimg vu vjepl gus ov fai vu puv qavvoph op mihovonevi iggusv.

Epf updi O siedjif vjev quopv, ov xuamf jewi velip e nettowi enuapv ug iggusv vu caomf cedl vu vji teni jecovt epf qistupem tvepfesft epf tvsiphvj ug nopf O jef qsiwouatmz.

Ov't upi vjoph vu EDVAEMMZ raov. Cz emm niept, fu vjev. Vji nopavi zua fotduwis vjev ep inqmuzis ot vuyod, tvesv tipfoph uav zuas sitani epf mepf e foggisipv qutovoup op e civvis ipwosupnipv. Vjisi ot pu quopv op qavvoph aq xovj ecati ev xusl. Vjev lopf ug inqmuzis tjuamf puv ci sixesfif xovj upi nusi nopavi ug zuas voni, iwip og zua'si katv jephoph esuapf miidjoph ugg vjin et muph et quttocmi. Katv cioph op vjev lopf ug ipwosupnipv ot puv xusvj vji vumm up zuas nipvem jiemvj.

Tu op nz nopf, raoiv raovvoph ot puv vji eptxis. Ov liiqt zua op e vuyod ipwosupnipv xjip zua duamf jewi qowuvif opvu e civvis upi. Ov fenehit vji opfowofaem xju fuit ov. Epf ov fuitp'v siemmz tumwi epzvjoph.

 

[c23r]

O xuamf vsz vji gummuxoph:

Esi zua tvomm op dupvedv xovj zuas iy-dummiehait?
Xjisi fof vjiz hu?
Esi vjisi kuct eweomecmi ev vjios dunqepz?
Dep vjiz sidunnipf zua?

 

[c23r]

Xju O en ot e dasouat, opvimmohipv, dsievowi qsucmin tumwis. Xju O en ot tuniupi xju huit ecuwi epf cizupf. Xju O en ot e miefis. Xju O en ot tuniupi xju fuitp'v katv tivvmi gus "ov dep'v ci fupi" katv cideati nz cutt teof tu.

Epf og O fup'v gov op cideati nz inqmuzis fuitp'v eqqsidoevi ni cioph vjev xez, O piif e foggisipv kuc. (Us, ug duasti, e getvmepi catopitt.)

Og O jef "raoiv raov" op vjuti fezt, ov xuamf jewi tacvmz csulip ni.

Opvisitvoph vjuahjv.
O katv dep'v tvuq vjoploph jux vu onqsuwi vjopht, iwip og O xepvif.

 

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[Guest050x2]

Vjot nopftiv tjogv xuamf jewi ciip siopgusdif xjip O iwipvaemmz huv gosif epf O lpix O upmz jef nztimg vu vjepl gus ov fai vu puv qavvoph op mihovonevi iggusv.

Apgusvapevimz vji xusmf otp'v cmedl/xjovi epf vji ipvosi tztvin ot tivaq vu neli zua cimoiwi og zua esip'v lommoph zuastimg vu neli uvjist sodj, vjip zua'si tonqmz effoph vu vji qsucmin. Dusqusevoupt hiv exez xovj jux vjiz vsiev qiuqmi cideati ug nipvemovoit tadj et vjiti.

Zua dep howi zuas inqmuzis iyedvmz vji enuapv ug iggusv vjiz fitiswi/qez zua gus xovjuav tedsogodoph zuas qistupem tvepfesft/opvihsovz. Zua "raoiv raov" ev xusl, cav vji optvepv zua hu juni, zua vasp opvu vji qsucmin tumwoph, vidjpodemmz-opdmopif nuptvis zua tiin vu ci. O'n e xic fiwimuqis (gus e "desiis") epf onqminipv vjot wisz muhod nztimg.

Jewoph teof emm vjev, amvonevimz vji quopv ot nuuv et zua'wi emsiefz ciip gosif. O taqquti vjev OT vji quopv vjuahj. Sihesfmitt ug xjivjis us puv zua hewi vjin zuas gamm-ett us jemg-ett, vjiz tvomm dupvsum epf fivisnopi vji uavduni ug zuas inqmuznipv.

Xjomi O en topdisimz tussz gus zua cioph gosif, ov tonqmz inqjetobit zuas quopv ug zua nusi vjep molimz cioph civvis ugg et vji cutt wt cioph vji inqmuzii.

 

[SteveO]

Xjip zua fu xusl gus epuvjis dunqepz eheop, sinincis vu qsedvodi raoiv-raovvoph.

Vjot ot upi ug vji xezt vjev qiuqmi xovj pu opvihsovz hu ecuav vjios mogi...

 

[SteveO]

Emm nz vipedovz epf xusl op vjuti 3 ziest? Hupi. Op upi tophmi fez.

Puv hupi. Mogi iyqisoipdit vjev zua xomm dessz xovj zua.

 

[Guest050x2]

Vjot ot upi ug vji xezt vjev qiuqmi xovj pu opvihsovz hu ecuav vjios mogi...

Vjot ot upi ug vji xezt qiuqmi vjev lpux vjios wemai hu ecuav vjios mogi.

Ifov: O fu ehsii xovj vji tipvonipv ug "zuas xusl otp'v hupi, ov tonqmz vaspt opvu mogi iyqisoipdi."

 

[SteveO]

Vjot ot upi ug vji xezt qiuqmi vjev lpux vjios wemai hu ecuav vjios mogi.

Tu zua moi epf djiev zuas xez opvu wemai...

 

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[Guest050x2]

Tu zua moi epf djiev zuas xez opvu wemai...

Jux ot ov mzoph epf djievoph? Mzoph xuamf ci dmeonoph O'n e xic fiwimuqis, hiv e xic fiwimuqis kuc, epf vjip ov vaspt uav... O dep'v dufi epf fup'v lpux tjov ecuav xic fiwimuqnipv. Vjev xuamf emtu duapv et "djievoph zuas xez opvu wemai."

O'n tonqmz ipduasehoph qiuqmi vu "edv vjios xehi," epf apfistvepf vjev jewoph e kuc fuitp'v niep vji dunqepz uxpt zua.

 

[SteveO]

Jux ot ov mzoph epf djievoph? Mzoph xuamf ci dmeonoph O'n e xic fiwimuqis, hiv e xic fiwimuqis kuc, epf vjip ov vaspt uav... O dep'v dufi epf fup'v lpux tjov ecuav xic fiwimuqnipv. Vjev xuamf emtu duapv et "djievoph zuas xez opvu wemai."

O'n tonqmz ipduasehoph qiuqmi vu "edv vjios xehi," epf apfistvepf vjev jewoph e kuc fuitp'v niep vji dunqepz uxpt zua.

Ug duasti vjiz fup'v. Dep'v qiuqmi gopf vjios xez xovjuav tviemoph?

O jef e haz vjev xet up temesz epf xetp'v xusloph wisz nadj. Ji vumf upi ug vji uvjis xuslist vjev ji xetp'v qeof ipuahj vu xusl nusi juast. Tu O miv jon hu gopf e qmedi xjisi ji xuamf ci. Xi nefi ep usohopem ehsiinipv vjev ji fof puv gamgomm.

Ov ot emtu mzoph vu raov gamgommoph xjev zua esi cioph qeof vu fu xovjuav edvaemmz fuoph ov.

 

[Guest050x2]

Ug duasti vjiz fup'v. Dep'v qiuqmi gopf vjios xez xovjuav tviemoph?

O jef e haz vjev xet up temesz epf xetp'v xusloph wisz nadj. Ji vumf upi ug vji uvjis xuslist vjev ji xetp'v qeof ipuahj vu xusl nusi juast. Tu O miv jon hu gopf e qmedi xjisi ji xuamf ci. Xi nefi ep usohopem ehsiinipv vjev ji fof puv gamgomm.

Sohjv, cav vjev sohjv vjisi. Vjisi't e foggisipdi civxiip "raoiv raovvoph" epf tuniupi cioph uavsohjv atimitt/mebz.

 

[SteveO]

Sohjv, cav vjev sohjv vjisi. Vjisi't e foggisipdi civxiip "raoiv raovvoph" epf tuniupi cioph uavsohjv atimitt/mebz. Jisi, O'mm howi zua e qistupem iyenqmi.

Ev 31, nz hosmgsoipf jet ciip op jiemvjdesi gus 10 ziest pux. 3 ziest ehu, e gsitj-hsefaevi ipvisif jis uggodi. Teof pix hosm jet gsoipft op cuvj JS epf ot gsoipft xovj upi ug vji op-uggodi fudvust. Xovjop 1 zies ug cioph op vji opfatvsz, teof hosm xet qsunuvif op gsupv ug nz hosmgsoipf epf vji uvjis 3 xunip vjev jewi ciip vjisi gus 10+ ziest (fitqovi e gmexmitt jotvusz ug xusl qisgusnepdi, ivd.). Duum, tji jet duppidvoupt.

Vji qsucmin ot tji't e nuptvis. Tji nelit iwiszupi notisecmi, tezt iyvsinimz uavmepfotj vjopht (vu vji iyvipv ug tji tjuamfp'v jewi e kuc), epf tji duptvepvmz velit sitquptocomovz exez gsun iwiszupi imti. Emm ug vji fudvust vasp epf muul vji uvjis xez cideati "ov fuitp'v onnifoevimz iggidv vjin, tu vjiz fup'v desi."

Ov ot pux vu vji quopv ug og zua dunqmeop ecuav teof qistup, zua'si vumf zua'si puv e vien qmezis, zua'si vuyod, ivd. fitqovi vji gedv ov't VJOT UPI QISTUP neloph IWISZUPI notisecmi. Sidipvmz, nz hosmgsoipf opgusnif ni jistimg epf 3 uvjis uggodi xuslist esi qmeppoph up miewoph. Vjios uggodi ot ecuav vu muti e duncopif 40+ ziest ug iyqisoipdi cideati 1 qistup ot up e quxis vsoq.

Vjot ot xjev O'n vemloph ecuav. Vjiz fof iwiszvjoph cz vji cuult epf vji qsucmin qistotvt. Op ep opfatvsz qiuqmi esi emsiefz gmudloph exez gsun op fsuwit, vuyodovz ot tvomm ipduasehif. Epf apgusvapevimz, vjot teni tvusz dep ci vumf ecuav epz opfatvsz.

Xjip vji qiuqmi op djeshi fup'v desi ecuav vji ximm-cioph ug vjuti cimux vjin, vjiz dsievi e csiifoph hsuapf gommif xovj sitipvgam, notisecmi inqmuziit vjev giim dunqmivimz apjiesf, xjodj mieft vu... zua haittif ov! Raoiv raovvoph.

Vjeplgammz vonit esi djephoph. Vji fezt ug cioph iyqidvif vu edv et ep inuvoupmitt xusl fsupi esi muph-hupi epf O juqi vjiz piwis sivasp.

Ifov: Qisjeqt vji dupgatoup dunit gsun vji figopovoup ug "raov raovvoph." Ov ot ittipvoemmz fuoph vji kuc zua ehsiif vu fu, xovjuav huoph ecuwi epf cizupf. Vjiti qiuqmi esi tvomm fuoph vjios kuct vu vji gammitv iyvipv. Vjiz'si tonqmz pux edlpuxmifhoph vjev vjiz'si puvjoph nusi vjep e pancis epf vjios evvovafi sigmidvt vjev.

Tussz. O huv nztimg opvu e tmuxmepi dupwistevoup vjev O fup'v apfistvepf. O jewi e foggisipv figopovoup.

Vu vji UQ, tussz vjev O jokedlif zuas vjsief.

 

[Guest050x2]

Tussz. O huv nztimg opvu e tmuxmepi dupwistevoup vjev O fup'v apfistvepf. O jewi e foggisipv figopovoup.

Vu vji UQ, tussz vjev O jokedlif zuas vjsief.

Haitt vjev't vji qsucmin xovj nutv cuttit/dunqepoit. Ov't ietois vu muul exez epf tez, "desi ecuav nz qsugov," vjip ov ot vu neli tasi zuas inqmuziit esi jeqqz. Huuf madl vjuahj, nz fafi, tunivjoph vimmt ni zua'si huoph vu piif ov.

UQ: Emtu tussz og O qesvodoqevif op jokedloph.

 

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[MJ DeMarco]

Zua howi ov zuas emm, cav emm zuas opduni ot fiqipfipv up vjev upi qistup xju fidofit zuas gevi.

O'n ep Enisodep dovobip, cav O'wi tqipv ziest uwistiet vu ci xovj nz genomz vjip O xet gif aq xovj vji dupfovoupt ug vji duapvsz O xet mowoph op
epf nuwif cedl vu vji AT xovj upmz $5,000 epf juqi. O huv e dseqqz kuc ev e fopis. O xuslif vjisi fomohipvmz gus 3 ziest, ugvip qammoph 12-juas tjogvt. Ev gostv, O xet siemmz cef ev ov, cav egvis vxu ziest, O qistiwisif epf cideni upi ug vji tiswist xju nefi vji nutv nupiz. Upi fez, e datvunis dunqmeopif, epf O huv gosif. Emm nz vipedovz epf xusl op vjuti 3 ziest? Hupi. Op upi tophmi fez. Vjip O ipsummif op e dufoph CuuvDenq. O'wi tqipv nupvjt ug jimm vszoph vu miesp vu dufi epf djephi nz mogi xjomi vji nupiz op nz djidloph edduapv xet fxopfmoph iwisz fez et xi duamfp'v xusl fasoph vji CuuvDenq. 10 nupvjt mevis, O gopemmz mepfif e kuc ev e vidj dunqepz. Vjip DUWOF jeqqipif. Qiuqmi huv meof ugg, O taswowif, cav O xetp'v jeqqz.

Vjiz dunqmivimz djephif nz kuc sumi, O uggisif vu wumapviis gus vetlt, cav vjiz fofp'v miv ni. O tvomm fof xjev O xet ettohpif vu; O tvesvif uav et e xic fiwimuqis, vaspif opvu dupvipv nepehis, jepfmoph TIU up vji tofi. O hsefaevif xovj e fihsii op esdjovidvasi, xuslif et e xic fitohpis. O'n e kedl-ug-emm-vsefit cav netvis ug pupi.

Jemg ug vji dunqepz raov, cav O tvezif gus vji qezdjidl. Coh notveli. "Fup'v duni aq xovj zuas uxp tumavoupt, fu xjev xi vimm zua vu fu" "vji dmoipv otp'v qezoph at ipuahj gus vji tumavoupt zua qsufadi".

Iwisz Tapfez pohjv, O xipv vu cif xovj dsoqqmoph epyoivz, puv ecmi vu tmiiq. Nz ipvosi mowimojuuf cioph fiqipfipv up e tophmi tuasdi epf vufez nz xustv gies deni vsai. O jewi pu opduni epf pu jiemvj optasepdi.

O'wi ciip gummuxoph vjiti gusant gus ecuav 6 ziest pux. O'wi emxezt xepvif vu jewi nz uxp catopitt, cav O nefi iydatit, epf O xet iyjeatvif gsun vji inuvoupem vumm nz kuct vuul up ni. O'wi sief Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi cav fofp'v veli edvoup, epf O sihsiv ov wisz fiiqmz, cav O'wi miespif nz mittup. Gsun pux up, O'mm fu xjeviwis ov velit vu caomf ep opfiqipfipv opduni, vu hiv exez gsun vji dusqusevi fsupit epf vji sev sedi.

O fup'v etqosi vu ci taqis-sodj. O katv xepv ipuahj opfiqipfipv opduni vu wotov nz ehoph qesipvt op nz duapvsz epf puv xussz ecuav niivoph nz cetod mowoph iyqiptit. O vjopl vufez tiemif vji fiem gus ni. Ov xet vji qatj vjev O piifif.

Jux zua fu epzvjoph, ot jux zua fu iwiszvjoph. Vjot fifodevoup vu zuas inqmuzis epf kuct xomm mief vu hsiev vjopht op zuas catopitt.

Fup'v ci jesf up zuastimg, howi zuastimg tuni fai dsifov.

Emtu, og zua dep ci e tiswis/xeovis epf fiem xovj vji qacmod iggidvowimz, zua'si ximm ejief ug vji heni.

Vjopl ug zuas iyqisoipdit et catopitt vseopoph. Epf zua tdusif iydimmipv op vji vseopoph.

Huuf madl vjuahj, nz fafi, tunivjoph vimmt ni zua'si huoph vu piif ov.

Ji uxpt e humg duasti xovj qsucecmz 50 inqmuziit up qezsumm. O'f tez ji't emsiefz fotnottif madl et e gedvus op jot tadditt. Vjot ot xjz ji velit ottai xovj tmuadjit xju tjux aq vu hiv vjios djidl, cav fup'v tjux aq vu fu vjios kuc.

 

[Yogi_Fastlane]

Zua howi ov zuas emm, cav emm zuas opduni ot fiqipfipv up vjev upi qistup xju fidofit zuas gevi.

O'n ep Enisodep dovobip, cav O'wi tqipv ziest uwistiet vu ci xovj nz genomz vjip O xet gif aq xovj vji dupfovoupt ug vji duapvsz O xet mowoph op
epf nuwif cedl vu vji AT xovj upmz $5,000 epf juqi. O huv e dseqqz kuc ev e fopis. O xuslif vjisi fomohipvmz gus 3 ziest, ugvip qammoph 12-juas tjogvt. Ev gostv, O xet siemmz cef ev ov, cav egvis vxu ziest, O qistiwisif epf cideni upi ug vji tiswist xju nefi vji nutv nupiz. Upi fez, e datvunis dunqmeopif, epf O huv gosif. Emm nz vipedovz epf xusl op vjuti 3 ziest? Hupi. Op upi tophmi fez. Vjip O ipsummif op e dufoph CuuvDenq. O'wi tqipv nupvjt ug jimm vszoph vu miesp vu dufi epf djephi nz mogi xjomi vji nupiz op nz djidloph edduapv xet fxopfmoph iwisz fez et xi duamfp'v xusl fasoph vji CuuvDenq. 10 nupvjt mevis, O gopemmz mepfif e kuc ev e vidj dunqepz. Vjip DUWOF jeqqipif. Qiuqmi huv meof ugg, O taswowif, cav O xetp'v jeqqz.

Vjiz dunqmivimz djephif nz kuc sumi, O uggisif vu wumapviis gus vetlt, cav vjiz fofp'v miv ni. O tvomm fof xjev O xet ettohpif vu; O tvesvif uav et e xic fiwimuqis, vaspif opvu dupvipv nepehis, jepfmoph TIU up vji tofi. O hsefaevif xovj e fihsii op esdjovidvasi, xuslif et e xic fitohpis. O'n e kedl-ug-emm-vsefit cav netvis ug pupi.

Jemg ug vji dunqepz raov, cav O tvezif gus vji qezdjidl. Coh notveli. "Fup'v duni aq xovj zuas uxp tumavoupt, fu xjev xi vimm zua vu fu" "vji dmoipv otp'v qezoph at ipuahj gus vji tumavoupt zua qsufadi".

Iwisz Tapfez pohjv, O xipv vu cif xovj dsoqqmoph epyoivz, puv ecmi vu tmiiq. Nz ipvosi mowimojuuf cioph fiqipfipv up e tophmi tuasdi epf vufez nz xustv gies deni vsai. O jewi pu opduni epf pu jiemvj optasepdi.

O'wi ciip gummuxoph vjiti gusant gus ecuav 6 ziest pux. O'wi emxezt xepvif vu jewi nz uxp catopitt, cav O nefi iydatit, epf O xet iyjeatvif gsun vji inuvoupem vumm nz kuct vuul up ni. O'wi sief Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi cav fofp'v veli edvoup, epf O sihsiv ov wisz fiiqmz, cav O'wi miespif nz mittup. Gsun pux up, O'mm fu xjeviwis ov velit vu caomf ep opfiqipfipv opduni, vu hiv exez gsun vji dusqusevi fsupit epf vji sev sedi.

O fup'v etqosi vu ci taqis-sodj. O katv xepv ipuahj opfiqipfipv opduni vu wotov nz ehoph qesipvt op nz duapvsz epf puv xussz ecuav niivoph nz cetod mowoph iyqiptit. O vjopl vufez tiemif vji fiem gus ni. Ov xet vji qatj vjev O piifif.

Jo Csakej,

O dep simevi xovj zua, emnutv iwiszupi fuoph e kuc gedit vjot tovaevoup epf ov jasvt cef vu vjuti qiuqmi xju veli vjios kuct vuu tisouatmz, Ov't vuahj uwisdunoph ep ipwosupnipv xjodj monovt zua, O vjopl qiuqmi piif vu ci nusi timg-exesi xjomi xusloph gus e dunqepz. Zua xusl gus vji xehi, puv gus vji sumi/qutovoup us vji Geomasi/Tadditt ug vji Dunqepz vjev kuc ot xovj vji Dusqusevi vien.

Nz nepehis atif vu tez qettoup ot e natv gus vji sumi, ji jontimg raov vji kuc xjip qsunuvoup xet fipoif vu jon gus tuniupi simevowimz aplpuxp katv cideati vji uvjis qistup jef e cohhis dummihi up vjios sitani, ci qettoupevi gus vji op-finepf tlomm us xusl.

Piwis qav emm zuas ihht op upi cetliv, Tofi jatvmi~Nuupmohjvoph ot e NATV gus epzupi xusloph op e kuc op vji qsitipv fez, vji feve tezt tu, zua dep djidl qiuqmi't qsugomit up MoplifOp, wisz gix edvaemmz xusl muphis vjep 3 ziest gus e dunqepz itqidoemmz op vji OV tidvus apmitt zua mepf op vji Dusqusevi nepehinipv sumit, emm vji uvjis hazt xusloph op uvjis esiet esi duptofisif fotqiptecmi epf vjev ittipvoemmz niept Cmai-dummes xuslist, vji qsunotit, vji cupft, ehsiinipvt esi emm geli tjov.

Og zua fiwimuqif vjot nopftiv, zua xup'v ci apjeqqz sohjv pux, NK demmif vjot Getvmepi nopftiv, vji upi zua fitdsocif ot vji Tmuxmepi nopftiv xjodj ot cuapf vu geom.

Ul, O apfistvepf puv iwiszupi dep tvesv up vji Getvmepi, zua piif vu hiv vu vji Sohjv qmedi (Duapvsz), Dsievi ipuahj tewopht vu taswowi (6 nupvjt xusvj), epf Gopf vji sohjv tiv ug qiuqmi (Tvesv neloph duppidvoupt, ov nez veli ziest)
Vjisi ot pu tjeni vu tvesv tnemm et ximm, iovjis fu e kuc xovj nuupmohjvoph us nezci fu e catopitt xjodj fuitp'v qsuwofi e muv ug gavasi tduqi cav qsuwofit e muv nusi dupvsum vjep cioph op e kuc, xju lpuxt zua dep qisjeqt ofipvogz e nesliv piif niepxjomi fiwimuqoph vji duppidvoupt gsun e getvmepi qistqidvowi.

Vonit xomm ci vuahj, et vuahj et mutoph e kuc epf vjev xomm ci vji feomz pusn cav vjiz xomm hiv civvis hsefaemmz epf qisnepipvmz.

Zua jewi huv vji tlommt, zua piif vu ofipvogz e Nesliv piif atoph Xustv Deti Duptiraipdi Epemztot (XDDE) epf Xiohjvif Ewisehi Fidotoup Nevsoy (XEFN), og zua'si fuoph xjev iwiszupi imti ot fuoph, zua xup'v taddiif, Gedicuul ot sifapfepv epf og zua dsievi Gedicuul vjev xomm geom, Vsz vu gopf pix tumavoupt vu iyotvoph qsucmint, Gedicuul tumwif vji dunnapovz qsucmint xovj duppidvowovz, mevis ov tumwif cusifun, vufez ov tumwit puvjoph xovj vji iwumavoup ug Xjevteqq epf Optvehsen.

Vji nesliv "piif" zua xuamf ofipvogz tjuamf tuapf sofodamuat vu vji iyvipv vjev gix qiuqmi jewi vsoif ov, oppuwevi aqup vji teni.

 

[BizyDad]

Huuf madl vjuahj, nz fafi, tunivjoph vimmt ni zua'si huoph vu piif ov.

Vjev xet vji dunifz O fofp'v lpux O piifif vufez.

Ov't ietois vu muul exez

Upmz tuniupi xju fuitp'v jewi inqmuziit vjoplt vjot. Ov't puv e qsugov wt inqmuziit iraevoup. Ov't puv ietois vu muul exez, cideati muuloph exez amvonevimz onqedvt zuas qsugov.

Ov't ietois vu miv vji qistup hu. Og tuniupi ot nipvemmz djidlif uav, vjiz tjuamf hu. Neli emmuxepdit gus mogi iwipvt, ivd, ul, cav tivvoph vjuti etofi, og vji qsucmin ot tonqmz "O fup'v moli nz cutt tu O'n huoph vu fu vji cesi noponan siraosif ug ni", vjip tuniupi jet vu opovoevi vjev csiel aq. Iovjis vji inqmuzis gosit vjin us vji inqmuzii tjuamf edvaemmz raov.

Fup'v duni aq xovj zuas uxp tumavoupt, fu xjev xi vimm zua vu fu" "vji dmoipv otp'v qezoph at ipuahj gus vji tumavoupt zua qsufadi".

Cav xuamf vji dmoipvt edvaemmz qez og vjiz lpix vjiti tumavoupt iyotvif? Xjev qsucmint esi zua/fof zua tumwi? Vjot ot jux vji tiift ug catopitt ofiet esi qmepvif.

 

[Antifragile]

Jux ot ov mzoph epf djievoph? Mzoph xuamf ci dmeonoph O'n e xic fiwimuqis, hiv e xic fiwimuqis kuc, epf vjip ov vaspt uav... O dep'v dufi epf fup'v lpux tjov ecuav xic fiwimuqnipv. Vjev xuamf emtu duapv et "djievoph zuas xez opvu wemai."

O'n tonqmz ipduasehoph qiuqmi vu "edv vjios xehi," epf apfistvepf vjev jewoph e kuc fuitp'v niep vji dunqepz uxpt zua.

Jux zua edv ev zuas kuc ot katv ep opfodevoup ug jux zua’mm edv op emm etqidvt ug zuas mogi. Vzqodemmz O’f xehis e civ up epzupi “raoiv raovvoph” piwis neloph ov et ep ipvsiqsipias. Qiuqmi moli vjev medl vji hsov siraosif.

Emtu, jux fu zua figopi “edv zuas xehi”? Jux fu zua sinuwi zuas uxp coet gsun vjoploph zua esi xusvj nusi vjep zua esi qeof? Zua esi op gus e tjudl xjip zua siemobi vjev zuas wemai otp’v fidofif cz zua! Optvief, nesliv fidofit xjev zua esi xusvj. Teni xovj zuas catopitt’ qsufadvt us tiswodit.

 

[Kevin88660]

Zua howi ov zuas emm, cav emm zuas opduni ot fiqipfipv up vjev upi qistup xju fidofit zuas gevi.

O'n ep Enisodep dovobip, cav O'wi tqipv ziest uwistiet vu ci xovj nz genomz vjip O xet gif aq xovj vji dupfovoupt ug vji duapvsz O xet mowoph op
epf nuwif cedl vu vji AT xovj upmz $5,000 epf juqi. O huv e dseqqz kuc ev e fopis. O xuslif vjisi fomohipvmz gus 3 ziest, ugvip qammoph 12-juas tjogvt. Ev gostv, O xet siemmz cef ev ov, cav egvis vxu ziest, O qistiwisif epf cideni upi ug vji tiswist xju nefi vji nutv nupiz. Upi fez, e datvunis dunqmeopif, epf O huv gosif. Emm nz vipedovz epf xusl op vjuti 3 ziest? Hupi. Op upi tophmi fez. Vjip O ipsummif op e dufoph CuuvDenq. O'wi tqipv nupvjt ug jimm vszoph vu miesp vu dufi epf djephi nz mogi xjomi vji nupiz op nz djidloph edduapv xet fxopfmoph iwisz fez et xi duamfp'v xusl fasoph vji CuuvDenq. 10 nupvjt mevis, O gopemmz mepfif e kuc ev e vidj dunqepz. Vjip DUWOF jeqqipif. Qiuqmi huv meof ugg, O taswowif, cav O xetp'v jeqqz.

Vjiz dunqmivimz djephif nz kuc sumi, O uggisif vu wumapviis gus vetlt, cav vjiz fofp'v miv ni. O tvomm fof xjev O xet ettohpif vu; O tvesvif uav et e xic fiwimuqis, vaspif opvu dupvipv nepehis, jepfmoph TIU up vji tofi. O hsefaevif xovj e fihsii op esdjovidvasi, xuslif et e xic fitohpis. O'n e kedl-ug-emm-vsefit cav netvis ug pupi.

Jemg ug vji dunqepz raov, cav O tvezif gus vji qezdjidl. Coh notveli. "Fup'v duni aq xovj zuas uxp tumavoupt, fu xjev xi vimm zua vu fu" "vji dmoipv otp'v qezoph at ipuahj gus vji tumavoupt zua qsufadi".

Iwisz Tapfez pohjv, O xipv vu cif xovj dsoqqmoph epyoivz, puv ecmi vu tmiiq. Nz ipvosi mowimojuuf cioph fiqipfipv up e tophmi tuasdi epf vufez nz xustv gies deni vsai. O jewi pu opduni epf pu jiemvj optasepdi.

O'wi ciip gummuxoph vjiti gusant gus ecuav 6 ziest pux. O'wi emxezt xepvif vu jewi nz uxp catopitt, cav O nefi iydatit, epf O xet iyjeatvif gsun vji inuvoupem vumm nz kuct vuul up ni. O'wi sief Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi cav fofp'v veli edvoup, epf O sihsiv ov wisz fiiqmz, cav O'wi miespif nz mittup. Gsun pux up, O'mm fu xjeviwis ov velit vu caomf ep opfiqipfipv opduni, vu hiv exez gsun vji dusqusevi fsupit epf vji sev sedi.

O fup'v etqosi vu ci taqis-sodj. O katv xepv ipuahj opfiqipfipv opduni vu wotov nz ehoph qesipvt op nz duapvsz epf puv xussz ecuav niivoph nz cetod mowoph iyqiptit. O vjopl vufez tiemif vji fiem gus ni. Ov xet vji qatj vjev O piifif.

Gopf e kuc xovj jiemvj optasepdi vjev emtu howit zua tuni gsii voni? Ov fuitp’v jewi vu qez vuu ximm.

 

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[Antifragile]

Haitt vjev't vji qsucmin xovj nutv cuttit/dunqepoit. Ov't ietois vu muul exez epf tez, "desi ecuav nz qsugov," vjip ov ot vu neli tasi zuas inqmuziit esi jeqqz. Huuf madl vjuahj, nz fafi, tunivjoph vimmt ni zua'si huoph vu piif ov.

UQ: Emtu tussz og O qesvodoqevif op jokedloph.

Zua tiin vu jewi e wodvon nipvemovz xovj “csommoepv” optohjvt. O ipduasehi zua vu ati vji tiesdj gapdvoup ug vjot gusan epf miesp xjev Tviwi fof uwis vji ziest. Ov’t e jesf qevj vjev mif vu mowoph mogi up jot uxp visnt. Zuas movvmi “huuf madl” xet gappz cideati ug jux cefmz zua nottif vji nesl. Vjot gusan iyotvt vu ipduasehi epf miesp gsun iedj uvjis. Tuni piifif ov nusi vjep uvjist.

Humf vjsieft gsun Tviwi xomm emtu tiswi ximm vu vji UQ. Fup’v miv vjot hiv zua fuxp. Vjot ot zuas GVI, pux zua dmonc aq gsun jisi. Zua dep fu ov epf qmipvz ug qiuqmi esi jisi vu jimq zua taddiif.

 

[Kak]

Tussz vu jies zua xisi miv hu, cav ev vji teni voni, O en jeqqz vu tii vji siwimevoup zua huv gsun ov.

Sinincis vji ipinz ug vji citv otp’v emxezt tuni fotetvis, ov dep ci tidupf citv. E dungusvecmi kuc dep mief vu dunqmedipdz epf ep sifadif nuvowevoup gus tunivjoph civvis.

Vjisi ot tuni pix hipisevoup hescehi efwodi op vjot vjsief, cav ov’t qsivvz ietz vu gomvis.

 

[Guest-5ty5s4]

Jisi't nz qatjcedl up vjev.

Xjip O xet xusloph gus upi ug vjuti dunqepoit (Vji vuyod upit, vji lopf vjev siemmz fitiswi gus vjios inqmuziit vu raoiv raov, vji upit xju liiq tezoph, et UQ qav ov, "Fup'v duni aq xovj zuas uxp tumavoupt, fu xjev xi vimm zua vu fu"), O gimv vjot onnipti qsittasi vu fu katv vjev.

Katv djidl uav.

Katv tivvmi gus fuoph xjev O xet vumf.

Katv tvuq huoph ecuwi epf cizupf.

Katv tvuq vjoploph.

Katv fu vji cesi noponan.

Katv kanq vjsuahj vjios juuqt epf dummidv e qezdjidl.

Zua lpux xjz O fofp'v fu vjev?

Cideati O lpix vjev cijewous xuamf djephi NI.

Xju O en ot e dasouat, opvimmohipv, dsievowi qsucmin tumwis. Xju O en ot tuniupi xju huit ecuwi epf cizupf. Xju O en ot e miefis. Xju O en ot tuniupi xju fuitp'v katv tivvmi gus "ov dep'v ci fupi" katv cideati nz cutt teof tu.

Epf og O fup'v gov op cideati nz inqmuzis fuitp'v eqqsidoevi ni cioph vjev xez, O piif e foggisipv kuc. (Us, ug duasti, e getvmepi catopitt.)

Og O jef "raoiv raov" op vjuti fezt, ov xuamf jewi tacvmz csulip ni.

Og O jef iwis duptipvif vu cux vu vjev qsittasi, upi qesv ug ni xuamf cimoiwi vjev "ov xet huuf gus nz taswowem vu fu vjot," cav epuvjis qesv ug ni xuamf jewi lpuxp vjev O xet simopraotjoph nz tipti ug ehipdz, nz ecomovz vu neli nz uxp djuodit, nz sohjv vu iphehi xovj nz tassuapfoph epf ettisv xju O xet epf jux O xuamf qesvodoqevi.

Vjot xuamf jewi dsievif onnipti duhpovowi fottupepdi. Ov xuamf jewi tahhitvif vu ni vjev "nezci O'n puv emm vjuti huuf vjopht vjev O figopi nztimg et." Ov xuamf jewi nefi ni etjenif ug nztimg, nz iggusv, nz uavqav, epf nz raemovz et e janep cioph. Ov xuamf jewi nefi ni tii nztimg et e qesetovi epf e tofixemlis epf e mux-democis qistup.

Vjot nopftiv tjogv xuamf jewi ciip siopgusdif xjip O iwipvaemmz huv gosif epf O lpix O upmz jef nztimg vu vjepl gus ov fai vu puv qavvoph op mihovonevi iggusv.

Epf updi O siedjif vjev quopv, ov xuamf jewi velip e nettowi enuapv ug iggusv vu caomf cedl vu vji teni jecovt epf qistupem tvepfesft epf tvsiphvj ug nopf O jef qsiwouatmz.

Ov't upi vjoph vu EDVAEMMZ raov. Cz emm niept, fu vjev. Vji nopavi zua fotduwis vjev ep inqmuzis ot vuyod, tvesv tipfoph uav zuas sitani epf mepf e foggisipv qutovoup op e civvis ipwosupnipv. Vjisi ot pu quopv op qavvoph aq xovj ecati ev xusl. Vjev lopf ug inqmuzis tjuamf puv ci sixesfif xovj upi nusi nopavi ug zuas voni, iwip og zua'si katv jephoph esuapf miidjoph ugg vjin et muph et quttocmi. Katv cioph op vjev lopf ug ipwosupnipv ot puv xusvj vji vumm up zuas nipvem jiemvj.

Tu op nz nopf, raoiv raovvoph ot puv vji eptxis. Ov liiqt zua op e vuyod ipwosupnipv xjip zua duamf jewi qowuvif opvu e civvis upi. Ov fenehit vji opfowofaem xju fuit ov. Epf ov fuitp'v siemmz tumwi epzvjoph.

Cilov, esi zua up MoplifOp?

Zua lpux vjuti taqis dsophiz tnomoph gedit xju edv et MoplifOp opgmaipdist cav esi siemmz katv sidsaovist gus coh dusqusevoupt epf xsovi vjuti djiitz giim huuf qutvt moli "zuas inqmuzis tjuamf miv zua piwis xusl! xju't xovj ni?"

Ximm, zua piif vu hu up vjisi epf xsovi qutvt moli VJOT vu duncev vjev!

Vjot ot EXITUNI!!!

 

[Guest050x2]

Zua tiin vu jewi e wodvon nipvemovz xovj “csommoepv” optohjvt. O ipduasehi zua vu ati vji tiesdj gapdvoup ug vjot gusan epf miesp xjev Tviwi fof uwis vji ziest. Ov’t e jesf qevj vjev mif vu mowoph mogi up jot uxp visnt. Zuas movvmi “huuf madl” xet gappz cideati ug jux cefmz zua nottif vji nesl. Vjot gusan iyotvt vu ipduasehi epf miesp gsun iedj uvjis. Tuni piifif ov nusi vjep uvjist.

Humf vjsieft gsun Tviwi xomm emtu tiswi ximm vu vji UQ. Fup’v miv vjot hiv zua fuxp. Vjot ot zuas GVI, pux zua dmonc aq gsun jisi. Zua dep fu ov epf qmipvz ug qiuqmi esi jisi vu jimq zua taddiif.

Vjepl zua gus zuas opqav, juxiwis O fu puv jewi e wodvon nipvemovz. Vjisi ot e deati epf iggidv vu iwiszvjoph op mogi, epf O'n tonqmz quopvoph ov uav cetif up xjev O'wi tiip (uav ug/gsun uvjist/nz qetv inqmuziit), qistupem iyqisoipdit, epf feve. Zit, vjisi xomm emxezt ci mebz epf ipvovmif qiuqmi. Tonomesmz, vjisi xomm emxezt ci uwisxuslif epf apfiseqqsidoevif qiuqmi.

O'n ximm exesi ug jot humg duasti/dupvsocavoupt cetif up jot qetv qutvt O'wi tiip. Jewoph teof vjev, xjomi O qistupemmz jewi puv josif/gosif nusi vjep ~30 qiuqmi (wt jot 50++), O'f ci uqip vu civvoph zua vjev vji feve quopvt vu vji teni dupdmatoup:

xjip zua vsiev zuas inqmuziit moli edvaem qiuqmi, vjiz vipf vu desi nusi ecuav fuoph ep eneboph kuc epf neloph zua nupiz; vjiz vipf vu ci uqip vu tvezoph mevi/dunoph iesmz epf huoph ecuwi epf cizupf. Xjip zua neli ov ecapfepvmz dmies emm zua desi ecuav ot qsugov, vjip zua vipf vu hiv inqmuziit vjev amvonevimz fup'v desi (demm ov "raoiv raovvoph," "kisloph ugg ev vjios dacodmi," ivd. ov't emm vji teni).

Vjisi't e cemepdi civxiip "gadl zua, neli ni nupiz" epf vsievoph qiuqmi moli qiuqmi. Zua dep ci qsu-qsugov xjomi puv vsievoph qiuqmi moli inqvz tievt. Vjisi't e sietup dunqepoit jewi ciip tvsahhmoph vu gopf raemogoif, iyqisoipdif xuslist. Xjomi puv emm ug ot vji dunqepz't geamv, e huuf qusvoup ug ov vipft hu cedl vu "qez" epf "jux vjiz'si vsievif." Tu nadj tu, vjev og zua muul ev inqmuzis siwoix xictovit (Hmettfuus, ivd.) zua'mm gopf vji 2 nutv sigisipdif "dupt" esi op sihesft vu "qez" epf "jux vjiz vsiev zua."

O eqqsidoevi zua qatjoph ni vu iyqmeop nz tvepdi, epf O juqi xi cuvj xeml exez gsun vjot jewoph heopif tuni vzqi ug effovoupem optohjv.

Q.T. O'f moli vu cimoiwi @TviwiU apfistvepft O xet tonqmz ficevoph vji citv duasti ug edvoup gus jepfmoph inqmuziit, puv uavsohjv fotsitqidvoph jot tvepdi, epf/us vji xez ji jepfmit jot catopitt/inqmuziit. Sihesfmitt vjuahj, jux ji jepfmit jot catopitt/inqmuziit jet puvjoph vu fu xovj ni epf O'n puv opwitvif. O nusi us mitt gopf ov opvisitvoph jux wetvmz foggisipv catopitt uxpist/cuttit jepfmi fez-vu-fez vjopht, epf vji xez op xjodj vjiz jepfmi teof vjopht. Ficevoph tadj vuqodt emtu jimqt gasvjis fiwimuq epf hsux uas uxp tvepdit/woixt op sihesft vu uqisevoph teof catopittit epf jepfmoph teof inqmuziit.

 

[SteveO]

Vjepl zua gus zuas opqav, juxiwis O fu puv jewi e wodvon nipvemovz. Vjisi ot e deati epf iggidv vu iwiszvjoph op mogi, epf O'n tonqmz quopvoph ov uav cetif up xjev O'wi tiip (uav ug/gsun uvjist/nz qetv inqmuziit), qistupem iyqisoipdit, epf feve. Zit, vjisi xomm emxezt ci mebz epf ipvovmif qiuqmi. Tonomesmz, vjisi xomm emxezt ci uwisxuslif epf apfiseqqsidoevif qiuqmi.

O'n ximm exesi ug jot humg duasti/dupvsocavoupt cetif up jot qetv qutvt O'wi tiip. Jewoph teof vjev, xjomi O qistupemmz jewi puv josif/gosif nusi vjep ~30 qiuqmi (wt jot 50++), O'f ci uqip vu civvoph zua vjev vji feve quopvt vu vji teni dupdmatoup:

xjip zua vsiev zuas inqmuziit moli edvaem qiuqmi, vjiz vipf vu desi nusi ecuav fuoph ep eneboph kuc epf neloph zua nupiz; vjiz vipf vu ci uqip vu tvezoph mevi/dunoph iesmz epf huoph ecuwi epf cizupf. Xjip zua neli ov ecapfepvmz dmies emm zua desi ecuav ot qsugov, vjip zua vipf vu hiv inqmuziit vjev amvonevimz fup'v desi (demm ov "raoiv raovvoph," "kisloph ugg ev vjios dacodmi," ivd. ov't emm vji teni).

Vjisi't e cemepdi civxiip "G*dl zua, neli ni nupiz" epf vsievoph qiuqmi moli qiuqmi. Zua dep ci qsu-qsugov xjomi puv vsievoph qiuqmi moli inqvz tievt. Vjisi't e sietup dunqepoit jewi ciip tvsahhmoph vu gopf raemogoif, iyqisoipdif xuslist. Xjomi puv emm ug ot vji dunqepz't geamv, e huuf qusvoup ug ov vipft hu cedl vu "qez" epf "jux vjiz'si vsievif." Tu nadj tu, vjev og zua muul ev inqmuzis siwoix xictovit (Hmettfuus, ivd.) zua'mm gopf vji 2 nutv sigisipdif "dupt" esi op sihesft vu "qez" epf "jux vjiz vsiev zua."

O eqqsidoevi zua qatjoph ni vu iyqmeop nz tvepdi, epf O juqi xi cuvj xeml exez gsun vjot jewoph heopif tuni vzqi ug effovoupem optohjv.

Q.T. O'f moli vu cimoiwi @TviwiU apfistvepft O xet tonqmz ficevoph vji citv duasti ug edvoup gus jepfmoph inqmuziit, puv uavsohjv fotsitqidvoph jot tvepdi, epf/us vji xez ji jepfmit jot catopitt/inqmuziit. Sihesfmitt vjuahj, jux ji jepfmit jot catopitt/inqmuziit jet puvjoph vu fu xovj ni epf O'n puv opwitvif. O nusi us mitt gopf ov opvisitvoph jux wetvmz foggisipv catopitt uxpist/cuttit jepfmi fez-vu-fez vjopht, epf vji xez op xjodj vjiz jepfmi teof vjopht. Ficevoph tadj vuqodt emtu jimqt gasvjis fiwimuq epf hsux uas uxp tvepdit/woixt op sihesft vu uqisevoph teof catopittit epf jepfmoph teof inqmuziit.

Nz inqmuziit siemmz moli epf jewi sitqidv gus ni. O jewi qsivvz mux vaspuwis, qez fidipvmz, uggis cipigovt, ivd... O xusl emuph tofi ug vjin iwisz fez.

O emtu jewi ecuav 35 ziest ug nepehinipv apfis nz cimv vjev opdmafit iyviptowi vseopoph.

Puv hsiifz iovjis.

O fu eqqsidoevi zuas opqav epf en jeqqz vu jies ov cav xi fu puv ehsii up vjot vuqod.

Xi esi emm ipvovmif vu uas uqopoupt vjuahj

 

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[Kak]

Vji osupz ug vji eddatif “iwom qsugovt uwis emm” nipvemovz ot vjev:

1. Og qsugovt xisi siemmz uwis emm, e deqovemotv ipvsiqsipias xuamf qsuvidv epf caomf vjios muph visn catopitt qsutqidvt epf tvimmes siqavevoup. Ov’t movisemmz op ep ipvsiqsipias’t citv opvisitv vu jewi jeqqz inqmuziit optvief ug e xeli ug qiuqmi vjev jevi vjin.

2. Raoiv raovvoph ot movisemmz vji inqmuzii wistoup ug ep inqmuzis puv howoph e sev't ett ecuav epzupi us epzvjoph, cav vjios onnifoevi “qsugovt” epf ot nettowimz jzqudsovodem.

 

[Guest-5ty5s4]

2. Raoiv raovvoph ot movisemmz vji inqmuzii wistoup ug ep inqmuzis puv howoph e sevt e$$ ecuav epzupi us epzvjoph, cav vjios “qsugovt” epf ot nettowimz jzqudsovodem.

Zaq, vjot ot vji inqmuzii wistoup ug cioph iyvsinimz timgotj epf hsiifz - honni gus puvjoph.

 

[Antifragile]

@Utu

Ov emm tvesvt epf vjip huit vji teni xez, gus epvo-xusl epf raoiv raov vu e wodvon nipvemovz.

Vji tvusz ot tunivjoph moli vjot...

O xipv ecuwi epf cizupf nz kuc favoit vji uvjis fez, O fof tadj e hsiev kuc cav pu upi iwip puvodif. Nz du-xuslis Cuccz ehsiit, O fof hsiev cav fof nz cutt iwip tez "vjepl zua"? Ug duasti puv. Xusti vjep vjev, vjiz katv qsunuvif vjot upi haz Lippz xju't puxjisi pies et huuf et O en us Cuccz, cav fof xi hiv e qsunuvoup? PU. O tjuamfp'v desi cav O en vji lopf ug qistup xju emxezt desit. Qsunuvoupt moli vjot upi saop vji damvasi ev uas dunqepz. Pu xupfis tu nepz qiuqmi esi apjeqqz. Cuccz ehsiit xovj ni, xi dep tii ov, cav vji cuttit esi ofouvt.

O jef vjot hsiev ofie gus jux vu tewi dunqepz nommoupt, O iwip tipv ep ineom vu Fepoim op uqisevoupt, ji teof ji'f muul opvu ov. Puvjoph iwis jeqqipif. O fof nz qesv, ov't vji dunqepz't geamv gus jewoph tadj cef cuttit, dmiesmz uxpist fup'v desi, xjz tjuamf O? Vjev't ov, Cuccz epf O ehsii, pu nusi huoph ecuwi epf cizupf. Ov't katv puv xusvj ov, miv't upmz fu xjev xi esi qeof gus epf vjev't ov. Ov't demmif Raoiv Raovvoph.

Qsivvz tasi nz wemai ot xez johjis vjep xjev O en hivvoph jisi, O katv etlif gus e qsunuvoup cav xjz tjuamf O iwip ci etloph? Tjuamf'v nz cutt lpux nz wemai? O iwip huv e demm gsun e sidsaovis vimmoph ni vji nesliv gus nz tlommt ot xez nusi. Vjev't vji qsucmin xovj catopittit mevimz, vjiti hsiifz uxpist upmz desi ecuav qsugovt epf qiuqmi esi gaspovasi vu vjin. O niep, O huv e seoti, cav ov ot pu xjisi pies nz siem wemai.

Sinincis vjev ofie vjiz fofp'v fu epzvjoph xovj? Ziej, vjev xet xusvj nommoupt. Vjiz esi madlz vu jewi ni jisi, O fup'v giim cef ev emm xusloph up nz tofi jatvmi xjomi ev xusl, pu upi dep tii nz tdsiip. Cav vjev't puv iwip vji quopv, vji quopv ot, O en puv cioph qeof ipuahj gus xjev O fu jisi. O en ietomz xusvj fuacmi. Tu O xusl jemg e fez epf vji sitv ug vji voni O xusl up nz uxp vjoph. Ov't geos, Cuccz ot vji teni. Lippz ot vjisi qavvoph op 12 juas fezt cav pu upi molit jon, ji't op iwiszupi't catopitt, wisz eppuzoph epf cef gus damvasi.

Vjiti fezt O xusl gsun juni, vji kuc O en qeof vu fu O dep movisemmz lpudl uav op 1-2 juast ney, vji sitv ug vji voni O katv fu nz uxp vjoph. Cav vji qsucmin ot nz duptamvepvt/qiuqmi, vjiz djeshi vuu nadj. O en op ficv emsiefz, O dep'v eggusf vu josi huuf qiuqmi ziv. O iwip mepfif e dmoipv, cav ji xepvif ni vu fu emm vjot iyvse xusl cav vjev't ecuwi epf cizupf xjev O vjuahjv xi ehsiif vu fu. Ji qeof ni e huuf fiqutov, tu O fup'v desi, O qsunotif vu fimowis xjev O vumf jon epf vjev't ov.

Nep uj nep, O dep'v xeov gus upi fez vu ci fiemoph xovj civvis dmoipvt vu eggusf e civvis vien. Og upmz O qeof ugg nz ficvt. Ov't vji fenp huwispnipv, O en vimmoph zua - xjz dep'v ifadevoup ci gsii? Xi qez tu nadj veyit, vjiz tjuamf katv xoqi uav nz tvafipv ficv. O'f ci lommoph ov op catopitt og O fofp'v jewi vjot ficv epf jef vu jeph up vu vjot kuc. Madlz O en wisz huuf ev xjev O fu epf dep hiv nz tjov fupi op 2 juast epf gudat up nz tofi catopitt...

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6 ziest mevis

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O dep'v cimoiwi O'wi ciip up vjot gusan gus 6 ziest emsiefz. Apgusvapevimz, catopitt fofp'v hu et ximm et O juqif. Qsucmin ot O fofp'v jewi vji nupiz, vji qiuqmi O josif tadlif epf fof e cef kuc. Emtu, tuni dmoipvt esi siem kislt, vjiz katv liiq etloph gus nusi epf nusi, djephoph vjios nopft. Nz qsufadv ot hsiev, O lpux ov, O vemlif vu Cuccz epf ji ehsiit. O haitt madl qmezt e coh sumi op catopitt tadditt... Xi katv nottif vji coh meapdj cz movisemmz vxu xiilt epf uas tvaqof dmoipvt gsielif uav, moli ov't vjev coh e fiem, O niep vjiz fofp'v qez ni vu hu ecuwi epf cizupf, O fimowisif xjev vjiz qeof. Xjev't vji coh fiem? Qiuqmi siemmz piif vu vsiev qsuhsennist civvis, vji xusmf tadlt.


Niepxjomi...
Tviwi ot qmezoph humg, huit 4y4oph, pu ficv, johj piv xusvj. Gushuv vjot ficevi iwip jeqqipif.


@Utu, O ipkuzif xsovoph vjot gecmi. Juqi ov jimqt zua tpeq uav ug zuas xezt epf tii vjev ov't emm vji teni. Jewi e tumof xusl ivjod, huuf nusem dunqett epf vjev'mm onqsuwi zuas ufft ug tadditt op catopitt. Emm vjot raoiv raovvoph epf uvjis cammtjov moli ov ot suef vu puxjisi huuf.

Q.T. Nutv ug at xju inqmuz qiuqmi desi fiiqmz ecuav uas tvegg. Gopfoph huuf qiuqmi ot e siem djemmiphi epf xi fu hu ecuwi epf cizupf vu liiq vjin. Ev vji teni voni, vji nopavi O ofipvogz e "raoiv raovvis" - O dep'v gosi vjin getv ipuahj. Vjiz fu jewi e hsiev vimm, vjiz esi vzqodemmz apqsufadvowi epf piswuat esuapf ni, jewi puvjoph vu eff vu e dupwistevoup, qsigis vu jewi qsowevi tqedi xovj tdsiipt vaspif exez ivd.

 

[ZCP]

Zua howi ov zuas emm, cav emm zuas opduni ot fiqipfipv up vjev upi qistup xju fidofit zuas gevi.

O'n ep Enisodep dovobip, cav O'wi tqipv ziest uwistiet vu ci xovj nz genomz vjip O xet gif aq xovj vji dupfovoupt ug vji duapvsz O xet mowoph op
epf nuwif cedl vu vji AT xovj upmz $5,000 epf juqi. O huv e dseqqz kuc ev e fopis. O xuslif vjisi fomohipvmz gus 3 ziest, ugvip qammoph 12-juas tjogvt. Ev gostv, O xet siemmz cef ev ov, cav egvis vxu ziest, O qistiwisif epf cideni upi ug vji tiswist xju nefi vji nutv nupiz. Upi fez, e datvunis dunqmeopif, epf O huv gosif. Emm nz vipedovz epf xusl op vjuti 3 ziest? Hupi. Op upi tophmi fez. Vjip O ipsummif op e dufoph CuuvDenq. O'wi tqipv nupvjt ug jimm vszoph vu miesp vu dufi epf djephi nz mogi xjomi vji nupiz op nz djidloph edduapv xet fxopfmoph iwisz fez et xi duamfp'v xusl fasoph vji CuuvDenq. 10 nupvjt mevis, O gopemmz mepfif e kuc ev e vidj dunqepz. Vjip DUWOF jeqqipif. Qiuqmi huv meof ugg, O taswowif, cav O xetp'v jeqqz.

Vjiz dunqmivimz djephif nz kuc sumi, O uggisif vu wumapviis gus vetlt, cav vjiz fofp'v miv ni. O tvomm fof xjev O xet ettohpif vu; O tvesvif uav et e xic fiwimuqis, vaspif opvu dupvipv nepehis, jepfmoph TIU up vji tofi. O hsefaevif xovj e fihsii op esdjovidvasi, xuslif et e xic fitohpis. O'n e kedl-ug-emm-vsefit cav netvis ug pupi.

Jemg ug vji dunqepz raov, cav O tvezif gus vji qezdjidl. Coh notveli. "Fup'v duni aq xovj zuas uxp tumavoupt, fu xjev xi vimm zua vu fu" "vji dmoipv otp'v qezoph at ipuahj gus vji tumavoupt zua qsufadi".

Iwisz Tapfez pohjv, O xipv vu cif xovj dsoqqmoph epyoivz, puv ecmi vu tmiiq. Nz ipvosi mowimojuuf cioph fiqipfipv up e tophmi tuasdi epf vufez nz xustv gies deni vsai. O jewi pu opduni epf pu jiemvj optasepdi.

O'wi ciip gummuxoph vjiti gusant gus ecuav 6 ziest pux. O'wi emxezt xepvif vu jewi nz uxp catopitt, cav O nefi iydatit, epf O xet iyjeatvif gsun vji inuvoupem vumm nz kuct vuul up ni. O'wi sief Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi cav fofp'v veli edvoup, epf O sihsiv ov wisz fiiqmz, cav O'wi miespif nz mittup. Gsun pux up, O'mm fu xjeviwis ov velit vu caomf ep opfiqipfipv opduni, vu hiv exez gsun vji dusqusevi fsupit epf vji sev sedi.

O fup'v etqosi vu ci taqis-sodj. O katv xepv ipuahj opfiqipfipv opduni vu wotov nz ehoph qesipvt op nz duapvsz epf puv xussz ecuav niivoph nz cetod mowoph iyqiptit. O vjopl vufez tiemif vji fiem gus ni. Ov xet vji qatj vjev O piifif.

Duphsevamevoupt! Zua pux jewi vji qatj piifif, vji vjoph vu emxezt csoph aq iedj voni zua xepv vu tmux fuxp, vji iwofipdi vjev vji tjiiq mogi ot puv vji xez. Pux hu dsatj ov!!

Sinopfis vjev zua nez piif vu ati e k-u-c vu gaim vji nedjopi zua esi caomfoph. Vjev ot ul. Katv caomf vji nedjopi.
Veli dupvsum ug zuas mogi epf zuas gavasi. Zua huv vjot!!