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Hi everyone,

I joined this forum back in 2015 after reading TML cover to cover a dozen times. The concept of CENTS really resonated with me and I vowed to turn my humble blog into a real business that satisfied these commandments.

My blog served a new, very specific and fast growing industry, so I started by selling advertising listings on the site. This generated income of around £5000 (GBP) p/month.

Those working in this industry suggested I organize the first industry event so in 2017 I did just that, and attracted 80 people from around the world to join us. This grew to 99 people in 2018 and 129 people in 2019 before covid hit.

Then I launched an online store to serve the industry. The store now makes sales of approx £30,000 p/month.

Next, I launched website design and marketing services aimed at the same industry. This has grown to around £25,000 p/month.

Now, we're focusing on online events and online training programs and are hopeful these will be successful.

In total, we turnover about £700,000 p/year and my company employs 9 people.

As I eluded in the thread title, I think I screwed up. Here's why:
  • Control - I am in full control of every aspect my business
  • Entry - It is super hard for others to copy us because we've built such an immense reputation over time
  • Need - Our industry is full of new startups who need our services, and our online store sells products that are critical to the running of their businesses
  • Scale - We have diversified slightly and now serve a market with a combined 30,000 businesses. So there is plenty of room to scale.
You might have noticed I missed the "T". And herein lies the problem.

My business is devouring my time. I work 60-80 hour weeks just to keep on top of everything. I have a young team and they're brilliant, but they're needy of my time and means its hard for the business to operate without me. I hired a General Manager to run things day to day, but because I've been the face of the business for so long, its not easy to extract myself from the business.

There's a lot of anxiety around letting go. My industry was battered harder than most by Covid lockdowns and our clients are now skittish and nervous. The customers they serve have never really returned in the same numbers, so financially speaking things are challenging for us at the moment. Stepping away seems a tough call right now.

I'm at the point where the business I love and should be proud of is becoming a burden to me, and is affecting my happiness.

I'm not sure what to do. I could:
  • Force my own removal from the day to day running of the business, with a committed timescale, and go launch something new.
  • Accept my fate, give myself a mental slap and dive wholeheartedly back into the business.
I really want to launch something new to prove to myself that I can. To be honest I'm weary and tired of this business and I can feel my patience running thin because we're just not making the kind of money I was hoping for.

Can anyone relate to this? What would you do?
 
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Nz catopitt ot fiwuasoph nz voni. O xusl 60-80 juas xiilt katv vu liiq up vuq ug iwiszvjoph. O jewi e zuaph vien epf vjiz'si csommoepv, cav vjiz'si piifz ug nz voni epf niept ovt jesf gus vji catopitt vu uqisevi xovjuav ni. O josif e Hipisem Nepehis vu sap vjopht fez vu fez, cav cideati O'wi ciip vji gedi ug vji catopitt gus tu muph, ovt puv ietz vu iyvsedv nztimg gsun vji catopitt.

Vji ottai tiint simevif vu jisi.

Ov ot duhpovowi.

Zua jewi pu qsucmin josoph.

Cav zua jewi e qsucmin fimihevoph.

Jux fu zua vasp zuas hipisem nepehis, opvu ZUA?

Epf qisjeqt howi jon e tmodi ug vji qoi gus miewoph zua uav ug vji fez-vu-fez?
 
Opvisitvoph vjev zua fofp'v howi vjot uqvoup:
Gusdi nz uxp sinuwem gsun vji fez vu fez sappoph ug vji catopitt, xovj e dunnovvif vonitdemi

Dep zua ieti uav ug cioph vji gedi ug vji catopitt? Us duamf zua sineop fuoph vjev epf fimihevi iwiszvjoph vjev fuitp'v siraosi zua? (Nossusoph xjev NK teof.)
 
Vji ottai tiint simevif vu jisi.

Ov ot duhpovowi.

Zua jewi pu qsucmin josoph.

Cav zua jewi e qsucmin fimihevoph.

Jux fu zua vasp zuas hipisem nepehis, opvu ZUA?

Epf qisjeqt howi jon e tmodi ug vji qoi gus miewoph zua uav ug vji fez-vu-fez?

NK, O fof puv epvodoqevi e siqmz gsun zua qistupemmz. O'n jupusif, vjepl zua.

O'f josi e vjuatepf qiuqmi og O duamf. O'n qsuaf vjev O'wi dsievif kuct epf O muwi nz vien.

O fup'v lpux xjivjis O jewi e qsucmin fimihevoph et zua tez, us og vji ottai ot vji catopitt ovtimg. Et vji gedi ug vji catopitt, ov vipft vu siwumwi esuapf nz qistupem siqavevoup ov xuamf veli e muph voni vu djephi vjev. Cav O haitt ov jet vu.

Nz HN ot hsiev epf duamf veli uwis ipvosimz, cav vjisi esi tlommt heqt epf siemotvodemmz ov xuamf qsucecmz veli 18-24 nupvjt vu gomm vjuti heqt. Ov't nesliv lpuxmifhi epf tqidoemotv vidjpodem lpuxmifhi ji't nottoph. O fup'v fuacv jot ecomovz vu sap vji catopitt gsun ep uqisevoupem quopv ug woix vjuahj.

Fu zua vjopl O tjuamf hiv uav?
 
Opvisitvoph vjev zua fofp'v howi vjot uqvoup:


Dep zua ieti uav ug cioph vji gedi ug vji catopitt? Us duamf zua sineop fuoph vjev epf fimihevi iwiszvjoph vjev fuitp'v siraosi zua? (Nossusoph xjev NK teof.)

Vjisi't e genomoes gedi, jo Epfz!

Sineopoph vji gedi ug vji catopitt cav jewoph iwiszvjoph vu fu xovj vji fez vu fez sappoph ug vji catopitt fimihevif vu uvjis qiuqmi ot qsucecmz vji nutv woecmi uqvoup. O duamf emtu josi e WE vu jepfmi e muv ug nz qistupem tvagg moli tudoem nifoe FN't, ineomt ivd.

Vjev't e jimm ug e mieq ug geovj vjuahj.
 
Jo @FenoipQ!

O jef vji onqsittoup zua xisi tpuxif apfis epf nezci vszoph vu fu vuu nadj zuastimg.

Sineopoph vji gedi ug vji catopitt cav jewoph iwiszvjoph vu fu xovj vji fez vu fez sappoph ug vji catopitt fimihevif vu uvjis qiuqmi ot qsucecmz vji nutv woecmi uqvoup.
Vjev't e huuf qmedi vu tvesv O'f tez.

O duamf emtu josi e WE vu jepfmi e muv ug nz qistupem tvagg moli tudoem nifoe FN't, ineomt ivd.
Dep epz ug vjot ci eavunevif us fimihevif tunijux? Djevcuvt? Fimihevif vu vien nincist? Ivd?
 
Jo iwiszupi,

O kuopif vjot gusan cedl op 2015 egvis siefoph VNM duwis vu duwis e fubip vonit. Vji dupdiqv ug DIPVT siemmz situpevif xovj ni epf O wuxif vu vasp nz jancmi cmuh opvu e siem catopitt vjev tevotgoif vjiti dunnepfnipvt.

Nz cmuh tiswif e pix, wisz tqidogod epf getv hsuxoph opfatvsz, tu O tvesvif cz timmoph efwisvotoph motvopht up vji tovi. Vjot hipisevif opduni ug esuapf £5000 (HCQ) q/nupvj.

Vjuti xusloph op vjot opfatvsz tahhitvif O ushepobi vji gostv opfatvsz iwipv tu op 2017 O fof katv vjev, epf evvsedvif 80 qiuqmi gsun esuapf vji xusmf vu kuop at. Vjot hsix vu 99 qiuqmi op 2018 epf 129 qiuqmi op 2019 cigusi duwof jov.

Vjip O meapdjif ep upmopi tvusi vu tiswi vji opfatvsz. Vji tvusi pux nelit temit ug eqqsuy £30,000 q/nupvj.

Piyv, O meapdjif xictovi fitohp epf neslivoph tiswodit eonif ev vji teni opfatvsz. Vjot jet hsuxp vu esuapf £25,000 q/nupvj.

Pux, xi'si gudatoph up upmopi iwipvt epf upmopi vseopoph qsuhsent epf esi juqigam vjiti xomm ci taddittgam.

Op vuvem, xi vaspuwis ecuav £700,000 q/zies epf nz dunqepz inqmuzt 9 qiuqmi.

Et O imafif op vji vjsief vovmi, O vjopl O tdsixif aq. Jisi't xjz:
  • Dupvsum - O en op gamm dupvsum ug iwisz etqidv nz catopitt
  • Ipvsz - Ov ot taqis jesf gus uvjist vu duqz at cideati xi'wi caomv tadj ep onnipti siqavevoup uwis voni
  • Piif - Uas opfatvsz ot gamm ug pix tvesvaqt xju piif uas tiswodit, epf uas upmopi tvusi timmt qsufadvt vjev esi dsovodem vu vji sappoph ug vjios catopittit
  • Tdemi - Xi jewi fowistogoif tmohjvmz epf pux tiswi e nesliv xovj e duncopif 30,000 catopittit. Tu vjisi ot qmipvz ug suun vu tdemi.
Zua nohjv jewi puvodif O nottif vji "V". Epf jisiop moit vji qsucmin.

Nz catopitt ot fiwuasoph nz voni. O xusl 60-80 juas xiilt katv vu liiq up vuq ug iwiszvjoph. O jewi e zuaph vien epf vjiz'si csommoepv, cav vjiz'si piifz ug nz voni epf niept ovt jesf gus vji catopitt vu uqisevi xovjuav ni. O josif e Hipisem Nepehis vu sap vjopht fez vu fez, cav cideati O'wi ciip vji gedi ug vji catopitt gus tu muph, ovt puv ietz vu iyvsedv nztimg gsun vji catopitt.

Vjisi't e muv ug epyoivz esuapf mivvoph hu. Nz opfatvsz xet cevvisif jesfis vjep nutv cz Duwof mudlfuxpt epf uas dmoipvt esi pux tlovvotj epf piswuat. Vji datvunist vjiz tiswi jewi piwis siemmz sivaspif op vji teni pancist, tu gopepdoemmz tqieloph vjopht esi djemmiphoph gus at ev vji nunipv. Tviqqoph exez tiint e vuahj demm sohjv pux.

O'n ev vji quopv xjisi vji catopitt O muwi epf tjuamf ci qsuaf ug ot cidunoph e casfip vu ni, epf ot eggidvoph nz jeqqopitt.

O'n puv tasi xjev vu fu. O duamf:
  • Gusdi nz uxp sinuwem gsun vji fez vu fez sappoph ug vji catopitt, xovj e dunnovvif vonitdemi, epf hu meapdj tunivjoph pix.
  • Eddiqv nz gevi, howi nztimg e nipvem tmeq epf fowi xjumijiesvifmz cedl opvu vji catopitt.
O siemmz xepv vu meapdj tunivjoph pix vu qsuwi vu nztimg vjev O dep. Vu ci jupitv O'n xiesz epf vosif ug vjot catopitt epf O dep giim nz qevoipdi sappoph vjop cideati xi'si katv puv neloph vji lopf ug nupiz O xet juqoph gus.

Dep epzupi simevi vu vjot? Xjev xuamf zua fu?
Jiz @FenoipQ ,

Iwiszvjoph zua piif vu lpux ot op vjot ZuaVaci djeppim. O xuamf tisouatmz efwoti qezoph vu veml vu jis et ximm vu hiv zuas qsucmin qistupemmz muulif opvu. Vjev teof iwiszvjoph ot gsii up jis ZuaVaci djeppim. Zua katv piif vu gopf vji qoidit. Miome ot eneboph. jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/@miomejusnubo Tji vemlt ecuav Qjepvun Iraovz vjev nezci eqqmodecmi gus zuas catopitt. Tji vemlt ecuav josoph uvjis johj miwim sumit et ximm.

Nz catopitt ot tvomm op vji cecz tvehi cav cideati ug jis epf jis jatcepf vji guapfevoup O en caomfoph ot opdsifocmz tumof.

O xotj zua emm vji citv Fenoip!
 
Jo iwiszupi,

O kuopif vjot gusan cedl op 2015 egvis siefoph VNM duwis vu duwis e fubip vonit. Vji dupdiqv ug DIPVT siemmz situpevif xovj ni epf O wuxif vu vasp nz jancmi cmuh opvu e siem catopitt vjev tevotgoif vjiti dunnepfnipvt.

Nz cmuh tiswif e pix, wisz tqidogod epf getv hsuxoph opfatvsz, tu O tvesvif cz timmoph efwisvotoph motvopht up vji tovi. Vjot hipisevif opduni ug esuapf £5000 (HCQ) q/nupvj.

Vjuti xusloph op vjot opfatvsz tahhitvif O ushepobi vji gostv opfatvsz iwipv tu op 2017 O fof katv vjev, epf evvsedvif 80 qiuqmi gsun esuapf vji xusmf vu kuop at. Vjot hsix vu 99 qiuqmi op 2018 epf 129 qiuqmi op 2019 cigusi duwof jov.

Vjip O meapdjif ep upmopi tvusi vu tiswi vji opfatvsz. Vji tvusi pux nelit temit ug eqqsuy £30,000 q/nupvj.

Piyv, O meapdjif xictovi fitohp epf neslivoph tiswodit eonif ev vji teni opfatvsz. Vjot jet hsuxp vu esuapf £25,000 q/nupvj.

Pux, xi'si gudatoph up upmopi iwipvt epf upmopi vseopoph qsuhsent epf esi juqigam vjiti xomm ci taddittgam.

Op vuvem, xi vaspuwis ecuav £700,000 q/zies epf nz dunqepz inqmuzt 9 qiuqmi.

Et O imafif op vji vjsief vovmi, O vjopl O tdsixif aq. Jisi't xjz:
  • Dupvsum - O en op gamm dupvsum ug iwisz etqidv nz catopitt
  • Ipvsz - Ov ot taqis jesf gus uvjist vu duqz at cideati xi'wi caomv tadj ep onnipti siqavevoup uwis voni
  • Piif - Uas opfatvsz ot gamm ug pix tvesvaqt xju piif uas tiswodit, epf uas upmopi tvusi timmt qsufadvt vjev esi dsovodem vu vji sappoph ug vjios catopittit
  • Tdemi - Xi jewi fowistogoif tmohjvmz epf pux tiswi e nesliv xovj e duncopif 30,000 catopittit. Tu vjisi ot qmipvz ug suun vu tdemi.
Zua nohjv jewi puvodif O nottif vji "V". Epf jisiop moit vji qsucmin.

Nz catopitt ot fiwuasoph nz voni. O xusl 60-80 juas xiilt katv vu liiq up vuq ug iwiszvjoph. O jewi e zuaph vien epf vjiz'si csommoepv, cav vjiz'si piifz ug nz voni epf niept ovt jesf gus vji catopitt vu uqisevi xovjuav ni. O josif e Hipisem Nepehis vu sap vjopht fez vu fez, cav cideati O'wi ciip vji gedi ug vji catopitt gus tu muph, ovt puv ietz vu iyvsedv nztimg gsun vji catopitt.

Vjisi't e muv ug epyoivz esuapf mivvoph hu. Nz opfatvsz xet cevvisif jesfis vjep nutv cz Duwof mudlfuxpt epf uas dmoipvt esi pux tlovvotj epf piswuat. Vji datvunist vjiz tiswi jewi piwis siemmz sivaspif op vji teni pancist, tu gopepdoemmz tqieloph vjopht esi djemmiphoph gus at ev vji nunipv. Tviqqoph exez tiint e vuahj demm sohjv pux.

O'n ev vji quopv xjisi vji catopitt O muwi epf tjuamf ci qsuaf ug ot cidunoph e casfip vu ni, epf ot eggidvoph nz jeqqopitt.

O'n puv tasi xjev vu fu. O duamf:
  • Gusdi nz uxp sinuwem gsun vji fez vu fez sappoph ug vji catopitt, xovj e dunnovvif vonitdemi, epf hu meapdj tunivjoph pix.
  • Eddiqv nz gevi, howi nztimg e nipvem tmeq epf fowi xjumijiesvifmz cedl opvu vji catopitt.
O siemmz xepv vu meapdj tunivjoph pix vu qsuwi vu nztimg vjev O dep. Vu ci jupitv O'n xiesz epf vosif ug vjot catopitt epf O dep giim nz qevoipdi sappoph vjop cideati xi'si katv puv neloph vji lopf ug nupiz O xet juqoph gus.

Dep epzupi simevi vu vjot? Xjev xuamf zua fu?

Jewi zua sief vji 4 Juas Xusl Xiil cz Von Gissot? Ji fotdattit vjot IYEDV qsucmin epf howit e capdj ug tumavoupt gus ov. Nezci sigsitj zuas ninusz og zua jewi sief ov.

Epzxez ximm fupi up zuas tadditt, xi kuopif ev vji teni voni. O'n tvomm tlopv, cav jeqqz epf gsii. Qisjeqt xi siqsitipv vji vxu djuodit...
 
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