Hey guys,
I don't know what my deal is but for some reason i can't seem to get over this anxiety / fear no matter how much i encounter it. I've done some stupid stuff to deal with it. Before, i would get uncomfortable when people asked if i was in school because I'm not and i felt like i'd be judged for that. So after one instance of that, i decided i would talk to 100 strangers and tell them my plans for life to get their opinions on it as a way of confronting that specific fear. I got to about 40 something when i realized how insignificant their opinions were (most people were encouraging by the way).
You'd think after all that i'd have this under control or at least some good defense against it but i don't. I feel like this is the main obstacle in the way of getting where i want to be. I figured out the Law of Effection is the key to success a while before i came across the millionaire fastlane , but the idea of putting myself out there gives me anxiety. It's not even criticism from strangers that scares me it's criticism from people i know and that already know what i do!
It's completely illogical. Because these people know what i do already, and i know their opinions and judgement wouldn't make me quit on my dreams so i don't understand why i let it immobilize me?
Can anyone relate? If so how did you deal with it?
I don't know what my deal is but for some reason i can't seem to get over this anxiety / fear no matter how much i encounter it. I've done some stupid stuff to deal with it. Before, i would get uncomfortable when people asked if i was in school because I'm not and i felt like i'd be judged for that. So after one instance of that, i decided i would talk to 100 strangers and tell them my plans for life to get their opinions on it as a way of confronting that specific fear. I got to about 40 something when i realized how insignificant their opinions were (most people were encouraging by the way).
You'd think after all that i'd have this under control or at least some good defense against it but i don't. I feel like this is the main obstacle in the way of getting where i want to be. I figured out the Law of Effection is the key to success a while before i came across the millionaire fastlane , but the idea of putting myself out there gives me anxiety. It's not even criticism from strangers that scares me it's criticism from people i know and that already know what i do!
It's completely illogical. Because these people know what i do already, and i know their opinions and judgement wouldn't make me quit on my dreams so i don't understand why i let it immobilize me?
Can anyone relate? If so how did you deal with it?
Dislike ads? Remove them and support the forum:
Subscribe to Fastlane Insiders.