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Why I’m posting this thread
Focus and mental clarity.
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Seasoned entrepreneurs can watch the watcher far better than I can right now, so they can help guide my focus back to the habits conducive to attaining results.
They can also aid me in forming systems conducive to long-term success, rather than short-term failure and recurring loopholes which I can slip back into.
What went wrong
I know what the right habits are:
The problem is that I never take any action, and when the wrong actions have been taken, I hide from constructive criticism.
This hasn’t changed despite adopting the rhetoric gurus spew out, such as ‘do the hard work, especially when you don’t feel like it.’
I exhibit ADHD-like traits from having an unclear process; I jump from one business possibility to another without grinding it out and sticking to the same few habits to maximise the ROI.
I could blame it on my personality, blame it on parents, blame it on the weather; I’d rather take ownership of myself.
F*ck this, I’ve got nothing good going for me.
My previous thread titled ‘Fear Of Taking Action, Commitment, And Humiliation; Chronic Escapism Through Books, Fanfics, And YouTube,’ was a love letter to my anxiety and depression; It shed 10 gallons of sorrow on not having anything going for me right now.
MINDSET - Fear of taking action, commitment and humiliation; Chronic escapism through books, fanfics and YouTube
I need to surround myself with doers. Moving away from foul headwinds builds an internal locus of control; it's a necessary step towards finding happiness within myself and getting something good going.
My goals:
Daily:
Weekly:
Focus and mental clarity.
.
Seasoned entrepreneurs can watch the watcher far better than I can right now, so they can help guide my focus back to the habits conducive to attaining results.
They can also aid me in forming systems conducive to long-term success, rather than short-term failure and recurring loopholes which I can slip back into.
What went wrong
I know what the right habits are:
- Work out at least 3 times a week
- Sleep for 8 hours per night
- Track my calories every day
- Morning meditation (10 mins)
- 4 hours of deep work per day
The problem is that I never take any action, and when the wrong actions have been taken, I hide from constructive criticism.
This hasn’t changed despite adopting the rhetoric gurus spew out, such as ‘do the hard work, especially when you don’t feel like it.’
I exhibit ADHD-like traits from having an unclear process; I jump from one business possibility to another without grinding it out and sticking to the same few habits to maximise the ROI.
I could blame it on my personality, blame it on parents, blame it on the weather; I’d rather take ownership of myself.
F*ck this, I’ve got nothing good going for me.
My previous thread titled ‘Fear Of Taking Action, Commitment, And Humiliation; Chronic Escapism Through Books, Fanfics, And YouTube,’ was a love letter to my anxiety and depression; It shed 10 gallons of sorrow on not having anything going for me right now.
MINDSET - Fear of taking action, commitment and humiliation; Chronic escapism through books, fanfics and YouTube
I need to surround myself with doers. Moving away from foul headwinds builds an internal locus of control; it's a necessary step towards finding happiness within myself and getting something good going.
My goals:
Daily:
- Eat 2730 calories per day
- Make 3-5 phone calls per day for moving out
- Sleep for 8 hours per night
- Send off 3-5 applications per day for jobs
- Study e-commerce for 1 hour per day
Weekly:
- Meditate for 3 days per week
- 30 phone calls per week for moving out
- Exercise for 3 days per week (5x5 stronglifts)
- Send off job applications to 30 companies per week for jobs
- Study e-commerce for 7 hours per week
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