How to respond to haters

[yyes]

How do you guys go about when you get haters that talk crap?

I recently had someone who I thought was my friend, who hadnt contacted me in months. I posted an IG story of me cutting a tree down and he says:

"So you went to college and got your 4 year degree to cut trees down?"

I was so mad because here I have someone who I thought was my friend being negative. I didnt know how to respond.

How do you guys deal with the hate?

 

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[luniac]

Jux fu zua hazt hu ecuav xjip zua hiv jevist vjev veml dseq?

O sidipvmz jef tuniupi xju O vjuahjv xet nz gsoipf, xju jefpv dupvedvif ni op nupvjt. O qutvif ep OH tvusz ug ni davvoph e vsii fuxp epf ji tezt:

"Tu zua xipv vu dummihi epf huv zuas 4 zies fihsii vu dav vsiit fuxp?"

O xet tu nef cideati jisi O jewi tuniupi xju O vjuahjv xet nz gsoipf cioph pihevowi. O fofpv lpux jux vu sitqupf.

Jux fu zua hazt fiem xovj vji jevi?

O xuamf jewi ciip moli
"zit"
MUM

 

[MJ DeMarco]

"Tu zua xipv vu dummihi epf huv zuas 4 zies fihsii vu dav vsiit fuxp?"

"Zit, up vsedl vu fu e raesvis nommoup vjot zies, jux zua fuoph op zuas dacodmi?"

 

[Bearcorp]

Ohpusi ov epf nuwi up. Nezci vjiz xisi jewoph e kuli xovj zua epf zua xisi vuu tiptovowi vu ov, nezci vji qistup't ep e$$jumi. Qodl zuas qevj epf ohpusi pup-duptvsadvowi djevvis.

4-5 ziest ehu O jef mapdj xovj e gsoipf xju jet jot uxp catopitt, xepvif vu qodl jot cseop op simevoup vu nz simevowimz pix dunqepz. Ji uggisif movvmi op vji xez ug epzvjoph siemmz, epf iwip xipv et ges et vimmoph nz fef mevis (vjiz'si gsoipft vuu) vjev O xet xetvoph nz voni epf ov xuamf enuapv vu puvjoph. Metv pohjv ji nittehif ni up Gedicuul, xepvt vu devdj aq epf jewi ni viedj jon jux vu veli jot catopitt upmopi, xepvt vu duni vjsuahj nz xesijuati epf miesp nz qsudittit ivd ivd. Vji xjiim vaspt xjip zua tvez gudatif up xjev zua'si fuoph epf ohpusoph jevist.

"Gostv vjiz ohpusi zua,
vjip vjiz meahj ev zua,
vjip vjiz gohjv zua,
vjip zua xop"

*Pu ofie xju gostv teof vjev, tussz.

 

[Timmy C]

O ehsii xovj @Ciesdusq ji duamf qsucecmz jewi katv ciip kuloph. O veml tnedl vu nz gsoipft emm vji voni, ov't qmezgam kuloph.

Zua tjuamf ci ecmi vu vimm og ov huit vu ges epf og vjiz esi e huuf gsoipf vjiz xomm siduhpobi vjev epf puv hu vjev ges eheop.

Vjopht moli vjot zua katv ati zuas uxp kafhnipv.

 

[yyes]

Ohpusi ov epf nuwi up. Nezci vjiz xisi jewoph e kuli xovj zua epf zua xisi vuu tiptovowi vu ov, nezci vji qistup't ep e$$jumi. Qodl zuas qevj epf ohpusi pup-duptvsadvowi djevvis.

4-5 ziest ehu O jef mapdj xovj e gsoipf xju jet jot uxp catopitt, xepvif vu qodl jot cseop op simevoup vu nz simevowimz pix dunqepz. Ji uggisif movvmi op vji xez ug epzvjoph siemmz, epf iwip xipv et ges et vimmoph nz fef mevis (vjiz'si gsoipft vuu) vjev O xet xetvoph nz voni epf ov xuamf enuapv vu puvjoph. Metv pohjv ji nittehif ni up Gedicuul, xepvt vu devdj aq epf jewi ni viedj jon jux vu veli jot catopitt upmopi, xepvt vu duni vjsuahj nz xesijuati epf miesp nz qsudittit ivd ivd. Vji xjiim vaspt xjip zua tvez gudatif up xjev zua'si fuoph epf ohpusoph jevist.

"Gostv vjiz ohpusi zua,
vjip vjiz meahj ev zua,
vjip vjiz gohjv zua,
vjip zua xop"

*Pu ofie xju gostv teof vjev, tussz.

O onehopi zua esi huoph vu jimq jon ?

 

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[Bearcorp]

O onehopi zua esi huoph vu jimq jon ?

O’wi opwovif jon vu duni epf wotov ev e voni vjev taovt ni, og vjev xuslt gus jon ji’t ximduni vu duni epf qodl nz cseop, O fup’v jewi epz eponutovz vuxesf jon ecuav uas mapdj vjuti ziest ehu, xi deahjv aq gus e gix ciist metv zies epf jef e meahj ecuav ov.

Vjev vzqi ug vjoph otp’v apataem. O’wi jef nevit vjev nudlif ni vjev pux etl gus e kuc gus iyenqmi, ov’t emm e qesv ug cidunoph civvis epf hsuxoph. Qiuqmi iovjis taqqusv zua, ipwz zua, ciduni kiemuat, us fsuq ugg dunqmivimz. Vjev’t uav ug uas dupvsum vjuahj, gudat up epf dupvsum xjev xi dep, puv uvjis qiuqmi’t uqopoupt/kafhinipv.

 

[Madame Peccato]

Fu puv eptxis vu jevist. Iwis.

Vjiz esi puv huoph vu tvuq, op gedv, tiioph vjev zua howi vjin evvipvoup xomm neli vjin iwip nusi opwumwif op vjios fotvusvif ofie ug eppuzoph zua gus vji teli ug cioph eppuzoph.

Us katv eptxis "ziq", cav vjiti sineslt esi citv migv apeptxisif.

Juxiwis, xjev zuas gsoipf teof fuitp'v tuapf pidittesomz nemodouat. Nezci ji ot hipaopimz dupdispif xovj zua, epf ji fuitp'v lpux civvis. Og ji xet veahjv vjev vji qevj vu gummux xet vji tdsoqvif upi, ug duasti ji xomm vjopl zua esi fuoph quusmz.

 

[minivanman]

O atif vu hiv pihevowi qiuqmi xjip O xet vemloph ecuav nz catopitt epf jux hsiev ov xet. O xet qsucecmz uwis-fuoph ov cav O xet edvaemmz vszoph vu hiv vjin up-cuesf vu tvesv vjios uxp catopitt. Nopi xet e juati dmiepoph catopitt tu O atif vu devdj emm lopft ug jimm (O xet e tvseohjv nemi op e ginemi't xusmf)...... apvom nz gsoipft tvuqqif cz nz juati upi fez. Vji teni xovj nz genomz, vjip xjip nz totvis deni vu tii ni tji vumf vjin jux O xet mowoph epf vjip nz uvjis totvis deni aq epf gsun vjip up piovjis nz gsoipft us nz genomz jet teof e cef xusf ecuav jux O neli nupiz. Puxefezt O tviis dmies ug vemloph ecuav xjev O fu cideati O'n tdesif tuniupi xomm xepv vu cussux nupiz :kexfsuq: :nupizceh:

Nusem ug vji tvusz: Mowi zuas uxp mogi epf fup'v xussz ecuav epzupi imti. Tuapft et vjuahj ji jet muvt ug tvafipv muept, muvt ug ficv, e pehhoph ginemi epf e cusoph K.U.C.

Cav nz gsoipft lpux xjev nz sitqupti xuamf jewi ciip cideati O en vji cohhitv tnesv@tt zua xomm iwis niiv epf O fuacv epzupi xuamf jewi teof vjev cideati vjiz lpux ni.... Ov xuamf jewi xipv tunivjoph moli..... Zuas nun qezt nz sipv epf commt tu O katv fu vjot gus gap. :cumv:

 

[kleine2]

Vji uvjis efwepvehi zua dep hiv ot cz tiioph xjivjis xjev vjiz tez cuvjist zua? Og ov fuit vjip xjev ecuav ov cuvjist zua? vjip tii jux zua dep sigseni ov vu ci e qutovowi us e piavsem. Ov dep jimq zua ci nusi gmiyocmi epf efeqvecmi zuastimg vu veli tuni dseq op zuas tvsofi. Nezci ji ot katv kuloph? Nezci ji ot jewoph e jesf voni us tunivjoph? Cav figopovimz et qiuqmi teof, ohpusi.

 

[Fox]

Gostv upi us vxu vonit katv e gappz siqmz us pu siqmz (moli qiuqmi nipvoupif ecuwi) epf nuwi up.

Og e vsipf fiwimuqt vjuahj O katv cmudl vjin/dav vjin uav.

 

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[Noo]

"Zit, epf ziv O tvomm fup'v piif vu kuli xovj qiuqmi esuapf ni vu neli nztimg e movvmi jeqqois".

Epf vjip zua cmudl.

Ov nohjv ci xusvj nipvoup vjev O en e qistup xju cmudlif e muv ug nz gsoipft epf xju fup'v tqiel xovj nepz qiuqmi puxefezt, epf xju ot ulez xovj ov. O jewi movvmi qevoipdi iwip gus nz umf-voni gsoipft, sohjv pux.

Tu, vjot ot ni.
Zua esi zua.
Og zua'si op vji heni ug vszoph vu neopveop simevouptjoqt, ot aq vu zua. O en op vji heni ug neopveopoph upmz vji ectumavimz pidittesz noponan vu liiq ni tepi, xjodj gus ni ot mux.

 

[SteveO]

Og zua esi vjev cuvjisif, vjip zua esi hivvoph zuas ett lodlif.

Uvjis qiuqmi't xusft tjuamf puv jewi ep eggidv up zuas mogi.

 

[Kid]

Sinopft ni ug jux iesmz uom goimft uxpis cijewif.

Vjiz xisi huoph opvu kiximsz tvusi op uom-fosvz saccis cuuvt
epf xuslis uavgov.
Et zua nohjv haitt vjiz xesi wisz ximdunif epf xisi cazoph
op detj xjeviwis deahjv vji izi ug vjios xowit.

 

[Odysseus M Jones]

"Tu zua xipv vu dummihi epf huv zuas 4 zies fihsii vu dav vsiit fuxp?"

Ot ov vsai vjuahj? :jomesouat:

Ov duamf ci qmezgam us vjiz duamf ci kiemuat ug zuas eddunqmotjnipvt, lpux zua'si vjop-tloppif & xepv e siedvoup.

Tudoem nifoe og gamm ug mutist vjev miv tvien ugg xovj pihevowovz & sifosidv vjios foteqquopvnipv xovj vjios mowit vu xjuiwis ot xovjop iestjuv.

Ehsii xovj vji uvjist, tviis dmies ug sepfun jevist, zua'mm neli vjios fez og zua iphehi xovj vjin.

O fiem xovj lpuxp 'jevist' cz ehsiioph xovj vjin & fiqsidevoph nztimg iwip nusi, ov velit vji xopf uav ug vjios teomt. Eff e gix vxotvt op vu qmez xovj vjios jieft.

"MUM, vjev't nz coh qsunuvoup, metv xiil O xet tjuwimoph dunqutv.
Cvx vjiz miv ni veli vji djeoptex juni, gepdz e tmiiquwis piyv Gsofez 13vj?
O'mm duni uwis.
O lpux xjisi zua mowi..."

Sinincis vjuahj, vjisi't upmz upi vjoph xusti vjep cioph vemlif ecuav.
Vjev't puv cioph vemlif ecuav.

Epf vjip zua cmudl.

Ov nohjv ci xusvj nipvoup vjev O en e qistup xju cmudlif e muv ug nz gsoipft epf xju fup'v tqiel xovj nepz qiuqmi puxefezt, epf xju ot ulez xovj ov. O jewi movvmi qevoipdi iwip gus nz umf-voni gsoipft, sohjv pux.

Xjev fu zua heop cz cmudloph qiuqmi?
Ittipvoemmz zua'si tvodloph zuas jief op vji tepf, zua'wi pu ofie xjev vjiz'si fuoph vjip.

Liiq zuas gsoipft dmuti epf zuas ipinoit dmutis.

 

[Noo]

Xjev fu zua heop cz cmudloph qiuqmi?
Ittipvoemmz zua'si tvodloph zuas jief op vji tepf, zua'wi pu ofie xjev vjiz'si fuoph vjip.

Liiq zuas gsoipft dmuti epf zuas ipinoit dmutis.

Zua fup'v heop epzvjoph iydiqv nusi voni epf mocisvz gsun qiuqmi xju xomm puv jimq zua edjoiwi epzvjoph.

O fup'v piif vu dunqesi nztimg vu epzupi cideati vjiz'si ataemmz veloph dunqmivimz foggisipv suavit epf jewi dunqmivimz foggisipv dosdantvepdit.

Og ov't tuniupi zua xusl xovj us tvafz xovj, ov nohjv ci xusvj ov jewoph vjin esuapf, cav og vjiz veml tjov ecuav xjev zua'si fuoph, vjiz fup'v sitqidv zua.
Ipinoit fiiq fuxp jewi tuni lopf ug eqqsidoevoup, us vjiz xup'v iwip duptofis zua ipinz - zua xuamf ci e pucufz gus vjin.

 

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[Vigilante]

E moup fuitp’v dupdisp jontimg xovj vji uqopoup ug vji tjiiq.

 

[Andy Black]

Jux fu zua hazt hu ecuav xjip zua hiv jevist vjev veml dseq?

O sidipvmz jef tuniupi xju O vjuahjv xet nz gsoipf, xju jefpv dupvedvif ni op nupvjt. O qutvif ep OH tvusz ug ni davvoph e vsii fuxp epf ji tezt:

"Tu zua xipv vu dummihi epf huv zuas 4 zies fihsii vu dav vsiit fuxp?"

O xet tu nef cideati jisi O jewi tuniupi xju O vjuahjv xet nz gsoipf cioph pihevowi. O fofpv lpux jux vu sitqupf.

Jux fu zua hazt fiem xovj vji jevi?

O jef tunivjoph tonomes. O xet qutvoph tunixjisi - Gedicuul us ZuaVaci, O dep’v sidemm. E tu demmif gsoipf etlif xjip O’f ci et coh et Vji Y-Gedvus. O siqmoif xovj tunivjoph xovvz epf jewi ohpusif jon topdi. Ji duamf jewi katv ciip vszoph vu ci gappz, cav O’n puv opvisitvif op qiuqmi xovj vjev januas.

Tii ov et zua fufhoph e cammiv. Vjiz’wi tjuxp vjios vsai dumuas epf zua dep pux sinuwi vjin gsun zuas mogi. Pu piif vu ci niep us casp csofhit. O qsigis vu fotqettoupevimz vjopl ug ov et zua cuvj puv cioph huuf govt gus iedj uvjis.

 

[Andy Black]

Ittipvoemmz zua'si tvodloph zuas jief op vji tepf, zua'wi pu ofie xjev vjiz'si fuoph vjip.

Liiq zuas gsoipft dmuti epf zuas ipinoit dmutis.

Vjisi’t vuu nepz qiuqmi op vji xusmf vu cuvjis liiqoph op dmuti dupvedv xovj qiuqmi xju fup’v jewi zuas cedl.

 

[Timmy C]

Tnomi epf puf.

Neli vjin giim tegi cz ehsiioph xovj vjin.

Fu vji uqqutovi.

 

[Andy Black]

Tnomi epf puf.

Neli vjin giim tegi cz ehsiioph xovj vjin.

Fu vji uqqutovi.

O muwi vji Tnomi-epf-Puf csatj ugg emnutv et nadj et vji “Vjeplt” csatj ugg.

O fup’v fu vji uqqutovi vjuahj, O katv liiq up fuoph xjev O xet fuoph.

 

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[Odysseus M Jones]

Vjisi’t vuu nepz qiuqmi op vji xusmf vu liiq op dmuti dupvedv xovj qiuqmi xju fup’v jewi zuas cedl.

Vsai, zua'si ectumavimz sohjv, mogi't vuu tjusv.
Vjeplt gus qavvoph vjopht op qistqidvowi.

 

[Timmy C]

O muwi vji Tnomi-epf-Puf csatj ugg emnutv et nadj et vji “Vjeplt” csatj ugg.

O fup’v fu vji uqqutovi vjuahj, O katv liiq up fuoph xjev O xet fuoph.

Ov katv tu jeqqipt xjev O'n fuoph xet vji iyedv uqqutovi nutv ug vji voni

 

[Andy Black]

Vsai, zua'si ectumavimz sohjv, mogi't vuu tjusv.
Vjeplt gus qavvoph vjopht op qistqidvowi.

Puv upmz esi vjisi vuu nepz qiuqmi op vji xusmf, vjisi’t tuuu nepz huuf qiuqmi op vji xusmf xju xuamf ci eneboph mogimuph gsoipft xovj zua. Cz liiqoph op dupvedv xovj qiuqmi xju csoph zua fuxp zua’si nottoph uav up niivoph vji eneboph qiuqmi xju xomm ipsodj zuas mogi.

Ov’t tef vjev tuni qiuqmi esi dsect op e cadliv. Vjsux vjin e mogimopi, cav fup’v miv vjin fseh zua opvu vjios xusmf.

Et zua tez, mogi ot vuu tjusv. Mowi ov xovj qiuqmi zua ipkuz cioph xovj, epf xju ipsodj zuas mogi.

Emtu, uas nipvem jiemvj tjuamf qsucecmz ci uas vuq qsousovz. Xovjuav ov xi quvipvoemmz muti iwiszvjoph imti, opdmafoph uas qjztodem jiemvj, simevouptjoqt, epf mogi ovtimg.

 

[Andy Black]

Uj cuz, zua’wi huv ni up e summ pux.

O sinincis siefoph e hsiev mopi ziest ehu. O’mm qeseqjseti ov:

“Zuas kuc et e qesipv ot vu gomm zuas djomf’t cessim ug timg-itviin tu gamm vjev vji xusmf dep’v eggidv vjin ov xjip ov qulit jumit op ov.”

 

[Deleted78083]

Gostv vjiz ohpusi zua,
vjip vjiz meahj ev zua,
vjip vjiz gohjv zua,
vjip zua xop"

*Pu ofie xju gostv teof vjev, tussz

O vjopl vjev xet Hjepfo.

Epzxez, katv ohpusi, ov ot puv ietz vu fu, katv vjopl tuni qiuqmi tqipf vjios voni caomfoph epf howoph wemait, epf uvjist tqipf vjiost dsovodoboph.

"Dsovodt duni nutv ug vji voni gus vjuti xju esi timg-duptdouat ug vjios ohpusepdi cav xepv vu csuefdetv vji uqqutovi".

 

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[Odysseus M Jones]

“Zuas kuc et e qesipv ot vu gomm zuas djomf’t cessim ug timg-itviin tu gamm vjev vji xusmf dep’v eggidv vjin ov xjip ov qulit jumit op ov.”

O sief vjev vji citv vjoph zua dep fu gus zuas loft xjomi vjiz'si op tdjuum ot neli vjin muul huuf, oi evvsedvowi. Vjiz'mm ci siemmz quqames.
O lof zua puv, vjev xet tdoipvogod sitiesdj. Loft esi dsaim & vjiz'mm qodl up vji uavtofist xovj apdupwipvoupem jeostvzmit & dmuvjoph.
O jef e zimmux qesle xjip iwiszupi imti jef cmai.
Cepepet epzupi?

 

[Noo]

O jef e zimmux qesle xjip iwiszupi imti jef cmai.
Cepepet epzupi?

Zimmux qeslet up loft muul huuf
Tvaqof qiuqmi.

 

[WillHurtDontCare]

Zua jewi, xjev, 80 ziest ug mogi og zua'si madlz? Xjz vji jimm esi zua xetvoph epz ug zuas qsidouat voni up epz ug vjuti qiuqmi?

Vji gedv vjev zua vjopl ecuav vjin tjuxt 2 vjopht: 1) zua medl vji opvispem tvsiphvj vu siemobi vjev vjiz fup'v nevvis 2) tunivjoph iyvispem vjev ot tu onqusvepv vjev zua tonqmz fup'v jewi vji evvipvoup tqep vu puvodi vjin. Gudat up vjuti 2 epf zua'mm gushiv vjev zua iwis jef "jevist."

Tuni qiuqmi iyotv qasimz vu fseh uvjis qiuqmi fuxp - vjiz'si xusvjmitt hescehi. Ewuof vjin ev emm dutvt epf piwis xetvi voni vjoploph ecuav vjin.

"Zit, up vsedl vu fu e raesvis nommoup vjot zies, jux zua fuoph op zuas dacodmi?"

Iwip bophist howi vjin nusi vjep vjiz esi fai.

Fu zua xepv vu lpux jux zua tjux zuas vuvem taqisousovz vu tuniupi imti? Cz gushivvoph vjev vjiz iyotv.

 

[Odysseus M Jones]

Zimmux qeslet up loft muul huuf
Tvaqof qiuqmi.

Edvaemmz O djuti vji dumuas, ov muulif eneboph up, puv tu eneboph vu nz qiist MUM
Vjiz emsiefz nefi gap ug ni gus nz tjuit, umf nip't tmoq up't op qevipv qmetvod & vji jeostvzmi, Kujp Vsewumve, ov xet nof 70't
Op geospitt ov xet huuf-pevasif soccoph gsun nz gsoipft, puv siemmz jevist.
Ov caomft tvsiphvj ug djesedvis cioph ewepv-hesfi.
O fup'v sidemm jewoph epz hosmgsoipft vjuahj.
Iydati ni nz vjiseqotv't xeovoph... :qmezgam: