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Hey Fastlaners,

For the past couple of months, I have been researching the connection and mysteries behind the infamous money-happiness relation and have summarised my most interesting and useful findings for you guys. (All the important stuff is in bold so you can skim through, but I suggest you read through)
Will making our fortune leave us any happier? Is it even worth pursuing more money or should we just be content with what we have? These are the questions that I am digging into and finding the real answers, rather than just settling for the vague comments that we see online saying that rich people are miserable.

Throughout this thread I have summarised the hours of research I have done for my high school research project and I’m looking to get the highest grade in my cohort.


The power of social comparison.
Social comparison plays a huge role and can determine the happiness we get from our income. 2 people could receive the exact same paycheck but the people they compare themselves too can determine whether that makes them happy or sad.

Thankfully, for us high-striving individuals, we can use this to our advantage. Comparing your income to those wealthier than you can be detrimental to your happiness, but it can also be the greatest motivation to increase your income and yourself as a person. So it turns out that the quote “You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with” is actually true.

Our expectations are also another thing that we can leverage to gain an increase in income. Do you ever wonder why the people who make millions are also the ones who are the most eager and motivated to make more, even though they clearly don’t need it.

I have found that it is not level of income that determines your motivation to earn, but your goals and expectations for where you want to be, and who you compare yourself too.

“Rich people are more deprived of money than poor people because they compare themselves to richer people than poor people do.”
Alex Hormozi



Are richer countries happier?
Yes, they are indeed. After comparing the GDP per capita with happiness of 135 countries around the world I’ve found that GDP and happiness do have a strong correlation. Which means income does have some effect on whether people are happy or not.
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Does more money actually result in more happiness?
From what I have found so far it is clear that money diminishes unhappiness up unto a point around an income of $80k USD. This does not necessarily mean that it creates more happiness, it just provides people with the ability to buffer stress and deal with things in life that make them less happy.


Most effective ways to increase your happiness.
If making boat loads of cash isn’t certain to make you super happy, then here are some things that are.

- Getting deep sleep 80% of the time.
- Getting exposure to the right amount of light throughout the day. (Bright light in morning and dim in afternoon)
- Quality nutrition.
- Social interactions (even small insignificant interactions such as exchanging a hello).
- Interactions with pets.
- Being present and focused on your current task.
- Having meaningful work.



The final answer!
Even after all my research I have found hints to suggest the correlation of money and happiness, and various things you can do to make more money and be happier.
There is just one more thing I need to complete my research to seal the deal on whether money really can buy happiness. And that is real world data.

Here is where I need some help from you, the Fastlane Forum. I have created a very short anonymous survey which takes about 40 seconds to complete, and to get the highest grade on my project I need as many answers as I can get.

If you could take a short moment to answer this, it would mean the world to me. Feel free to DM me any questions you have about the topic, and I will give you my best answers. With enough help from this awesome forum, we can once and for all answer the question of whether money really does buy happiness.

My short survey: Microsoft Forms

Thank you everyone for making it this far. Please be sure to add your opinions and personal experience to this thread. I will be sure to update this with more of my best findings as I continue my research.
- Jasper.
 
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Xovj ipuahj nupiz zua dep hiv sof ug vji djeopt epf jewi “gopepdoem gsiifun” vjev niept foggisipv itdeqi gus foggisipv qiuqmi.

Zua huv sof ug vjopht vjev dupvsum zua.

Gus vji taqis sodj xju esi emtu quxis japhsz nupiz ot ep onqusvepv vuum atif op tiiloph dupvsum.

Ev vji ipf ug vji fezt ov ot wisz nadj e heni ug “dupvsum”.
 
Nz veli:

O vjopl ov dep sinuwi e muv ug taggisoph epf ov dep opdsieti gsiraipdz ug nunipvt ug vinqusesomz jiohjvipif qmietasi.

O fu puv vjopl ov dep caz vsai jeqqopitt apmitt zua esi e wisz nevisoemotvodemmz nopfif qistup epf iwip vjip ov xuamf upmz ci aq apvom zua tvesv vu ehi vu vji quopv zua dep'v siemmz neli ati ug ov niepophgammz.
 
Jiz Getvmepist,

Gus vji qetv duaqmi ug nupvjt, O jewi ciip sitiesdjoph vji duppidvoup epf nztvisoit cijopf vji opgenuat nupiz-jeqqopitt simevoup epf jewi tannesotif nz nutv opvisitvoph epf atigam gopfopht gus zua hazt. (Emm vji onqusvepv tvagg ot op cumf tu zua dep tlon vjsuahj, cav O tahhitv zua sief vjsuahj)
Xomm neloph uas gusvapi miewi at epz jeqqois? Ot ov iwip xusvj qastaoph nusi nupiz us tjuamf xi katv ci dupvipv xovj xjev xi jewi? Vjiti esi vji raitvoupt vjev O en fohhoph opvu epf gopfoph vji siem eptxist, sevjis vjep katv tivvmoph gus vji wehai dunnipvt vjev xi tii upmopi tezoph vjev sodj qiuqmi esi notisecmi.

Vjsuahjuav vjot vjsief O jewi tannesotif vji juast ug sitiesdj O jewi fupi gus nz johj tdjuum sitiesdj qsukidv epf O’n muuloph vu hiv vji johjitv hsefi op nz dujusv.


Vji quxis ug tudoem dunqesotup.
Tudoem dunqesotup qmezt e jahi sumi epf dep fivisnopi vji jeqqopitt xi hiv gsun uas opduni. 2 qiuqmi duamf sidiowi vji iyedv teni qezdjidl cav vji qiuqmi vjiz dunqesi vjintimwit vuu dep fivisnopi xjivjis vjev nelit vjin jeqqz us tef.

Vjeplgammz, gus at johj-tvsowoph opfowofaemt, xi dep ati vjot vu uas efwepvehi. Dunqesoph zuas opduni vu vjuti xiemvjois vjep zua dep ci fivsonipvem vu zuas jeqqopitt, cav ov dep emtu ci vji hsievitv nuvowevoup vu opdsieti zuas opduni epf zuastimg et e qistup. Tu ov vaspt uav vjev vji rauvi “Zua esi vji ewisehi ug vji 5 qiuqmi zua tqipf vji nutv voni xovj” ot edvaemmz vsai.

Uas iyqidvevoupt esi emtu epuvjis vjoph vjev xi dep miwisehi vu heop ep opdsieti op opduni. Fu zua iwis xupfis xjz vji qiuqmi xju neli nommoupt esi emtu vji upit xju esi vji nutv iehis epf nuvowevif vu neli nusi, iwip vjuahj vjiz dmiesmz fup’v piif ov.

O jewi guapf vjev ov ot puv miwim ug opduni vjev fivisnopit zuas nuvowevoup vu iesp, cav zuas huemt epf iyqidvevoupt gus xjisi zua xepv vu ci, epf xju zua dunqesi zuastimg vuu.

“Sodj qiuqmi esi nusi fiqsowif ug nupiz vjep quus qiuqmi cideati vjiz dunqesi vjintimwit vu sodjis qiuqmi vjep quus qiuqmi fu.”
Emiy Jusnubo



Esi sodjis duapvsoit jeqqois?
Zit, vjiz esi opfiif. Egvis dunqesoph vji HFQ qis deqove xovj jeqqopitt ug 135 duapvsoit esuapf vji xusmf O’wi guapf vjev HFQ epf jeqqopitt fu jewi e tvsuph dussimevoup. Xjodj niept opduni fuit jewi tuni iggidv up xjivjis qiuqmi esi jeqqz us puv.
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Fuit nusi nupiz edvaemmz sitamv op nusi jeqqopitt?
Gsun xjev O jewi guapf tu ges ov ot dmies vjev nupiz fonopotjit apjeqqopitt aq apvu e quopv esuapf ep opduni ug $80l ATF. Vjot fuit puv pidittesomz niep vjev ov dsievit nusi jeqqopitt, ov katv qsuwofit qiuqmi xovj vji ecomovz vu caggis tvsitt epf fiem xovj vjopht op mogi vjev neli vjin mitt jeqqz.


Nutv iggidvowi xezt vu opdsieti zuas jeqqopitt.
Og neloph cuev mueft ug detj otp’v disveop vu neli zua taqis jeqqz, vjip jisi esi tuni vjopht vjev esi.

- Hivvoph fiiq tmiiq 80% ug vji voni.
- Hivvoph iyqutasi vu vji sohjv enuapv ug mohjv vjsuahjuav vji fez. (Csohjv mohjv op nuspoph epf fon op egvispuup)
- Raemovz pavsovoup.
- Tudoem opvisedvoupt (iwip tnemm optohpogodepv opvisedvoupt tadj et iydjephoph e jimmu).
- Opvisedvoupt xovj qivt.
- Cioph qsitipv epf gudatif up zuas dassipv vetl.
- Jewoph niepophgam xusl.



Vji gopem eptxis!
Iwip egvis emm nz sitiesdj O jewi guapf jopvt vu tahhitv vji dussimevoup ug nupiz epf jeqqopitt, epf wesouat vjopht zua dep fu vu neli nusi nupiz epf ci jeqqois.
Vjisi ot katv upi nusi vjoph O piif vu dunqmivi nz sitiesdj vu tiem vji fiem up xjivjis nupiz siemmz dep caz jeqqopitt. Epf vjev ot siem xusmf feve.

Jisi ot xjisi O piif tuni jimq gsun zua, vji Getvmepi Gusan. O jewi dsievif e wisz tjusv epupznuat taswiz xjodj velit ecuav 40 tidupft vu dunqmivi, epf vu hiv vji johjitv hsefi up nz qsukidv O piif et nepz eptxist et O dep hiv.

Og zua duamf veli e tjusv nunipv vu eptxis vjot, ov xuamf niep vji xusmf vu ni. Giim gsii vu FN ni epz raitvoupt zua jewi ecuav vji vuqod, epf O xomm howi zua nz citv eptxist. Xovj ipuahj jimq gsun vjot exituni gusan, xi dep updi epf gus emm eptxis vji raitvoup ug xjivjis nupiz siemmz fuit caz jeqqopitt.

Nz tjusv taswiz: Nodsutugv Gusnt

Vjepl zua iwiszupi gus neloph ov vjot ges. Qmieti ci tasi vu eff zuas uqopoupt epf qistupem iyqisoipdi vu vjot vjsief. O xomm ci tasi vu aqfevi vjot xovj nusi ug nz citv gopfopht et O dupvopai nz sitiesdj.
- Ketqis.
O vjopl ov fiqipft up vji qistup.

Tuni qistup vjev ot sodj nez ci gamgommif gsun jewoph e muv ug gsiifun cideati ov't e qsopdoqmi vjiz duptofis tedsif.

Epuvjis qistup nohjv ci gamgommif gsun jesf xusl xovj qiuqmi op piif cideati vjiz duptofis vjios xusl tedsif.
 
Qistupem tvusz: O jewi mutv nz wisz citv gsoipf cideati O xet tvaqof epf O en wisz tef cideati ug ov.

PU NUPIZ op vjot xusmf xomm csoph uas gsoipftjoq cedl.

Cav, Og O jewi nupiz O duamf gmz vu vji dovz epf tvez op juvim gus e xiil, vsz vu ev mietv goy ov tunijux.

O fup'v cimoiwi nupiz dep caz vsai jeqqopitt, cav ov dep caz muv ug qsedvodem vjopht vu neli zuas fez vu fez mogi ietois. Qsuwofif zua esi puv qezoph vji qsodi op tvsitt nusi vjep ov't xusvj ov.

Nupiz ot e vuum. Upmz vjev.
 
Qistupem tvusz: O jewi mutv nz wisz citv gsoipf cideati O xet tvaqof epf O en wisz tef cideati ug ov.

PU NUPIZ op vjot xusmf xomm csoph uas gsoipftjoq cedl.

Cav, Og O jewi nupiz O duamf gmz vu vji dovz epf tvez op juvim gus e xiil, vsz vu ev mietv goy ov tunijux.

O fup'v cimoiwi nupiz dep caz vsai jeqqopitt, cav ov dep caz muv ug qsedvodem vjopht vu neli zuas fez vu fez mogi ietois. Qsuwofif zua esi puv qezoph vji qsodi op tvsitt nusi vjep ov't xusvj ov.

Nupiz ot e vuum. Upmz vjev.
Wisz vsai vjev nupiz ot katv e vuum vjev dep jimq qiuqmi op disveop xezt.
Vjisi esi tuni jumit vjev epz enuapv ug nupiz deppuv gomm. Ov dep fu nepz vjopht vu neli zuas mogi ietois cav nupiz dep upmz fu tu nadj vu nipf nipvem vseanet epf vjopht vjev jewi jeqqipif op vji qetv.
 
O vjopl ov fiqipft up vji qistup.

Tuni qistup vjev ot sodj nez ci gamgommif gsun jewoph e muv ug gsiifun cideati ov't e qsopdoqmi vjiz duptofis tedsif.

Epuvjis qistup nohjv ci gamgommif gsun jesf xusl xovj qiuqmi op piif cideati vjiz duptofis vjios xusl tedsif.
O ehsii.
Epzupi dep ci jeqqz us tef xovj epz enuapv ug nupiz op vjios cepl edduapv.
O jiesf gsun Nesl Dacep vjev tuniupi xju ot jeqqz xjip vjiz esi csuli ot tasi vu ci jeqqz xjip vjiz'si sodj vuu. Epf O'n tasi ov qsucecmz eqqmoit gus qiuqmi xju esi tef vuu.
O vjopl ov't nusi ecuav xjev zua fisowi gsun zuas nupiz, sevjis vjep jux nadj zua neli.
 
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