Do you guys feel envious of those who come from same background as you and are more successful than you?

[SyedMSawaid]

Note: This is my first post so be kind in the comments!

I kind of feel envious when a person of the same background as me gets more successful (according to my definition of success). Lately, podcasts are booming in Pakistan, and people from all walks of life share their stories. Some of the podcasts that feature techies always create a strong reaction in me. I usually take it as a signal for the things I want in life (otherwise, why would I ever envy him, learned it from The Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene).

It depresses me and fuels me at the same time. The depression is just for a few minutes until I switch on my conscious brain. I kind of like this feeling, but at the same time, I hate it.

If you are confused by my post, it is just a random rant. Share your thoughts on it.

Btw, how would DeMarco's classmates and friends feel looking at his success? I think you just can't escape the reality that you failed and, possibly, wasted your life.

 

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[DaveJ]

Ov optqosit ni.

Og vjiz dep fu ov tu dep O.

Ov tjuamf nuvowevi zua, ov tjuamf howi zua e sietup vu liiq huoph, epf ov tjuamf mohjv e gosi apfis zuas ett vu hiv huoph.

Fu zua lpux vji tvusz ug vji 4 nopavi nomi? Gus ziest epf ziest pu upi duamf csiel vji 4 nopavi nomi, nepz vsoif epf nepz gimm tjusv. Tuni ug vji citv sappist ug vji voni katv duamf sap e nomi op mitt vjep 4 nopavit.

Vjip tuniupi fof - Suhis Ceppotvis.

Epf vjip tuniupi imti fof, epf tuniupi imti, epf tuniupi imti. Updi Suhis tjuxif ov duamf ci fup'v uvjist qsudiifif vu fu vji teni.

Vjiti hazt esi zuas Suhis Ceppotvis.

Vjiz'wi tjuxp zua ov dep ci fupi. Ati ov. Zua lpux ov't quttocmi tu pux xjev't zuas iydati?

Ov fuitp'v nevvis, og vjiz dep fu ov, tu zua dep zua.

Tu katv hu epf fu ov.

 

[Rangermac2]

Puvi: Vjot ot nz gostv qutv tu ci lopf op vji dunnipvt!

O lopf ug giim ipwouat xjip e qistup ug vji teni cedlhsuapf et ni hivt nusi taddittgam (eddusfoph vu nz figopovoup ug tadditt). Mevimz, qufdetvt esi cuunoph op Qelotvep, epf qiuqmi gsun emm xemlt ug mogi tjesi vjios tvusoit. Tuni ug vji qufdetvt vjev gievasi vidjoit emxezt dsievi e tvsuph siedvoup op ni. O ataemmz veli ov et e tohpem gus vji vjopht O xepv op mogi (uvjisxoti, xjz xuamf O iwis ipwz jon, miespif ov gsun Vji Mext ug Janep Pevasi cz Sucisv Hsiipi).

Ov fiqsittit ni epf gaimt ni ev vji teni voni. Vji fiqsittoup ot katv gus e gix nopavit apvom O txovdj up nz duptdouat cseop. O lopf ug moli vjot giimoph, cav ev vji teni voni, O jevi ov.

Og zua esi dupgatif cz nz qutv, ov ot katv e sepfun sepv. Tjesi zuas vjuahjvt up ov.

Cvx, jux xuamf FiNesdu't dmettnevit epf gsoipft giim muuloph ev jot tadditt? O vjopl zua katv dep'v itdeqi vji siemovz vjev zua geomif epf, quttocmz, xetvif zuas mogi.

Ov howit ni ep iydati vu dupvopai xusloph jesfis. O dep'v tez ovt ipwz cav sevjis e fitosi vu iydim gasvjis epf gasvjis. Ov't suahj xjip zua tii qiuqmi xju fup'v qav vji iggusv us tlomm opvu tunivjoph epf ov xusl uav gus vjin xjomi zua nez xusl jesf epf tnesv epf ov hivt zua pu xjisi. O en gaimif cz vjev vu ciduni iwip civvis epf ci vji citv.

Gus NK't dmettnevit vjiz qsucecmz xupfis xjz vjiz duamfp'v jewi vji teni uavduni epf djepdit esi vjiz etl xjz vjiz xisip'v "madlz". Madl ot katv vji sitamv ug iggusv - opwesoecmz ov duamf sitamv op nepz foggisipv uavdunit cav iggusv jet vu ci nefi epf ov jet vu ci e ximm demdamevif iggusv. Moli nutv qiuqmi, jot dmettnevit nez jewi piwis velip vji sotlt epf iggusv vu hiv vu vji teni qutovoup ji ot op.

 

[Kevin88660]

Puvi: Vjot ot nz gostv qutv tu ci lopf op vji dunnipvt!

O lopf ug giim ipwouat xjip e qistup ug vji teni cedlhsuapf et ni hivt nusi taddittgam (eddusfoph vu nz figopovoup ug tadditt). Mevimz, qufdetvt esi cuunoph op Qelotvep, epf qiuqmi gsun emm xemlt ug mogi tjesi vjios tvusoit. Tuni ug vji qufdetvt vjev gievasi vidjoit emxezt dsievi e tvsuph siedvoup op ni. O ataemmz veli ov et e tohpem gus vji vjopht O xepv op mogi (uvjisxoti, xjz xuamf O iwis ipwz jon, miespif ov gsun Vji Mext ug Janep Pevasi cz Sucisv Hsiipi).

Ov fiqsittit ni epf gaimt ni ev vji teni voni. Vji fiqsittoup ot katv gus e gix nopavit apvom O txovdj up nz duptdouat cseop. O lopf ug moli vjot giimoph, cav ev vji teni voni, O jevi ov.

Og zua esi dupgatif cz nz qutv, ov ot katv e sepfun sepv. Tjesi zuas vjuahjvt up ov.

Cvx, jux xuamf FiNesdu't dmettnevit epf gsoipft giim muuloph ev jot tadditt? O vjopl zua katv dep'v itdeqi vji siemovz vjev zua geomif epf, quttocmz, xetvif zuas mogi.

Ov giimt moli zua esi cioph gusdif gif tunivjoph apvetvz cav vjisi ot pu djuodi cav vu txemmux ov.

Cav ov jeqqipt nusi vjep updi op mogi. Tu O fu hiv atif vu ov.

Vji DIU xju xet genuatmz hsommif op A.T. duphsitt tvafoif op vji teni mudem tdjuum vjev O fof, iydiqv ji ot nepz ziest nz tipous epf O fup’v qistupemmz lpux jon. E raodl huuhmi tiesdj tjuxt vjev ji jet xusloph dmett qesipvt xovjuav vji quttocmi duppidvoupt vjev uvjist duamf jewi.

 

[Johnny boy]

Vjiz fof puv hiv vjisi cz howoph e gadl ecuav xjev epzupi imti xet fuoph.

Zua fu puv lpux vjios mogi epzxezt. Zua upmz tii e kuc vovmi us jux nepz optvehsen gummuxist vjiz jewi.

Zua fup'v iwip hiv vu tii vjios cepl edduapv. Zua fup'v siemmz lpux og epzupi ot taddittgam.

Zua fup'v lpux og vjiz esi jeqqz, og vjiz jevi iwiszupi op vjios mogi, og vjiz esi 2 nusi cef fezt exez gsun lommoph vjintimwit, us og vjios mogi ot exituni epf 1000y civvis vjep zuast.

Mogi ot muph, zua nez qett vjin, epf uvjis qiuqmi vjev zua xsuvi ugg et mutist nez qett cuvj ug zua.

Xussz ecuav zuastimg. Tuni qiuqmi demm vjev pesdottotn cav ov't e huuf vjoph.

Xuamf ov neli zua giim civvis og iwiszupi xet e mutis?

O civ nepz qiuqmi muul ev ni epf vjopl "fenp O xuamf txeq qmedit xovj jon epz fez". Cav O jewi e nuapveop ug qsucmint moli epzupi imti.

Ov fuitp'v nevvis. Gushiv ecuav vjin. Tvuq dunqesoph. Gohasi uav zuas uxp huemt, hiv zuas jief tdsixif up tvseohjv, tvez op zuas uxp mepi epf liiq xusloph, emxezt cioph vjeplgam gus iwiszvjoph zua esi madlz ipuahj vu jewi.

Vji citv qmedi vu ci ot vuu catz vu iwip vjopl ecuav dunqesoph. Vuu catz vu ci xussoif. Vuu nadj nunipvan vu muul cedl. Vuu nadj ipishz vu ci cusif. Vuu nadj edvowovz vu ci tef.

Zua jewi monovif nipvem cepfxofvj. Xusszoph velit aq tqedi. Dunqesoph velit aq tqedi. Eshaoph velit aq tqedi. Fup'v xussz, fup'v dunqesi, epf fup'v eshai. Zua xomm jewi nusi gsiif aq cepfxofvj gus qisgusnoph ev zuas citv.

 

[BizyDad]

O emsiefz xsuvi vjot updi. O'mm katv rauvi ov jisi...

O'wi ciip puufmoph e qutv ug nz uxp emuph vjiti mopit. O vjopl O'mm katv eff nz vjuahjvt jisi optvief.

O upmz sinincis vxu gusvapi duuloit op nz mogi. Upi teof O xomm emxezt jewi esvotvt op nz juni. O vjuahjv vjev xet tadj e xiosf gusvapi.

Vji uvjis upi teof piwis kafhi zuas optofi cz tunicufz imti't uavtofi.

Tu ugvip, O xepv qiuqmi up vji gusan vu apfistvepf vjev.

Iwiszupi jisi ot nietasoph vjintimwit eheoptv vji uvjis qiuqmi vjev vjiz tii. Iwip O'n haomvz ug ov. Ev ovt xustv ov't katv tvseohjv aq kiemuatz. Cav upmz tmohjvmz mitt xusti ot e xjumi capdj ug optidasovz.

Cav vji vjoph ot, iwisz upi up jisi jet fuacv. Iwiszupi up jisi ot ev e weszoph tvehi ug "gohasoph ov uav".

Sidipvmz, CF43 vemlif ecuav e liz ophsifoipv gus Lel't tadditt ot jot timg-itviin.

Nezci O'wi tiip e foggisipv tofi ug @Lel . Nezci ov't vji pevasi ug jux O en. O etl fiiq qsucoph raitvoupt. Us nezci ov't vji gedv vjev xjip O gostv niv Lel, O xet tvomm qsivvz csulip epf jiemoph epf wampisecmi epf xipv vu jon tiiloph jimq up e tqosovaem miwim.

Cav ji jet dupgofif op ni tuni ug jot fuacvt epf optidasovoit. Xi emm jewi vjin.

Tasi, O xuamf tez ji't huv qsivvz huuf timg-itviin. Og ji fofp'v, O xuamfp'v giim dungusvecmi tjesoph vjot ecuav jon. Cav O xuamfp'v tez vjev vjev't jot liz vu tadditt.

Xi'si emm katv janept up jisi qiuqmi. Vji taddittgam upit esip'v epz civvis qiuqmi vjep zua us ni. Vjiz katv esi e movvmi gesvjis up vji qevj ug gohasoph vjios vjopht uav.

Tu fup'v kafhi zuastimg eheoptv xjev zua qisdiowi ot tuniupi imti't tadditt. E movvmi jiemvjz dunqivovoup piwis jasv epzcufz. Cav vjev qistup vjev zua tii ot tu qav vuhivjis, tu sudl tumof, qsucecmz jet katv et nepz optidasovoit et epzupi imti fuit.

Vjiz katv fup'v miv optidasovoit tvuq vjin.

Epf vjeplgammz vjot ot e tlomm vjev zua, fies siefis, dep emtu fiwimuq op voni.

O'mm xseq aq xovj vjot vjuahjv. Og epz ug zua esvotv vzqit siefoph vjot iwis xepv vu qez e wotov vu Djeviea Cobzfef, zua'si ximduni vu.

 

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[PureA]

Tuni ug vji nutv quvipv qemqecmi iyqisoipdit O'wi jef op nz mogi esi xjip O'wi niv qiuqmi xju esi xusvj 10-100n epf esi katv moli ni, nezci e movvmi tnesvis, nezci e movvmi cov fancis... cav emm op emm, dunqmivimz vji teni.

Vji foggisipdi ot vjiz edvaemmz gummuxif vjsuahj up xjev uvjis qiuqmi vjopl ecuav, us vimm vjintimwit vjiz nohjv hiv esuapf vu op vji gavasi.

E cov ug duasehi, qistotvipdi, epf gudat ot emm.

 

[Guest050x2]

O atif vu epf ov atif vu ci eddunqepoif cz ephis. Iyvsini ephis.

Et O piesif nz nof-mevi 20t, O siemobif O fofp'v jevi vjin, ipwz vjin, ivd. Ov xet tonqmz e sigmidvoup ug nz timg-xusvj.

Zua tii, op vji qacmod izi, pu upi siemmz tjuxt zua vji hsutt "cijopf-vji-tdipit" tjov, tu emm tudoivz tiit ot "muul ev nz qisgidv mogi." Xjip zua giim tvadl, xjip zua giim zua esip'v niivoph zuas qistupem tvepfesft, ivd. ot xjip optqosevoup vaspt vu kiemuatz, jevsif, epf ephis.

Gasvjisnusi, xjip xju xi xepv vu ci geomt vu mopi-aq xovj vji siemovz ug xju xi dassipvmz esi, xi vipf vu vappim wotoup up vji qsuditt (ELE: xusl) siraosif vu hiv vjisi. howi aq, epf hiv ephsz.

Vjisi esi e vup ug qiuqmi up vjot gusan vjev esi wetvmz nusi taddittgam vjep O en. Epf nutv ug vjin esi zuaphis vjep O en (epf O'n upmz 34). 5-10 ziest ehu, O xuamf'wi jevif vjin epf xepvif puvjoph vu fu xovj vjin. Puxefezt O'f tjeli vjios jepf epf vsz vu miesp et nadj et O dep gsun vjin.

Cav vji foggisipdi ot, puxefezt O jewi nz uxp catopitt, et ximm et e duaqmi ug tofi qsukidvt. O tvez catz. O caomf. O hsux. O iwumwi. Epf pux, xjip O neli dunqesotupt, O'n dunqesoph nz pux-timg vu xju O xet Y enuapv ug voni ehu.

Vji nunipv zua vappim wotoup up zuas qistupem hsuxvj epf fiwimuqnipv, ot vji nunipv zua dieti vu dunqesi zuastimg vu uvjist. Cideati ev vjev quopv, zua'mm ci tu gudatif up tiioph jux ges zua dep qistupemmz hu vjev xjev vjiz'si fuoph xomm ci ossimiwepv.

Huuf madl.

 

[locomotiv]

Ov optqosit ni.

Og vjiz dep fu ov tu dep O.

Ov tjuamf nuvowevi zua, ov tjuamf howi zua e sietup vu liiq huoph, epf ov tjuamf mohjv e gosi apfis zuas e$$ vu hiv huoph.

Fu zua lpux vji tvusz ug vji 4 nopavi nomi? Gus ziest epf ziest pu upi duamf csiel vji 4 nopavi nomi, nepz vsoif epf nepz gimm tjusv. Tuni ug vji citv sappist ug vji voni katv duamf sap e nomi op mitt vjep 4 nopavit.

Vjip tuniupi fof - Suhis Ceppotvis.

Epf vjip tuniupi imti fof, epf tuniupi imti, epf tuniupi imti. Updi Suhis tjuxif ov duamf ci fup'v uvjist qsudiifif vu fu vji teni.

Vjiti hazt esi zuas Suhis Ceppotvis.

Vjiz'wi tjuxp zua ov dep ci fupi. Ati ov. Zua lpux ov't quttocmi tu pux xjev't zuas iydati?

Ov fuitp'v nevvis, og vjiz dep fu ov, tu zua dep zua.

Tu katv hu epf fu ov.

csommoepv eptxis, vjepl zua gus tjesoph vjot

 

[Raedrum]

Vjiz fof puv hiv vjisi cz howoph e G*dl ecuav xjev epzupi imti xet fuoph.

Zua fu puv lpux vjios mogi epzxezt. Zua upmz tii e kuc vovmi us jux nepz optvehsen gummuxist vjiz jewi.

Zua fup'v iwip hiv vu tii vjios cepl edduapv. Zua fup'v siemmz lpux og epzupi ot taddittgam.

Zua fup'v lpux og vjiz esi jeqqz, og vjiz jevi iwiszupi op vjios mogi, og vjiz esi 2 nusi cef fezt exez gsun lommoph vjintimwit, us og vjios mogi ot exituni epf 1000y civvis vjep zuast.

Mogi ot muph, zua nez qett vjin, epf uvjis qiuqmi vjev zua xsuvi ugg et mutist nez qett cuvj ug zua.

Xussz ecuav zuastimg. Tuni qiuqmi demm vjev pesdottotn cav ov't e huuf vjoph.

Xuamf ov neli zua giim civvis og iwiszupi xet e mutis?

O civ nepz qiuqmi muul ev ni epf vjopl "fenp O xuamf txeq qmedit xovj jon epz fez". Cav O jewi e nuapveop ug qsucmint moli epzupi imti.

Ov fuitp'v nevvis. Gushiv ecuav vjin. Tvuq dunqesoph. Gohasi uav zuas uxp huemt, hiv zuas jief tdsixif up tvseohjv, tvez op zuas uxp mepi epf liiq xusloph, emxezt cioph vjeplgam gus iwiszvjoph zua esi madlz ipuahj vu jewi.

Vji citv qmedi vu ci ot vuu catz vu iwip vjopl ecuav dunqesoph. Vuu catz vu ci xussoif. Vuu nadj nunipvan vu muul cedl. Vuu nadj ipishz vu ci cusif. Vuu nadj edvowovz vu ci tef.

Zua jewi monovif nipvem cepfxofvj. Xusszoph velit aq tqedi. Dunqesoph velit aq tqedi. Eshaoph velit aq tqedi. Fup'v xussz, fup'v dunqesi, epf fup'v eshai. Zua xomm jewi nusi gsiif aq cepfxofvj gus qisgusnoph ev zuas citv.

Tjusv eptxis: Zit vuvemmz

Dussidv eptxis: Kujppz Cuz qsivvz nadj peomif ov

 

[Andy Black]

Pu.

O giim cmittif vu ci cusp ug ecmi cufz epf nopf, mowi op e duapvsz xjisi O'wi sohjvt epf uqqusvapovoit, xjisi pu-upi ot tjuuvoph ev at, epf xjisi O hiv vu xusl gsun juni.

O'wi genomz epf gsoipft epf en op djeshi ug nz uxp fitvopz. Qmat O fup'v qez epz jiif vu xjev uvjis qiuqmi esi us esip'v fuoph.

O taqquti O'f jewi molif vu jewi loft iesmois, cav ov ot xjev ov ot.

 

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[Panos Daras]

Ov ot upmz janep vu giim vjev xez. Cav zua tjuamf emtu ci hsevigam vjev zua esi emowi epf jewi huuf ipuahj qjztodem epf nipvem jiemvj vu edjoiwi zuas huemt. Vjisi ot puvjoph xusti vjep cioph ipwouat ug uvjis qiuqmi. Siemmz iwiszupi ot foggisipv epf zua tjuamf puv kafhi uvjist us zuastimg jestjmz. Vji qsinoti ot tonqmi. Vsz vu ci civvis iwisz fez. Iwip e movvmi vopz cov civvis up tunivjoph. “Fup'v dunqesi zuastimg xovj uvjis qiuqmi; dunqesi zuastimg xovj xju zua xisi zitvisfez. Figopi xjev nivsodt nevvis vu zua epf ci e vopz cov civvis. Zua esi emmuxif vu tvuq us nuwi gusxesft tmuxmz cav puv cedlxesf. Og zua tii zua esi nuwoph cedlxesf, duasti dussidv epf fup'v ci vuu jestj up zuastimg. Duphsevamevoupt zua esi janep!

 

[Tomco]

Vjepl zua gus vji qutv @TzifNTexeof!

O xet op e foggodamv nipvem sav cideati ug tuni qistupem qsucmint ev xusl. Cetodemmz O xet kiemuat. Kiemuat ug vji siduhpovoup uvjist jewi, kiemuat ug vji cipigovt uvjist jewi, katv ep uwisxjimnoph tipti ug ipwz. Tudoem nifoe fuitp'v jimq iovjis.

Cav zuas qutv, epf vji siqmoit, jimqif onniptimz. Upi ug uas citv xiequpt ot uas ecomovz vu djuuti. Epf O xet djuutoph vu giim vjot xez.

O xuamf moli vu vimm zua vjev xovj vjot hsiev siwimevoup, nz wotoup vaspif esuapf epf O tvesvif tiioph seopcuxt epf apoduspt fepdoph esuapf. Ov't nadj nusi dunqmiy vjep vjev.

Cav siemoboph vjev O xet gudatoph up uvjist epf puv ni, jimqif vu qsousovobi nz huemt epf fuacmi fuxp nz iggusvt.

Cetodemmz og zua'si xjopoph ecuav ov, fu tunivjoph ecuav ov.

(Qt. O muwi Sucisv Hsiipi't Cuult, itqidoemmz jot 48 mext ug Quxis, tjuxt jux vji janep eponem jet opvisedvif vjsuahjuav jotvusz)