That's what RSD is selling. Sure, success and good looks are overrated, but you're wildly overreaching if you argue that they're completely ineffectual.
Am I?
How many women have you approached? How many days in a week do you go out? etc. etc.
Here's the deal. If you are a 6'4 built guy, who has extremely good looks, inherited money from your parents and girls are going after you (although this may not be the ones you want), then you don't have to bother with any of this stuff.
As a human you are very comfortable and there is no need to try and get this area of your life handled.
If you are someone who is sitting in a basement and watching movies, the only references to the real world you will have are those movies. Which is why saying something like "money is 100% ineffective to getting women" is so out of your world that your natural reaction will be to deny any such claims.
What does mainstream tell us to get rich? "go to school, get a good job and retire with millions @ 65+"
what does mainstream tell us to get women "get jacked, get money and get the babe"
How is reality played out?
- find a need, makes sure its scales, effect millions and make millions within 3-5 years
- approach a shit ton of women, read a bit on social dynamics/psychology to solidify the understandings of what you are doing and be able to attract the exact types of women you want to be with in 2+ years.
On top of that, I had a friend who is tall, jacked (never hits the gym - just pure amazing genes) and he is probably the absolute worst at getting women in his life.
I also have a friend who has a big stomach, looks like hes 50+ (hes 26) and has amazing success.
I could go on about this all day, but unless you go out there is no way what I am saying will come of as believable.
I linked RSD because they are the only company who doesn't use canned routines and focuses on bettering yourself.
Let's not confuse getting a girl with having a relationship, where you have to be authentic and it is real work sometimes.
My advice- find (foreign) girls from good families with strong values.
Being authentic is what will get you the girl in the first place, so only if you change ("for her") will the relationship not work.
Your preference may be a girl with strong values from a foreign country, however someone else's might be the exact opposite.
Another place to look learn about what women find attractive to is maybe the more intelligent part of "Pick Up" scene.
Although I could name a couple of names, I expect some of the other guys on here have good recommendations.
(As a female, I find PU theory interesting and insightful but haven't studied it with intent!)
Yeah, solid advice. Although just like with everything the majority of people who get involved with these things just sit at home reading about it or watching videos.
They are also the ones then complaining and bitching that what is being said isn't possible.
It's best to get out there and meet a ton of women and then go to a few places where you can internalize what you learned within the interactions you had.
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