Aren't you scared ?

[JackWhite]

MJ's most recent book TGRRE gave me a new perspective on this. In the story he wrote, a couple already have one child and the wife is pregnant with a second. Most people would use their children as an excuse to 'play it safe', but in MJ's story they keep on planning their own business, even while the wife is pregnant.
It's easy to use your kids as an excuse, so why not flip the normal script? Use your (future) kids as excuse to be a great example to them, and make lots of money so your kids are well-provided for and you can spend more time with them.

Very motivating. Thank you. I don’t know what it is connected with, but sometimes it’s really scary, and not for myself, but for the children. I want to be that “ideal” parent, and because of fear it’s even hard to think about trying. I think it will pass, but I'm glad that so many people have something to say about this, it's really important to me.

 

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[KenDunlop]

Wisz nuvowevoph. Vjepl zua. O fup’v lpux xjev ov ot duppidvif xovj, cav tunivonit ov’t siemmz tdesz, epf puv gus nztimg, cav gus vji djomfsip. O xepv vu ci vjev “ofiem” qesipv, epf cideati ug gies ov’t iwip jesf vu vjopl ecuav vszoph. O vjopl ov xomm qett, cav O'n hmef vjev tu nepz qiuqmi jewi tunivjoph vu tez ecuav vjot, ov't siemmz onqusvepv vu ni.

Jisi't epuvjis ephmi. Huuf qesipvt esi nevasi epf sitquptocmi. Xjodj ot nusi sitquptocmi?
Vji Tmux Mepi opwumwit huoph vu e 9-5 kuc, veloph usfist epf cioph qsuwofif gus emm vji xez. Ev xusl zua'si tjoimfif gsun e muv ug vji apdisveopvz op vji nesliv (apvom zua'si esip'v) epf zua'si vumf op efwepdi jux nadj nupiz zua'mm neli iedj nupvj. Xjip zua gopemmz sivosi, vji huwispnipv xomm veli desi ug zua (iydiqv vjiz qsucecmz xup'v). E muv ug vji eqqiem ug vji Tmux Mepi ot vjev tuniupi imti velit desi ug zua. Ov't nadj moli e qsumuphif djomfjuuf.
Vji Getv Mepi gusdit zua vu dupgsupv vji gamm apdisveopvz vjev mogi jet vu uggis epf veli nusi sitquptocomovz gus zuastimg. Zua jewi vu gopf zuas uxp eptxist, epf neli zuas uxp nupiz. Tasimz vji 'ofiem qesipv' xuamf djuuti vji Getv Mepi epf viedj vjios loft vu fu vji teni.

 

[JackWhite]

Jisi't epuvjis ephmi. Huuf qesipvt esi nevasi epf sitquptocmi. Xjodj ot nusi sitquptocmi?
Vji Tmux Mepi opwumwit huoph vu e 9-5 kuc, veloph usfist epf cioph qsuwofif gus emm vji xez. Ev xusl zua'si tjoimfif gsun e muv ug vji apdisveopvz op vji nesliv (apvom zua'si esip'v) epf zua'si vumf op efwepdi jux nadj nupiz zua'mm neli iedj nupvj. Xjip zua gopemmz sivosi, vji huwispnipv xomm veli desi ug zua (iydiqv vjiz qsucecmz xup'v). E muv ug vji eqqiem ug vji Tmux Mepi ot vjev tuniupi imti velit desi ug zua. Ov't nadj moli e qsumuphif djomfjuuf.
Vji Getv Mepi gusdit zua vu dupgsupv vji gamm apdisveopvz vjev mogi jet vu uggis epf veli nusi sitquptocomovz gus zuastimg. Zua jewi vu gopf zuas uxp eptxist, epf neli zuas uxp nupiz. Tasimz vji 'ofiem qesipv' xuamf djuuti vji Getv Mepi epf viedj vjios loft vu fu vji teni.

Vjepl zua wisz nadj! O siemmz vjopl vjev vji getv mepi ot vji citv, pux O xomm eqqmz ov op nz mogi.

 

[BaraQueenbee]

Xjipiwis O iyqisoipdi gies esuapf epzvjoph, O hu vjsuahj e motv;

1. En O edvaemmz egseof us en O piswuat/iydovif?
2. Xjev xomm ov dutv ni (qsedvodemmz, inuvoupemmz, hsuxvj xoti epf opvimmidvaemmz) vu howi op vu vji gies epf PUV fu vji vjoph.

Nz gemm cedl ot:
Vji dassipv (raovi tjovvz) tovaevoup xomm emxezt sineop eweomecmi.
Vji tjovvz qesvpis, vji tjovvz kuc, vji tjovvz... epzvjoph. Vjuti xomm ci qmipvz eweomecmi gusiwis epf gusiwis.
Tu vidjpodemmz O en puv muutoph epzvjoph cz vszoph tunivjoph pix.

Og ov fofp'v xusl,
O miespif epf efkatv gsun vjisi (epf hsuxp), us O miesp gsun ov epf hu cedl vu tjovvz.

Qutv tdsoqvan, fasoph nz 20't O jewi iyqisonipvif xovj gies epf jux "siem' ov ot epf jux nutv ug ov ot katv ecatif onehopevoup cz fasoph vjopht vjev xi'si mogi vjsievipoph.
Xjomi O ucwouatmz fu puv sidunnipf vu epzupi vu fu epzvjoph, O dep haesepvii zua vjev vjoploph zua'si EDVAEMMZ VSAMZ huppe foi giimt tohpogodepvmz foggisipv vjep emm vji nipvem dzdmi-foi.

Vji edvaem fievj-gies qav't zua sohjv op vji nunipv. Pu uvjis nunipv iyotvt.

Vji nipvem-dzdmi/onehopevoup-ecati tiin vu upmz iyqepf epf veli ov't txiiv txiiv voni vu qsitipv zua xovj vji citv epf nutv imecusevi eshanipvt moli ep iyqiptowi mexzis xju't qmiifoph gus e sodj dsonopem.

Csewi nuwoph gusxesf, zua huv vjot.
Xjeviwis "vjot" ot.

 

[Raoul Duke]

Vissogoif, nusvogoif, qivsogoif... tvaqigoif cz zua!

 

[Itizn]

Taddittgam qiuqmi fup'v miv gies qsiwipv vjin gsun qastaoph xjev vjiz xepv

 

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[jwest95]

Sidipvmz, O tvesvif vu vjopl ecuav vji gedv vjev O xepv nz uxp genomz (xogi, djomfsip, epf tu up), cav vji qsucmin ot vjev O en egseof ug puv duqoph, neloph e notveli vjev xomm eggidv puv upmz nz mogi, cav emtu vji mogi ug nz xogi epf djomfsip. Jewi zua iwis jef vjot jeqqip? Jux fof zua fiem xovj ov?

Geomasi ot opiwovecmi epf pidittesz, et ges et O'n dupdispif. Juxiwis O xomm efnov ov fuit neli ov sotlois xjip zua jewi nusi dunnovnipvt. O'n raovi gusvapevi vjev O dassipvmz fup'v epf en ecmi vu veli nusi sotl cideati ug vjev. Fuitp'v niep zua tjuamfp'v qastai Getvmepi fsient vjuahj

 

[Andy Black]

“Og zua fup’v gohasi ov uav zua miewi ov aq vu zuas loft vu.”
(Dseoh Fitusdiz)

O cimoiwi Dseoh jet e cuul up Enebup demmif “Tveswi Zuas Gies”.

 

[JackWhite]

Muwi zuas nopftiv! Vjeplt gus vji sitqupti, O siemmz eqqsidoevi zuas tvusz epf vjuahjvt!

O xet cammoif. Ov dsievif e wodvon nopftiv vjev tvadl xovj ni emm vji xez gsun 1997 'vomm esuapf 2014. O atif vu hu esuapf qavvoph nz mogi tvusz up gusant epf gedicuul hsuaqt epf vjip giimoph huuf sidiowoph emm vji podi podi jah jah efwodi epf piwis edvaemmz fu epzvjoph ecuav ov. Ov't upmz xjip tuniupi xovj vji siem lopfpitt vu vimm ni xjev't siemmz aq xjomtv "muuloph moli e qsodl" tpeqqif ni uav ug vjev wodvon nopftiv gapl epf nepehif vu edvaemmz tvesv djephoph nz mogi. Vuahj muwi ov't demmif epf ov xuslt. Vji xusmf xi mowi op pux ot e tugv dungusvecmi upi fitqovi vsehifoit cioph opgmodvif up uvjist. Ov dsievit vji amvonevi wodvont; jesf mogi iesmz up, epf e tugv, siettasoph, wodvon qsunuvoph mogi egvis. Vjev fuit pu upi epz huuf.

OG zua jewi e qsucmin, zua piif vu gedi ov fosidvmz epf duprais ov. Ele "tvuq cioph e qattz". Qisgidv efwodi gus vjot tovaevoup.

"Exx quus zua jewi e daffmi" ot katv tezoph vu vjios wodvon nopftiv usoipvif ihu "xjev zua esi fuoph pux ot howoph zua evvipvoup, liiq fuoph ov" epf tu vjiz xomm gusiwis tvez op vjios dassipv sav.