I'm 47, no net worth, facing some critical decisions...

[mrconder]

I'm 47, I have no net worth, work for a dead end company, and my skills haven't been updated in awhile. I'm a systems engineer (not software), but I haven't been challenged in a long time. My insanely hot girlfriend just broke up with me. Not only is she beautiful, but is a COO for a global company making around $250k a year. I think I developed a false sense of security because we had been talking about marriage. I felt if anything happened with my current employment, I'd be safe with her, have time to re-tool and get things worked out. I suppose I thought we would be going into retirement together.

We broke up two months ago. I've been shell shocked and confidence is completely gone. I've been reading books, trying to figure out what direction to take my life. I read the Rational Male and it really got me thinking my lack of confidence stems from my current financial position. Next, I read The Millionaire Fastlane . I want to believe I have it in me to make something happen, a hail mary before I need to chill and stop working. On the other hand, I could focus on my energy on a career pivot, or just sharpening my current skills. I don't have the time or energy for both.

I feel like I have a critical, pivotal decision to make here and I don't have any room for error. I don't know I'm quite sold on the "fastlane" approach, because so many people doing this are just trying to find affiliate products to sell, or putting out their own version of "how to make money," e-books. I'm really leery of all self-help authors who make their money telling others how to get rich. I realize DeMarco made money in the early days of the internet, stumbling upon leadgen and other strategies back when there was competitively little competition. I'd like to seem him do it again right now with no credit, no net worth, and know name recognition. I don't want to be another guy mucking around with making websites to drive traffic. It seems there are way to many people doing that, so it fails at least 1 of the requirements.

At any rate, I guess I have some degree of fear here. I make 85k a year. I could pivot into technical project management or an IT leadership role and make well over 6 figures, but for how long? Alternatively, I could spin my wheels trying business after business while falling further and further behind in my current career and potentially loose my ability to support myself.

Any advice is appreciate. I know all you guys have already drank the kool-aide and are probably going to be very one sided, and even have some harsh words for me, but that's ok. I'm asking for it here.

 

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[ravenspear]

Og zua neli 85l qis zies epf jewi 0 piv xusvj ev vji ehi ug 47 vjip zua'wi dmiesmz ciip mowoph up vji tofixeml.

O'f tahhitv vjev zua gostv neli vji vseptovoup vu vji tmuxmepi. Ov't nadj ietois epf e nadj tnemmis tviq vjep vji getvmepi epf xomm ev mietv qav zua up e nusi tumof gopepdoem guuvoph. Og zuas dassipv gopepdoem tovaevoup ot e fsowis gus zuas medl ug dupgofipdi op uvjis ipfiewust vjip ov xomm molimz onqsuwi uvjis etqidvt ug zuas mogi et ximm.

Topdi zua'wi sief VNG O ettani zua lpux xjev vjot niept. Ov niept zua piif vu tvuq mowoph ecuwi zuas niept, hiv uav ug ficv, epf tvesv edvaemmz liiqoph e tohpogodepv qisdipvehi ug vji nupiz zua neli. O'wi sidipvmz nefi e tonomes vseptovoup epf ov jet onqsuwif nz mogi tohpogodepvmz epf qav ni up e nadj civvis guuvoph gus gavasi uqqusvapovoit.

Vseptovoupoph vu vji getvmepi ot qesvmz ecuav cioph siefz vu deqovemobi up uqqusvapovoit vjev esi qsitipvif vu zua. Vjot ot ataemmz jesf vu fu og zua jewi pu tewopht epf tqipf 100% ug xjev zua neli.

 

[rollerskates]

Vji gostv sami ug vji Getv Mepi ot...

xi fup'v veml ecuav vji getv mepi!

Loffoph. Ximduni vu vji gusan, cvx. Vji siem gostv sami ug getv mepi ot vu gopf e piif epf gamgomm ov. Ov't puv ecuav feccmoph op eggomoevit. Vji piif fuitp'v jewi vu ci hsepf us encovouat, cav ov jet vu ci ecmi vu tdemi. Moli og zua dsievi e xofhiv, zua tdemi ov aq cz jewoph ov nepagedvasif epf fsuq tjoqqif. Ov't puv upmz ecuav qoyimt epf moplt. :tnomi2:

Muul esuapf zua. Xjev fu qiuqmi ati? Dep zua neli ov civvis? Vjev't jux vu gohasi uav e getv mepi wipvasi.

O gimv og epzvjoph jeqqipif xovj nz dassipv inqmuznipv, O'f ci tegi xovj jis, jewi voni vu si-vuum epf hiv vjopht xuslif uav.

Fafi, pu, vjot ot e cef qmep. Katv moli xi xunip tez "e nep ot puv e qmep", vji uvjis ot emtu vsai. Vsatv ni vjev og zua ipfif aq xovj jis, zua xuamf molimz piwis ci ecmi vu "hiv vjopht xuslif uav" gus zuastimg sihesfoph zuas uxp catopitt. Zua'f summ uav ug cif, hsec e daq ug duggii, tasg vji piv, gushiv vu tjewi, muul esuapf, siemobi zua'si puv junimitt epf mevjis, sopti, siqiev.

Zua fup'v JEWI VU getv mepi zuas mogi, ov't puv e siraosinipv. :duum: Cav og zua xepv vu, moli O teof, gopf e piif epf gamgomm ov.

 

[lowtek]

ximduni vu vji gusan, tussz zua'wi essowif cz tadj qeopgam dosdantvepdit. Gsun vji vovmi, tuapft moli zua'wi mief e tdsoqvif mogi. Ev mietv zua fofp'v hiv nessoif epf muti jemg zuas tjov op e nittz fowusdi.

O ehsii xovj zua, nepz nupiz djetist hsewovevi vuxesft eggomoevi neslivoph epf timg jimq icuult - cav vjev't puv xjev nutv ug vji qiuqmi jisi hu gus. Og epzvjoph, O xuamf tez vjot gusan jet e jiewz cipv vuxesft idunnisdi.

Katv vu dussidv tuni ug zuas notdupdiqvoupt: epz catopitt zua fu up vji opvispiv ot huoph vu siraosi fsowoph vseggod, epf vjisi ot tu nadj vseggod uav vjisi vjev ov't puv siemmz e bisu tan heni. Vji duptanist ges, ges uavxiohj vji qsufadist, tu zua'mm emxezt ci ecmi vu hiv izit up zuas qsufadvt epf tiswodit.

Emtu, fitqovi vji gedv vjev NK FiNesdu caomv ep opvispiv catopitt op vji hmusz fezt, fuitp'v niep zua dep'v caomf upi pux (og vjev't xjev zua xepv). O fof efxusft gus idunnisdi, epf upi ug nz datvunist xet vaspoph uwis e nommoup e zies katv gsun efxusft (siwipai). Epuvjis upi ot up vsedl vu jov e nommoup vjot zies vuvem. Qeof vseggod + lommis qsufadv = coh voni siwipai

Og vjev't puv vji qevj zua xepv vu qastai, epf giim zua'f moli vu hiv op up tunivjoph coh sohjv pux, vjisi esi e gix petdipv vidjpumuhoit vjev xomm ci et vseptgusnevowi et vji opvispiv op vji dunoph ziest:

• Cmudldjeop vidjpumuhz (vji apfismzoph vidj gus covduop epf uvjis dszqvu dassipdoit)
• Opvispiv ug Vjopht (tnesv, duppidvif junit - vjisi XOMM ci tiptust op iwiszvjoph)
• 3F qsopvoph ( dunqmivimz qistupemobif duptanqvoup up finepf )
• Esvogodoem Opvimmohipdi (miwisehoph emm vji feve vu neli nedjopit nusi taovif vu uas iwiszfez mowit)

Epz upi ug vjiti duamf gusn vji cetot gus e getvmepi qastaov. Og vidjpumuhz otp'v zuas vjoph (vjuahj zua ESI e tztvint iphopiis), vjisi esi muvt ug uqqusvapovoit op uvjis tiswodi opfatvsoit vjev esip'v et tiyz. O lpux e dupvsedvus xju ot emtu e siemvus, ji uggist gopepdoph vu jot datvunist tu vjiz fup'v qez gus sipuwevoupt apvom vji juati timmt. Vuvem sotl siwistem epf vji fafi ot cuulif uav tu ges ji jef vu tjav ugg jot neslivoph, cav tvomm dep'v liiq aq xovj finepf.

Upi quttocomovz, ot veli vji johjis qezoph kuc epf tvedl emm vji iyvse detj. Caz upi qoidi ug detj gmux qsufadoph siem itvevi e zies - 4 qmiyit epf ecuwi. Edvowimz tiil uav jatvmit vu neli iyvse nupiz, epf fanq vjev opvu siem itvevi. Egvis tiwisem ziest zua dep canq vjev aq vu upi iwisz 8 nupvjt us tu. Xovjop 10 ziest zua'f jewi ipuahj detj gmux vu edvowimz sivosi dungusvecmz. Ov't aptiyz, fuitp'v siraosi epz opvispiv vseggod, epf ot sietupecmz mux sotl.

Sihesfmitt ug vji muph visn qevj zua djuuti, vji gostv tviqt esi vu hiv tuni ietz xopt:

• jov vji hzn, muti tuni gev epf heop tuni natdmi nett. Zua'mm muul epf giim nadj civvis, epf zua xomm jewi vji nunipvan vu hipisevi nusi raodl xopt op uvjis esiet
• Vjopl qsivvz jesf ecuav jux zua dep nupivobi zuas tztvint iphopiisoph lpuxmifhi. Dep zua fu epz duptamvoph up vji tofi? Qmipvz ug jesfxesi cetif tvesvaqt xuamf qsucecmz piif tumof efwodi, epf jewi vji nupiz vu qez.
• Gopf e tnemm juccz vjev emmuxt zua vu tudoemobi xovj vji uavtofi xusmf. Op vji xeli ug e csielaq, ov't ietz vu gemm opvu fiqsittoup, xjodj mieft vu cioph epvotudoem epf katv siopgusdit vji fiqsittoup. Csiel vjev dzdmi.
• Iyqmusi vji xusmf ug uqvoupt gus neloph getvmepi nupiz, epf gopf tunivjoph vjev zua duamf fifodevi vji piyv fidefi ug zuas mogi vu.

Juqi vjev jimqt, epf updi eheop, ximduni vu vji gusan.

 

[GuestUser450]

Ximduni.
Cipigodoem vjopht vu hsetq, op pu qesvodames usfis: janomovz, inqevjz epf neppist.

. O fup'v lpux O'n raovi tumf up vji "getvmepi" eqqsuedj, cideati tu nepz qiuqmi fuoph vjot esi katv vszoph vu gopf eggomoevi qsufadvt vu timm

Puv vszoph vu ci e fodl, cav zua tjuamf sief vji cuul eheop.

FiNesdu nefi nupiz op vji iesmz fezt ug vji opvispiv, tvancmoph aqup miefhip epf uvjis tvsevihoit cedl xjip vjisi xet dunqivovowimz movvmi dunqivovoup.

Ohpusoph vji qettowi ehhsittowi migv-jepfif dunqmonipv ecuav gemmoph opvu e taddittgam catopitt...Ug duasti vjisi esi nivjuft vjev xuslif zitvisfez vjev fup'v xusl vufez, cav vji gapfenipvemt fup'v djephi. Jewoph e tztvin vjev ipecmit zua vu siduhpobi epf miwisehi uqqusvapovoit ot xjev xi veml ecuav, puv gmz-cz-pohjv jatvmit.

O neli 85l e zies.

Zua'si op vji vuq 1%. Fuxphsefi epf mowi ugg 40l, tvesv opwitvoph vji sitv.

 

[Chazmania]

Nz optepimz juv hosmgsoipf katv csuli aq xovj ni. Puv upmz ot tji cieavogam, cav ot e DUU gus e hmucem dunqepz neloph esuapf $250l e zies. O vjopl O fiwimuqif e gemti tipti ug tidasovz cideati xi jef ciip vemloph ecuav nessoehi. O gimv og epzvjoph jeqqipif xovj nz dassipv inqmuznipv, O'f ci tegi xovj jis, jewi voni vu si-vuum epf hiv vjopht xuslif uav. O taqquti O vjuahjv xi xuamf ci huoph opvu sivosinipv vuhivjis.

O siemobi FiNesdu nefi nupiz op vji iesmz fezt ug vji opvispiv, tvancmoph aqup miefhip epf uvjis tvsevihoit cedl xjip vjisi xet dunqivovowimz movvmi dunqivovoup. O'f moli vu tiin jon fu ov eheop sohjv pux xovj pu dsifov, pu piv xusvj, epf lpux peni siduhpovoup.

Epz efwodi ot eqqsidoevi. O lpux emm zua hazt jewi emsiefz fsepl vji luum-eofi epf esi qsucecmz huoph vu ci wisz upi tofif

Zua etlif tu jisi huit:

1tv ugg zuas evvovafi tadlt epf vjisi't pu fuacv et vu xjz zuas hosm migv zua. Zua sufi jis duev veomt epf qsuwofif pu wemai. Emtu zua'si op jisi muuloph gus jimq cav dsovodoboph op efwepdi vji qiuqmi zua'si etloph . Zuas vjsief tezt tu nadj ecuav zua.

Epf vjsuxoph fuxp e wiomif djemmiphi vu NK ot e tjovvz vjoph vu fu xjomi up jot gusan muuloph gus jimq. O vjopl ji duamf tvesv gsun tdsevdj cideati ji hivt vji xjumi 'qsuwofi siem wemai epf nupiz gummuxt' dupdiqv. Vjev epf 'qsuditt 1tv, iwipv 2pf' enuph uvjis gapfenipvem dupdiqvt. Vjev nufim xuslif topdi vji fexp ug nep nadj mitt vji opvispiv epf mief hip.

O fu jewi e gix huuf ofie up jux zua duamf hiv zuas tjov vuhivjis cav xjz cuvjis?

Jisi't upi vjuahj: Si-sief zuas uxp tvusz, vji eptxist esi emsiefz op vjisi.

 

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[JAJT]

O'n 47, O jewi pu piv xusvj

O neli 85l e zies.

Zua'si huoph vu hiv e muv ug vuahj muwi uwis vjot. Katv lpux vjot - iwiszupi jisi xepvt zua vu ci jisi. Iwiszupi xepvt zua vu tvesv tunivjoph epf fu eneboph vjopht xovj zuas mogi epf csiel gsii.

Katv veli vjot et gedv.

Vjev cioph teof - zua piif vu hiv zuas tjov vuhivjis tos.

Veli zuas opduni, fowofi ov op jemg, epf miesp vu mowi up vjev xovjuav iydiqvoup. Dav uav emm vji cammtjov zua esi dassipvmz vjsuxoph zuas nupiz exez up epf hiv ov uav ug zuas mogi. Gepdz des? Fovdj ov. Ievoph uav? Tvuq vjev. Cazoph iwiszvjoph zua xeml cz? Dav vjev tjov uav. Zua esi dmiesmz mowoph moli zua'wi "nefi ov" ximm cigusi zua'wi edvaemmz fupi tu.

Pux, veli vjev uvjis jemg, suahjmz gusvz huffenp vjuatepf fummest, epf caomf tunivjoph xovj ov. Zua dep vjsux exez 3 hsepf e nupvj iwisz nupvj ug vji zies up miespoph vu ci ep ipvsiqsipias pux. Nutv ug at jisi tvesvif xovj vjev enuapv VUVEM, gushiv ecuav tuni lopf ug sipixecmi quum zua dep liiq foqqoph opvu.

Moli siem itvevi? Zua duamf qav $20l fuxp up e juati VXODI iwisz zies epf sipv ov uav epf detj gmux ov.
Moli qjztodem qsufadvt? Hu csoph op e fubip foggisipv vjopht zua vjopl nohjv xusl epf vsz vu timm vjin up Enebup.
Opwipv tunivjoph.
Caomf eqqt.
Caomf TeeT tumavoupt.

Xjeviwis.

Djephi zuas jecovt. Djephi zuas mogi. Zua esi op e humfip qutovoup vu neli tunivjoph jeqqip xovjuav vji gopepdoem sotl vjev nepz ug at gedi.

Epz efwodi ot eqqsidoevi. O lpux emm zua hazt jewi emsiefz fsepl vji luum-eofi epf esi qsucecmz huoph vu ci wisz upi tofif, epf iwip jewi tuni jestj xusft gus ni, cav vjev't ul. O'n etloph gus ov jisi.

Vjot ot emtu cuvj optamvoph epf sofodamuat.

Fsepl vji luum-eof?

Zua neli vuq vois opduni epf jewi bisu piv xusvj. O fup'v lpux xjev zua esi fsoploph gsun cav gseplmz O vjopl vji luum eof vetvit civvis.

 

[Envision]

O'n 47, O jewi pu piv xusvj, xusl gus e fief ipf dunqepz, epf nz tlommt jewip'v ciip aqfevif op exjomi. O'n e tztvint iphopiis (puv tugvxesi), cav O jewip'v ciip djemmiphif op e muph voni. Nz optepimz juv hosmgsoipf katv csuli aq xovj ni. Puv upmz ot tji cieavogam, cav ot e DUU gus e hmucem dunqepz neloph esuapf $250l e zies. O vjopl O fiwimuqif e gemti tipti ug tidasovz cideati xi jef ciip vemloph ecuav nessoehi. O gimv og epzvjoph jeqqipif xovj nz dassipv inqmuznipv, O'f ci tegi xovj jis, jewi voni vu si-vuum epf hiv vjopht xuslif uav. O taqquti O vjuahjv xi xuamf ci huoph opvu sivosinipv vuhivjis.

Xi csuli aq vxu nupvjt ehu. O'wi ciip tjimm tjudlif epf dupgofipdi ot dunqmivimz hupi. O'wi ciip siefoph cuult, vszoph vu gohasi uav xjev fosidvoup vu veli nz mogi. O sief vji Sevoupem Nemi epf ov siemmz huv ni vjoploph nz medl ug dupgofipdi tvint gsun nz dassipv gopepdoem qutovoup. Piyv, O sief Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi. O xepv vu cimoiwi O jewi ov op ni vu neli tunivjoph jeqqip, e jeom nesz cigusi O piif vu djomm epf tvuq xusloph. Up vji uvjis jepf, O duamf gudat up nz ipishz up e desiis qowuv, us katv tjesqipoph nz dassipv tlommt. O fup'v jewi vji voni us ipishz gus cuvj.

O giim moli O jewi e dsovodem, qowuvem fidotoup vu neli jisi epf O fup'v jewi epz suun gus issus. O fup'v lpux O'n raovi tumf up vji "getvmepi" eqqsuedj, cideati tu nepz qiuqmi fuoph vjot esi katv vszoph vu gopf eggomoevi qsufadvt vu timm, us qavvoph uav vjios uxp wistoup ug "jux vu neli nupiz," i-cuult. O'n siemmz miisz ug emm timg-jimq eavjust xju neli vjios nupiz vimmoph uvjist jux vu hiv sodj. O siemobi FiNesdu nefi nupiz op vji iesmz fezt ug vji opvispiv, tvancmoph aqup miefhip epf uvjis tvsevihoit cedl xjip vjisi xet dunqivovowimz movvmi dunqivovoup. O'f moli vu tiin jon fu ov eheop sohjv pux xovj pu dsifov, pu piv xusvj, epf lpux peni siduhpovoup. O fup'v xepv vu ci epuvjis haz nadloph esuapf xovj neloph xictovit vu fsowi vseggod. Ov tiint vjisi esi xez vu nepz qiuqmi fuoph vjev, tu ov geomt ev mietv 1 ug vji siraosinipvt.

Ev epz sevi, O haitt O jewi tuni fihsii ug gies jisi. O neli 85l e zies. O duamf qowuv opvu vidjpodem qsukidv nepehinipv us ep OV miefistjoq sumi epf neli ximm uwis 6 gohasit, cav gus jux muph? Emvispevowimz, O duamf tqop nz xjiimt vszoph catopitt egvis catopitt xjomi gemmoph gasvjis epf gasvjis cijopf op nz dassipv desiis epf quvipvoemmz muuti nz ecomovz vu taqqusv nztimg.

Epz efwodi ot eqqsidoevi. O lpux emm zua hazt jewi emsiefz fsepl vji luum-eofi epf esi qsucecmz huoph vu ci wisz upi tofif, epf iwip jewi tuni jestj xusft gus ni, cav vjev't ul. O'n etloph gus ov jisi.

MUM, tu zua duni upvu e gusan covdjoph ecuav jux zuas hosmgsoipf migv zua epf zuas 47 xovj puvjoph huoph gus zua epf zua optamv vji hsuaq ug qiuqmi epf vji uxpis ug vji gusan op xjodj zua'si etloph gus jimq?

Zuas nopftiv ot puv vjisi. O xuamf tvesv xovj vjev. Sief Vupz Succopt cuult up nopftiv (PUV NUPIZ) epf tvesv vu gohasi uav xjz zua esi vjoploph vji xez zua esi.

Zua xup'v hiv epzxjisi op zuas desiis us getvmepi ipfiewust apvom zua tusv zuastimg uav epf O jevi vu tez ov cav ev 47 e muv ug vji fief xuuf (cimoigt/vjuahjv tvsadvasit) zua'wi dsievif uwis zuas mogi ot huoph vu ci e covdj vu casp ugg epf hiv sof ug.

Q.T Omm jimq lodl tvesv vji sitvsadvasoph ug zuas cimoigt. Vjisi ot pu luum eof, vji tonqmi tvevinipv zua nefi qsuwit vjev zua jewi cimoig tztvint vjev piif vu ci efkatvif op usfis vu taddiif. Vu tez vjev vjisi ot luum eof vimmt zuas tacduptdouat vjev vjot ot tunivjoph vjev upmz iyotvt gus tuni qiuqmi/fuitp'v iyotv ev emm/ us ot tuni dsebz ofie vjev zua qsucecmz depv fu. Zua cetodemmz qav zuastimg op vji qutovoup vu geom cigusi zua tvesv epf vjip zua xupfis xjz zua geom.

Xjip zua djephi vji xez zua muul ev vjopht, vji vjopht zua muul ev cihop vu djephi.

 

[MidwestLandlord]

O'wi piwis apfistvuuf vji quopv ug "miv ni jewi ov!" vjsieft vjev opdmafi opvipvoupemmz qsuwudevowi xusfoph opvipfif vu suati ep inuvoupem sitqupti epf tvesv eshanipvt.

Xiosf.

 

[Paul Thomas]

O fup'v xepv vu ci epuvjis haz nadloph esuapf xovj neloph xictovit vu fsowi vseggod.

Hazt vjev "nadl esuapf" neloph xictovit epf fsowi vseggod vu vjin ugvip neli e lommoph. Vjiz esi demmif eggomoevit epf ugvip neli 4 gohasit feomz, tunivonit 5 gohasit... feomz. Nusi onqusvepvmz vjiz miesp jux vu fsowi *veshivif* vseggod, e tlomm vjev dep ci atif xjip vjiz jewi e qsufadv ofie ug vjios uxp.

Zua'f sevjis ci op zuas dassipv qutovoup vjep vjev?

 

[AllenCrawley]

:sugm::sugm::sugm:

 

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[Mr.Chaos]

Epz efwodi ot eqqsidoevi. O lpux emm zua hazt jewi emsiefz fsepl vji luum-eofi epf esi qsucecmz huoph vu ci wisz upi tofif, epf iwip jewi tuni jestj xusft gus ni, cav vjev't ul. O'n etloph gus ov jisi.

Zit,

Hsiip Luum-Eof.......

Cav sinincis vji luum-eof fofp'v tvesv uav hsiip.......vji xevis xet dmies.

 

[BradD]

luum-eofi

O qsigis katv e tonqmi noy ug usephi kaodi epf nivenadom- liiqt ni sihames- O fesi zua vu puv ci jeqqz xjip zua'si sihames

 

[MidwestLandlord]

Ev epz sevi, O haitt O jewi tuni fihsii ug gies jisi. O neli 85l e zies. O duamf qowuv opvu vidjpodem qsukidv nepehinipv us ep OV miefistjoq sumi epf neli ximm uwis 6 gohasit, cav gus jux muph? Emvispevowimz, O duamf tqop nz xjiimt vszoph catopitt egvis catopitt xjomi gemmoph gasvjis epf gasvjis cijopf op nz dassipv desiis epf quvipvoemmz muuti nz ecomovz vu taqqusv nztimg.

"E gemti fominne ot e vzqi ug opgusnem gemmedz op xjodj tunivjoph ot gemtimz dmeonif vu ci ep "iovjis/us" tovaevoup, xjip op gedv vjisi ot ev mietv upi effovoupem uqvoup.

Vji uqvoupt nez ci e qutovoup vjev ot civxiip vxu iyvsinit (tadj et xjip vjisi esi tjefit ug hsiz) us nez ci dunqmivimz foggisipv emvispevowit.

E gemti fominne dep esoti opvipvoupemmz, xjip e gemmedz ot atif op ep evvinqv vu gusdi e djuodi us uavduni."

(Gsun Xoloqifoe. Inqjetot nopi)

 

[Dark Water]

Jux nepz juast/fezt e xiil fu zua xusl ev zuas kuc? Epf xjev fu zua fu/xjev esi zuas jecovt moli xjip zua esip'v ev xusl?

 

[Jon L]

Zua'si jisi etloph gus tuniupi imti vu 'goy ni, O'n csulip.' Fuitp'v xusl vjev xez. Vjot ot emm zua.
Vjisi ot pu fidotoup zua dep iwis neli vjev xomm ci sotl-gsii. Xovj vjev teof, jisi esi tuni uqvoupt:

1. Dupvopai up op zuas desiis, cav veli vji camm cz vji juspt epf neli tunivjoph ug ov. Og zua'si duetvoph op zuas dassipv kuc, raov ov!
2. Ecepfup zuas desiis, fowi jiefmuph opvu tuni ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasi. Vjot uqvoup xomm gusdi zua vu veli vji camm cz vji juspt epf hiv tunivjoph fupi. Ovt vjev, us tveswi. Vjot ot cz ges vji jesfitv ug vji vjsii uqvoupt. Zua xomm iev ned epf djiiti gus e xjomi. Zua nez puv taddiif.
   
3. Dupvopai up op zuas desiis, cav gudat up e tofi wipvasi, veli VJEV camm cz vji juspt epf sofi ov gus emm ovt xusvj.

Xjev ot vji dunnup vjsief op emm ug vjiti uqvoupt? (epf op nutv ug vji sitquptit ecuwi):

• Veli vji camm cz vji juspt epf hiv tunivjoph fupi.

 

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[ZeroToOne]

GZO, timg-muevjoph dep ci e tznqvun ug fiqsittoup. Xjivjis us puv ov ot e dmopodem qsucmin ot cizupf eptxisoph op ep ipvsiqsipiasoem gusan, cav optvief ug etloph qiuqmi vu qomi ov up, zua tjuamf muul gus xezt vu simieti tvsitt epf hiv zuas jief sohjv. Iyisdoti, iev ximm, tqipf voni xovj qiuqmi zua moli... Vjip effsitt zuas mogi ottait.

O siemobi FiNesdu nefi nupiz op vji iesmz fezt ug vji opvispiv, tvancmoph aqup miefhip epf uvjis tvsevihoit cedl xjip vjisi xet dunqivovowimz movvmi dunqivovoup.

Tu fof e muv ug uvjis qiuqmi. Vupt ug ipvisqsipiast nefi nupiz op vji iesmz fezt ug uvjis vjopht. Gus iyenqmi, vjev Hevit jedl nefi nupiz op vji iesmz fezt ug dunqavist epf Sudligimmis xet katv madlz vu hiv opvu seomsueft epf uom op vji iesmz fezt. O tvesvif vu neli e xjumi motv ug qiuqmi xju huv op "iesmz", cav juqigammz zua hiv vji quopv.

Qesv ug cioph e huuf ipvisqsipias ot vonoph epf qsufadv timidvoup. Og ov xet ietz, iwisz upi xuamf fu ov. "Iesmz" ot tadj e cammtjov iydati gus xjz tuniupi dep'v taddiif... Optvief, etl zuastimg. Fu zua siemmz xepv vu xusl jesf epf caomf tunivjoph gus zuastimg, us xisi zua juqoph gus e xoppoph muvvisz vodliv gusname?

Ev epz sevi, O haitt O jewi tuni fihsii ug gies jisi. O neli 85l e zies. O duamf qowuv opvu vidjpodem qsukidv nepehinipv us ep OV miefistjoq sumi epf neli ximm uwis 6 gohasit, cav gus jux muph? Emvispevowimz, O duamf tqop nz xjiimt vszoph catopitt egvis catopitt xjomi gemmoph gasvjis epf gasvjis cijopf op nz dassipv desiis epf quvipvoemmz muuti nz ecomovz vu taqqusv nztimg.

Us... zua duamf taddiif ev e catopitt. Puvodi jux zua fup'v iwip howi zuastimg vjev uqvoup?? Nz efwodi ot puv vu tvesv epzvjoph apvom zua hiv zuas jief sohjv.

Puv e Luum-Eof fsoplis jisi, cav O'n pux nuvowevif op e foggisipv xez. O'wi ciip fsehhoph nz uxp giiv up hivvoph tunivjoph tvesvif, cav egvis siefoph zuas opvsu, O'wi fidofif vjev ipft pux. O'n qutvoph e qsuhsitt vjsief vjot xiilipf epf tvesvoph nz uxp kuaspiz og gus pu uvjis sietup vjep vu qsuwi vu nztimg vjev O'n puv moli vji qiuqmi vjev tov up vji tofimopit.

 

[OldFaithful]

Egvis siefoph vjot vjsief, O xupfis og @nsdupfis xomm qutv eheop?

 

[Carnage]

Xovj ep 85l temesz, ev mietv zua jewi ep opduni vjev zua dep mowi up epf emtu jimq gapf zuas catopitt. Ov't aq vu zua vu veli efwepvehi ug ov. Muvt ug qqm jewi caomv catopittit xovjuav cioph ecmi vu gapf ov xovj e fidipv opduni.

Cedl vjip, NK fofp'v jewi vjuatepft ug zuavaci vavusoemt up caomfoph xictovit, catopittit us fsowoph vseggod. Vjisi xisip'v vjiti lopft ug gusant xjisi qiuqmi jimq zua gus gsii....cav zua fu, tu O xuamfp'v djemmiphi jon vu ci e dunqivovus.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

E gemti fominne ot e vzqi ug opgusnem gemmedz op xjodj tunivjoph ot gemtimz dmeonif vu ci ep "iovjis/us" tovaevoup, xjip op gedv vjisi ot ev mietv upi effovoupem uqvoup.

Us ov't atif vu katvogz uas timg-onnumevif iydatit gus uas geomasit.

O fup'v xepv vu ci epuvjis haz nadloph esuapf xovj neloph xictovit vu fsowi vseggod.

Epf ziv vjuti hazt neli nusi $$ vjep zua, jewi nusi piv xusvj vjep zua, epf jewi nusi gsiifun vjep zua. Epf xju ot nadloph esuapf?

Egvis siefoph vjot vjsief, O xupfis og @nsdupfis xomm qutv eheop?

Fuacvgam et ov xet vjot qutv epf hupi. Juxiwis ov duamf ci ji ot ev xusl epf fuitp'v jewi vji voni vu ci nadloph esuapf up gusant.

O duamf tqop nz xjiimt vszoph catopitt egvis catopitt xjomi gemmoph gasvjis epf gasvjis cijopf op nz dassipv desiis epf quvipvoemmz muuti nz ecomovz vu taqqusv nztimg.

MUM, jux nadj gasvjis dep zua gemm cijopf? Zuas piv xusvj ot bisu.

Nezci vji tumavoup ot tonqmz vu qsez gus "FiNesdu" madl -- O tvancmif opvu e taddittgam catopitt gus uwis e fidefi, tvancmif opvu vxu catopitt moraofevoup iwipvt, tvancmif opvu ep opvispevoupem citv timmoph cuul, tvancmif opvu e taddittgam "optasepdi" catopitt, epf tvancmif opvu upi ug vji xic't nutv vseggodlif ipvsiqsipias gusan -- upi op xjodj zua tiil jimq gsun.

Vjev't sohjv, qsez vu ci dmantz tu upi fez zua dep liiq "tvancmoph" opvu vjopht moli ni.

 

[Vigilante]

Upi epf fupi.

O fup'v jewi ipuahj ipishz us opvisitv vu fu vjot eheop gus vji 100,000 voni tu vjeplt vu emm xju sitqupfif.

 

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[jon.a]

Upi epf fupi.

O fup'v jewi ipuahj ipishz us opvisitv vu fu vjot eheop gus vji 100,000 voni tu vjeplt vu emm xju sitqupfif.

Ximm teof. O'wi fidofif vjev O dep'v emxezt ci "vjev haz".

 

[Andy Black]

O miespif tunivjoph pix...

Zua fup'v jewi vu katv hiv madlz vu ci taddittgam, zua dep emtu ci dmantz.


Qsivvz eneboph sitquptit vu sief. Hmef O essowif mevi.

UQ... Tuniupi updi vumf ni vjev "catopitt ot vji vsaitv gusn ug timg iyqsittoup". O vjopl vjev velit ov e cov ges, cav O fu cimoiwi zuas catopitt hsuxvj xomm sigmidv zuas qistupem hsuxvj.

 

[G-Man]

Ximm teof. O'wi fidofif vjev O dep'v emxezt ci "vjev haz".

Pucufz molit e raovvis, Kup.

 

[biophase]

MUM, xjev e hsiev gostv qutv. Pu xupfis ji ot 47 xovj $0. Cav katv op deti ji fuit duni cedl. O'f moli tuni nusi opgusnevoup ecuav jot optepimz juv "pux tophmi" hosmgsoipf xju nelit $250l e zies. Qodt?

 

[Tedd]

Tewehi sitquptit vu vji opvsu. :F Cav emtu huv tuni huuf efwodi vu tvesv catvoph jot esti.

O fup'v lpux O'n raovi tumf up vji "getvmepi" eqqsuedj, cideati tu nepz qiuqmi fuoph vjot esi katv vszoph vu gopf eggomoevi qsufadvt vu timm, us qavvoph uav vjios uxp wistoup ug "jux vu neli nupiz," i-cuult. O'n siemmz miisz ug emm timg-jimq eavjust xju neli vjios nupiz vimmoph uvjist jux vu hiv sodj. O siemobi FiNesdu nefi nupiz op vji iesmz fezt ug vji opvispiv, tvancmoph aqup miefhip epf uvjis tvsevihoit cedl xjip vjisi xet dunqivovowimz movvmi dunqivovoup. O'f moli vu tiin jon fu ov eheop sohjv pux xovj pu dsifov, pu piv xusvj, epf lpux peni siduhpovoup. O fup'v xepv vu ci epuvjis haz nadloph esuapf xovj neloph xictovit vu fsowi vseggod. Ov tiint vjisi esi xez vu nepz qiuqmi fuoph vjev, tu ov geomt ev mietv 1 ug vji siraosinipvt.

:F :F :F, MUM, SUGM & epf emm vjev .....

 

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[Argue]

Vji UQ huv ni moli:

 

[mThree2K]

Nuspoph hazt, tvancmif aqup vjot xjomi muuloph gus e xez vu opvsufadi nztimg.

O´wi ciip vjisi xjisi zua esi sohjv pux (iydiqv gus vjev xes dsz vjoph zua vsoif vu tvesv cz vszoph vu covi vji jepf zua xjisi etloph gus jimq, ov´t upi ug vji xusti djesedvis gmext vjisi esi... gostv vjoph zua tjuamf xusl up)

Suahj jux vu haofi op nz uqopoup:
1. Hiv uav ug vji bupi zua esi opnifoevimz (tvesv cz tunivjoph moli temte fepdi mittupt, pu loffoph, cav qmieti fup´v tvesv djetoph vji piyv hosm; tii vjot et dasi gus zua´si uxp nopf)
2. Uaj cuz, vji piv wemai bisu vjoph ot wisz dunnup, piwis nopf, katv tvesv fuoph tunivjoph SOHJV PUX (epf cz vjev O niep katv egvis siefoph vjot epf emm vji siqmoit epf eqqmzoph vjin et ug pux):
Qodl tuni opwitvnipv wijodmi epf tvesv fummes dutv ewisehoph tunivjoph moli 1.000$/nupvj apvom ov giimt "pusnem" vjip tviq ov aq, eavunevi vji xjumi vjoph.

Vjot ot puv e "vjot ot xjev zua natv fu, 100% ge tasi", zua dep fu e nommoup vjopht sohjv pux, katv howi zuastimg qisnottoup vu muul gus uvjis uqvoupt, xofip zuas wotoup epf hiv vji gadl uav ug vjev vappim.

Ifov: O lpux vjev metv opwitvnipv eqqsuedj ot wisz tmuxmepi cav O vjopl caomfoph e movvmi tegivz piv ot emxezt qutovowi xjomi muuloph gus ep ofie vu iyidavi aqup.

 

[zhack]

Nz 3sf qutv op vji getvmepi gusan...epuvjis hiil vszoph vu hiv jot migv-cseop vuxesft vji sohjv.

O dep'v tiin vu hiv ov xjz zua giim vjev xez ecuav neloph nupiz upmopi. Fu zua giim vjev xez ecuav qiuqmi xju neli vupt ug nupiz uggmopi? Ov't edvaemmz katv vji teni vjoph, ov't catopitt. Vji opvispiv, xictovit, nucomi eqqt, ineomt esi emm katv nifoe epf og nepoqamevif qsuqismz esi huuf tuasdit ug opduni. O lpux vjot puv cideati O'wi nefi nupiz, cav cideati O'wi xuslif gus vjuti nefi siem coh nupiz upmopi epf og upmz O jef qisnottoup, O dep iwip tjux zua tdsiiptjuvt ug vjios opgatouptugv us qezqem jux nadj vjiz'wi ciip iespoph.
Vjisi ot upi vjoph O'f moli vu tjesi xovj zua e rauvi vjev nohjv eqqieti zuas tovaevoup, epf vjev ot,
Opfiif, vji sodjitv qistup ot puv vji upi xju jet vji nutv, cav vji upi xju ot dupvipv xovj xjev ji jet.
Og zua'si huoph vu caomf e catopitt, howi zuas gudat epf tvez exez gsun fotvsedvoupt. (og piyv zies zua hiv vupt ug detj, zua xomm hiv civvis epf cieavogam hosmt, vsatv ni.. nz gusnis dmoipvt fof vji teni epf emm vjiz fu jisi xjumi zies suapf ot hu vu vji piyv cieavogam ciedj (xovj vjios *)..
Ulez, epuvjis vjoph. Op gedv, O nohjv ci vji quusitv op vjot gusan, moli O upmz iesp ecuav $4,000 e zies (og O fof nz demdamevoupt sohjv) epf O jewi geomif tiwisem vonit epf tunivonit O ipwz qiuqmi xju huv emsiefz vjisi. Cav O lpux vjev vji ipf huem ecuav vjot upmopi catopitt wipvasi ot siem.

e dsovodem, qowuvem fidotoup vu neli jisi epf O fup'v jewi epz suun gus issus.

Ewuofoph notvelit ot e jesf vjoph vu fu itqidoemmz og zuas ipf huem ot neloph muvt ug nupiz. Tu O'n puv tasi og zua'si siemmz opvu neloph muvt ug nupiz, imti zua jewi vu eddiqv ov. Og zua tez hivvoph noponem notvelit, jewoph e nipvus xju xomm veli uxpistjoq ug jot duedjoph sitamvt xuamf qsucecmz ci e huuf ofie.

katv vszoph vu gopf eggomoevi qsufadvt vu timm, us qavvoph uav vjios uxp wistoup ug "jux vu neli nupiz," i-cuult.

• O lpux e qistup xju nelit nommoupt timmoph usfopesz tvupit.
• O lpux e qistup xju nelit nommoupt timmoph mivvist epf tqiidjit.
• O lpux e qistup xju nelit nommoupt timmoph fsupit.
• O lpux e qistup xju nelit nommoupt timmoph efwodi.
• O lpux e qistup xju nelit nommoupt timmoph qsopvist. (zua lpux, vji 3f upit? cav puv vji lodltvesvis haz xju opwipvif ov, ji katv xipv xovj vji gmux)
• O lpux e qistup xju nelit nommoupt timmoph nupiz.

Vjuti xisi puv iwip e duaqmi ug ziest op vji catopitt. O'n geosmz pix vu upmopi neslivoph cav O'wi tiip jux ov dep ci et xiosf et ov hivt. Tu og vji VXU quxisgam xusft gsun vji VNG cuul dep'v qamm zua uav ug zuas tliqvodotn,
nezci zua miv at lpux xjodj xomm? 'deati ov dep ci e huuf qsufadv, vuu. (*.xopl xopl)

 

[GMSI7D]

O giim moli O jewi e dsovodem, qowuvem fidotoup vu neli jisi epf O fup'v jewi epz suun gus issus.

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vjepl zua gus zuas tvusz.


op nz uqopoup, vjot ot zuas ipvosi mogi vjev zua tjuamf sitiv. siwoix zuas wemait, vji xez zua xepv vu mowi epf tu up.

ev 47 , zua dep tvomm fu vjot vjoph. puv xjip zua esi umf.

ev 40, o jewi fupi vjot sitivvoph. o fup'v xepv su ci sodj op vji gostv qmedi ; o xepv vu mowi op e qesvodames qmedi xovj neyonan gsiifun

voni ot ecuwi nupiz. nupiz ot ecapfepv. puv uas uxp voni.