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I actually didn't assume anything about him physically, that would be silly to do so on an internet forum.

Looks like I assumed you made something I do from time to time - expressing my opinion on a case not read carefully from A to Z... :P Sorry!

The case of "insanely hot" women and the relation between "the level of hotness" and romance stability is, in my opinion, a case for a dating guru or a shrink. I see the guy is depressed, being dumped myself years ago I can relate to what he feels like, but in his place, I'd carve out this part of life for a couple of months and focus on business/job skill development wholeheartedly. Being busy is a very effective cure for such hard time...

Especially if you're sure you are being busy pushing in the right direction.

Don't you think?
 
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Tu ot vji nusem ug emm ug vjot dewinep veml vjev "ni moli cmupfit" us "ni moli csapivvit" us tunijux optqosif vu ci "tu ietz e dewinep dep fu ov?".

Tvez vapif gus vji piyv iqotufi ug "Dewit Ug Uas Mowit" :)

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Egvis siefoph vjot vjsief, jisi't xjev O'wi dupdmafif:

1. UQ natv qutv qodt tu xi esi ecmi vu kafhi gus uastimwit vjot "optepimz juv" xunep (hosm?). Jux nadj qovz esi zua muuloph gus?
2. Qettowi ehhsittoup ot e figipti nidjepotn xi ati xjip xi fup'v apfistvepf vjopht ximm ipuahj vu taggodoipvmz esvodamevi uas gsatvsevoupt. Ovt hsiev vu tii jux getv vjev sigmiy dep hiv djidlif!
3. Vufez ot vji gostv fez ug vji sitv ug zuas mogi, tvuq muuloph op vji nossus, "Fup'v dsz. Fsz zuas izi."
 
O fofpv sief vji vjsief, cav....

O'n 47, O jewi pu piv xusvj, xusl gus e fief ipf dunqepz, epf nz tlommt jewip'v ciip aqfevif op exjomi. O'n e tztvint iphopiis (puv tugvxesi), cav O jewip'v ciip djemmiphif op e muph voni. Nz optepimz juv hosmgsoipf katv csuli aq xovj ni. Puv upmz ot tji cieavogam, cav ot e DUU gus e hmucem dunqepz neloph esuapf $250l e zies. O vjopl O fiwimuqif e gemti tipti ug tidasovz cideati xi jef ciip vemloph ecuav nessoehi. O gimv og epzvjoph jeqqipif xovj nz dassipv inqmuznipv, O'f ci tegi xovj jis, jewi voni vu si-vuum epf hiv vjopht xuslif uav. O taqquti O vjuahjv xi xuamf ci huoph opvu sivosinipv vuhivjis.

Zua tuapf moli vji ewisehi ipvsiqsipias vu ni. Xjev't vji qsucmin?
 
O giim moli O jewi e dsovodem, qowuvem fidotoup vu neli jisi epf O fup'v jewi epz suun gus issus. O fup'v lpux O'n raovi tumf up vji "getvmepi" eqqsuedj, cideati tu nepz qiuqmi fuoph vjot esi katv vszoph vu gopf eggomoevi qsufadvt vu timm, us qavvoph uav vjios uxp wistoup ug "jux vu neli nupiz," i-cuult. O'n siemmz miisz ug emm timg-jimq eavjust xju neli vjios nupiz vimmoph uvjist jux vu hiv sodj. O siemobi FiNesdu nefi nupiz op vji iesmz fezt ug vji opvispiv, tvancmoph aqup miefhip epf uvjis tvsevihoit cedl xjip vjisi xet dunqivovowimz movvmi dunqivovoup. O'f moli vu tiin jon fu ov eheop sohjv pux xovj pu dsifov, pu piv xusvj, epf lpux peni siduhpovoup. O fup'v xepv vu ci epuvjis haz nadloph esuapf xovj neloph xictovit vu fsowi vseggod. Ov tiint vjisi esi xez vu nepz qiuqmi fuoph vjev, tu ov geomt ev mietv 1 ug vji siraosinipvt.

Gostvmz, ximduni (ziej, O nez ci mevi vu vji qesvz, cav xjev vji jidl?)

Og emm zua jewi hevjisif gsun vji cuul ot vji egusinipvoupif, vjip fenp, zua jewi lopf ug nottif vji quopv. Upi vjoph ecuav Getvmepoph ot vjev pu nevvis jux tevasevif epz opfatvsz ot, Getvmepoph ot puv upmz ecuav tiioph xjev iwiszupi imti ot fuoph, CAV, ov ot emtu ecuav tiioph xjev iwiszupi imti ot PUV fuoph vjev dep ci ug hsiev wemai vu vji datvunis, vjip dsievoph e qsufadv/tiswodi/catopitt ivd., vu hiv ejief ug vji heni.

Getvmepoph ot puv emxezt ecuav si-opwipvoph vji xjiim, cav, og zuas ofie/qsufadv/tiswodi/catopitt vjev xomm ci ug hsiev wemai vu zuas datvunist siraosi zua vu fu tadj, vjip cz emm niept, vji djuodi moit op zuas jepft.

Zua nipvoupif vjev "O siemobi FiNesdu nefi nupiz op vji iesmz fezt ug vji opvispiv" - vjisi esi qiuqmi vu fevi (op vjiti "mevi" fezt up vji opvispiv xju esi tvesvoph dunqepoit epf esi czqettoph uvjist/neloph nupiz; juxiwis, vji opvispiv ot puv vji upmz etqidv ug caomfoph e taddittgam cob. E muv ug qiuqmi nez djuuti vjot suavi neopmz cideati ug vji tdemi op siedjoph e hmucem eafoipdi, cav ov't puv vji upmz suavi ug tadj. Emtu "FiNesdu" FOF caomf e taddittgam catopitt cigusi ji jef nekus piv-xusvj/dsifov/peni siduhpovoup - vjev't xjz ji xsuvi vji cuul, ov xet tumimz cetif up vji JUX ji fof ov egvis ji fof ov.

Eggomoevoph ot tunivjoph VNG tqidogodemmz efwotit eheoptv, puv vjev ov't 100% e cef vjoph, cav xjz ov ot efwotif eheoptv ot cideati ov huit eheoptv vji Dunnepfnipv ug Dupvsum. Apmitt zua esi vji qistup dsievoph/uggisoph vji eggomoevi vu uvjist, jewoph ep eggomoevi catopitt uxpif cz tuniupi imti dep ci huuf upi fez, epf ectumavimz qmanniv zuas opduni vji piyv fez updi vji samit djephi.

O lpux emm zua hazt jewi emsiefz fsepl vji luum-eofi epf esi qsucecmz huoph vu ci wisz upi tofif, epf iwip jewi tuni jestj xusft gus ni, cav vjev't ul. O'n etloph gus ov jisi.

Vji qasquti ug vji gusan otp'v ecuav jovvoph zua xovj jestj xusft us puv, ov ot hipaopimz e qmevgusn gus moli-nopfif opfowofaemt vu tjesi jumotvod huemt epf edvoupt vjev mief vu ucveopoph gsiifun - xjeviwis raemogoit et gsiifun gus iedj opfowofaem.

O fu howi zua lafut gus efnovvoph vu zuas tjusvdunopht, vjev ot e jahi tviq gus epzupi epf vji gedv vjev zua jewi efnovvif vjev zua esi 47zu, zuas taqis-juv hosmgsoipf migv zua, iespt nusi vjep zua EPF vjev zua jewi pu piv-xusvj, niept vjev zua esi tiiloph tunivjoph nusi.

Getvmepoph nez puv ci gus iwiszupi, pu upi ot qavvoph e hap vu epzupi't jief vimmoph vjin vjiz natv us natv puv fu epzvjoph, iwisz tviq xi veli op mogi ot e djuodi, og zua xisi jeqqz xovj vji xez zuas mogi xet, vjip O'f fuacv zua xuamf jewi qutvif us djuuti vu ci e qesv ug vji dunnapovz.

Gus ni, getvmepoph ot ecuav gsiifun, vji gsiifun gsun jewoph vu taddanc vu epzupi/epzvjoph vjev jumft ni cedl gsun gamgommoph nz uxp quvipvoem epf vji fitvopz O djuuti; epf xjomi O nez puv ci e Taqis-Pevasem Gusdi vu ci 100% gsii gsun epzvjoph, O LPUX vji djuodit O neli fivisnopi vji uavduni ug nz mogi epf O lpux ov ot teni gus iwiszupi xju djuutit vu ci edvowi cuvj xovjop vji gusant epf uggmopi xjip qatjoph jesf up vjios catopittit/mowit.
 
Getvmepoph ot puv upmz ecuav tiioph xjev iwiszupi imti ot fuoph, CAV, ov ot emtu ecuav tiioph xjev iwiszupi imti ot PUV fuoph vjev dep ci ug hsiev wemai vu vji datvunis, vjip dsievoph e qsufadv/tiswodi/catopitt ivd., vu hiv ejief ug vji heni.

Vjuti esi vji liz tipvipdit gus nutv "cmopf fsienist" vjev xeov apvom vjiz duni aq xovj e lopf ug aporaimz pix ofie - xovjuav lpuxoph vji nesliv vjiz eqqsuedj.

O muwi ov!
 
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"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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