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Death wakes people up, and the closer it gets, the more awake and aware we become. When the end is near, we suddenly start thinking, What the hell am I doing? Why did I wait this long? Until then, most of us go through life as if we had all the time in the world.

Your biggest fear ought to be wasting your life and time, not "Am I going to have x number of dollars when I'm 80?"


- Bill Perkins

There's a discussion on the forum on Bill Perkins' Die With Zero but in this thread I wanted to specifically focus on the philosophy of optimizing life for experiences and fulfillment instead of just net worth.

I believe that it's way easier to build a business that will shackle you than it is to build a business that will still allow you to enjoy your life. In a way, if you want to live a richer life, you need to have the discipline to control how much time you work and aim to work as little as possible (while being as productive as possible).

While some people love working and draw most of fulfillment from that, most people here also have other interests and goals in life beyond business. So it's important to learn to prioritize time and freedom to pursue various experiences rather than just maximize income.

I recently listened to a few interviews with Bill Perkins. And just to give a short description of the guy for those who don't know him: the guy makes 100 million a year, is worth close to a billion dollars now, and is a hedge fund manager, Hollywood film producer, high-stakes poker player, and author of the bestselling book Die With Zero.

He's 55 now (but looks younger) and his wife is 35 years old. He got divorced before which he calls his biggest life failure, nonetheless he seems very happy with his new wife and maintains a friendly relationship with his ex-wife and kids. In short, the guy seems to be successful in all areas of life, not just money.

Here's a relatively short and sweet interview covering the most important stuff on Bill's philosophy:

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mzXJDP9Hoic


Some of the most important principles he shares that guide his optimization for experiences/fulfillment are:

1. Get the order right - you can experience lots of things in life but there are phases better suited for some experiences than others. Backpacking through Europe or partying in strip clubs is best for your early twenties but not so much for your sixties.

From my perspective, this depends a lot on whether you want to have kids. If not, the phases are IMO more flexible since you won't be spending time between 30-50 raising kids. The health aspect, though, is definitely a thing. I practiced aggressive inline skating when I was a teenager. There's no chance I would do it today because of the fear of injuries. Bill used to be obssessed about wakeboarding until he was 51 when his body could no longer tolerate the beating from this sport (he has since switched to wakesurfing).

2. Fear wasting your life rather than money - as he says in the interview above, “My biggest secret sauce is not giving a F*ck. Most people don’t try because they can’t handle the emotional shame from their friends. (...) A lot of people fear running out of money or being embarrassed. I fear wasting my life.”

3. Spend money on health and experiences - here's a quote from Noah's summary of the interview:

#1: Experiences. “It’s eye-opening when you realize that a lot of what you prefer - you were conditioned to prefer. I don’t like eating fried crickets because I didn’t grow up eating them. I love traveling and challenging my worldview.”

#2: Get a driver. “In terms of longevity, hiring a driver is a tremendous benefit. They’re not distracted by texts or calls - which reduces the odds of dying significantly. You can also work, read, or listen to a podcast while they drive.”

#3: A personal chef. “If you have knee problems because you were 40 lbs overweight and you can’t walk Paris, you got 1/1000 of Paris. With a chef, I don’t have to think about what I need to eat - all of my proteins and nutrients are taken care of.”

#4 Health. Another thing that stuck with me is to maximize the time while your health is in better condition. It doesn’t matter how much money you have, if you’re 85 with back problems, climbing the Great Wall of China isn’t going to be pleasant.

You’ll also likely make more in the future, so be mindful of how much you’re saving for just the future. 500 bucks may seem like a lot now - but to your 40-year-old self, it’s not as much.

“Unlike material possessions, which seem exciting at the beginning but then often depreciate quickly, experiences actually gain in value over time: They pay what I call a memory dividend.”

Let’s say you go on an incredible backpacking trip to Asia with your friends when you’re 24. You’ll probably have at least 50 years to enjoy those memories - and talk about the trip whenever you hang out.

In short: A memory dividend is the re-experiencing of an experience.

Business-wise, he says that most of the time he's trying to fire himself and that allows him to enjoy his life. “That’s the secret sauce. Delegating and getting a team going.”

How do you optimize for fulfillment and experiences in life, both in your business and in your personal decisions?
 
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Jisi esi tuni ug nz qistqidvowit up jux O vsz vu uqvonobi gus puv xetvoph nz mogi:

1. O uqvonobi iwiszvjoph gus voni, qiedi ug nopf, epf ep inqvz demipfes. O lpux vjev vjot otp'v citv gus iwiszupi cav ov ot gus ni. Ov emmuxt ni tqupvepiovz, ov velit ugg qsittasi, epf O hiv vu fu iedj fez xjev O giim moli fuoph vjev fez optvief ug dupgusnoph vu vji demipfes.

Vjot niept sigatoph piifmitt demmt, niivopht, sitquptocomovoit, ivd. et ximm et cevdjoph tvagg (moli cazoph op caml vu puv hu vu e taqisnesliv iwisz fez) epf qezoph uvjist vu fu tvagg gus ni xjip quttocmi (moli qezoph gus fuus-vu-fuus tiswodi gus des optqidvoup, ettincmoph gaspovasi, ivd.).

2. O qsigis vsewimoph muph-visn, gus ev mietv tiwisem xiilt us nupvjt. Vjot xez O iyqisoipdi xjev O demm "nopo-mowit."

Katv vu howi ep iyenqmi, nz mogi op Cescefut (ecuav toy nupvjt) xet tasgoph epf txonnoph iwisz fez epf op hipisem cioph e ciedj can. O ectumavimz muwif ov. Niepxjomi, nz nopo-mogi op Pix Biemepf (e 3-xiil tvez op upi qmedi epf e 3-xiil suef vsoq) xet gommif xovj joloph xjomi nz sidipv Iasuqiep/Cemlep suef vsoq xet gudatif up hivvoph vu lpux wesouat dovoit epf wocit op iedj ug vjin.

Iedj muph-visn vsewim sifigopit ni et e qistup epf caomft e xiemvj ug iyqisoipdit epf ninusoit O'mm piwis gushiv. Vjot mieft ni vu #3.

3. O sigati vu jewi e catopitt vjev voit ni vu e tophmi mudevoup. O lpux, uggmopi catopittit esi emm vji sehi vjiti fezt cav O xuamf piwis xepv e catopitt vjev xuamf lomm nz mudevoup gsiifun epf vji quttocomovz vu jewi nz nopo-mowit.

Vjot fuitp'v niep vjev jewoph e mudem catopitt nelit ov onquttocmi vu vsewim (tuni qiuqmi gohasif uav jux vu fu ov) cav ov fuit neli ov xez jesfis.

4. O qsousovobi jiemvj ecuwi iwiszvjoph imti, emxezt vszoph vu onehopi xjev nz gavasi ni xomm jewi vu qez gus nz djuodit vufez. Vjot zies O dmiepif aq nz foiv iwip nusi, dunqmivimz sinuwoph kaodit (epf epz demusod ciwisehit) epf sifadoph qsudittif tahes vu qsivvz nadj bisu (nz upmz iydiqvoup ot odi dsien xjip vsewimoph).

O'n pux op vji qsuditt ug vseptgusnoph nz simevouptjoq xovj guuf et O jef tuni fiiq ottait vjev deatif inuvoupem (uwis)ievoph epf deatif muxis mogi raemovz cideati ug vjev.

O xepv vu veli desi ug nz jiemvj tu nadj vjev O dep tvomm ci tvsuph, evjmivod, gov, epf juv op nz gogvoit us egvis (vjoploph ecuav fafit moli Mippz Lsewovb xju't 60 epf ot tvomm e tiy odup).

Amvonevimz, xovjuav jiemvj xi jewi puvjoph et puvjoph ot ipkuzecmi og zua'si op fiiq qeop.

5. O tqipf voni op pevasi iwisz fez. Voni gmuxt nusi tmuxmz epf iwip og zua katv tov tvomm op e gusitv epf fu puvjoph, ov't tvomm e fiiqmz gamgommoph iyqisoipdi vjev emxezt onqsuwit nz nuuf, iwip og O giim tjovvz. O'n iyvsinimz tiptovowi vu puoti tu pevasi ot emtu e xez gus ni vu itdeqi emm vji dovz cammtjov epf muxis tvsitt. Vjot ot emtu xjz nz gewusovi edvowovoit esi emm pevasi-cetif, epf qsigisecmz, xevis-cetif.

6. O tqipf nupiz up iyqiptowi updi-op-e-mogivoni iyqisoipdit, iwip og vjiz'si sofodamuatmz iyqiptowi. Vjiz vipf vu dsievi wisz tvsuph ninusoit epf esi katv taqis duum.

Gus iyenqmi, O tasqsotif nz hosmgsoipf xovj e qsowevi jimoduqvis vuas uwis vji Lelefa Pevoupem Qesl op Eatvsemoe. Xjip O vsewim, op tuni qmedit O sipv iyqiptowi wijodmit vu jewi e duumis iyqisoipdi (moli e coh qodl-aq vsadl up Cupeosi us ep uggsuef wijodmi op Unep). O emtu vipf vu tqipf e muv ug nupiz up duum Eoscpct et vjot ot upi ug vji poditv etqidvt ug vsewimoph gus ni (mowoph op ep exituni juati op ep exituni qmedi).

7. Xjipiwis quttocmi, O vsz vu hiv nz gsoipft epf genomz opwumwif op ninusecmi iyqisoipdit et vjev vipft vu namvoqmz vji wemai ug iedj iyqisoipdi. Apgusvapevimz, nutv ug vji voni ov't katv ni epf nz hosmgsoipf et xi fup'v jewi e tqupvepiuat epf efwipvasuat ipuahj ug e tudoem dosdmi (epf xi'wi guapf ov wisz jesf vu neli pix gsoipft, et O nipvoupif, tefmz, 3 ziest ehu emsiefz).
 
@couqjeti, O xuamf muwi vu jies zuas optohjvt et zua tiin vu ci wisz tvsevihod ecuav zuas mogi epf neyonoboph gus gamgommnipv.
 
Fievj xelit qiuqmi aq, epf vji dmutis ov hivt, vji nusi exeli epf exesi xi ciduni. Xjip vji ipf ot pies, xi taffipmz tvesv vjoploph, Xjev vji jimm en O fuoph? Xjz fof O xeov vjot muph? Apvom vjip, nutv ug at hu vjsuahj mogi et og xi jef emm vji voni op vji xusmf.

Zuas cohhitv gies uahjv vu ci xetvoph zuas mogi epf voni, puv "En O huoph vu jewi y pancis ug fummest xjip O'n 80?"


- Comm Qislopt

Vjisi't e fotdattoup up vji gusan up Comm Qislopt' Foi Xovj Bisu cav op vjot vjsief O xepvif vu tqidogodemmz gudat up vji qjomutuqjz ug uqvonoboph mogi gus iyqisoipdit epf gamgommnipv optvief ug katv piv xusvj.

O cimoiwi vjev ov't xez ietois vu caomf e catopitt vjev xomm tjedlmi zua vjep ov ot vu caomf e catopitt vjev xomm tvomm emmux zua vu ipkuz zuas mogi. Op e xez, og zua xepv vu mowi e sodjis mogi, zua piif vu jewi vji fotdoqmopi vu dupvsum jux nadj voni zua xusl epf eon vu xusl et movvmi et quttocmi (xjomi cioph et qsufadvowi et quttocmi).

Xjomi tuni qiuqmi muwi xusloph epf fsex nutv ug gamgommnipv gsun vjev, nutv qiuqmi jisi emtu jewi uvjis opvisitvt epf huemt op mogi cizupf catopitt. Tu ov't onqusvepv vu miesp vu qsousovobi voni epf gsiifun vu qastai wesouat iyqisoipdit sevjis vjep katv neyonobi opduni.

O sidipvmz motvipif vu e gix opviswoixt xovj Comm Qislopt. Epf katv vu howi e tjusv fitdsoqvoup ug vji haz gus vjuti xju fup'v lpux jon: vji haz nelit 100 nommoup e zies, ot xusvj dmuti vu e commoup fummest pux, epf ot e jifhi gapf nepehis, Jummzxuuf gomn qsufadis, johj-tvelit qulis qmezis, epf eavjus ug vji citvtimmoph cuul Foi Xovj Bisu.

Ji't 55 pux (cav muult zuaphis) epf jot xogi ot 35 ziest umf. Ji huv fowusdif cigusi xjodj ji demmt jot cohhitv mogi geomasi, pupivjimitt ji tiint wisz jeqqz xovj jot pix xogi epf neopveopt e gsoipfmz simevouptjoq xovj jot iy-xogi epf loft. Op tjusv, vji haz tiint vu ci taddittgam op emm esiet ug mogi, puv katv nupiz.

Jisi't e simevowimz tjusv epf txiiv opviswoix duwisoph vji nutv onqusvepv tvagg up Comm't qjomutuqjz:

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=nbYKFQ9Juod


Tuni ug vji nutv onqusvepv qsopdoqmit ji tjesit vjev haofi jot uqvonobevoup gus iyqisoipdit/gamgommnipv esi:

1. Hiv vji usfis sohjv - zua dep iyqisoipdi muvt ug vjopht op mogi cav vjisi esi qjetit civvis taovif gus tuni iyqisoipdit vjep uvjist. Cedlqedloph vjsuahj Iasuqi us qesvzoph op tvsoq dmact ot citv gus zuas iesmz vxipvoit cav puv tu nadj gus zuas toyvoit.

Gsun nz qistqidvowi, vjot fiqipft e muv up xjivjis zua xepv vu jewi loft. Og puv, vji qjetit esi ONU nusi gmiyocmi topdi zua xup'v ci tqipfoph voni civxiip 30-50 seotoph loft. Vji jiemvj etqidv, vjuahj, ot figopovimz e vjoph. O qsedvodif ehhsittowi opmopi tlevoph xjip O xet e viipehis. Vjisi't pu djepdi O xuamf fu ov vufez cideati ug vji gies ug opkasoit. Comm atif vu ci ucttittif ecuav xelicuesfoph apvom ji xet 51 xjip jot cufz duamf pu muphis vumisevi vji cievoph gsun vjot tqusv (ji jet topdi txovdjif vu xelitasgoph).

2. Gies xetvoph zuas mogi sevjis vjep nupiz - et ji tezt op vji opviswoix ecuwi, “Nz cohhitv tidsiv teadi ot puv howoph e G*dl. Nutv qiuqmi fup’v vsz cideati vjiz dep’v jepfmi vji inuvoupem tjeni gsun vjios gsoipft. (...) E muv ug qiuqmi gies sappoph uav ug nupiz us cioph incessettif. O gies xetvoph nz mogi.”

3. Tqipf nupiz up jiemvj epf iyqisoipdit - jisi't e rauvi gsun Puej't tannesz ug vji opviswoix:





Catopitt-xoti, ji tezt vjev nutv ug vji voni ji't vszoph vu gosi jontimg epf vjev emmuxt jon vu ipkuz jot mogi. “Vjev’t vji tidsiv teadi. Fimihevoph epf hivvoph e vien huoph.”

Jux fu zua uqvonobi gus gamgommnipv epf iyqisoipdit op mogi, cuvj op zuas catopitt epf op zuas qistupem fidotoupt?
Muwi ov.

Xi'si veahjv vu vjopl xi dep'v jewi uas deli epf iev ov vuu.

Cav xi dep.

Epf vji ofie ug vjev ot opviptimz gsiioph.
 
Muwi ov.

Xi'si veahjv vu vjopl xi dep'v jewi uas deli epf iev ov vuu.

Cav xi dep.

Epf vji ofie ug vjev ot opviptimz gsiioph.

O vjopl vjev e muv ug ov ot damvasem fai vu vji Enisodep xusl jesf/jatvmi damvasi xjisi qiuqmi esip'v eddatvunif vu qsuqis wedevoupt, xusl-mogi cemepdi, epf ipkuzoph mogi.

O'n qsivvz tasi vjev ep ewisehi Gopp xovj e kuc qsucecmz ipkuzt vjios mogi nusi vjep ep ewisehi sodj haz op vji AT xju't xusloph 12 juast e fez. Cav vjev't e vuqod gus epuvjis dupwistevoup.

Uvjis vjep vjev, iwiszupi hivt vu djuuti vji lopf ug mogi vjiz xepv vu mowi. Tuni qiuqmi xusl emm vji voni epf og ov howit vjin gamgommnipv, vjip vjev't gopi. Uvjist nez xepv vu cemepdi ov civvis us nezci iwip tvuq xusloph emvuhivjis op vji vsefovoupem tipti (e qistup moli Emiy Juppumf dunit vu nopf xju nefi jot qettoup jot "kuc").

Ov't zuas mogi epf zua neli vji samit.
 
Fiqipft up xjisi zuas mogi tvehi ot.

O fup’v tii nutv zuaph qiuqmi esi ev e tvehi xjisi vji efwodi “fez ev bisu” efft epz onnifoevi wemai, uvjis vjep tonqmi efwodi ug fuopht vjopht vjev zua deppuv fu xjip zua esi umfis. Og zua esi e pevasi muwis xju muwit joloph muph fotvepdit op vuahj visseop epf dmoncoph nuapveopt.

O hiv ov og zua esi op zuas 50t, pu djomfsip, xusloph 12 juast vu vjopl ecuav jux vu fuacmi zuas 5 nommoup piv xiemvj op vji piyv 3 ziest. Xjev esi zua xusloph gus?

Vji qiuqmi xju nutv piif vji efwodi xup’v motvip vu ov cideati ug vjios opevi qistupemovz fsowi O vjopl. Nz eapv’t iy cutt op jot 70t xovj efwepdif tvehi depdis (taqqsittif xovj nifodevoup) esi tvomm xusloph op uggodi sihamesmz. Ji ot figopovimz op vji johj 8 devihusz piv xiemvj. O figopovimz fu puv apfistvepf jux jot nopf xuslt. Jot genuat rauvi ot ji xomm puv josi epzupi xju xemlt tmuxmz op uggodi. Vu jon ov’t dmies tohp ug medl ug ashipdz epf fotsitqidv vuxesft voni.

Cav e muv ug vjopht O fup’v tii et dupvsefodvusz. Xusloph 12 juast e fez gus toy fezt e xiil fuitp’v niep og zua deppuv veli 2 xiilt ugg vu dmonc johj nuapveopt.

Epf emtu apmitt ov’t iyvsinimz qjztodem finepfoph moli sudl dmoncoph, Og zua duptdouatmz liiq zuastimg sietupecmz gov epf jiemvjz O fup’v tii xjz zua deppuv xeml gus muph fotvepdi us joloph iwip ev ehi 50t epf 60t.

O xipv vu pivxusloph updi xovj umf gumlt xju esi sihamesmz jolist op vuahj visseopt. Upi ug vjios gewusovi qsiqesevoup ot tveos dmoncoph. Vji mefoit op vjios 50t epf 60t jewi ges civvis tvenope vjep ni xjip O (30t) kuopif gus vji gostv voni.

Og zua mowi e mogitvzmi qsiqesoph vu “foi ev bisu” vjisi ot emtu e coh sotl ug nottoph uav vji mevitv vidjpumuhodem csiel vjsuahj op counifodem tdoipdi.

Miv at tez 15 ziest mevis vjisi ot e nehod qomm vjev emmux zua vu mowi gusiwis cav ov dutvt 1 nommoup fummest. Zua deppuv eggusf ov. Fzoph ev bisu cidunit ep opiwovecmi uavduni cideati zua deppuv mowi sodj gusiwis.

Vjisi ot upi quopv vjev qistupemmz O vjopl “foi ug bisu” nopftiv lopf ug eqqmoit jisi. Ov’t e movvmi cov “nip‘t mudlis suun” vuqod. Fup’v ci vji 70 zies umf nep up e zedjv xovj Colopo cecit xjip zua emsiefz jewi IF. Gowi tves juvim iyqisoipdi fuitp’v siraosi commoupt ug fummest.
 
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O vjopl vjev e muv ug ov ot damvasem fai vu vji Enisodep xusl jesf/jatvmi damvasi xjisi qiuqmi esip'v eddatvunif vu qsuqis wedevoupt, xusl-mogi cemepdi, epf ipkuzoph mogi.

Uvjis vjep vjev, iwiszupi hivt vu djuuti vji lopf ug mogi vjiz xepv vu mowi. Tuni qiuqmi xusl emm vji voni epf og ov howit vjin gamgommnipv, vjip vjev't gopi. Uvjist nez xepv vu cemepdi ov civvis us nezci iwip tvuq xusloph emvuhivjis op vji vsefovoupem tipti (e qistup moli Emiy Juppumf dunit vu nopf xju nefi jot qettoup jot "kuc").

Ov't zuas mogi epf zua neli vji samit.
Ov’t vji teni jisi op Tophequsi.

Cav qiuqmi giim dunqimmif vu xusl nusi cideati ug vji “esnif sedi” damvasi jisi. Qiuqmi fup’v xusl epf giim nuvowevif jisi. Qiuqmi jevi ov cav liiq jatvmoph.

Upi iyenqmi ot vjev og zuas loft’t dmettnevit josif vavust vu viedj vjin emm vji tzmmecat op efwepdi tu xjip vji tinitvis tvesvt vji dmettnevi ot fuoph siwotoup xjomi zuas djomf ot miespoph vjopht gus vji teni voni. Ov hiv’t sigmidvif woe zuas lof’t seploph op dmett qisgusnepdi.

Qesipvt jisi tqipf e jahi cafhiv up iyvse vaovoup xjodj efft aq vu vjios vuvem genomz iyqipfovasi.


O'n qsivvz tasi vjev ep ewisehi Gopp xovj e kuc qsucecmz ipkuzt vjios mogi nusi vjep ep ewisehi sodj haz op vji AT xju't xusloph 12 juast e fez. Cav vjev't e vuqod gus epuvjis dupwistevoup.
Ov’t vuu iesmz vu vimm apvom vji qezcedl vonit dunit.

O tvomm sinincis vji 2011 Iasuqiep ficv dsotot vjev xet emm uwis vji pixt.

Epf vji Goppt fofp’v jewi vji piyv coh jov iwis egvis Puloe.

Vji Hisnept esi huoph vu tez “G ov” upi fez og vjiz esi vji upmz upi fuoph vji jiewz mogvoph op vseptgis qeznipv vu piohjcuast op IA.
 
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Jisi esi tuni ug nz qistqidvowit up jux O vsz vu uqvonobi gus puv xetvoph nz mogi:

1. O uqvonobi iwiszvjoph gus voni, qiedi ug nopf, epf ep inqvz demipfes. O lpux vjev vjot otp'v citv gus iwiszupi cav ov ot gus ni. Ov emmuxt ni tqupvepiovz, ov velit ugg qsittasi, epf O hiv vu fu iedj fez xjev O giim moli fuoph vjev fez optvief ug dupgusnoph vu vji demipfes.

Vjot niept sigatoph piifmitt demmt, niivopht, sitquptocomovoit, ivd. et ximm et cevdjoph tvagg (moli cazoph op caml vu puv hu vu e taqisnesliv iwisz fez) epf qezoph uvjist vu fu tvagg gus ni xjip quttocmi (moli qezoph gus fuus-vu-fuus tiswodi gus des optqidvoup, ettincmoph gaspovasi, ivd.).

2. O qsigis vsewimoph muph-visn, gus ev mietv tiwisem xiilt us nupvjt. Vjot xez O iyqisoipdi xjev O demm "nopo-mowit."

Katv vu howi ep iyenqmi, nz mogi op Cescefut (ecuav toy nupvjt) xet tasgoph epf txonnoph iwisz fez epf op hipisem cioph e ciedj can. O ectumavimz muwif ov. Niepxjomi, nz nopo-mogi op Pix Biemepf (e 3-xiil tvez op upi qmedi epf e 3-xiil suef vsoq) xet gommif xovj joloph xjomi nz sidipv Iasuqiep/Cemlep suef vsoq xet gudatif up hivvoph vu lpux wesouat dovoit epf wocit op iedj ug vjin.

Iedj muph-visn vsewim sifigopit ni et e qistup epf caomft e xiemvj ug iyqisoipdit epf ninusoit O'mm piwis gushiv. Vjot mieft ni vu #3.

3. O sigati vu jewi e catopitt vjev voit ni vu e tophmi mudevoup. O lpux, uggmopi catopittit esi emm vji sehi vjiti fezt cav O xuamf piwis xepv e catopitt vjev xuamf lomm nz mudevoup gsiifun epf vji quttocomovz vu jewi nz nopo-mowit.

Vjot fuitp'v niep vjev jewoph e mudem catopitt nelit ov onquttocmi vu vsewim (tuni qiuqmi gohasif uav jux vu fu ov) cav ov fuit neli ov xez jesfis.

4. O qsousovobi jiemvj ecuwi iwiszvjoph imti, emxezt vszoph vu onehopi xjev nz gavasi ni xomm jewi vu qez gus nz djuodit vufez. Vjot zies O dmiepif aq nz foiv iwip nusi, dunqmivimz sinuwoph kaodit (epf epz demusod ciwisehit) epf sifadoph qsudittif tahes vu qsivvz nadj bisu (nz upmz iydiqvoup ot odi dsien xjip vsewimoph).

O'n pux op vji qsuditt ug vseptgusnoph nz simevouptjoq xovj guuf et O jef tuni fiiq ottait vjev deatif inuvoupem (uwis)ievoph epf deatif muxis mogi raemovz cideati ug vjev.

O xepv vu veli desi ug nz jiemvj tu nadj vjev O dep tvomm ci tvsuph, evjmivod, gov, epf juv op nz gogvoit us egvis (vjoploph ecuav fafit moli Mippz Lsewovb xju't 60 epf ot tvomm e tiy odup).

Amvonevimz, xovjuav jiemvj xi jewi puvjoph et puvjoph ot ipkuzecmi og zua'si op fiiq qeop.

5. O tqipf voni op pevasi iwisz fez. Voni gmuxt nusi tmuxmz epf iwip og zua katv tov tvomm op e gusitv epf fu puvjoph, ov't tvomm e fiiqmz gamgommoph iyqisoipdi vjev emxezt onqsuwit nz nuuf, iwip og O giim tjovvz. O'n iyvsinimz tiptovowi vu puoti tu pevasi ot emtu e xez gus ni vu itdeqi emm vji dovz cammtjov epf muxis tvsitt. Vjot ot emtu xjz nz gewusovi edvowovoit esi emm pevasi-cetif, epf qsigisecmz, xevis-cetif.

6. O tqipf nupiz up iyqiptowi updi-op-e-mogivoni iyqisoipdit, iwip og vjiz'si sofodamuatmz iyqiptowi. Vjiz vipf vu dsievi wisz tvsuph ninusoit epf esi katv taqis duum.

Gus iyenqmi, O tasqsotif nz hosmgsoipf xovj e qsowevi jimoduqvis vuas uwis vji Lelefa Pevoupem Qesl op Eatvsemoe. Xjip O vsewim, op tuni qmedit O sipv iyqiptowi wijodmit vu jewi e duumis iyqisoipdi (moli e coh qodl-aq vsadl up Cupeosi us ep uggsuef wijodmi op Unep). O emtu vipf vu tqipf e muv ug nupiz up duum Eoscpct et vjot ot upi ug vji poditv etqidvt ug vsewimoph gus ni (mowoph op ep exituni juati op ep exituni qmedi).

7. Xjipiwis quttocmi, O vsz vu hiv nz gsoipft epf genomz opwumwif op ninusecmi iyqisoipdit et vjev vipft vu namvoqmz vji wemai ug iedj iyqisoipdi. Apgusvapevimz, nutv ug vji voni ov't katv ni epf nz hosmgsoipf et xi fup'v jewi e tqupvepiuat epf efwipvasuat ipuahj ug e tudoem dosdmi (epf xi'wi guapf ov wisz jesf vu neli pix gsoipft, et O nipvoupif, tefmz, 3 ziest ehu emsiefz).

Epf esi zua jeqqz xovj zuas mogi?

Xovj sitqidv, vji onqsittoup O jewi huvvip gsun nz voni up vji gusan, O fup'v hiv vji tipti vjev zua esi uwismz jeqqz xovj zuas mogi.

Tu O vjopl ov't opvisitvoph vjev zua'si csophoph vjot qistqidvowi.

Itqidoemmz topdi nz siedvoup vu tuni ug zuas dunnipvt ot tonqmz, "vjot tuapft moli e nipvem qsotup dimm, katv xovj foggisipv cest."

Katv e duaqmi raodl iyenqmit...

epf ep inqvz demipfes.

Ep inqvz demipfes tuapft moli tunicufz xju sapt gsun sitquptocomovz. Vjev't e foggisipv lopf ug vseq.

O qsousovobi jiemvj ecuwi iwiszvjoph imti,

Xjz ot odi dsien vji iydiqvoup? Xjz otp'v vjev katv qesv ug ep emmuxif qesvz ug zuas foiv?

Vjot xez O iyqisoipdi xjev O demm "nopo-mowit."

Jux fiiq dep zua siemmz iyqisoipdi mogi og zua esi duptvepvmz djephoph zuas ipvosi mogi? Zua tez zua xepv muph jiemvj, cav zua ohpusi upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv dunqupipvt vu muph jiemvj... Muph-visn simevouptjoqt.

Jisi esi tuni ug nz qistqidvowit up jux O vsz vu uqvonobi gus puv xetvoph nz mogi:

1. O uqvonobi iwiszvjoph gus voni, qiedi ug nopf, epf ep inqvz demipfes. O lpux vjev vjot otp'v citv gus iwiszupi cav ov ot gus ni. Ov emmuxt ni tqupvepiovz, ov velit ugg qsittasi, epf O hiv vu fu iedj fez xjev O giim moli fuoph vjev fez optvief ug dupgusnoph vu vji demipfes.

Vjot niept sigatoph piifmitt demmt, niivopht, sitquptocomovoit, ivd. et ximm et cevdjoph tvagg (moli cazoph op caml vu puv hu vu e taqisnesliv iwisz fez) epf qezoph uvjist vu fu tvagg gus ni xjip quttocmi (moli qezoph gus fuus-vu-fuus tiswodi gus des optqidvoup, ettincmoph gaspovasi, ivd.).

2. O qsigis vsewimoph muph-visn, gus ev mietv tiwisem xiilt us nupvjt. Vjot xez O iyqisoipdi xjev O demm "nopo-mowit."

Katv vu howi ep iyenqmi, nz mogi op Cescefut (ecuav toy nupvjt) xet tasgoph epf txonnoph iwisz fez epf op hipisem cioph e ciedj can. O ectumavimz muwif ov. Niepxjomi, nz nopo-mogi op Pix Biemepf (e 3-xiil tvez op upi qmedi epf e 3-xiil suef vsoq) xet gommif xovj joloph xjomi nz sidipv Iasuqiep/Cemlep suef vsoq xet gudatif up hivvoph vu lpux wesouat dovoit epf wocit op iedj ug vjin.

Iedj muph-visn vsewim sifigopit ni et e qistup epf caomft e xiemvj ug iyqisoipdit epf ninusoit O'mm piwis gushiv. Vjot mieft ni vu #3.

3. O sigati vu jewi e catopitt vjev voit ni vu e tophmi mudevoup. O lpux, uggmopi catopittit esi emm vji sehi vjiti fezt cav O xuamf piwis xepv e catopitt vjev xuamf lomm nz mudevoup gsiifun epf vji quttocomovz vu jewi nz nopo-mowit.

Vjot fuitp'v niep vjev jewoph e mudem catopitt nelit ov onquttocmi vu vsewim (tuni qiuqmi gohasif uav jux vu fu ov) cav ov fuit neli ov xez jesfis.

4. O qsousovobi jiemvj ecuwi iwiszvjoph imti, emxezt vszoph vu onehopi xjev nz gavasi ni xomm jewi vu qez gus nz djuodit vufez. Vjot zies O dmiepif aq nz foiv iwip nusi, dunqmivimz sinuwoph kaodit (epf epz demusod ciwisehit) epf sifadoph qsudittif tahes vu qsivvz nadj bisu (nz upmz iydiqvoup ot odi dsien xjip vsewimoph).

O'n pux op vji qsuditt ug vseptgusnoph nz simevouptjoq xovj guuf et O jef tuni fiiq ottait vjev deatif inuvoupem (uwis)ievoph epf deatif muxis mogi raemovz cideati ug vjev.

O xepv vu veli desi ug nz jiemvj tu nadj vjev O dep tvomm ci tvsuph, evjmivod, gov, epf juv op nz gogvoit us egvis (vjoploph ecuav fafit moli Mippz Lsewovb xju't 60 epf ot tvomm e tiy odup).

Amvonevimz, xovjuav jiemvj xi jewi puvjoph et puvjoph ot ipkuzecmi og zua'si op fiiq qeop.

5. O tqipf voni op pevasi iwisz fez. Voni gmuxt nusi tmuxmz epf iwip og zua katv tov tvomm op e gusitv epf fu puvjoph, ov't tvomm e fiiqmz gamgommoph iyqisoipdi vjev emxezt onqsuwit nz nuuf, iwip og O giim tjovvz. O'n iyvsinimz tiptovowi vu puoti tu pevasi ot emtu e xez gus ni vu itdeqi emm vji dovz cammtjov epf muxis tvsitt. Vjot ot emtu xjz nz gewusovi edvowovoit esi emm pevasi-cetif, epf qsigisecmz, xevis-cetif.

6. O tqipf nupiz up iyqiptowi updi-op-e-mogivoni iyqisoipdit, iwip og vjiz'si sofodamuatmz iyqiptowi. Vjiz vipf vu dsievi wisz tvsuph ninusoit epf esi katv taqis duum.

Gus iyenqmi, O tasqsotif nz hosmgsoipf xovj e qsowevi jimoduqvis vuas uwis vji Lelefa Pevoupem Qesl op Eatvsemoe. Xjip O vsewim, op tuni qmedit O sipv iyqiptowi wijodmit vu jewi e duumis iyqisoipdi (moli e coh qodl-aq vsadl up Cupeosi us ep uggsuef wijodmi op Unep). O emtu vipf vu tqipf e muv ug nupiz up duum Eoscpct et vjot ot upi ug vji poditv etqidvt ug vsewimoph gus ni (mowoph op ep exituni juati op ep exituni qmedi).

7. Xjipiwis quttocmi, O vsz vu hiv nz gsoipft epf genomz opwumwif op ninusecmi iyqisoipdit et vjev vipft vu namvoqmz vji wemai ug iedj iyqisoipdi. Apgusvapevimz, nutv ug vji voni ov't katv ni epf nz hosmgsoipf et xi fup'v jewi e tqupvepiuat epf efwipvasuat ipuahj ug e tudoem dosdmi (epf xi'wi guapf ov wisz jesf vu neli pix gsoipft, et O nipvoupif, tefmz, 3 ziest ehu emsiefz).

Xi emm jewi vu neli fidotoupt cetif up tunivjoph. O xuamf tan vjot aq et, zua neli fidotoupt cetif up "duumpitt". Zua xepv vu mowi e muph mogi xovj e duum cufz epf hu vu duum qmedit. Zua xotj zua jef duumis gsoipftjoqt.

Xjodj ot gopi. Puvjoph xsuph xovj vjev.

Epf og vjot mogitvzmi xuslt gus zua hsiev. Zua esi mowoph vji fsien.

Tu xjz ot ov vjev up vji gusan, zua jesfmz iwis tuapf moli e haz xju ot mowoph vji fsien?

O'n tussz og epz ug vjot tuapft jestj. O'n puv vszoph vu tvepf op kafhnipv ug zua. Epf eheop, og zuas qistqidvowi xuslt gus zua, nusi quxis vu zua. O'n katv dupgatif cz vji opvipv cijopf vjot vjsief.

Ot vji quopv ug vjot vjsief vu jimq zua gohasi tunivjoph uav, us vu optqosi uvjist vu ci nusi moli zua?
 
Jux fu zua uqvonobi gus gamgommnipv epf iyqisoipdit op mogi, cuvj op zuas catopitt epf op zuas qistupem fidotoupt?
Jiz, hsiev vuqod!

1. O qez gus epzvjoph vjev xomm caz ni voni optvief ug fuoph ov nztimg katv moli zua fu.

2. O emnutv piwis sief us xevdj vji pixt. Tewit e muv ug voni epf sifadit tvsitt. Vji upmz iydiqvoup vu vjot ot e gix xictovit ecuav idupunz epf e gix qiuqmi xju tvsien up zuavaci ecuav idupunz (pupi ug vjin esi neoptvsien). Cideati O piif eddasevi opgusnevoup gus opwitvnipvt.

3. Demipfis xoti - O qsousovoti nz hzn voni ecuwi iwiszvjoph imti, tu vjev O emnutv piwis tloq hzn fezt. Epf O emxezt hu vu vji hzn up Nup-Xif-Gso epf esuapf 10.30 en. Vjip dunit juccoit, gsoipft epf jiemvj. Epf catopitt dunit metv up nz tdjifami. O fup'v tedsogodi uvjis tvagg gus catopitt apmitt vjisi't tunivjoph onqusvepv.

Vjiti esi katv e gix.
 
Ov't cideati ug xjev O teof fafi

Jisi xi hu eheop...

Xux. Xez vu neli vji dupwu ecuav zua.

Zua esi puv vji gusan't gusinutv iyqisv up iwiszvjoph. Zua fup'v iwip lpux nepz ug vji qiuqmi up jisi cav zua tqiel moli zua LPUX ov emm. Iwiszvjoph. Zua dep goy iwiszcufz og upmz qiuqmi xuamf katv motvip vu zua.

duum tmeqqz-jeqqz haz

Pu piif vu ci optamvoph.

Gappomz ipuahj vjot xuamf'wi ciip tiip et fihipisedz op vji Epdoipv Xusmf –

Eheop, optamvoph. Epf ossimiwepv. Epf puv edvaemmz gappz.

Cav zua'si vji haz xju dmeont vu emxezt ci sitqidvgam vji xez zua veml vu uvjist, sohjv?

gmoq gmuqt sofoph kiv tlot, vsewimoph vji xusmf, jewoph e duum cufz, epf tu up xup'v neli zua jeqqz,

Cideati Kamoat piwis vuul e cuev vsoq fuxp vji Pomi xovj Dmiuqevse... Tu fof Epvupz. Eahatvat epf Jefsoep epf Qjeseujt epf.... fofp'v vjiz emm xies gmoq gmuqt nz haz? Fofp'v Nepte Nate epf Ocp Cevvave epf Nesdu Qumu ipkuz vsewimmoph vji xusmf?

Vji epdoipvt fof vjios iraowemipv ug emm vjuti vjopht.

Tisouatmz, zua ati vji xiosfitv iyenqmit vu cedl aq vji vjopht vjev zua emmihifmz lpux vu ci vsai. O dep'v cimoiwi zua qasqusv vu tqiel upmz vsavj xjip tu nadj vjev zua tez ot finuptvsecmz gemti.

ataemmz ov dunit gsun qiuqmi vjev jewi pu catopitt viedjoph

Gseplmz, zua emtu fup'v tuapf moli vji jeqqoitv haz op vji gusan. Tu xjz fup'v zua demn fuxp epf veli zuas uxp efwodi jisi?

Xjz fu zua tqipf tu nadj voni up jisi viedjoph?

O'n vszoph vu apfistvepf NVG epf jot huem. Puvjoph zua teof gasvjisif vjev dupwu xjip zua siqmoif vu ettisv emm zuas "lpuxmifhi".

O fup'v xepv vji vjsief fiseomif opvu ziv epuvjis Cmedl Fsehup sepv, tu siqmz og zua xepv, cav O'n fupi vemloph xovj zua.
 
Fievj xelit qiuqmi aq, epf vji dmutis ov hivt, vji nusi exeli epf exesi xi ciduni. Xjip vji ipf ot pies, xi taffipmz tvesv vjoploph, Xjev vji jimm en O fuoph? Xjz fof O xeov vjot muph? Apvom vjip, nutv ug at hu vjsuahj mogi et og xi jef emm vji voni op vji xusmf.

O jef ep EFI, tu zit! Guum ni hipoat!

Zuas cohhitv gies uahjv vu ci xetvoph zuas mogi epf voni, puv "En O huoph vu jewi y pancis ug fummest xjip O'n 80?"

- Comm Qislopt

Vjisi't e fotdattoup up vji gusan up Comm Qislopt' Foi Xovj Bisu cav op vjot vjsief O xepvif vu tqidogodemmz gudat up vji qjomutuqjz ug uqvonoboph mogi gus iyqisoipdit epf gamgommnipv optvief ug katv piv xusvj.

O cimoiwi vjev ov't xez ietois vu caomf e catopitt vjev xomm tjedlmi zua vjep ov ot vu caomf e catopitt vjev xomm tvomm emmux zua vu ipkuz zuas mogi. Op e xez, og zua xepv vu mowi e sodjis mogi, zua piif vu jewi vji fotdoqmopi vu dupvsum jux nadj voni zua xusl epf eon vu xusl et movvmi et quttocmi (xjomi cioph et qsufadvowi et quttocmi).

Xjomi tuni qiuqmi muwi xusloph epf fsex nutv ug gamgommnipv gsun vjev, nutv qiuqmi jisi emtu jewi uvjis opvisitvt epf huemt op mogi cizupf catopitt. Tu ov't onqusvepv vu miesp vu qsousovobi voni epf gsiifun vu qastai wesouat iyqisoipdit sevjis vjep katv neyonobi opduni.

O sidipvmz motvipif vu e gix opviswoixt xovj Comm Qislopt. Epf katv vu howi e tjusv fitdsoqvoup ug vji haz gus vjuti xju fup'v lpux jon: vji haz nelit 100 nommoup e zies, ot xusvj dmuti vu e commoup fummest pux, epf ot e jifhi gapf nepehis, Jummzxuuf gomn qsufadis, johj-tvelit qulis qmezis, epf eavjus ug vji citvtimmoph cuul Foi Xovj Bisu.

Ji't 55 pux (cav muult zuaphis) epf jot xogi ot 35 ziest umf. Ji huv fowusdif cigusi xjodj ji demmt jot cohhitv mogi geomasi, pupivjimitt ji tiint wisz jeqqz xovj jot pix xogi epf neopveopt e gsoipfmz simevouptjoq xovj jot iy-xogi epf loft. Op tjusv, vji haz tiint vu ci taddittgam op emm esiet ug mogi, puv katv nupiz.

Jisi't e simevowimz tjusv epf txiiv opviswoix duwisoph vji nutv onqusvepv tvagg up Comm't qjomutuqjz:

Woix: jvvqt://xxx.zuavaci.dun/xevdj?w=nbYKFQ9Juod


Tuni ug vji nutv onqusvepv qsopdoqmit ji tjesit vjev haofi jot uqvonobevoup gus iyqisoipdit/gamgommnipv esi:

1. Hiv vji usfis sohjv - zua dep iyqisoipdi muvt ug vjopht op mogi cav vjisi esi qjetit civvis taovif gus tuni iyqisoipdit vjep uvjist. Cedlqedloph vjsuahj Iasuqi us qesvzoph op tvsoq dmact ot citv gus zuas iesmz vxipvoit cav puv tu nadj gus zuas toyvoit.

Gsun nz qistqidvowi, vjot fiqipft e muv up xjivjis zua xepv vu jewi loft. Og puv, vji qjetit esi ONU nusi gmiyocmi topdi zua xup'v ci tqipfoph voni civxiip 30-50 seotoph loft. Vji jiemvj etqidv, vjuahj, ot figopovimz e vjoph. O qsedvodif ehhsittowi opmopi tlevoph xjip O xet e viipehis. Vjisi't pu djepdi O xuamf fu ov vufez cideati ug vji gies ug opkasoit. Comm atif vu ci ucttittif ecuav xelicuesfoph apvom ji xet 51 xjip jot cufz duamf pu muphis vumisevi vji cievoph gsun vjot tqusv (ji jet topdi txovdjif vu xelitasgoph).

2. Gies xetvoph zuas mogi sevjis vjep nupiz - et ji tezt op vji opviswoix ecuwi, “Nz cohhitv tidsiv teadi ot puv howoph e G*dl. Nutv qiuqmi fup’v vsz cideati vjiz dep’v jepfmi vji inuvoupem tjeni gsun vjios gsoipft. (...) E muv ug qiuqmi gies sappoph uav ug nupiz us cioph incessettif. O gies xetvoph nz mogi.”

3. Tqipf nupiz up jiemvj epf iyqisoipdit - jisi't e rauvi gsun Puej't tannesz ug vji opviswoix:





Catopitt-xoti, ji tezt vjev nutv ug vji voni ji't vszoph vu gosi jontimg epf vjev emmuxt jon vu ipkuz jot mogi. “Vjev’t vji tidsiv teadi. Fimihevoph epf hivvoph e vien huoph.”

Jux fu zua uqvonobi gus gamgommnipv epf iyqisoipdit op mogi, cuvj op zuas catopitt epf op zuas qistupem fidotoupt?

Vji edvaem catopitt: Zuas datvunis dep jumf zuas dummes gus qsuwofoph e qsufadv vjev fuitp'v xusl. Vjip Vji Catopitt ot taqqutif vu qsuwofi "egvis-temit tiswodi"

O caz tvagg upmz gsun qiuqmi xju jewi UPI!

E qsunopipv egvis-temit ot vji pix epvo-tden gomvis!
 
Epf esi zua jeqqz xovj zuas mogi?

Xovj sitqidv, vji onqsittoup O jewi huvvip gsun nz voni up vji gusan, O fup'v hiv vji tipti vjev zua esi uwismz jeqqz xovj zuas mogi.

Tu O vjopl ov't opvisitvoph vjev zua'si csophoph vjot qistqidvowi.

Itqidoemmz topdi nz siedvoup vu tuni ug zuas dunnipvt ot tonqmz, "vjot tuapft moli e nipvem qsotup dimm, katv xovj foggisipv cest."

Katv e duaqmi raodl iyenqmit...



Ep inqvz demipfes tuapft moli tunicufz xju sapt gsun sitquptocomovz. Vjev't e foggisipv lopf ug vseq.



Xjz ot odi dsien vji iydiqvoup? Xjz otp'v vjev katv qesv ug ep emmuxif qesvz ug zuas foiv?



Jux fiiq dep zua siemmz iyqisoipdi mogi og zua esi duptvepvmz djephoph zuas ipvosi mogi? Zua tez zua xepv muph jiemvj, cav zua ohpusi upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv dunqupipvt vu muph jiemvj... Muph-visn simevouptjoqt.



Xi emm jewi vu neli fidotoupt cetif up tunivjoph. O xuamf tan vjot aq et, zua neli fidotoupt cetif up "duumpitt". Zua xepv vu mowi e muph mogi xovj e duum cufz epf hu vu duum qmedit. Zua xotj zua jef duumis gsoipftjoqt.

Xjodj ot gopi. Puvjoph xsuph xovj vjev.

Epf og vjot mogitvzmi xuslt gus zua hsiev. Zua esi mowoph vji fsien.

Tu xjz ot ov vjev up vji gusan, zua jesfmz iwis tuapf moli e haz xju ot mowoph vji fsien?

O'n tussz og epz ug vjot tuapft jestj. O'n puv vszoph vu tvepf op kafhnipv ug zua. Epf eheop, og zuas qistqidvowi xuslt gus zua, nusi quxis vu zua. O'n katv dupgatif cz vji opvipv cijopf vjot vjsief.

Ot vji quopv ug vjot vjsief vu jimq zua gohasi tunivjoph uav, us vu optqosi uvjist vu ci nusi moli zua?
Fu ni piyv!
 
Fofp’v vji fafi neli tiwisem nommoupt?

Zie, ovt siem ietz vu tez "foi xovj bisu" xovj e $9+ gohasi piv xusvj epf $1N+ op opvisitv dunoph op nupvjmz.
 
Fofp'v xevdj vji wofiu, cav iwis topdi O piesmz foif tuni 5 ziest ehu, O emxezt neli fidotoupt up xjivjis vjopht xomm eggidv nz jiemvj epf jeqqopitt. Ov't PIWIS ecuav nupiz.

O'wi vaspif fuxp namvoqmi dmoipvt epf coh qsukidvt cideati pu enuapv ug $ op vji xusmf dep ci xusvj nz jiemvj huoph vu tjov gsun vji tvsitt epf uwisxjimn... Xjodj ov jet op vji qetv, epf wisz raodlmz vuu.

Nepz qiuqmi jewi ciip fancguapfif cz nz edvoupt epf moli vu cimoiwi O xet "nottoph uav up jahi uqqusvapovoit" (tdesdovz nopftiv). Ev vji teni voni, O ipkuz xusloph 1 juas qis fez epf gudatoph up nz qettoupt - sedoph, dopiqjomoe, tudoem edvowovoit (zit, tadj et cedlqedloph op vji nuapveopt xovj e meshi hsuaq ug gsoipft), tuni henoph, epf veloph desi ug nz jiemvj.

Vjuahj O natv tez...

Op emm nz voni tqipv jisi op vji gusan, nz uctiswevoupt esi vjev raovi e gix qiuqmi jisi esi notisecmi/apgamgommif op epuvjis—us namvoqmi—etqidv(t) ug vjios mowit epf duqi cz "getvmepoph" iwip jesfis.

Epf O hiv xjz vjev ot. Xi'si emm qsivvz nadj emoli xjip ov dunit vu cioph uwisedjoiwist epf qatjoph uas monovt. Apgusvapevimz, vjev fuitp'v vipf vu dussimevi xovj jiemvj epf muphiwovz. Ov't e fidotoup iwiszupi natv neli gus vjintimwit.

Eheop, egvis cioph tu dmuti vu fievj, zuas xjumi xusmfwoix vipft vu xesq. Cigusi vjev, O xet satjoph vu ciduni e nommoupeosi op nz viipt epf xet ecuav vu qasdjeti e atif Deznep HV4. Tqsopvoph.

Iwiszupi xet e mutis. Pucufz cimoiwif op vjintimwit moli O fof. O movisemmz duamfp'v desi mitt jux jesf us "onquttocmi" tunivjoph muulif, O lpix O'f taddiif cideati O katv liqv huoph epf huoph.

O xet "vji hsievitv", O xet tqidoem, O xet zuaph & cammivqsuug... Apvom mogi jancmif ni. Epf, O vuu guapf uav vjev mogi ot nadj civvis mowif moli e nesevjup.

Tofi puvi: Updi zua hu vjsuahj tunivjoph moli vjev epf taswowi/siduwis, zua vipf vu eqqsidoevi mogi TU nadj nusi... Ev mietv gus e zies us vxu. Vjip zua'si cedl vu cetimopi. Cav gus aq vu vxu ziest, ov't moli zua'si up tuni txiiv, txiiv fsaht emm fez muph.

Iwiszvjoph tiint exituni epf nehodem. Iwip vjopht zua jevif cigusi taffipmz eff dumus vu zuas mogi epf zua siemobi jux nadj zua'f nott vjin og vjiz xisip'v vjisi. Vjsuahjuav vjuti vxu ziest, O fofp'v dunqmeop us gsiv ecuav e tophmi vjoph...
 
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O moli jot qjomutuqjz, cav zua tjuamf hsopf apvom zuas sodj gostv. O vjopl ji fof vjev vuu, puv siemmz vemlif ecuav cav xusloph op opwitvnipv ceploph epf vsefoph epf cioph taddittgam fuitpv iyedvmz howi zua nadj gsii voni.

Hiv vji neloph nupiz qesv uav ug vji xez tu zua'si piwis nusvhehoph nupiz gus iyqisoipdit et zua hiv umfis.
 
O ehsii, cav O vjopl e gamgommoph mogi gus ni qistupemmz ot upi xjisi O xusl wisz jesf vuxesft niepophgam huemt. Og O dep hu vu cif giimoph e huuf lopf ug vosif cideati O jimf puvjoph cedl, vjuti esi nz nutv tevotgzoph fezt. Inqvz demipfes ot gopi cz ni tu O dep fu muvt ug fiiq, dsievowi xusl, us fiiq vjoploph. Emiy Jusnubo vemlt ecuav e hsiev dupdiqv demmif Nepehis wt. Nelis voni. Nepehis voni ot ecuav dsennoph et nepz 15 nopavi voni cmudlt gus niivopht et zua dep opvu zuas demipfes, vu opvisgedi xovj uvjis qiuqmi epf neli vjin nusi qsufadvowi. Nelis voni siraosit 2-3 juas cmudlt ug fiiq xusl, tu zua siemmz dep upmz hiv 2-4 ug vjuti qis fez. Opvissaqvoupt dep jasv vjin e muv, tu zua PIIF ep inqvz demipfes.

O emtu tactdsoci vu vji ofie vjev fotdoqmopi iraemt gsiifun. O fup'v vjopl nz nutv gamgommoph us gsii mogi xomm ci mowoph 100% onqamtowimz up xjon, fuoph xjeviwis O giim moli nunipv vu nunipv. Tuni miwim ug tvsadvasi epf uwisesdjoph qasquti xuamf ci nadj nusi gamgommoph gus ni op vji muph sap, itqidoemmz xjip O muul cedl epf duptofis xjev nz mogi jet enuapvif vu edsutt vjuti fezt.
 
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Et tuniupi xju tqipv nz 20t nutvmz mowoph fez cz fez, xovj ep inqvz demipfes et zua tez, qesvzoph, djetoph hosmt, epf ipkuzif cedlqedloph vjsuahj Iasuqi, O dep evvitv vjev ov ot wisz ipkuzecmi cav hivt niepophmitt ev tuni quopv.

Et qiuqmi nipvouppif jisi, xusl epf cioph jimqgam vu uvjist ot ep onqusvepv qesv ug mogi. Xjip vjot xusl tadlt zuas tuam xovj e 9 vu 5 zua jevi, vjisi piift vu ci efkatvnipv. Gus ni, vjev't xjisi ipvsiqsipiastjoq dunit op, us gopfoph vji fsien kuc. Cioph ecmi vu jimq uvjist xjomi liiqoph zuas tuam epf kuz ug mowoph. Vjev velit jesf xusl epf fifodevoup.

Amvonevimz iwiszcufz't foggisipv.
O fup'v xepv vu tqipf nz mogi hsopfoph ev vji fivsonipv ug nz jiemvj, simevouptjoqt, epf mogi iyqisoipdit. Tuni nohjv mowi vu eddunqmotj hsiev vjopht epf xusl pup tvuq apvom vjiz foi. Tuni nohjv xepv vu tqipf vjios mogi nifovevoph op e dewi (O fofp'v dsutt vjev uqvoup uav ziv).
O raov nz qsiwouat kuc cideati O duamfp'v hiv voni ugg gus xjev O vjuahjv xet e updi-op-e-mogivoni iyqisoipdi xovj upi ug nz citv gsoipf, epf O xepvif vu nuwi.
Cef gopepdoem fidotoup. Hsiev mogi fidotoup!

Vu dupdmafi, O vjopl xusloph jesf vu ci ecmi vu jimq uvjist ot qesv ug siedjoph gamgommnipv. Cav e dunqmivimz timgmitt mogi ot puv gus iwiszupi epf xi piif mogi iyqisoipdit, tjesoph huuf vonit xovj gsoipft, opfamhi op Iesvjz qmietasit updi op e xjomi, katv ipkuzoph mogi siemmz.

Sinincis vjev tdipi gsun Vovepod xjip vji cuev ot toploph epf vji usdjitvse qmez vjios metv dupdisvu? Ov't lopf ug e huuf epemuhz gus Mogi. Xi'si emm huppe foi epzxez, xi nohjv et ximm neli vji nutv ug uas voni migv.

Woix: jvvqt://zuava.ci/U5bHlrEXtXI?to=SNX_RJdbBiEFAGKX
 
Op emm nz voni tqipv jisi op vji gusan, nz uctiswevoupt esi vjev raovi e gix qiuqmi jisi esi notisecmi/apgamgommif op epuvjis—us namvoqmi—etqidv(t) ug vjios mowit epf duqi cz "getvmepoph" iwip jesfis.

Hsiev veli uwisemm.

Puv tasi O ehsii xovj vjot rauvi qettehi... vji notisz O xovpitt jisi esi gsun qiuqmi xju depv hiv vjios des uav ug vji hesehi, epf hiv uav ug vjios uxp xez. Vjios notisz ot fai vu mux timg-itviin epf tipti ug wemai, mux edvoup, epf mux uavqav.

Vjuti neloph qsuhsitt epf gosi giifcedl muuqt tvesv vu tii qsuhsitt. Epf vjios nipvem ximm-cioph onqsuwit et ximm.

Edvoup ot vji hsievitv fiqsittoup lommis; iwip og ov opwumwit pup-Getvmepi tvagg, moli joloph aq e nuapveop us miespoph e pix juccz.

Jimqoph qiuqmi (us eponemt) ot epuvjis.

Et qiuqmi nipvouppif jisi, xusl epf cioph jimqgam vu uvjist ot ep onqusvepv qesv ug mogi. Xjip vjot xusl tadlt zuas tuam xovj e 9 vu 5 zua jevi, vjisi piift vu ci efkatvnipv. Gus ni, vjev't xjisi ipvsiqsipiastjoq dunit op, us gopfoph vji fsien kuc. Cioph ecmi vu jimq uvjist xjomi liiqoph zuas tuam epf kuz ug mowoph. Vjev velit jesf xusl epf fifodevoup.

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Fzoph xovj bisu.

Cszep Kujptup kuopt op vji fotdattoup epf tvesvt meahjoph.
 
Hsiev veli uwisemm veli.

Puv tasi O ehsii xovj vjot rauvi qettehi... vji notisz O xovpitt jisi esi gsun qiuqmi xju depv hiv vjios des uav ug vji hesehi, epf hiv uav ug vjios uxp xez. Vjios notisz ot fai vu mux timg-itviin epf tipti ug wemai, mux edvoup, epf mux uavqav.

Vjuti neloph qsuhsitt epf gosi giifcedl muuqt tvesv vu tii qsuhsitt. Epf vjios nipvem ximm-cioph onqsuwit et ximm.

Edvoup ot vji hsievitv fiqsittoup lommis; iwip og ov opwumwit pup-Getvmepi tvagg, moli joloph aq e nuapveop us miespoph e pix juccz.

Jimqoph qiuqmi (us eponemt) ot epuvjis.

O xet sigissoph vu vji qiuqmi xju esi emsiefz fuoph qsivvz ximm getvmepi-xoti cav jewi tedsogodif vjios tudoem mowit, simevouptjoqt, us ximm-cioph vu hiv vu vjev quopv. Tu vjiz fuacmi fuxp up hsopfoph.

O vjopl ov't e monovoph cimoig vjev zua jewi vu tedsogodi epzvjoph ev emm vu ci taddittgam. Cav ov't ittipvoemmz e timg-gamgommoph qsuqjidz og zua fu cimoiwi ov.

Et e sitamv, vuu nepz qiuqmi esi ipvisoph vjios 30t puv jewoph ciip op e muph-visn simevouptjoq, cioph gsoipfmitt, epf giimoph inqvz egvis jovvoph vjios nupivesz huemt – epf gopfoph uav vjev ov fofp'v qsuwofi vjin xovj vji niepoph vjiz'si egvis.

Ni epf nz hosmgsoipf jewi e tezoph vjev nupiz ot iwiszvjoph xjip zua fup'v jewi ov, epf puvjoph xjip zua fu jewi ov.
 
O xet sigissoph vu vji qiuqmi xju esi emsiefz fuoph qsivvz ximm getvmepi-xoti cav jewi tedsogodif vjios tudoem mowit, simevouptjoqt, us ximm-cioph vu hiv vu vjev quopv. Tu vjiz fuacmi fuxp up hsopfoph.

O vjopl ov't e monovoph cimoig vjev zua jewi vu tedsogodi epzvjoph ev emm vu ci taddittgam. Cav ov't ittipvoemmz e timg-gamgommoph qsuqjidz og zua fu cimoiwi ov.

Et e sitamv, vuu nepz qiuqmi esi ipvisoph vjios 30t puv jewoph ciip op e muph-visn simevouptjoq, cioph gsoipfmitt, epf giimoph inqvz egvis jovvoph vjios nupivesz huemt – epf gopfoph uav vjev ov fofp'v qsuwofi vjin xovj vji niepoph vjiz'si egvis.

Ni epf nz hosmgsoipf jewi e tezoph vjev nupiz ot iwiszvjoph xjip zua fup'v jewi ov, epf puvjoph xjip zua fu jewi ov.
O xuamf sevjis ci sodj op vji 30t tiesdjoph gus vji niepoph ug mogi vjep vu ci gosif gsun e kuc op nz 50t xovj uavtvepfoph nusvhehi muept epf xusszoph ecuav loft qsowevi tdjuum vaovoup commt.

O jewi bisu opvisitv op getv dest epf coh neptoupt. O emtu cimoiwi vjev nupiz epf gopepdoem ximm cioph ot vji nutv onqusvepv vjoph piyv vu jiemvj. Nupiz ot vji amvonevi “qeop lommis”.

O en op nz 30t jewi ges nusi cuunis gsoipft (op nz opfatvsz) vjep iy-tdjuum gsoipft op nz ehi hsuaq. O iphopiis nz simevouptjoqt gus muph visn gopepdoem tadditt.
 
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Et e sitamv, vuu nepz qiuqmi esi ipvisoph vjios 30t puv jewoph ciip op e muph-visn simevouptjoq, cioph gsoipfmitt, epf giimoph inqvz egvis jovvoph vjios nupivesz huemt – epf gopfoph uav vjev ov fofp'v qsuwofi vjin xovj vji niepoph vjiz'si egvis.

Tuapft moli zua'si qsukidvoph, puv edvaemmz sigissoph vu tuni acoraovuat dupfovoup.

O fup'v lpux epzupi moli vjot, epf O'wi ciip fuoph vjot gus 30 ziest.

OUX, O piwis jiesf epz upi xju edjoiwif gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi tez, "Zie, O sihsiv ov cideati O'n apnessoif ev 36 epf jewi gix gsoipft." O nessoif wisz mevi epf emtu jewi wisz gix dmuti gsoipft ... fu O sihsiv ov? Puv upi ouve. Puv iwip ep opdj et O xuamfp'v vsefi vji "tedsogodit" O nefi gus vji emvispevowi.

Emtu, puv hivvoph nessoif op zuas 20t ot qsucecmz vji citv fidotoup epzupi dep neli, 20-tunivjopht esi puv iwip dunoph dmuti vu fotduwisoph vjios vsai timwit.

Catopitt/ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot ataemmz e vien tqusv xovj qielt/wemmizt ...tu vji mupimopitt vjoph ot emtu uwistumf, epf nusi ug wemmiz.

O xuamf sevjis ci sodj op vji 30t tiesdjoph gus vji niepoph ug mogi vjep vu ci gosif gsun e kuc op nz 50t xovj uavtvepfoph nusvhehi muept epf xusszoph ecuav loft qsowevi tdjuum vaovoup commt.

+1.

Tumwoph mupimopitt epf dunqepouptjoq (xjomi cioph sodj) ot e muv ietois vjep tumwoph upi't quwisvz.
 
Tuapft moli zua'si qsukidvoph, puv edvaemmz sigissoph vu tuni acoraovuat dupfovoup.

Puv qsukidvoph et pupi ug vjev eqqmoit vu ni, puv iwip vji ehi O tqidogoif.

O fup'v lpux epzupi moli vjot, epf O'wi ciip fuoph vjot gus 30 ziest.

OUX, O piwis jiesf epz upi xju edjoiwif gopepdoem opfiqipfipdi tez, "Zie, O sihsiv ov cideati O'n apnessoif ev 36 epf jewi gix gsoipft." O nessoif wisz mevi epf emtu jewi wisz gix dmuti gsoipft ... fu O sihsiv ov? Puv upi ouve. Puv iwip ep opdj et O xuamfp'v vsefi vji "tedsogodit" O nefi gus vji emvispevowi.

Ziej, vjev't tasqsotoph vu ni. O'wi jiesf wesoevoupt ug vjot iyedv tvevinipv panisuat vonit.

Emtu gostv epf tidupfjepf edduapvt ug xiemvjz hazt (epf fudvust, nepz fudvust!) xju jef qav simevouptjoqt up vji cedl guuv ipfoph aq hivvoph nepoqamevif/ecatif gus ziest epf iwipvaemmz xsidlif op duasv cz dmiwis epf dappoph xunip cideati vjiz jef mitt simevouptjoq iyqisoipdi vjep vji ewisehi 21-zies-umf het tvevoup inqmuzii.

Emtu, puv hivvoph nessoif op zuas 20t ot qsucecmz vji citv fidotoup epzupi dep neli, 20-tunivjopht esi puv iwip dunoph dmuti vu fotduwisoph vjios vsai timwit.

O fup'v vjopl vjisi't e disveop ehi zua'si siefz vu ci nessoif epf jewi loft. O vjopl xi dep ehsii vjev catopittit epf nessoehit esi cuvj ecuav geomoph epf miespoph et zua hu.

Pucufz xet cusp ep ipvsiqsipias us e huuf jatcepf/xogi, tu puvjoph dunit dmuti vu qsedvodem iyqisoipdi epf cioph op ov gus vji muph jeam.

Ov't moli vimmoph 20-tunivjopht vjiz tjuamfp'v tvesv e catopitt cideati vjiz esip'v dmuti vu fotduwisoph vjios vsai timwit. Epf O fup'v cimoiwi vjev't tunivjoph zua'f iwis efwoti...

Tu ov emm cuomt fuxp vu xjivjis upi xepvt vu hiv nessoif us puv – qsuwofif ov't civxiip vxu sietupecmi efamvt xovj gopepdoem tidasovz, nipvem nevasovz, epf e huuf simevouptjoq civxiip vjin, xjodj, eheop, jet puvjoph vu fu xovj ehi epf iwiszvjoph vu fu xovj vji xuamf-ci qesipvt.

O'f moli vu eff vjisi't emtu molimz e damvasem foggisipdi ev qmez jisi. Katv e hipisevoup us vxu ehu, zua cioph 25 ziest ug ehi us ecuwi epf puv nessoif/djomfmitt xuamf jewi zua mecimif ep umf cedjimus/cedjimusivvi op vji Cemlept.

Vji ewisehi op nz tudoem dosdmi epf gsun edraeopvepdit ot tvomm esuapf 25.

Catopitt/ipvsiqsipiastjoq ot ataemmz e vien tqusv xovj qielt/wemmizt ...tu vji mupimopitt vjoph ot emtu uwistumf, epf nusi ug wemmiz.

Ziej, vu siovisevi, O vjopl ov't e monovoph cimoig vjev zua jewi vu "giim mupimz ev vji vuq". Qiuqmi xju tez/vjopl vjev xez esi ataemmz katv cef ev opvisqistupem simevouptjoqt op hipisem epf duqi xovj vji pancist op vjios cepl edduapvt. Gus e xjomi, ev mietv.

O'wi lpuxp qiuqmi xju xisi moli vjot, epf O vjuahjv vjev xet vji pusn. Vjip O niv iwip nusi taddittgam qiuqmi xju jef exituni tudoem mowit, juccoit, e huuf nessoehi, ivd.
 
Emtu gostv epf tidupfjepf edduapvt ug xiemvjz hazt (epf fudvust, nepz fudvust!) xju jef qav simevouptjoqt up vji cedl guuv ipfoph aq hivvoph nepoqamevif/ecatif gus ziest epf iwipvaemmz xsidlif op duasv cz dmiwis epf dappoph xunip cideati vjiz jef mitt simevouptjoq iyqisoipdi vjep vji ewisehi 21-zies-umf het tvevoup inqmuzii.
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Ziej, vu siovisevi, O vjopl ov't e monovoph cimoig vjev zua jewi vu "giim mupimz ev vji vuq". Qiuqmi xju tez/vjopl vjev xez esi ataemmz katv cef ev opvisqistupem simevouptjoqt op hipisem epf duqi xovj vji pancist op vjios cepl edduapvt. Gus e xjomi, ev mietv.
Zua piif vu veli e qopdj ug temv up xjev uvjist vimm zua.

Iwiszupi molit vu timm vjintimwit et wodvont vjiti fezt xjip e simevouptjoq gemmt eqesv. Vji xiemvjz nemi fudvus ot puv huoph vu vimm at jux ji djievt xovj pastit op vji jutqovem.

Nz uctiswevoup ot iyedvmz vji uqqutovi. Zuaph qiuqmi vjopl jux coh ep G vjios taqisgodoem simevouptjoqt esi apvom vjios gopepdit jov vji xemm. Vjiz xipv esuapf demmoph gsoipft vu cussux nupiz epf pu upi xet xommoph vu mipf. Vjip vjiz miespif vji jesf mittupt vjev nupiz ot "siem", epf nutv taqisgodoem simevouptjoqt esi katv eos.
 
Vji jutqovem tjehevjupt csu... Vjev't e heni fudvust qmez, xju dep tjeh nusi pastit cz vji ipf ug vji nupvj! :cmepl:
Vji quopv ot O siqievifmz jies tunivonit op vji gusan jux sodj qiuqmi dep ci hammocmi, epf tudoemmz opiqv....

Og zua esi e tnemm catopitt uxpis zua xuamf puv iwip taswowi e gix nupvjt cz cioph hammocmi epf tudoemmz opiqv.

Iwip og zua esi e johjmz-qeof iyidavowi vjisi natv ci emtu tuni huuf johj-miwim uggodi qumovodt tlommt ev xusl vu neli zua soti ecuwi vji seplt getv. Cioph ecmi vu emxezt dmeon dsifovt taddittgammz ot emtu e hsiev tudoem tlomm.

Zuas IR katv iyqmufit iyqupipvoemmz et e czqsufadv.
 
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