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<b>Coaching</b><br />
Been thinking about doing some coaching, but not marketing coaching. The more time I spend around other people, the more I see certain male behavioral patterns of what I would describe as "weakness" if they were my own.<br />
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The other day, I rejoined the FB group where I met my last gf. Practically every post is a sex meme or a meme about how badly someone else treated a guy and how <b><i>the other person was the problem and needs to take accountability. </i></b><br />
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Men are on about communication and working through issues until someone disagrees with them... Then they're being "attacked," and start making whiny responses to get support from the group and shut down conversation.<br />
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Yesterday, a guy posts this and says, "Amen?"<br />
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I thought that meant the topic was up for discussion, so I said it sounds like a difference in communication styles with one person complaining about it.<br />
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This led to some back and forth, the normal whiny comments. Finally, I asked if he'd considered that <b>being a passive-aggressive pussy</b> might have contributed to her behavior toward him.<br />
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Well, he didn't like that, and said he was just posting for perspectives and that the meme wasn't even about him and that I was making incorrect assumptions.<br />
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<i><b>Then his girl DM'd me...</b></i><br />
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She circled the part where I called him a <b>pussy</b>.<br />
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And that's when I realized that even though I'm an a**hole, I have a gift, and I could use that gift to help men who can't figure out why their life sucks and why everyone else is always treating them poorly.<br />
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<b>Here are some things I've noticed regular men can't seem to do...</b><br />
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- Take risks<br />
- Make decisions<br />
- Ask a girl out<br />
- Communicate well<br />
- Find their balls<br />
- Say what they're thinking<br />
- Behave masculinely<br />
- Show up<br />
- Try to fix things<br />
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In other words, "men" have become cowards (weak, whiny pussies), and they don't seem to recognize the effect it has on their lives. So they complain about how women never want a "good guy" or how the world is shitting on them.<br />
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If I could help fix some of their behavior, even just a little bit, it would make a big difference in their lives and would probably be worth the price of my services.<br />
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Maybe my coaching should start with an in-person sparring session. We'll put on gloves. I'll show them they can get punched in the face and still be okay. Once their adrenaline and testosterone get flowing, maybe they'll be open to other ideas on how to stop being such a bitch in life.
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That was roughly what I was trying to do with Discomfort Club when I had it. But the reality is that most men who are like that are from third world countries where a woman wearing a top in public is scandalous. So they naturally never learned how to interact with women and honestly, I don't think there's much hope for them in such an unnatural, basic-needs-rejecting culture.<br />
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If there are such guys from developed countries, many of them will never change. It's not something anyone from the outside can teach them. Just like with the Fastlane, you either have a F*ck this event or you don't. If you don't, no amount of coaching will help.<br />
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Maybe if you were to do it in-person like that, that could help. But I think they'd just cry and leave, posting afterward on Reddit that the world is against highly-sensitive people like them.</div>
