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If you want to read about someone who completely reworked themselves from a heroin addict and alcoholic to a professional athlete, then The Hurt Artist is a fantastic choice. It's also a pretty easy and (relatively) light read.
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My Recent Recommendation
Atlas Shrugged
The thing is a damn behemoth and is probably the longest book I've ever read. Tolkien is nothing compared to Rand.
In my opinion, there are problems with Atlas Shrugged, most notably its length (about halfway through it starts to feel a bit repetitive).
However, I really cannot recommend it enough. Especially to my fellow millennials who have been raised in a society that now upholds victimization and self-sacrifice as our highest values.
And, unlike what some people may think, you don't need to agree with everything Rand says to find value in her work.
In fact, one of the most striking themes that I found in the book? The one that no one mentions?
The way we look at love.
Probably because of our current media, we are often expected to 'give' love to someone who does not deserve it. We are expected to love someone because of their flaws or our own. Either because they overlooked our problems or we 'love' theirs.
We should love someone as a 'person'. Their everything. Not the things they do or the ways they make our lives better. But for 'themselves'. Whatever the hell that means.
"I don't want to be loved for anything. I want to be loved for myself - not for anything I do or have or say or think. For myself - not for my body or mind or words or works or actions."
Does that sound like our society?
No. We should love someone because of their strengths. Because they are funny, sexy, or intelligent. They can also be angry, broken, or depressed, but that is not what defines them.
Love should not be freely given. Because we *all* have known people who simply take and take and take. Love should be earned. On both sides.
Do you want someone to love you because of your flaws? Or because of the way you fight those flaws? The way you make that person laugh?
Someone should earn your love and you should earn theirs.
A few quotes that the Fastlane might enjoy:
"That I happen to suffer, doesn't give me a claim on you."
"To the last minute, everyone had hoped that someone would save them from it."
"I don't gamble on incompetents."
"They'd never try to reach what they had felt. I wouldn't want to seek it from a painting. I'd want it real. I'd take no pride in any hopeless longing. I wouldn't hold a stillborn aspiration. I'd want to have it, to make it, to live it."