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What's up everybody, it's nice to meet you all!

I started reading The Millionaire Fastlane in the end of September.
Finished it about 2 weeks ago. And have wished I've read this years ago.
I'm currently listening to the Unscripted audio book and I'm loving it.
And just picked up Rat Race.

I'm 37, living in NYC. Working as a Product Manager creating customer facing apps.

Prior to 2015, I had been laid off a couple of times.
And from 2015 through 2017, I was going no where.
I was working uber, bartending and partying.
I was doing the Sidewalk thing.

Then I had that moment, I needed to get it together.
Part of that "getting it together" was to find a career making over 100k.
But the problem is my degree was a bachelor of arts.
Not many options. Then a friend told me about tech industry.
If I learn to code, it was realistic that I can get in.
So I taught myself how to write code.
Started the journey in the beginning of 2018.

By the end of 2018 I got the 100K job.
Now I am doing the Slowlane thing.

I am comfortable.
But I am miserable in this Slowlane.
I have this rage inside of me that I can't live like this.
I hate the road I am on.
The spark to do something about it came to me about 1 year ago.

I started reading books about entrepreneurship through acquisition, and it gave me hope.
So for the last year I've been looking for businesses to buy.
But most of what I found either felt like you're going to replace your 40hrs p/week with a 80hrs p/week type of job plus higher risks with a SBA loan.
Others businesses I saw for sale either had easy barrier to entry or platform risks or scalability issues.

Then I started thinking what if I build something of my own, I mean if I was going to invest capital to buy a business, I should try building something myself, be my own boss, make money working for myself.

When I read TMF , I realized I was going about this all wrong.
Its about what problems and issues can be solved or improved on for customers.
The book shifted my mindset on how to approach building a business, along with many other areas in life.

The book left me feeling that I can be part of the Millionaire Fastlane.
The keys and the framework have been provided, now I just have to get to work.

But, I'm having a hard time trying to figure out what pain points to solve.
I've thought about processes at work to improve on and scale, but so far my ideas doesn't pass the CENTS test.

I've tried to think about pain points I've encountered in the recents months, I've jotted down a couple ideas.
But mostly I'm just blanking.

My weekends are my free time. So I started spending more time outside, going to cafes and walking around, just to get ideas flowing.
But it feels like I have no reception.

During the week I'm drained. I use a lot of mental capacity at work. And 3 days out of the week I get home around 9pm because I go to the gym after work.

I'm hungry and eager to start.

That is a little bit about me.

I'm excited to be here.
I'm looking forward to learning and improving and providing help where I can.
 
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Xusloph et e Qsufadv Nepehis dsievoph datvunis gedoph eqqt.

Jux fuit zuas dassipv dunqepz neli nupiz?

Ot vjisi nusi vu vjev qoi vu hu esuapf? Epz quvipvoem fiemt? Esi zua cuapf cz e pup-dunqivi?

Ugvip vonit vji citv uqqusvapovoit tov sohjv apfis uas putit, lopfe moli jux O dunqmivimz uwismuulif vji piif gus edduapvecomovz tugvxesi gus piesmz 20 ziest.

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Faj.

Ximduni ecuesf!
 
Ximduni.

NK emsiefz csuahjv vjot aq:
Xusloph et e Qsufadv Nepehis dsievoph datvunis gedoph eqqt.
Og vjev't e wemaecmi ipuahj tlomm vu ci qeof uwis 100l e zies, vjip ov't e tlomm uvjist xomm qez zua gus. Zua katv jewi vu gohasi uav jux vu iev xjev zua lomm.

Xju emtu qezt vu dsievi datvunis gedoph eqqt?

Jux fu zua hiv op gsupv ug vjin?

Jux fu zua hiv vjin vu qez zua vu fu vji teni gus vjin?

Epf/us dep fu zua dsievi datvunis-gedoph eqqt vjev datvunist xomm qez gus?
 
Zua 100% tjuamf caz e catopitt xovj ep TCE muep.

Hu gopf e qsugovecmi catopitt xovj ipuahj inqmuziit vjev ov’t puv vji uxpis fuoph iwiszvjoph vu howi ov vji qsugov ov tezt ov jet.

Qav 10% fuxp.

Eavunevi vji catopitt xovj tztvint epf howi tuniupi e movvmi seoti vu ci e nepehis.

Vjip tviq exez. Hu ipkuz zuas mogi. Miv zuas catopitt tiswi zua, puv vji uvjis xez esuapf.
 
Pix Zusl ot e hsiev qmedi vu iyqisonipv xovj ofiet mudemmz og zua'si opvisitvif op mudem catopitt.



Jux fuit zuas dassipv dunqepz neli nupiz?

Ot vjisi nusi vu vjev qoi vu hu esuapf? Epz quvipvoem fiemt? Esi zua cuapf cz e pup-dunqivi?

Ugvip vonit vji citv uqqusvapovoit tov sohjv apfis uas putit, lopfe moli jux O dunqmivimz uwismuulif vji piif gus edduapvecomovz tugvxesi gus piesmz 20 ziest.

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Faj.

Ximduni ecuesf!
Vjepl zua! Jeqqz vu ci jisi.

O'wi ciip vjoploph ecuav vjot raitvoup xjomi ev xusl vji metv duaqmi ug fezt.
O en ev e gopepdoem optvovavoup. Nz datvunis funeop ot Catopitt dmoipvt.
Vji dunqepz nelit nupiz gsun opvisitvt up muept epf dsifov desft, giit gsun xosit , EDJ epf dsifov desf visnopemt, vsefoph.
Vjisi esi disveop gievasit vjiz'wi ziv vu nupivobi up moli qezsumm, gseaf qsuvidvoup, optohjvt feve.
O'wi jimqif meapdjif gievasit gus gseaf qsuvidvoup, optohjvt fetjcuesf epf qeznipv eqqsuwem xuslgmux.
Vjisi ot uqqusvapovz jisi, cav vjiti esi dunqmodevif tztvint epf xuamf siraosi tactvepvoem deqovem.

Et O vjopl ecuav xusl qsudittit, xi'si miwisehoph EO, vu xsovi dufi us nohsevi dufi, xsovi siraosinipvt, fotduwisz, tepfcuy ofiet.
Epf xi esi vszoph vu miwisehi ov gus qsukidv nepehinipv epf qmeppoph.
Topdi O jewi ciip jisi, xi fup'v jewi e hsiev qsuditt us vuum gus raesvismz deqedovz qmeppoph, xi esi tvomm miwisehoph iydim. Ov ot e wisz nepaem qsuditt.
Pus fu xi jewi e hsiev xiil cz xiil woix ug xjev gievasit xomm ci xuslif up epf cz xju, wisz nepaem vjsuahj iydim.
Effovoupemmz, xi fup'v jewi e hsiev qsuditt gus vsedloph vji opqav epf uavqav ug vji deqedovz. Gus iyenqmi tez xi itvonevif Y enuapv ug juast, cav xjev xet vji edvaem juast qav opvu vji tduqi. Ov ot e nepaem qsuditt.
Xi esi huoph vu vsz vu tvsienmopi tuni ug vjiti qsudittit xovj iyotvoph tugvxesi xi'si qezoph gus, cav O vjopl vjisi ot huoph vu ci tuni heqt, epf tvomm xomm ci tunixjev jiewomz nepaem. O fup'v cimoiwi O en cuapf cz e pup dunqivi.

Vjiti raitvoupt jet huv ni vjoploph nusi gsun e foggisipv ephmi. O eqqsidoevi ov!
 
Ximduni.

NK emsiefz csuahjv vjot aq:

Og vjev't e wemaecmi ipuahj tlomm vu ci qeof uwis 100l e zies, vjip ov't e tlomm uvjist xomm qez zua gus. Zua katv jewi vu gohasi uav jux vu iev xjev zua lomm.

Xju emtu qezt vu dsievi datvunis gedoph eqqt?

Jux fu zua hiv op gsupv ug vjin?

Jux fu zua hiv vjin vu qez zua vu fu vji teni gus vjin?

Epf/us dep fu zua dsievi datvunis-gedoph eqqt vjev datvunist xomm qez gus?
Podi vu niiv zua Epfz!

Duptofisoph vufez xovj EO, ov't epzupi vjev xepvt vu veli vjev piyv tviq. Niepoph moli edvaemmz etloph vji sohjv raitvoupt vu hiv vji eqq vu xjisi ov piift vu c, vjoploph ecuav emm ug vji foggisipv ati detit. Moli xovj nepz esiet op mogi, og zuas iyqisvoti ot monovif op e disveop esie, zua nohjv lpux xjev raitvoupt vu etl zuastimg op usfis veli vjev piyv tviq. Iwipvaemmz qiuqmi gohasi ov uav, cav O vjopl ov duamf ci tqif aq xovj ep iyqisv.

Tnemm catopitt uxpist vjev O'wi duni edsutt, ataemmz hu vjsuahj aqxusl us gowis us ep emvispevowi vjev fuitp'v siraosi e muv ug aqgsupv deqovem. Vjip O'wi tiip ev nz dunqepz xi'wi josif uvjis coh dunqepoit epf qeof japfsift ug vjuatepft gus e qsuvuvzqi op xjodj O lpux xi esi ges exez gsun caomfoph cideati ug vidjpumuhz duptvseopvt. Vjev xet 3-4 ziest ehu, cigusi EO. Epf zit, xi esi puv dmuti vu vjev 5 zies qmep.

Fosidvoupemmz xi esi vsipfoph vuxesft ecuav fimowisoph gievasit xovj tqiif, gsiraipdz epf mitt jiefduapv. Jux xi fu ov ot e qsuditt xi esi huoph vu tvesv gohasoph uav op vji piyv 3 nupvjt.
O'mm ci xusloph up vjot vu tii xjev ov ot moli, epf miesp gsun ov.
O haitt vjot duamf ci e duptamvoph tiswodi vjev dep ci qsuwofif vu uvjis dunqepoit/catopitt uxpist vjev xepv sitamvt xovj raemovz.

O xomm dupvopai vu gopf eqq ofiet xjodj datvunist xomm qez gus.

Vjepl zua.
 
Zua 100% tjuamf caz e catopitt xovj ep TCE muep.

Hu gopf e qsugovecmi catopitt xovj ipuahj inqmuziit vjev ov’t puv vji uxpis fuoph iwiszvjoph vu howi ov vji qsugov ov tezt ov jet.

Qav 10% fuxp.

Eavunevi vji catopitt xovj tztvint epf howi tuniupi e movvmi seoti vu ci e nepehis.

Vjip tviq exez. Hu ipkuz zuas mogi. Miv zuas catopitt tiswi zua, puv vji uvjis xez esuapf.
O xomm dupvopai tiesdjoph, katv huv vu gopf vji huuf upit cigusi vjiz hu apfis dupvsedv.
 
Xjev't aq iwiszcufz, ov't podi vu niiv zua emm!

O tvesvif siefoph Vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi op vji ipf ug Tiqvincis.
Gopotjif ov ecuav 2 xiilt ehu. Epf jewi xotjif O'wi sief vjot ziest ehu.
O'n dassipvmz motvipoph vu vji Aptdsoqvif eafou cuul epf O'n muwoph ov.
Epf katv qodlif aq Sev Sedi.

O'n 37, mowoph op PZD. Xusloph et e Qsufadv Nepehis dsievoph datvunis gedoph eqqt.

Qsous vu 2015, O jef ciip meof ugg e duaqmi ug vonit.
Epf gsun 2015 vjsuahj 2017, O xet huoph pu xjisi.
O xet xusloph acis, cesvipfoph epf qesvzoph.
O xet fuoph vji Tofixeml vjoph.

Vjip O jef vjev nunipv, O piifif vu hiv ov vuhivjis.
Qesv ug vjev "hivvoph ov vuhivjis" xet vu gopf e desiis neloph uwis 100l.
Cav vji qsucmin ot nz fihsii xet e cedjimus ug esvt.
Puv nepz uqvoupt. Vjip e gsoipf vumf ni ecuav vidj opfatvsz.
Og O miesp vu dufi, ov xet siemotvod vjev O dep hiv op.
Tu O veahjv nztimg jux vu xsovi dufi.
Tvesvif vji kuaspiz op vji cihoppoph ug 2018.

Cz vji ipf ug 2018 O huv vji 100L kuc.
Pux O en fuoph vji Tmuxmepi vjoph.

O en dungusvecmi.
Cav O en notisecmi op vjot Tmuxmepi.
O jewi vjot sehi optofi ug ni vjev O dep'v mowi moli vjot.
O jevi vji suef O en up.
Vji tqesl vu fu tunivjoph ecuav ov deni vu ni ecuav 1 zies ehu.

O tvesvif siefoph cuult ecuav ipvsiqsipiastjoq vjsuahj edraotovoup, epf ov hewi ni juqi.
Tu gus vji metv zies O'wi ciip muuloph gus catopittit vu caz.
Cav nutv ug xjev O guapf iovjis gimv moli zua'si huoph vu siqmedi zuas 40jst q/xiil xovj e 80jst q/xiil vzqi ug kuc qmat johjis sotlt xovj e TCE muep.
Uvjist catopittit O tex gus temi iovjis jef ietz cessois vu ipvsz us qmevgusn sotlt us tdemecomovz ottait.

Vjip O tvesvif vjoploph xjev og O caomf tunivjoph ug nz uxp, O niep og O xet huoph vu opwitv deqovem vu caz e catopitt, O tjuamf vsz caomfoph tunivjoph nztimg, ci nz uxp cutt, neli nupiz xusloph gus nztimg.

Xjip O sief VNG, O siemobif O xet huoph ecuav vjot emm xsuph.
Ovt ecuav xjev qsucmint epf ottait dep ci tumwif us onqsuwif up gus datvunist.
Vji cuul tjogvif nz nopftiv up jux vu eqqsuedj caomfoph e catopitt, emuph xovj nepz uvjis esiet op mogi.

Vji cuul migv ni giimoph vjev O dep ci qesv ug vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi.
Vji lizt epf vji gsenixusl jewi ciip qsuwofif, pux O katv jewi vu hiv vu xusl.

Cav, O'n jewoph e jesf voni vszoph vu gohasi uav xjev qeop quopvt vu tumwi.
O'wi vjuahjv ecuav qsudittit ev xusl vu onqsuwi up epf tdemi, cav tu ges nz ofiet fuitp'v qett vji DIPVT vitv.

O'wi vsoif vu vjopl ecuav qeop quopvt O'wi ipduapvisif op vji sidipvt nupvjt, O'wi kuvvif fuxp e duaqmi ofiet.
Cav nutvmz O'n katv cmeploph.

Nz xiilipft esi nz gsii voni. Tu O tvesvif tqipfoph nusi voni uavtofi, huoph vu degit epf xemloph esuapf, katv vu hiv ofiet gmuxoph.
Cav ov giimt moli O jewi pu sidiqvoup.

Fasoph vji xiil O'n fseopif. O ati e muv ug nipvem deqedovz ev xusl. Epf 3 fezt uav ug vji xiil O hiv juni esuapf 9qn cideati O hu vu vji hzn egvis xusl.

O'n japhsz epf iehis vu tvesv.

Vjev ot e movvmi cov ecuav ni.

O'n iydovif vu ci jisi.
O'n muuloph gusxesf vu miespoph epf onqsuwoph epf qsuwofoph jimq xjisi O dep.
Ximduni, on 36 nztimg epf emtu op PZD, citv ug madl nep.
 
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  • Active Daily: Life-changing content posted dozens of times every day. No dead threads.
  • MJ's Inner Circle: Direct access to the author of The Millionaire Fastlane.
  • Vetted Network: Connect with founders scaling to 7 and 8 figures.
  • Proven Roadmaps: Strategy over motivation. Execution over "hustle porn."
"SCALED TO 6-FIGURE MONTHS"
"Tips and advice here saved me from huge mistakes, others allowed me to scale my business to 6-figure months."
— User MitchC
"INSANE QUALITY OF PEOPLE"
"The number of high quality people I've met from this forum has been insane. All of it predicated on building real value."
— User Richard Peck

"You are the average of the five people you surround yourself with."
Are you surrounding yourself with success?

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