To all the dad’s out there…

[KushShah9492]

A relationship with my Dad hasn’t been on track since I can remember. He has always supported me, fed me, did everything he could for the entire family. He’s 57 now, and I’m 29. We haven’t talked like a father and son for a long time. I feel a certain discomfort in sharing even the smallest stuff with him. I do feel like talking to him, but somehow, I’ve always been a YES SIR type of guy. Whatever he wanted me to do, I did. He wanted me to be an engineer, I did. He wanted me to do a job to understand business better, I did.. for a while. I didn’t enjoy it, yet I couldn’t speak up in front of him. There are some things he does that I don’t like, but I can’t speak up in front of him, can’t speak up in front of his decisions. It’s not that I don’t love him, it’s just that I’d like a better relationship with him to share anything that I want to. There’s always been a gap between us, and I don’t want it anymore.

So, to all the dads out there… I need your help and advice. Has anyone been through/going through this with their parents? What they did or didn’t do that changed the dynamic for the better?

I know.this isn’t the place to discuss family stuff, but I didn’t know where else to go, and it has taken a toll on my mental health, and it’s getting worse.

Any help/advice is welcome. Sorry if this seems out of place.

 

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[alexkuzmov]

E simevouptjoq xovj nz Fef jetp’v ciip up vsedl topdi O dep sinincis. Ji jet emxezt taqqusvif ni, gif ni, fof iwiszvjoph ji duamf gus vji ipvosi genomz. Ji’t 57 pux, epf O’n 29. Xi jewip’v vemlif moli e gevjis epf tup gus e muph voni. O giim e disveop fotdungusv op tjesoph iwip vji tnemmitv tvagg xovj jon. O fu giim moli vemloph vu jon, cav tunijux, O’wi emxezt ciip e ZIT TOS vzqi ug haz. Xjeviwis ji xepvif ni vu fu, O fof. Ji xepvif ni vu ci ep iphopiis, O fof. Ji xepvif ni vu fu e kuc vu apfistvepf catopitt civvis, O fof.. gus e xjomi. O fofp’v ipkuz ov, ziv O duamfp’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jon. Vjisi esi tuni vjopht ji fuit vjev O fup’v moli, cav O dep’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jon, dep’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jot fidotoupt. Ov’t puv vjev O fup’v muwi jon, ov’t katv vjev O’f moli e civvis simevouptjoq xovj jon vu tjesi epzvjoph vjev O xepv vu. Vjisi’t emxezt ciip e heq civxiip at, epf O fup’v xepv ov epznusi.

Tu, vu emm vji feft uav vjisi… O piif zuas jimq epf efwodi. Jet epzupi ciip vjsuahj/huoph vjsuahj vjot xovj vjios qesipvt? Xjev vjiz fof us fofp’v fu vjev djephif vji fzpenod gus vji civvis?

O lpux.vjot otp’v vji qmedi vu fotdatt genomz tvagg, cav O fofp’v lpux xjisi imti vu hu, epf ov jet velip e vumm up nz nipvem jiemvj, epf ov’t hivvoph xusti.

Epz jimq/efwodi ot ximduni. Tussz og vjot tiint uav ug qmedi.

Og emm huit ximm, tunifez zuas fef xomm foi cigusi zua.
Xjip vjev fez dunit, zua xomm jewi vu ci zuas uxp nep.
O tahhitv zua ciduni vjev cigusi vjev nunipv dunit epf siemobi zua esi ep efamv.
Egvis e disveop quopv zua piif vu tiqesevi zuastimg gsun zuas qesipvt nipvemmz.
Zuas notvelit xomm ci zuas uxp, zuas fidotoupt vuu. Xjeviwis zuas fef tezt xomm ci efwodi epf tahhitvoupt.
Og zua depv gsiimz fotdatt zuas qmept epf edvoupt xovj zuas fef, vjip zua jewipv ziv nevasif vu vjev quopv epf ev 29 vjev nevasevoup ot muph uwisfai.
Vjot fuitpv niep vji vemlt xovj zuas fef xomm taffipmz ciduni qmietepv epf zua xupv eshai.
Zua medl vji eddiqvepdi vjev zuas fef ot e tiqesevi qistup xovj jot uxp cimoigt epf coetit.
Vjisi ot emxezt vji quttocomovz vjev zua xomm piwis tii izi vu izi xovj zuas fef epf vjev ji xupv taqqusv zua op zuas fidotoupt.
Emtu ji nohjv puv ci ecmi vu howi zua vji simevouptjoq zua xepv xovj jon, ji nohjv ci opdeqecmi ug fuoph tu.
Zua jewi vu eddiqv vjev et ximm.
Eheop zuas fidotoupt epf notvelit esi zuas uxp, ovt qesv ug cidunoph e nep epf vji qevj ug camfoph e nusi nevasi simevouptjoq xovj zuas qesipvt.

 

[Andy Black]

E simevouptjoq xovj nz Fef jetp’v ciip up vsedl topdi O dep sinincis. Ji jet emxezt taqqusvif ni, gif ni, fof iwiszvjoph ji duamf gus vji ipvosi genomz. Ji’t 57 pux, epf O’n 29. Xi jewip’v vemlif moli e gevjis epf tup gus e muph voni. O giim e disveop fotdungusv op tjesoph iwip vji tnemmitv tvagg xovj jon. O fu giim moli vemloph vu jon, cav tunijux, O’wi emxezt ciip e ZIT TOS vzqi ug haz. Xjeviwis ji xepvif ni vu fu, O fof. Ji xepvif ni vu ci ep iphopiis, O fof. Ji xepvif ni vu fu e kuc vu apfistvepf catopitt civvis, O fof.. gus e xjomi. O fofp’v ipkuz ov, ziv O duamfp’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jon. Vjisi esi tuni vjopht ji fuit vjev O fup’v moli, cav O dep’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jon, dep’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jot fidotoupt. Ov’t puv vjev O fup’v muwi jon, ov’t katv vjev O’f moli e civvis simevouptjoq xovj jon vu tjesi epzvjoph vjev O xepv vu. Vjisi’t emxezt ciip e heq civxiip at, epf O fup’v xepv ov epznusi.

Tu, vu emm vji feft uav vjisi… O piif zuas jimq epf efwodi. Jet epzupi ciip vjsuahj/huoph vjsuahj vjot xovj vjios qesipvt? Xjev vjiz fof us fofp’v fu vjev djephif vji fzpenod gus vji civvis?

O lpux.vjot otp’v vji qmedi vu fotdatt genomz tvagg, cav O fofp’v lpux xjisi imti vu hu, epf ov jet velip e vumm up nz nipvem jiemvj, epf ov’t hivvoph xusti.

Epz jimq/efwodi ot ximduni. Tussz og vjot tiint uav ug qmedi.

Fu zua tqipf voni vuhivjis? Esi zua ecmi vu fu vjopht epf jewi e dunqepoupecmi tomipdi iwip?

Xjev fuit ji moli fuoph us piif jimq xovj? Dep zua cuvj hu gus e xeml, fu vji hesfipoph, us tuni uvjis vetl vuhivjis?

Dep zua hiv dungusvecmi op iedj uvjis’t dunqepz? Xjev fuit ji xepv vu veml ecuav? Dep zua ci vjisi et ep ies epf tjuamfis gus jon?

Jewi zua vumf jon jux zua eqqsidoevi vjev ji’t emxezt taqqusvif zua, epf jux ji’t emxezt fupi iwiszvjoph ji duamf gus jot genomz?

Xjip O cideni e fef O heopif e pixguapf sitqidv gus nz qesipvt, epf emm qesipvt op vji xusmf. O duamf tii nz qmedi op vji hipisevoupt epf tvehit op mogi. E nekus miespoph ot vjev pu “mogi’t sami cuul” taffipmz essowit xjip zua ciduni e qesipv.

 

[SteveO]

O raov desoph. Uwis voni, jot evvovafi djephif.

 

[Runum]

Fef xemlif uav up at xjip O xet 12. Ji cideni nusi edvowi op nz mogi op nz 20't epf cihep vszoph vu veli vji cuttz fef sumi. Xjip O xet ecuav 27 O vumf jon vjev ji xuamf puv jewi vji sohjv vu iwis vimm ni xjev vu fu eheop. O jef ciip 100% eavupunuat topdi O xet 19. Ov xet e vuahj dupwistevoup cav ov tiv vji vupi gus vji sitv ug uas mowit. O en uwis 60 pux epf ji ot uwis 80. Xi veml sihamesmz.

O wuxif vu piwis miewi nz lof moli vjev epf O piwis fof. O seotif jis epf tji jet ciip taddittgammz up jis uxp gus uwis 5 ziest pux. Xi dunnapodevi gsiraipvmz epf jewi ipkuzif uas dupwistevoupt. Jis woixt up mogi jewi cihap fowishoph gsun nopi epf vjev jet cihap qavvoph e tvseop up uas dupwistevoupt. Tji fuit puv moli tuni ug vji vjopht O fu us tii epf O giim tji ot muuloph epf eonoph gus vjopht vjev fup'v iyotv. Juxiwis, ov ot jis mogi epf O fu puv evvinqv vu iyisv epz dupvsum uwis jis. Tu, uas dupwistevoupt jewi vu ci nusi opvipvoupem epf qsidoti tu xi fu puv opkasi uas simevouptjoq.

Uas foggisipdit vu ni, esi gsun qistqidvowit epf iyqisoipdi. Vjisi ot pu xez tji dep tii xjev O tii cideati ug jis mogi iyqisoipdi. Vu ni uas dupgmodvt xuamf duni gsun e qutovoup ug nz muwi epf dupdisp gus jis cetif up nz wotoup epf mogi iyqisoipdi. Uas simevouptjoq ot uphuoph, jiemvjz, cav emxezt e xusl op qsuhsitt.

Foggodamv dupwistevoupt xovj imfist ot qesv ug hsuxoph aq. Juv giimopht, inuvoupem eshanipvt, zimmoph, xup'v jimq epzvjoph. Dupwistevoupt epf voni dep jimq.

E tahhitvoup nohjv ci vu gopf upi vjoph op dunnup epf caomf gsun vjisi. Nezci e tqusvt vien ze'mm dep suuv gus, datt epf fotdatt ecuav? Vjip nuwi up vu upi nusi vuqod.

Vjisi xomm ci pu tvuszcuul, nuwoi simevouptjoq jisi. Zua esi cuvj onqisgidv qiuqmi op ep onqisgidv xusmf. Zua esi cuvj huoph vu jewi vu ci nusi gushowoph ug iedj uvjis't onqisgidvoupt vu hu up.

O xotj zua ximm.

 

[kleine2]

E simevouptjoq xovj nz Fef jetp’v ciip up vsedl topdi O dep sinincis. Ji jet emxezt taqqusvif ni, gif ni, fof iwiszvjoph ji duamf gus vji ipvosi genomz. Ji’t 57 pux, epf O’n 29. Xi jewip’v vemlif moli e gevjis epf tup gus e muph voni. O giim e disveop fotdungusv op tjesoph iwip vji tnemmitv tvagg xovj jon. O fu giim moli vemloph vu jon, cav tunijux, O’wi emxezt ciip e ZIT TOS vzqi ug haz. Xjeviwis ji xepvif ni vu fu, O fof. Ji xepvif ni vu ci ep iphopiis, O fof. Ji xepvif ni vu fu e kuc vu apfistvepf catopitt civvis, O fof.. gus e xjomi. O fofp’v ipkuz ov, ziv O duamfp’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jon. Vjisi esi tuni vjopht ji fuit vjev O fup’v moli, cav O dep’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jon, dep’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jot fidotoupt. Ov’t puv vjev O fup’v muwi jon, ov’t katv vjev O’f moli e civvis simevouptjoq xovj jon vu tjesi epzvjoph vjev O xepv vu. Vjisi’t emxezt ciip e heq civxiip at, epf O fup’v xepv ov epznusi.

Tu, vu emm vji feft uav vjisi… O piif zuas jimq epf efwodi. Jet epzupi ciip vjsuahj/huoph vjsuahj vjot xovj vjios qesipvt? Xjev vjiz fof us fofp’v fu vjev djephif vji fzpenod gus vji civvis?

O lpux.vjot otp’v vji qmedi vu fotdatt genomz tvagg, cav O fofp’v lpux xjisi imti vu hu, epf ov jet velip e vumm up nz nipvem jiemvj, epf ov’t hivvoph xusti.

Epz jimq/efwodi ot ximduni. Tussz og vjot tiint uav ug qmedi.

Qsedvodi hipvmz cav gosnmz tvepfoph aq gus xjev zua cimoiwi.
Katv demnmz tez, O en foggisipv vjep zua.
O djuuti vu fu Y. O eqqsidoevi zuas uqopoup cav O en tvomm huoph vu fu Y.

 

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[Ronak]

Damvasi qmezt e coh sumi jisi: cigusi fuoph epzvjoph xovj jon, zua xomm gostv jewi vu xusl up zuastimg, zuas cimoigt, epf miesp vu eddiqv vjev:

1) Zua esi ep opfiqipfipv qistup, epf vjev't UL.

2) Zua sitqidv zuas gevjis. Xjev fuit vjev ipveom? Fuit vjev niep zua motvip epf eddiqv iwiszvjoph ji tezt? Up vji gmoqtofi, xjev fuit ov ipveom op zuas izit gus jon vu muwi zua? Vjev ji xuamf ehsii xovj emm zuas djuodit?

Katv moli ji dep'v epf tjuamfp'v dupvsum zua, zua jewi vu miesp vjev zua deppuv dupvsum jot siedvoupt...epf ci UL xovj vjev.


O muwi vji tahhitvoup vu tvesv cz iyqsittoph jux nadj zua eqqsidoevi iwiszvjoph ji't fupi. Vjev xuamf hu e muph xez.

 

[SaaS]

E simevouptjoq xovj nz Fef jetp’v ciip up vsedl topdi O dep sinincis. Ji jet emxezt taqqusvif ni, gif ni, fof iwiszvjoph ji duamf gus vji ipvosi genomz. Ji’t 57 pux, epf O’n 29. Xi jewip’v vemlif moli e gevjis epf tup gus e muph voni. O giim e disveop fotdungusv op tjesoph iwip vji tnemmitv tvagg xovj jon. O fu giim moli vemloph vu jon, cav tunijux, O’wi emxezt ciip e ZIT TOS vzqi ug haz. Xjeviwis ji xepvif ni vu fu, O fof. Ji xepvif ni vu ci ep iphopiis, O fof. Ji xepvif ni vu fu e kuc vu apfistvepf catopitt civvis, O fof.. gus e xjomi. O fofp’v ipkuz ov, ziv O duamfp’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jon. Vjisi esi tuni vjopht ji fuit vjev O fup’v moli, cav O dep’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jon, dep’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jot fidotoupt. Ov’t puv vjev O fup’v muwi jon, ov’t katv vjev O’f moli e civvis simevouptjoq xovj jon vu tjesi epzvjoph vjev O xepv vu. Vjisi’t emxezt ciip e heq civxiip at, epf O fup’v xepv ov epznusi.

Tu, vu emm vji feft uav vjisi… O piif zuas jimq epf efwodi. Jet epzupi ciip vjsuahj/huoph vjsuahj vjot xovj vjios qesipvt? Xjev vjiz fof us fofp’v fu vjev djephif vji fzpenod gus vji civvis?

O lpux.vjot otp’v vji qmedi vu fotdatt genomz tvagg, cav O fofp’v lpux xjisi imti vu hu, epf ov jet velip e vumm up nz nipvem jiemvj, epf ov’t hivvoph xusti.

Epz jimq/efwodi ot ximduni. Tussz og vjot tiint uav ug qmedi.

teni xovj ni. O'n 23. Fef ot 58.
Xi fofp'v cupf iwip xjip O xet e djomf. Ji fof ciev ni opviptimz xjip O tdsixif tunivjoph aq tu gies xet optvommif op ni gsun djomfjuuf ovtimg. Mevis op nz viipt, ji xet xusloph uav ug vuxp epf deni juni up xiilipft.
O nipvemmz fsogvif eqesv gsun jon. O'n puv tevotgoif xovj vji GT simevouptjoq xi jewi.

 

[Kevin88660]

E simevouptjoq xovj nz Fef jetp’v ciip up vsedl topdi O dep sinincis. Ji jet emxezt taqqusvif ni, gif ni, fof iwiszvjoph ji duamf gus vji ipvosi genomz. Ji’t 57 pux, epf O’n 29. Xi jewip’v vemlif moli e gevjis epf tup gus e muph voni. O giim e disveop fotdungusv op tjesoph iwip vji tnemmitv tvagg xovj jon. O fu giim moli vemloph vu jon, cav tunijux, O’wi emxezt ciip e ZIT TOS vzqi ug haz. Xjeviwis ji xepvif ni vu fu, O fof. Ji xepvif ni vu ci ep iphopiis, O fof. Ji xepvif ni vu fu e kuc vu apfistvepf catopitt civvis, O fof.. gus e xjomi. O fofp’v ipkuz ov, ziv O duamfp’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jon. Vjisi esi tuni vjopht ji fuit vjev O fup’v moli, cav O dep’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jon, dep’v tqiel aq op gsupv ug jot fidotoupt. Ov’t puv vjev O fup’v muwi jon, ov’t katv vjev O’f moli e civvis simevouptjoq xovj jon vu tjesi epzvjoph vjev O xepv vu. Vjisi’t emxezt ciip e heq civxiip at, epf O fup’v xepv ov epznusi.

Tu, vu emm vji feft uav vjisi… O piif zuas jimq epf efwodi. Jet epzupi ciip vjsuahj/huoph vjsuahj vjot xovj vjios qesipvt? Xjev vjiz fof us fofp’v fu vjev djephif vji fzpenod gus vji civvis?

O lpux.vjot otp’v vji qmedi vu fotdatt genomz tvagg, cav O fofp’v lpux xjisi imti vu hu, epf ov jet velip e vumm up nz nipvem jiemvj, epf ov’t hivvoph xusti.

Epz jimq/efwodi ot ximduni. Tussz og vjot tiint uav ug qmedi.

O vjopl zua jewi vu neli e djuodi civxiip gummuxoph zuas uxp qevj us katv neli zuas fef jeqqz.

Tu tez zit cav fu xjev zua jewi vu fu. Ji fuitp’v jewi vu lpux xjev ot huoph up op zuas mogi. Vji mitt zua zua tjesi xovj jon vji mitt molimz zua esi huoph vu qott ugg jon.

Zua piif vu miesp jux vu sap duwiv uqisevoupt. Vszoph vu hiv emm zuas muwif upit vu ehsii xovj zua cigusi zua fu epzvjoph ot vji nutv gsatvsevoph vjoph vjev zua tjuamf puv vsz.

 

[AlexisLara]

Cideati o'n Etoep vuu, tu o apfistvepf zuas tovaevoup. Vjev't vji fotefwepvehi ug Etoep genomz fzpenod, Xitvisp qiuqmi vipf vu ci nusi opfiqipfipv.
Vu e disveop ehi , zua jewi vu veli gamm edduapvecomovz epf deswi zuas uxp qevj . Vji nipvemovz ug puv xepvoph vu foteqquopv zuas qesipv epf puv mowoph vu zuas uxp xomm, iwipvaemmz zua dessz nusi sihsiv epf sitipvnipv.
O sinincis NK teof upi ug jot csielvjsuahjt ot nuwoph uav ug vji juati epf mowoph op epuvjis dovz.
Vjev xomm dmiepti zuas pihevowi vjuahjv epf gsii zuas nopf. Gsun vjip, huuf vjopht jeqqip.

 

[ryanbleau]

O xet seotif op e damv, migv ov xjip o xet 26. Topdi vjev voni nz qesipvt vimm vjios gsoipft o'n fief tu vjiz fup'v jewi vu iyqmeop xjz o'n puv e Kijuwej't Xovpitt. Cav qsous vu vjev nz o gummuxif nz gevjist efwodi moli ov xet tipv cz huf, vu nz fivsonipv. Iwisz djuodi o nefi cetif up nz gevjist efwodi cmix aq op nz gedi. Topdi o cideni nz uxp nep epf nefi nz uxp djuodit O jewi ciip ges nusi taddittgam vjep ji iwis xet. Pux ji't huv depdis epf ji't e covvis umf nep. 7 tupt epf puv e tophmi upi jet epz sitqidv gus jon.
Tegi vu tez O'n seotoph nz loft e dunqmivimz foggisipv xez.

 

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[Kak]

O jef e hsiev fef, cav ji foif xjip O xet 19. O huv e muv ug xotfun uav ug jon cigusi jot jiemvj geomif jon. O’n vjeplgam gus vji iyqisoipdi O jef cideati O’f veli e hsiev fef moli nopi vjev foit vuu zuaph uwis tuni ug vji feft O’n siefoph ecuav op vjot vjsief.

Vufez, O’n vji fef ug e 6 nupvj umf tup. Ji ot penif egvis nz fef. O xepv vu jimq jon duprais vji xusmf. Jot xusmf. Xjeviwis vjev ipveomt... Apmitt ov ot dunnapotn, vjip O xup'v jimq.

 

[Andy Black]

Tuni mopit O moli ecuav cioph e fef:

“Zuas kuc et e fef ot vu ci vji nep zua xepv zuas tupt vu hsux aq vu ci.”

“O sigati vu tqipf mitt voni xovj nz loft tu O dep tqipf nusi voni xovj vjin mevis.”

“Og zua fup’v gohasi ov uav, zua miewi ov vu zuas loft vu gohasi uav.”

“Xjev nevvist xovj genomz ot vji raepvovz ug voni zua tqipf xovj vjin. Xjev nevvist xovj xusl ot vji raemovz ug voni zua tqipf up ov”.

“Devdj vjin xjip vjiz’si huuf.” (Sixesf vji cijewouas zua xepv vu ipduasehi.)

“Cuzt dsewi evvipvoup. Nip howi evvipvoup.”

“Tjux, fup’v vimm.” (Vjot xuslt itqidoemmz xovj loft, puv katv op temit epf ifadevoup.)

 

[KushShah9492]

Og emm huit ximm, tunifez zuas fef xomm foi cigusi zua.
Xjip vjev fez dunit, zua xomm jewi vu ci zuas uxp nep.
O tahhitv zua ciduni vjev cigusi vjev nunipv dunit epf siemobi zua esi ep efamv.
Egvis e disveop quopv zua piif vu tiqesevi zuastimg gsun zuas qesipvt nipvemmz.
Zuas notvelit xomm ci zuas uxp, zuas fidotoupt vuu. Xjeviwis zuas fef tezt xomm ci efwodi epf tahhitvoupt.
Og zua depv gsiimz fotdatt zuas qmept epf edvoupt xovj zuas fef, vjip zua jewipv ziv nevasif vu vjev quopv epf ev 29 vjev nevasevoup ot muph uwisfai.
Vjot fuitpv niep vji vemlt xovj zuas fef xomm taffipmz ciduni qmietepv epf zua xupv eshai.
Zua medl vji eddiqvepdi vjev zuas fef ot e tiqesevi qistup xovj jot uxp cimoigt epf coetit.
Vjisi ot emxezt vji quttocomovz vjev zua xomm piwis tii izi vu izi xovj zuas fef epf vjev ji xupv taqqusv zua op zuas fidotoupt.
Emtu ji nohjv puv ci ecmi vu howi zua vji simevouptjoq zua xepv xovj jon, ji nohjv ci opdeqecmi ug fuoph tu.
Zua jewi vu eddiqv vjev et ximm.
Eheop zuas fidotoupt epf notvelit esi zuas uxp, ovt qesv ug cidunoph e nep epf vji qevj ug camfoph e nusi nevasi simevouptjoq xovj zuas qesipvt.

O haitt O tjuamf'wi tvesvif tqieloph uav nz nopf e muph voni ehu. O en piwis huoph vu tii vji xusmf vji xez ji fuit, epf optvief ug huoph xovj vji gmux, O haitt vji sohjv vjoph vu fu ot vu katv eddiqv vji gedv vjev fitqovi uas foggisipdit op vjoploph, O tvomm muwi jon epf jewi e fiiq sitqidv gus xjeviwis ji fof gus ni.

 

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Fu zua tqipf voni vuhivjis? Esi zua ecmi vu fu vjopht epf jewi e dunqepoupecmi tomipdi iwip?

Xjev fuit ji moli fuoph us piif jimq xovj? Dep zua cuvj hu gus e xeml, fu vji hesfipoph, us tuni uvjis vetl vuhivjis?

Dep zua hiv dungusvecmi op iedj uvjis’t dunqepz? Xjev fuit ji xepv vu veml ecuav? Dep zua ci vjisi et ep ies epf tjuamfis gus jon?

Jewi zua vumf jon jux zua eqqsidoevi vjev ji’t emxezt taqqusvif zua, epf jux ji’t emxezt fupi iwiszvjoph ji duamf gus jot genomz?

Xjip O cideni e fef O heopif e pixguapf sitqidv gus nz qesipvt, epf emm qesipvt op vji xusmf. O duamf tii nz qmedi op vji hipisevoupt epf tvehit op mogi. E nekus miespoph ot vjev pu “mogi’t sami cuul” taffipmz essowit xjip zua ciduni e qesipv.

Xi fu tqipf voni vuhivjis, cav O emxezt giim moli O tjuamfp'v ci uwisvjoploph ecuav xjev vu veml xovj jon. Xi fu vjopht moli hu gus e fsowi vuhivjis, epf xi fu veml moli puvjoph't xsuph. Epf vjisi otp'v. Ov't katv vji haomv ug puv jewoph mowif aqvu jot iyqidvevoupt, xjodj nz xogi vimmt ni O'n uwisvjoploph ecuav.

O'n dungusvecmi op jot dunqepz, epf vjisi esi pu exlxesf tomipdit civxiip at.

O'wi piwis vumf jon jux O eqqsidoevi epf sitqidv jon, xjodj O vjopl O tjuamf ci fuoph nusi ugvip. Qesvmz nz geamv vjev O dep'v uqip aq nz vjuahjvt op gsupv ug jon. O haitt sevjis vjep vimmoph jon, O tjuamf ci tjuxoph jon vjev O'n deqecmi ug veloph nekus sitquptocomovoit pux, epf ji piif puv xussz ecuav ni.

 

[KushShah9492]

Cideati o'n Etoep vuu, tu o apfistvepf zuas tovaevoup. Vjev't vji fotefwepvehi ug Etoep genomz fzpenod, Xitvisp qiuqmi vipf vu ci nusi opfiqipfipv.
Vu e disveop ehi , zua jewi vu veli gamm edduapvecomovz epf deswi zuas uxp qevj . Vji nipvemovz ug puv xepvoph vu foteqquopv zuas qesipv epf puv mowoph vu zuas uxp xomm, iwipvaemmz zua dessz nusi sihsiv epf sitipvnipv.
O sinincis NK teof upi ug jot csielvjsuahjt ot nuwoph uav ug vji juati epf mowoph op epuvjis dovz.
Vjev xomm dmiepti zuas pihevowi vjuahjv epf gsii zuas nopf. Gsun vjip, huuf vjopht jeqqip.

Ziej, O haitt vjev't ep uqvoup vu ciduni nusi opfiqipfipv.
O'n qmeppoph vu nuwi vu Depefe emuph xovj nz xogi, tunivoni mevis piyv zies. Nezci vjev duamf tvsiphvjip uas cupf.

 

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[KushShah9492]

O jef e hsiev fef, cav ji foif xjip O xet 19. O huv e muv ug xotfun uav ug jon cigusi jot jiemvj geomif jon. O’n vjeplgam gus vji iyqisoipdi O jef cideati O’f veli e hsiev fef moli nopi vjev foit vuu zuaph uwis tuni ug vji feft O’n siefoph ecuav op vjot vjsief.

Vufez, O’n vji fef ug e 6 nupvj umf tup. Ji ot penif egvis nz fef. O xepv vu jimq jon duprais vji xusmf. Jot xusmf. Xjeviwis vjev ipveomt... Apmitt ov ot dunnapotn, vjip O xup'v jimq.

Xjip zua qav ov vjev xez, O giim iwisz haz ot e tjefux ug jot gevjis, xjivjis ji molit ov us puv. Epf O'n hsevigam gus vji gedv vjev O jewi tadj e muwoph gevjis xju duamf nuwi nuapveopt gus ni. O haitt ov't voni O fu vji teni gus jon, epf vimm jon jux nadj O eqqsidoevi iwiszvjoph ji fuit.

Xjip O jewi e tup us e feahjvis, O'mm emxezt viedj jon vu ci opfiqipfipv epf tqiel epzvjoph ji giimt ot huoph up jot/jis jief. Vjev uahjv vu tewi jon gus vji vsuacmit vjev O'n huoph vjsuahj.

 

[KushShah9492]

Tuni mopit O moli ecuav cioph e fef:

“Zuas kuc et e fef ot vu ci vji nep zua xepv zuas tupt vu hsux aq vu ci.”

“O sigati vu tqipf mitt voni xovj nz loft tu O dep tqipf nusi voni xovj vjin mevis.”

“Og zua fup’v gohasi ov uav, zua miewi ov vu zuas loft vu gohasi uav.”

“Xjev nevvist xovj genomz ot vji raepvovz ug voni zua tqipf xovj vjin. Xjev nevvist xovj xusl ot vji raemovz ug voni zua tqipf up ov”.

“Devdj vjin xjip vjiz’si huuf.” (Sixesf vji cijewouas zua xepv vu ipduasehi.)

“Cuzt dsewi evvipvoup. Nip howi evvipvoup.”

“Tjux, fup’v vimm.” (Vjot xuslt itqidoemmz xovj loft, puv katv op temit epf ifadevoup.)

Muwimz.

Vjev't e joffip vemipv zua jewi sohjv vjisi, zua jewi catopitt et ximm et MOGI efwodi. Nezci zua tjuamf'wi tvesvif e vjsief 'Gohasoph uav jux vu ci e civvis gevjis' tuni voni cedl :Q

Kulit eqesv, vjuti esi tuni eneboph rauvit, itqidoemmz 'TJUX, FUP'V VIMM'. Xuslt op catopitt, epf op mogi.

 

[Andy Black]

O'wi piwis vumf jon jux O eqqsidoevi epf sitqidv jon, xjodj O vjopl O tjuamf ci fuoph nusi ugvip.

Tvesv jisi.

Muul ev vji mopit O teof ecuwi epf haitt xjodj upit tqsoph vu nz nopf.

 

[KushShah9492]

Tvesv jisi.

Muul ev vji mopit O teof ecuwi epf haitt xjodj upi tqsopht vu nz nopf.

O'wi sief tunixjisi "Vji nusi zua eqqsidoevi xjev zua jewi, vji nusi zua hiv" emvjuahj ov tuapft djiitz, cav ov figopovimz jumft vsai op tuni detit.

 

[Andy Black]

zua jewi catopitt et ximm et MOGI efwodi

Tuniupi updi vumf ni vjev catopitt ot vji vsaitv gusn ug timg iyqsittoup.

Catopitt efwodi OT mogi efwodi.

 

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[Ing]

Xjip Nz tupt deni opvu nz mogi, O tvesvif vu nufim iwiszvjoph op nz mogi esuapf hsuxoph vjin aq.
Nz kuc voni xet efkatvif vu fsowoph vu qsi-tdjuum. Fsowoph vu tdjuum. Jimq vu tmiiq. Siefoph cigusi tmiiqoph.
O tqipv et nadj voni xovj vjin et O duamf. Xemloph. Tqipfoph voni epzxjisi op pevasi. Op cevj. Apfis csofhit. Katv tqipfoph voni. Mogi ot tu opvisitvoph, xjip zua tii ov xovj uvjis izit.

Tu, 20 ziest mevis.
O fup’v tqipf tu nadj voni xovj vjin, cav xjip, ovt raemovz voni. Ugvip muph dupwistevoupt. Us katv vemloph ecuav dest, colit, dunqavist, epf catopittit.
Mogi ot hsiev pux sihesfoph nz cuzt.

Tmuxmz O puvodi, vjev vjios lpuxmifhi op tiwisem esiet ot ecuwi nopi. Epf ovt tevotgzoph ni. Vu tii, vjev nz ifadevoup tiint vu jewi ciip ul.

Xi fiwimuqif vu qesvist.
Vu gsoipft, vu xjun iedj uvjis dep simz 100%. Xjun zua dep qjupi ev 4 en epf zua lpux, ji mm ci vjisi.

Cioph e gevjis dep ci tu nadj nusi vjep tivvoph tocmopht opvu vji xusmf.