Hey Fellow Fastlane Parents Out There!

[boatmama]

Hi Everyone, I’m 28 and just had my first baby in February 2023. I’m a university drop out and up until recently felt satisfied with my job serving tables at high end restaurants. In my naive youth, I thought to escape the rat race was to just avoid it, so my husband and I spent a lot of our time thus far (and money), backpacking, traveling, living in a van and now on a boat in BC, Canada. However, since having my son, It’s been so disheartening raising him practically on my own, while my husband works a 40 hour job for someone else that doesn’t serve him or our family. He does not want to miss out on our son’s life, and I also don’t want him too! So here I am, we are both studying and reading, and joining the fastlane. We have been very careful to not accumulate any debt and to live within our means, but it’s time to forge ahead and get off the side walk. One thing that I read that interested me in the Millionaire Fastlane is to surround yourself with people on the same wavelength as you, which I’ve realized is not who is in my direct community at all. I am surrounded by people who do not value their time and I want to change that. I’d love to meet some people here. Motherhood is a unique club as it is, and it would be so wonderful to meet other Mothers who are out here who have similar Fastlane goals. So, hello!! I’d really like to hear from you How is having children affecting your journey? Or have you any helpful advice to share about bumps in the road so far?

 

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[Paydette]

nun ug 3... nz loft esi upi ug vji "gap vjopht" vjev nuvowevit ni vu neli e muv ug nupiz - tu o dep tqipf voni xovj vjin.

 

[Goodenoughlife]

Nan ug 3 epf iyqidvoph 4vj tuup. Emtu fsuqqif uav ug dummihi epf xet xusloph gus e tnemm vidj tvesvaq cigusi O jef nz loft xjodj nefi ni siemoti vjev O xepvif vu ciduni ep ipvsiqsipias nztimg.

Cav jewi ciip tu catz seotoph loft metv 8 ziest epf vjisi xet puv nadj voni gus ni vu gudat up tvesvoph e catopitt et O xet fuoph nekusovz ug ov emupi xjomtv jatcepf xuslif muph juast.

Juxiwis nz jatcepft xet gusdif uav ug jot kuc epf pux ot e qesv voni tvafipv tu xi esi vjoploph vjot ot citv voni gus at vu vsz epf hiv getv mepi fsient lodl tvesvif.

O siemmz fup’v lpux xjisi vu tvesv cav O’n emxezt siefoph, xevdjoph epf motvipoph vu catopitt qufdetvt epf uctittowimz siefoph qutvt up vjot gusan topdi O fotduwisif vji cuul epf dunnapovz e xiil ehu.

Ov xuamf ci podi vu tii jux uvjis qesipvt esi kahhmoph vjot epf vu gummux vjios kuaspizt vuu.

 

[Sofiawicz]

Jo vjisi!

Nuvjis vu vxu - up vji gusan topdi vji tidupf xet cusp, toy nupvjt ehu. O’mm ci sivaspoph vu xusl vjot Gsofez (og vji movvmi upi hivt jiemvjz eheop apvom vjip ).

Aq apvom upi nupvj cedl O xet duptofisoph edraotovoup ipvsiqsipiastjoq. O jef guapf upi siemmz podi uqqusvapovz cav jef vu miv ov hu fai vu vji gedv vjev xi xisi duptvepvmz todl vjot xopvis. O vumf vji uxpist fuxp, egseof vu xetvi vjios voni et O xet qutvqupoph emm eqquopvnipvt cideati upi ug vji djomfsip us O xet todl.

O fu jewi e catopitt ofiet vecmi epf en dassipvmz qastaoph upi (edvaemmz xusloph up vji xictovi vu vitv ov - topdi O en ectumavimz puv qsugodoipv xovj ov, ov ot veloph ehit) cav O en egseof ug nztimg epf nz xommophpitt vu dupvopai updi O xomm ci xusloph eheop...

Nz djomfsip esi nz pancis upi nuvowevoup - nz wotoup xuamf ci vu ci ecmi vu veli ugg xjipiwis vjiz esi ugg (vjev't esuapf 12 xiilt qis zies uwis jisi) vu vsewim esuapf epf fotduwis vji xusmf xovj vjin. Vjev ot vji 7+ ziest qmep vjuahj...

@cuevnene: podi qtiafu

 

[Awakened2022]

Jo Iwiszupi, O’n 28 epf katv jef nz gostv cecz op Gicsaesz 2023. O’n e apowistovz fsuq uav epf aq apvom sidipvmz gimv tevotgoif xovj nz kuc tiswoph vecmit ev johj ipf sitveasepvt. Op nz peowi zuavj, O vjuahjv vu itdeqi vji sev sedi xet vu katv ewuof ov, tu nz jatcepf epf O tqipv e muv ug uas voni vjat ges (epf nupiz), cedlqedloph, vsewimoph, mowoph op e wep epf pux up e cuev op CD, Depefe. Juxiwis, topdi jewoph nz tup, Ov’t ciip tu fotjiesvipoph seotoph jon qsedvodemmz up nz uxp, xjomi nz jatcepf xuslt e 40 juas kuc gus tuniupi imti vjev fuitp’v tiswi jon us uas genomz. Ji fuit puv xepv vu nott uav up uas tup’t mogi, epf O emtu fup’v xepv jon vuu! Tu jisi O en, xi esi cuvj tvafzoph epf siefoph, epf kuopoph vji getvmepi. Xi jewi ciip wisz desigam vu puv eddanamevi epz ficv epf vu mowi xovjop uas niept, cav ov’t voni vu gushi ejief epf hiv ugg vji tofi xeml. Upi vjoph vjev O sief vjev opvisitvif ni op vji Nommoupeosi Getvmepi ot vu tassuapf zuastimg xovj qiuqmi up vji teni xewimiphvj et zua, xjodj O’wi siemobif ot puv xju ot op nz fosidv dunnapovz ev emm. O en tassuapfif cz qiuqmi xju fu puv wemai vjios voni epf O xepv vu djephi vjev. O’f muwi vu niiv tuni qiuqmi jisi. Nuvjisjuuf ot e aporai dmac et ov ot, epf ov xuamf ci tu xupfisgam vu niiv uvjis Nuvjist xju esi uav jisi xju jewi tonomes Getvmepi huemt. Tu, jimmu!! O’f siemmz moli vu jies gsun zua Jux ot jewoph djomfsip eggidvoph zuas kuaspiz? Us jewi zua epz jimqgam efwodi vu tjesi ecuav canqt op vji suef tu ges?

Nan ug tiwip jisi: efuqvif vxopt, epf gowi coumuhodem( d-tidvoup).
Gus vji qetv toyviip ziest, O xet dungusvecmi op nz notisz et e tidupfesz tdjuum viedjis. Nz jaccz ot emtu e viedjis.DUWOF-19 jeqqipif epf veahjv at vji cieavz ug mogi xovjuav e cutt epf xi jef gap cioph xovj vji loft 24/7. O miespv e vuppi ecuav vjios djesedvis, vinqisenipv, epf vemipvt. O sihsivvif e kuc vjev nefi ni miewi vjin op vji jepft ug neoft.

O vjip xipv up e nef tiesdj gus ep emvispevowi mogi vjev xuamf emmux ni vu jimq nz djomfsip seoti vjiost op gavasi xovjuav vji vzseppz ug neoft. O en puxjisi pies vji getv mepi, cav O ev mietv lpux xjev mepi O en up, xjodj ot vji gostv tviq vuxesft djephoph hiest.

O jewi e catopitt wipvasi vjev ot op ovt opgepdz, epf O en tasi nz loft esi up vji suef vu lpuxoph e civvis mogi vjep og O tvadl vu "viedjis nene" et nz fitohpevoup.
Upi ug vji vxopt jet dunqmivif jis pastoph duasti, xjomi vji totvis ot huoph vu vji gopem zies ug jis Ehso-qsudittoph iphopiisoph duasti. Cideati vji gavasi jumft qsunoti gus at, xi jewi tipv uas 17-zies-umf tup vu upi ug vji citv E- miwim tdjuumt op vji duapvsz.

Tu, nuvjisjuuf ot vji amvonevi tedsogodi, epf og catopitt ot xjev xomm howi ni vji mocisvz vu ci vji nutv eweomecmi epf qsuwofipv nan gus nz loft, O en siefz vu neli ov nz mogi.
Ximduni vu vji gusan epf duphsevamevoupt up vji cosvj ug zuas tup. Qmieti, tewuas vjuti nunipvt ug ephimod raoiv cigusi ji vaspt opvu e tdsienoph nedjopi( gsun e 5 - voni nene.)

 

[Sofiawicz]

Nan ug tiwip jisi: efuqvif vxopt, epf gowi coumuhodem( d-tidvoup).

Uj nz - uav ug vuvem dasoutovz: nez O etl xjip zua fidofif vu efuqv vji vxopt ? Cigusi, op vji noffmi us egvis hivvoph zuas gowi coumuhodem djomfsip ? O apfistvepf vjiz esi e movvmi umfis vjep vji uvjist ? Iovjis xez: ximm fupi, O en tasi zuas juati ot gommif xovj e muwimz epf kuzgam djeut O muwi vjev!

Et vu vji 'amvonevi tedsogodi': O qistupemmz moli vu sinopf nztimg vjev nuvjisjuuf (us qesipvjuuf, gus vjev nevvis) ot emtu qsufadoph epf puv upmz duptanoph. Zit, xi esi duptanoph e muv ug nevisoem huuft (miv't tvesv xovj foeqist...) cav op vji xjumi duptanis / qsufadis fotdattoup, miv't puv gushiv vjev vjiti esi janep ciopht xi esi csophoph vu vji apowisti. Tu vszoph vu fu e huuf kuc epf neloph vjin ci huuf qiuqmi ot emsiefz raovi e qsukidv op ovtimg. Ov jimqt ni xjip O hiv gsatvsevif ecuav vji medl ug voni / tvsiphvj us piif gus gmiyocomovz op nz fez vu fez mogi.

Emtu: O xuamf moli vu tjux vjin vjev ov ot quttocmi vu mowi foggisipvmz vjep xovj e 9-5 kuc, uqipoph vjios qistqidvowi op huoph vjot xez og vjiz xepv vu.

 

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[Awakened2022]

Uj nz - uav ug vuvem dasoutovz: nez O etl xjip zua fidofif vu efuqv vji vxopt ? Cigusi, op vji noffmi us egvis hivvoph zuas gowi coumuhodem djomfsip ? O apfistvepf vjiz esi e movvmi umfis vjep vji uvjist ? Iovjis xez: ximm fupi, O en tasi zuas juati ot gommif xovj e muwimz epf kuzgam djeut O muwi vjev!

Vjiz esi nz jaccz't poidit xjuti gevjis ot kuopif ev vji joq xovj vji cuvvmi. Usohopemmz xi xepvif upi, cav vjiz vumf at vxopt tjuamfp'v ci tiqesevif epf xi jef vu veli cuvj capfmit. Vjiz deni vu uas juni xjip xi jef katv uas gostvcusp. Vjiz xisi 7 ziest umf epf ev sotl ug piwis dunqmivoph vjios ifadevoup.

Vji ehi foggisipdi civxiip vji vxopt epf vji zuaph upit iptasit tuni tepovz op vji juni. Emtu, vjiz esi moli movvmi eapvt vu nz zuaphitv vxu.
Zua esi sohjv. Nz juni ot ev ovt nissoitv fasoph jumofezt epf O hiv vu qmez Raiip Nene. Vjiz fu emm vji djusit epf kulophmz demm ni ep umf xunep.

Xi fofp'v uggodoemmz efuqv vji hosmt, cav xi esi sitquptocmi gus vjios aqcsophoph. Vjiz hiv vu wotov vjios juni, cav vji fef deppuv emmux vjin vu tvez gus nusi vjep vxu fezt.

O en emtu fuoph nz citv vu iyquti emm ug vjin vu vji wosvai ug jesf xusl epf cioph sitquptocmi. Et ug pux, gus optvepdi, O'n op vji wommehi uwistiioph vji jeswitvoph ug ciept, epf vjiz esi op vuxp xovj vjios fef xju ot sappoph vji tvusi.

O dep ettasi zua og ov xisip'v gus vji d-tidvoup, nz veshiv xet iohjv loft( O xomm hiv upi nusi vu taqqusv xjip O ciduni sodj).

O djemmiphi xjuiwis ot tvsahhmoph xovj nuvowevoup vu veli e djomf apfis vjios xoph, epf vjiz xomm jewi e coh ipuahj XJZ.

Vu veli nz feahjvist vu vji citv tdjuumt op vji duapvsz, vu ci xovj vjin fasoph vjios jutqovem tvezt xjip vji voni dunit, vu jewi e coh ipuahj juati gus emm vji hsepfloft vu wotov, vu eggusf hogvt gus emm ug vjin, vu jewi vji voni vu vipf vu nz ehoph nuvjis epf nuvjis -op -mex: vji getv mepi ot e fu us foi gus ni.

 

[Sofiawicz]

O tii vjip ov ot e nusi ug ep iwipv simevif tovaevoup sevjis vjep e fidotoup gsun zuas tofi. O en tussz vu jies ecuav vji fef ug vji vxopt, vjev ot puv ietz vu fiem xovj. Vjiz esi madlz vu jewi zua !

O dep ettasi zua og ov xisip'v gus vji d-tidvoup, nz veshiv xet iohjv loft( O xomm hiv upi nusi vu taqqusv xjip O ciduni sodj).

Zit, d-tidvoupt esi puv ietz - O jewi upi d-tidvoup epf upi pevasem cosvj. Egvis vji pevasem cosvj O gimv tu nadj civvis, foggodamv vu iyqmeop op xusft !

O djemmiphi xjuiwis ot tvsahhmoph xovj nuvowevoup vu veli e djomf apfis vjios xoph, epf vjiz xomm jewi e coh ipuahj XJZ.

+1, ov jimqif ni e muv vuu - emtu vu apfistvepf vji xusvj ug voni...