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Who's doing Tony Robbins
Presumably his wife Bonnie "Sage" Robbins
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2. You have to believe you can succeed. Imagine rock climbing a mountain, and the entire time you're telling yourself you can't make it.
3. Using your conscious mind to influence your subconscious mind. (This should be up your alley with the neuroscience)
I have never played soccer. Coached my daughter's team though. We won our division and the league awarded me the opportunity to put an all star team together to play tournaments. It has been a number of years but I think the players were 10 and 11 year olds.Have you seen how some football coaches, can't play football? Yet they can lead a team to victory.
I have had many complex thoughts, and I realize that there is an answer, I just have to let my brain work on it a while. And EVERY TIME it comes up with a path to follow to find the answer, if not the answer directly. Put another way, but with the exact results, is why people take time to meditate
If all the naysayers have a better book, instead of tearing down someone else, tell us about it, or write it yourself if it doesn't exist. I'm a sucker - I buy books all the time. That's how I found this forum, in fact!
Who's doing Tony RobbinsSeeing how much hate Tai Lopez gets on this forum, I have been wondering when someone would come along and point out the shady doings of Napolean Hill.
I'm certain the same standards will be applied
I may have been too brief. What I was trying to say is that there is considerable evidence to suggest Hill did not practice what he preached. Why should we treat Hill differently than other gurus on the forum?
If it's acceptable to say "Sure, he didn't do what he taught, but his lessons still helped many people," isn't it also acceptable to say the same about other gurus who we, as a forum, normally pick on?
I do this as well. Yes, it works.
I ask my brain “How can I solve this problem” forget about it, and randomly in a day or a few days, it just finishes processing then pops the answer into my head.
In psychology they call it Incubation.
Incubation (psychology) - Wikipedia
Incubation is one of the four proposed stages of creativity, which are preparation, incubation, illumination, and verification.[1] Incubation is defined as a process of unconscious recombination of thought elements that were stimulated through conscious work at one point in time, resulting in novel ideas at some later point in time.[2] Incubation is related to intuition and insight in that it is the unconscious part of a process whereby an intuition may become validated as an insight. Incubation substantially increases the odds of solving a problem, and benefits from long incubation periods with low cognitive workloads.[3]
The experience of leaving a problem for a period of time and then finding that the difficulty evaporates on returning to the problem, or, even more striking, that the solution "comes out of the blue" when thinking about something else, is widespread. Many guides to effective thinking and problem solving advise the reader to set problems aside for a time.
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And re: Hill - I don’t know if it’s wise to take success advice from someone who’s only success was selling success advice.
Have you seen how some football coaches, can't play football? Yet they can lead a team to victory. (I'm stretching the example, but its for illustration purposes.)
Positive visualization is bullshit and will be detrimental to your success.
I really can not stress that enough.
The bottom line is that when you’re overconfident you don’t take the proper steps to prepare and do what you need to succeed. A realistic view of your obstacles is always best.
In one study, she taught a group of third graders a mental-contrast exercise: They were told to imagine a candy prize they would receive if they finished a language assignment, and then to imagine several of their own behaviors that could prevent them from winning. A second group of students was instructed only to fantasize about winning the prize. The students who did the mental contrast outperformed those who just dreamed.
Instead, she offers a simpler and faster alternative, an extension of her empirically validated mental contrasting exercise. She calls it WOOP — which stands for “wish, outcome, obstacle, plan.”
According to preliminary data the author presents, mental contrasting can lead to better eating habits, an improved exercise regimen and greater control over alcohol consumption, among other benefits.
Nobody will ever know for certain how authentic Hill was, but I do know one thing for certain.
I have read his book and he is indeed right. It goes far beyond "thinking positively and achieving success."
The message is exposing a fact that few people are aware of, which is our brain is like a computer. It will concentrate on what we tell it. It will deliver results to us, based on what we think about. Like Hill said, if we plant weeds, it will grow weeds. If we plant beneficial crops, it will produce that. It makes no judgement - it just does what it is told to do. And it will do this 24 hours a day, whether we realize it or not. It is working on pushing and steering us towards whatever conclusion we are trying to reach.
I can completely verify that this is true. I have had many complex thoughts, and I realize that there is an answer, I just have to let my brain work on it a while. And EVERY TIME it comes up with a path to follow to find the answer, if not the answer directly. Put another way, but with the exact results, is why people take time to meditate. Do you think they do that to just feel good? No, they do that to harness the power they have in their inner brain. Unlike most people that are distracted by the constant bombardment to our senses every day, when these people meditate they turn off all the distractions and focus on what is important. And although it may be vague, like the meaning of life, for example, the best ones also focus on the here and now issues they have to deal with. Is it a coincidence these people usually have more confidence, and are unusually focused and successful? They're not smarter - they just know how to tap into their own power at their disposal. And the results are impressive.
Your knocking down Hill is a prime example of not using the power in your own mind. Sure he may have done some terrible things. But is that any reason to ignore or discredit his very profound discovery that IS of great benefit to everyone? For everything and everyone, there is a good and a bad way to look at it. You work too hard at your job - OR you have a great opportunity at your job to work harder than everyone else so when the opportunity presents itself for a promotion, you will be ready and you will be chosen. Wow - same thing - two vastly different ways of looking at it. Of course, the vast majority are in the first camp, and then they wonder why they don't get ahead.
Like another "fake guru" that people love to bash (I am not in that group), people love to find fault with Robert Kiyosaki. Maybe he did, maybe he didn't do something - I don't care. I do care very much about his message though. One message of his that has stuck with me is to never work to earn, but to work to learn. If you are not improving in what you're doing, you're wasting your life. BAM! I can't argue with that! I picked it up, and it's at the forefront of my consciousness.
Where do I get these, and many more, ideas that help me be more successful? I'd like to say I'm a genius and just make them up myself. But that's not true - I get them from books written by others that have discovered something of great importance. Every book is like a brick - solid, but still only a brick. Get enough bricks, and I can make something impressive. And that's what I've been doing while on this planet.
If anyone wants to read about a true failure - a true fake - someone that failed at every single thing they did, except the last thing - read about Abraham Lincoln. You will be amazed at the sheer fortitude this man had. Many would not have the fortitude to push on through life as he did. But we don't look at his failures - no Sir - we look, of course, at his success and being one of the most respected people of all time. All time!
If all the naysayers have a better book, instead of tearing down someone else, tell us about it, or write it yourself if it doesn't exist. I'm a sucker - I buy books all the time. That's how I found this forum, in fact!
Just because he's old and dead and claimed to interview American titans of industry doesn't mean he's immune to the same scrutiny we apply to today's gurus. Who knows, in 100 years Tai Lopez might be regarded as the business visionary of our time...
Coaches like Pep Guardiola and Jose Mourinho are all about strategies, it is not about skills. You're not using a good analogy.
No. But if he claims to be an expert and wasn't (beyond writing books), if he claims to have been personally taught by Andrew Carnegie and evidence says he wasn't ... that starts to leak into fraudulent territory.So someone may not have actually done what they write about - I'd never consider them a fraud for that.
I think Grant Cardone's Sell or be Sold should be in that list as well. His philosophy that sales extends into just about EVERY aspect of life, blew my mind when I understood the premise was true. Very sobering for those who say ,"They don't like sales." If you don't like sales get ready to have a pretty miserable and mediocre life. All the best.I do this as well. Yes, it works.
I ask my brain “How can I solve this problem” forget about it, and randomly in a day or a few days, it just finishes processing then pops the answer into my head.
In psychology they call it Incubation.
Incubation (psychology) - Wikipedia
Incubation is one of the four proposed stages of creativity, which are preparation, incubation, illumination, and verification.[1] Incubation is defined as a process of unconscious recombination of thought elements that were stimulated through conscious work at one point in time, resulting in novel ideas at some later point in time.[2] Incubation is related to intuition and insight in that it is the unconscious part of a process whereby an intuition may become validated as an insight. Incubation substantially increases the odds of solving a problem, and benefits from long incubation periods with low cognitive workloads.[3]
The experience of leaving a problem for a period of time and then finding that the difficulty evaporates on returning to the problem, or, even more striking, that the solution "comes out of the blue" when thinking about something else, is widespread. Many guides to effective thinking and problem solving advise the reader to set problems aside for a time.
Millionaire Fastlane … Unscripted .
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And re: Hill - I don’t know if it’s wise to take success advice from someone who’s only success was selling success advice.
+1. Hill's writing reminds me of the "just think positively and you'll win the lottery, find your soulmate, etc" new-agey fluff that it spawned. TMF is **real** and actionable.I mean maybe I’m wrong but I really didn’t get anything from the book. TMF and US are much better.
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