How is your sex life during your pursuit of millions?

[RobertDodd]

Quantifying Sex for Better Performance (and Relationships)

How to Harness Your Sexual Energy

Quantifying Sex for Better Performance (and Relationships)

 

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[Avus]

My gf and I just broke up. We were living together, and I think a lot of it was due to my pursuit. I would just dump all my time/money into different projects.

 

[Mouse McCoy]

This thread has made me ask more questions than it actually answered. My inquisitive nature is going to keep me on the hunt for answers. I wish there was definitive answers about the correlation (if any) of sex and personal creativity. I have sex on average twice a day. Both me and my girlfriend's sex drives are very high. Even when she is not in the mood I barely get turned down. And I almost never have the discipline to turn her down. One time I actually had to insult her just to get her out of the mood. We had sex at least 4 times that day. We had an engagement to attend. After we were both ready to walk out the door, she asked if we could have sex one more time. For fear that I might not perform well, I said something horrible. I didn't get sex for 4 days after that.

Anyways I digress....

She works 30 to 40 hours a week, I don't. So I definitely get enough alone time to do my own thing. I'm just wondering if all this sex is doing anything to hinder my creative side?

That's a great question to ask, unfortunately the only one who truly knows the answer to that question is you. You'll have to trust yourself that you can find the answers, believe that you know yourself well enough to find the answer and you will get it.

Also, so this isn't un-related to sex, here's the second part of the Tommy Sotomayor video that was posted last page.

[video=youtube;d_-P3GYf7ZE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d_-P3GYf7ZE[/video]

 

[Connor]

So very well said. So much of it is about avoiding things that could slow you down, waste your time/energy/money, etc. Just like in TMF , you need to avoid negative headwinds.

 

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[Mouse McCoy]

Stress, and the things one would use to deal with it; like alcohol or drugs are all three negative headwinds.

A good healthy way to relieve stress is 15 minutes of focused meditation per day or regular vigorous exercise -- all this is only in my personal experience.

 

[Michael Raphael]

This is my rule, it may be too late to post this as the thread is long as hell but maybe it will help.

Time is finite, as of now a lot of it is controlled by business. However, I always believed that I shouldn't work on weekends and therefore dont work Friday night and Saturday and those are my party days. Seriously take one day or two days a week and just work on your social skills, picking up girls what ever you want to call it will not just help with getting a girl in bed but your overall confidence how you can carry a conversation and what not. I literally believe I am a better salesman because I go out weekly and work on holding a conversation, entertaining a crowd, and what not. Last night I went to a party and literally had 15-20 people listening to my everyword, what was I discussing. Honestly, the dumbest and inappropriate stuff, but I commanded attention and therefore was given attention. People are bored, it doesn't matter what you say, just say something and they will listen.

 

[Mouse McCoy]

Here's a pearl of wisdom I learned from a master.

You want to get a girl's #? Introduce yourself blah blah blah, and when it comes to that time, simply say word for word "Tell me everything I have to do to get your phone number." 99% of the time (in my personal experience) the girl will just say something along the lines of "pull out your phone" or more commonly she'll just start saying it.

In my case, when I'm starting that line I'm already pulling the phone out of my pocket because you need to be ready.

 

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[Michael Raphael]

Mouse I like you, but please go to your master and ask for your money back. If he is telling you that getting a number is considered successful interaction he is an idiot. I am sorry you have to listen to his bull.

I dont think any guy in the world goes to the bar hoping he gets a girls number... pretty sure hes thinking, cant wait to bring a girl home tonight and introduce her to my mom but seriously... numbers mean shit sorry. Your master can enjoy his 100+ numbers in his phonebook.

Instead you should try and go for closes ABC, just like business (yea I brought it around). A client is only a client when the check is signed. Don't go for the maybe, or the you seem like a good idea, person. Close the clients that are ready. Take the girl home!

 

[Mouse McCoy]

I appreciate the Glenn-Gary reference

I didn't pay the guy and he doesn't formally 'teach people' we just hung out. It's simply a trick to getting a girls number that works. So yeah in retrospect what he taught me wasn't successful at getting women into bed but it gave me a good confidence boost, being able to talk to so many beautiful women with no nervousness or fear.

The sex close was "tell me everything I have to do to get you into my bed, tonight -- do I have to climb a mountain or (insert other hard but adventurous task here) or xxx." The goal was to get her laughing I realize it's just himself that naturally attracts people and that the method is quite ridiculous.

You're absolutely right, Michael Raphael, about the taking the girls home who are ready and forgetting numbers. A number won't get you far at all. In fact it's counter-intuitive as it sets you up to waste more time on them in the future for a girl who may just be talking to you out of politeness. Where were you when I was learning to talk to women, I could have learned a lot

 

[Kak]

What is with this thread title? "Pursuit of millionaires"???

Qwertyass must be a gold digging whore.

 

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[Michael Raphael]

The point is no, not every woman will accuse you of rape, or give you an STD. Experience and having a level head will keep you away from crazies.

But everyone knows that crazies are the best sex childhood youth ruined ...

and MJ as much as the rule above is true theres one other rule... never stick your dick in cray cray... restraining order... wow thats just some next level stuff.

 

[travisl]

Took the time to read this thread.

Wondering why the whole conversation has mostly been about just Promiscuous sex.


I'll tell you everyone who has the best sex lives in their pursuit of becoming a millionaire or successful entrepreneur. The people in good, nurturing, successful relationships and marriages. Their partners will fully understand them. They will understand their motives. They understand what kind of person their partner is. When you speak they understand. There is a level of "Oneness" between you emotionally, intellectually, leading to oneness physically.

Trying not to sound too much like a spiritual mentor or hippie. LOL

I hope you guys realize that all of the good information that you find here on this forum, in MJ's book, or in any other decent business or entrepreneur book have principals that don't only apply to the business side of your life. It applies to everything in your life.

In other words, are you going to be able to experience the highest levels of success in your financial life if you live like you are wealthy even before you are, or have put the work in to get there? I don't think so.

Same goes, For Everything.

Are you going to be able to experience the best sex before you have put the work in with the right person? Acting out of Impatience gets you no where, or takes you backwards, just like in your financial life.


I believe this forum and lifestyle is about a higher level of understanding of life than the rest. If you achieve this higher level, you will be able to enjoy everything in your life to levels tenfold of average people.

Promiscuity seems to be running rampant in our society today. One thing to think about. Always question, if the masses are doing it, question it.

Do you want to be like the masses?

Ask anyone. The best sex is had only when you have put in the effort to build something meaningful with your partner.


That's the only kind I want.

Now hopefully some horny freak will come along and yell at me and tell me how gay I am for doing something the right way.

But then again these will probably be the guys that at some point will be asking the same questions.

 

[Michael Raphael]

Are you going to be able to experience the best sex before you have put the work in with the right person? Acting out of Impatience gets you no where, or takes you backwards, just like in your financial life.

From a guys getting a girl perspective:

Yes. You don't need to put the work in with the "right" person to have sex. Sorry, you are living in the slowlane of relationship and sex. Acting out in impatient... what? Seriously it's like this whole journey everyone is on. Unless you execute, and speak to at least 1 girl a day minimum, you will not learn experience. After that, you may get to the point where you take out 1/2 the girls you meet and sleep with a few. After you get to the next level you sleep with 1/4 of the girls you meet.


So no. You don't need to find the right girl to get good at sex or picking up a girl. You just need to go out there and execute. You just need a few "right" girls and eventually you will learn more about yourself than you will otherwise. The reason bf/gf sex is better than a one night stand is because most guys are confident and comfortable their first time. If you get over that, you will be able to do w.e just like a bf/gf relationship. Cause lets be honest when you are going out with someone, you've read all 6 volumes of karma sutra and in detail

The best sex is when you put in immersion and emotion. This doesn't have to be "I love you" this can just be you are 100% in the moment, appreciating your partners body, truly appreciating the moment rather than thinking wow this chick is so hot, I can't beleive I am doing this. Be in the moment, immerse yourself 100% and the sex will be better. As for emotion aspect, obviously saying I love you for the first time and having sex is going to be the best, but if it is a ONS you can just say I love your XXX and get similar results (lesser extent but still have amazing sex)

And nothing gay about being emotionally connected to your significant other. Also this applies for straight or gay.

 

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[travisl]

@Michael Raphael

See I think that i may be possible that you missed the point of my post, but whatever. Some understand and some don't. Some it will take years to understand, and some never will.

I'm not talking about getting girls for the sake of sex and not having any decency.

I wonder why everyone on this Forum accuses everyone else of being the term "Slowlane".

Honestly the only person on this Forum that I would be even slightly interested in hear from them whether or not I am in the "Fastlane" or "Slowlane" is the author of the book. And even then, I am sure that he acknowledges the fact that his book isn't the ONLY way for someone to live a successful life, and would be willing to bet that even he has read other books, and had more experiences than what is in the book.

Please remember that this is a forum. Even in the real world when you judge someone it doesn't really get you anywhere, and I really question the sanity of this computer generation when they sit behind their screens and do it when they don't even know the first thing about the person on the other side.

Listen, and I am saying this in the most polite way possible.

I really hope that one day you will be able to understand this. If not that is still okay, life will go on, but I am afraid that most of the population are blind to certain things that could make their lives worth so much more, and experience so much more Joy in your days here on earth.

 

[Michael Raphael]

Oh travisl I wasn't saying you were wrong, quite the contrary emotional sex w/ ur girlfriend is 10x better than a random, I just don't want people to believe that mindset is the only way to having great sex. Sorry for the tonality that you read. I understand I was opposing your positions, but I didn't mean to negatively oppose them really... awkward to explain. But yea, hope you didn't take it in badly. Like I am prob the best person to explain your point and mine.

I have sex with 3 dif girls right now, but one of the girls I want to have sex with I know will be better than all 3 by 1000000x just because I am emotionally connected to her and we have more than just physical lust over each other. But with that said the other 3 girls do the just way more than just fine.

 

[Mike39]

@Michael Raphael

See I think that i may be possible that you missed the point of my post, but whatever. Some understand and some don't. Some it will take years to understand, and some never will.

I'm not talking about getting girls for the sake of sex and not having any decency.

I wonder why everyone on this Forum accuses everyone else of being the term "Slowlane".

Honestly the only person on this Forum that I would be even slightly interested in hear from them whether or not I am in the "Fastlane" or "Slowlane" is the author of the book. And even then, I am sure that he acknowledges the fact that his book isn't the ONLY way for someone to live a successful life, and would be willing to bet that even he has read other books, and had more experiences than what is in the book.

Please remember that this is a forum. Even in the real world when you judge someone it doesn't really get you anywhere, and I really question the sanity of this computer generation when they sit behind their screens and do it when they don't even know the first thing about the person on the other side.

Listen, and I am saying this in the most polite way possible.

I really hope that one day you will be able to understand this. If not that is still okay, life will go on, but I am afraid that most of the population are blind to certain things that could make their lives worth so much more, and experience so much more Joy in your days here on earth.

Speed+ for a refreshing post. I really have no interest in this thread because it's mostly a bunch of people stroking their ego's to internet strangers to help make themselves feel better about their lives, but I have to say that it's nice to hear a voice of maturity outside of the usual... well this:

I have sex with 3 dif girls right now, but one of the girls I want to have sex with I know will be better than all 3 by 1000000x just because I am emotionally connected to her and we have more than just physical lust over each other. But with that said the other 3 girls do the just way more than just fine.

 

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[Michael Raphael]

Lol. I think you are completely mistaken by my post. It's not immaturity its reality. But I don't wish to argue on this topic anymore. I don't think my life is any better. I just believe that society has caused men to be emotionally weaker. We used to hunt bears with our hands, but now men fear approaching a women. I just don't agree with that mindset. So am I immature, I guess. Cause I go against society.

As for the latter portion... I was actually agreeing with the post you idolized, but yea. No I am immature. A happy immature child.

 

[FastLearner]

In pursuit of your success the best advice I could ever give if you're single is to STAY SINGLE. DO NOT CO-HABITATE WITH ANYONE. I don't care if she's the most beautiful woman, or cooks dinner for you every night. EVERY WOMAN gets draining, every relationship doesn't stay fulfilling. If you want to have sex, fine. But I would strongly advise focusing on your goals first. Think about the kinds of women you can have once you're RICH! No matter settling for average 5's or 6's.. You get 9's and 10's!
Don't get married either, I see all relationships as inconvenience. And anyone who says they LOVE being married is lying of course.

 

[Kencan98]

Don't get married either, I see all relationships as inconvenience. And anyone who says they LOVE being married is lying of course.

I'm 100% with you here. I was married for 5 years and divorced a year ago. During marriage my sex life was non-exsistant. It was constant fighting, butting heads, no social life, HORRIBLE!

Now that I'm divorced I feel like an unpaid porn star. lol. A pornstar that wheres protection and uses fake names and phone numbers of course.

 

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[FastLearner]

I'm 100% with you here. I was married for 5 years and divorced a year ago. During marriage my sex life was non-exsistant. It was constant fighting, butting heads, no social life, HORRIBLE!

Never been married but cohabitating one time in my life has definitely changed my perspective and I'm glad I had the experience because I know I'll never get married because it's not what it's cracked up to be.
All relationships drain your time and energy, both those things can be useful to more productive things. My 2 cents.

 

[Vigilante]

I can't answer this as I am under a nondisclosure agreement

 

[Mrs. BRKb]

EVERY WOMAN gets draining, every relationship doesn't stay fulfilling.

Ha. In multiple-choice tests, the all or none type statements (every, all, always) were never correct.

Don't get married either, I see all relationships as inconvenience. And anyone who says they LOVE being married is lying of course.

LOL!

 

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[FastLearner]

Ha. In multiple-choice tests, the all or none type statements (every, all, always) were never correct.

I certainly could have re-worded that differently. My apologies if it came across as offensive and arrogant.

 

[F430]

I generally go to the city once or twice a week, hit on girls/women in the street, get some #s and arrange dates later because I do believe in balance. Also have 3 'fbs' and I ALWAYS have protected sex-no exceptions.

yes there are risks involved having sex but I do believe it keeps a man fresh and determined- lets be honest, it can be really a pain in the a$$ if you aren't getting any/can't get any

 

[theag]

Seems like everybody here is a playboy, mostly the newer members. Good for you.

My sex life just went down some more because my relationship is now long-distance and we only see each other 1 weekend a month. Will see how it works out..

 

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[FastLearner]

My sex life just went down some more because my relationship is now long-distance and we only see each other 1 weekend a month. Will see how it works out..

It won't. Long distance relationships only work for so long. It's cute and romantic at first then it begins to get lonely. Sooner or later you'll understand what I'm talking about.

 

[Ravens_Shadow]

Yep, seen it a million times. Long distance relationships eventually just breaks one person or the other down.

As a response to the thread, I don't pursue sex or women any during my pursuit of millions. I simply don't have time for it, and the relationships I've had have pretty much sucked the life out of me anyway. I also don't really see a point in having sex when you have no money just incase the worst happens, and even then I'm not interested in sex unless I'm in a fairly close relationship. Just my preferences.

[video=youtube;Cm5pf1uRyYE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cm5pf1uRyYE[/video]

Skip to 19:30. Most hilariously true, but serious explanation of relationships/sex vs general life and the general populous. Talks about how the relationships die and wear your union down. :smxB:

 

[Michael Raphael]

Skip to 19:30. Most hilariously true, but serious explanation of relationships/sex vs general life and the general populous. Talks about how the relationships die and wear your union down.

Omg I love you for posting this. I literally just hung up on a meeting to watch this. Why. Laughter is my fuel. No but seriously. This is amazing, I dont think the email I just sent made sense but what ever. Haha love the fake news report

 

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[Mike39]

Seems like everybody here is a playboy, mostly the newer members. Good for you.

I heard most of them are french models as well, that explains it.

[video=youtube;bufTna0WArc]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bufTna0WArc[/video]

 

[FastLearner]

As a response to the thread, I don't pursue sex or women any during my pursuit of millions. I simply don't have time for it, and the relationships I've had have pretty much sucked the life out of me anyway. I also don't really see a point in having sex when you have no money just incase the worst happens, and even then I'm not interested in sex unless I'm in a fairly close relationship. Just my preferences.

I couldn't agree more. I honestly feel sorry for people who try to convince themselves more than me that they're happy being shackled down by a woman and child. Seems horrendously depressing.