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    how is your sex life during your pursuit of millionaires?
    how you manage it so that it wont interfere with your main purpose?

    do you manage to handle both well?
    or
    did you lost yourself in your own world? keep faith for later and better comeback.
     
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    Sex should be enjoyable, but you shouldn't let it own you. I am single currently, I love to have sex. But I also understand that I can't be chasing skirts and having sex all the time (unless I switch careers and aspire to be Ron Jeremy). If you are young, have fun..have plenty of sex, it is healthy. But don't let it consume you, stay focused on your path to success as well. You can have both, sex plus money lol
     
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    So do professional athletes and that usually leads to the Sidewalk, despite the multimillion dollar contracts: Divorces. Baby mommas. Alimony. Child support. Stalkers. Extortion. Yea, sex is great but IMO, is a high-risk activity and yes, I have stories pertaining to the aforementioned.

    Check the latest news for a prime example of what I just described above. (Search for the AZ Cardinals.)

    Enjoy life, but please, never forget that your actions can carry consequences, some of which, can last for a lifetime.
     
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    What sex life? I'm married...

    :D
     
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    Well said Mj. I remember a passage in your book where you talk about taking a woman to your home. You did the worst case consequence analysis and the most reasonable choice won. Talk about taking conscious decisions.
     
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    Here is where shit gets tricky and complicated.

    If you have a one night stand you can get an STD, be accused of rape, or end up with a baby.

    BTW if you are ever accused of rape, you WILL go to jail, doesn't matter if there is no evidence.

    Sex is not the problem IMO as contraception is pretty reliable but still risky. But the problem is the type of person you are having sex with.

    Here is the thing about relationships. When we are emotionally charged in a relationship we magnify all the positive qualities and we ignore all the negative qualities. We tell everyone how we found our "soul mate" and blah blah blah. Then 6 months down the road all of a sudden they are the worst thing that has ever happened to you.

    Part of living a successful live is avoiding things that could have the potential to destroy your freedom. Your time, money and energy etc.

    With sex not only will you end up with a kid but you'll be attached to your ex partner for a lifetime all sucking up your time and money.
     
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    nicely said. Kudos to you!
    thanks.
     
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    I have to digress a little in this thread. Wear a condom, use protection, be smart about it.
     
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    A condom is the best form of contraception.

    We are all human and we all have sexual desires, if you are gonna have sex, be smart and choose wisely because learning a lesson the hard way(pun intended) is not smart and can actually ruin your life.
     
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    Whats this sex life you speak of? I'm a single man, who spends the majority of my time raising money for my business and learning all I can, and doing papers/homework for school. I also don't have a social life..but that is because I'm an introvert. But like the others said, be careful, be safe. Find a balance and find a way so that it won't control you and keep you from what you want.
     
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    Well I'll be the first to jump on the Sex is GREAT bandwagon!

    But like MJ and others have said, you have to be smart about it, like all things in life it requires moderation (not the sex necessarily, but the pursuit of women with the end goal in mind)

    Napoleon Hill mentioned more than once that successful men are normally "highly sexed" which means an extremely high sex drive. The reason they have the ability to be successful is the fact that their sex DRIVE can be redirected towards a success or business DRIVE.

    I would dare say most of the people on this forum have extremely high sex drives. This can make or break you, it's all about control. To stay true to TMF it's like having an exotic car. If you drive in one direction too fast you'll either get a ticket or get in an accident. You must control yourself the way you would control your car. Steer yourself in the way you desire to go.

    I personally have a very high sex drive, during college that was my focus. (this isn't to brag) Multiple women at any given time during my long college career. Once I felt satisfied from one I would move to the next, nearly insatiable. (I wonder now where I would be if I had directed that energy towards business and success of said business). After learning to control my desires and deciding that I desired success more than the temporary satisfaction of risky one night stands I started an accent towards my ultimate goals.

    There is a reason monks are celibate, it allows them to fully concentrate on their ultimate goal (worship, oneness, nirvana, etc) I'm not saying you have to be celibate, but you need to decide what's the most important thing to you at this point in your life. Are you going to make Sex your day job and work on your business on the weekends or are you going to make Success your business and fill in some free time with sex.
     
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    I'll acknowledge that it can be high risk, but not if you take the proper precautions, the implications can be big if something goes wrong, but I'm not going to sacrifice something so enjoyable due to fear of some highly unlikely occurrence.

    Wear condoms always unless your in a very trusting long term relationship that has been going for 6 months+ get immunized against hep A & B and HPV. You could always go to the extreme and get a vasectomy if you're worried about kids, but I wouldn't recommend that unless you KNOW you never want kids.

    A male pill is certainly long overdue, but either way if you take all the precautions and know how to use condoms correctly it's highly, highly unlikely your knocking a chick up or getting any serious sti/std.

    Most of these guys who end up in trouble and on the sidewalk are addicted to high risk activity/indulgences, do you think they're using condoms or getting immunised? :rolleyes:
     
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    :( I was hoping someone would say that their sex life was very handsome for the laughs... oh to be 18.. :D



    1) Cover your stump before you hump
    2) Before you attack her, wrap your whacker
    3) Don't be silly, protect your Willie

    Follow one of the above and you shall be 99.99% safe.
     
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    Just read an article that stated "Free Sex is the most expensive sex"
     
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    I mean (for the singles):
    Do you practice sex and relationship while pursuit of millionaires or you don't?
    Do you have committed relationship or changing partners?
    Since relationship and sex takes large amount of time, I wonder do successful millionaires practice this during during their pursuit or not?

    *) I'm not the casual sex (ONS) kind of guy, I have to build relationship first to enjoy sex. And this takes some times.
     
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    Completely agree MJ. Like anything, it needs to be done responsibly. Just saying, you can also make it to the fastlane plus have sex along the way.

    I am 27 with no kids thankfully (never married) but I have witnessed a good friend get a girl pregnant at 22, rush into marriage, now 4 years later getting ready to go through a divorce. Now, he isn't really focused on becoming a fastlaner, but because of one decision.....many of his dreams got put on hold and will probably never be realized.

    I guess the moral of the story is, be safe, be smart, sex is a decision that has lifetime consequences.
     
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    I've also been scared of sex at some point... missed a lot of fun over thinking it. The point is no, not every woman will accuse you of rape, or give you an STD. Experience and having a level head will keep you away from crazies. And you don't even have to WASTE time chasing around, which is what most of it is - you probably waste much more looking for it, then just sitting down and figuring out what it is you are looking for, and finding one that fits.
     
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    I can't speak on having millions because I don't. But I can say that my sex life is one of the things I would most like to change if I could go back.
     
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    And damn, he used a condom too! So much for that "protection" eh? Your protection goes out the window if it breaks, slips off, or is defective. And even then, it still isn't 100% due to application, removal, foreplay, etc.

    And indeed it will; I've dodged some bullets to the point I could write another book.

    LOL, that's what I said too, but sorry guys the "protection" is an illusion. I've had 3 horrific experiences in my life and in each case "protection" was involved. Each of these scenarios was utterly draining to the point I could not work, sleep, or eat. It literally became suffocating. This "protection" ya'll speak so highly of didn't stop me from having to walk into a courtroom to get a restraining order. This protection doesn't stop chronological liars from not lying. This protection doesn't stop gold-diggers from claiming whatever they want to claim.

    Your protection is an illusion as about as thin as the rubber itself. But hey, WTF do I know?

    Drop your pants and have at it.
     
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    Diseases aside. If your making any real type of money or plan to, you need to keep your game tight and start laying the foundation now.

    A big part of acquiring wealth and power is based on relationships.

    The following rule applies to fortune 500 execs, street hustlers and strip clubs patrons. Listen closely.

    Who you allow inside of your circle can make or break you. "He who controls the diameter of your thinking, determines the circumference of your actions." If you are financially set, take a look at these chicks life resumes to see how you will benefit from allowing them in your circle before you jump up and down on them. They will certainly benefit so why shouldn't you.

    The last time I checked there wasn't a shortage in the pu$$y supply chain. As you elevate in status, so should your choices in the company that you keep.

    I have never understood how people get caught up in ugly situations behind sex. If you love sleeping with beautiful women and you are wealthy and need to keep a clean, low profile, then work hard here in the states for 3 months and every 4th month reward yourself with a month long stay in Brazil or any exotic location where you will be treated like a king and everything will stay discreet.

    I think I need to write a book because so many of these guys have the game confused. It's basic math. Women outnumber men, yet most act as if it's the other way around.

    Stop chasing and make them chase you. Especially if you are successful. I think I will start a consulting firm helping guys keep there game tight.
     
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    Mine is basically non-existant/once a month with my current gf, who doesn't even understand the whole fastlane. Have heard "That's just what people do, or that's the way it is" so many times, she should be forced to perform for every time she says this. Can't wait until I actually dive into a solid fastlane project. Might actually end up single lol.
     
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    Well, I can't argue with you there. Crazy will be crazy...
     
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    This whole discussion is based around lifestyle choices.

    TBH, the whole std/pregnancy thing is an issue if you are wreckless. This goes for both genders.

    If you wrap up every time, immediately take a shower after, have a healthy lifestyle which boosts your immune system and screen the people you are having sex with, then you reduce your risk immensely (comparable to due diligence and precautionary measures with anything).


    I know people who have had 200+ different partners and no std's, no pregnancies etc. etc.

    I also know people who have kids in their very early 20's, who have std's etc.


    The former take these precautionary measures very seriously, the latter say "but it feels amazing".


    As for MJ's main points in this thread, I agree with them for the most part.

    If you are high profile, have lots of money, drive nice cars etc. you will have some targets on your back whether you want to or not.


    This is also why, successful men have an extremely hard time with women when they rely on their looks/money etc.

    I know of guys who purposefully hide what they are worth and get much better results because of it.

    Nothing is black and white, but screening, making precautions a must and accepting your lifestyle risks will make your decisions much easier.
     

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