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<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 20868" data-quote="Coalission" data-source="post: 437903" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=437903" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-437903">Coalission said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/members/9009/" class="username" data-xf-init="member-tooltip" data-user-id="9009" data-username="@theag">@theag</a> I used to have a master list of words that I would just add to the profanity filter in the Page Settings, so pretty much every comment was auto-hidden, and then daily I&#039;d just go in and approve the good ones to show. Saves a lot of time. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Damn, thanks, you just saved me so much headaches! Bunch of forum cash coming your way</div>
 
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<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 20868" data-quote="Coalission" data-source="post: 437903" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=437903" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-437903">Coalission said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/members/9009/" class="username" data-xf-init="member-tooltip" data-user-id="9009" data-username="@theag">@theag</a> I used to have a master list of words that I would just add to the profanity filter in the Page Settings, so pretty much every comment was auto-hidden, and then daily I&#039;d just go in and approve the good ones to show. Saves a lot of time. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> Doesnt seem to work on newsfeed ad comments <img src="/community/imgs/emoticons/em-frown.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" data-shortname=":(" /></div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 9009" data-quote="theag" data-source="post: 437954" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=437954" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-437954">theag said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Doesnt seem to work on newsfeed ad comments <img src="/community/imgs/emoticons/em-frown.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" data-shortname=":(" /> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> That&#039;s weird, they must have changed it. The words should be under &quot;Page Moderation&quot;, like the screenshot of one of my old page settings below:<br /> <br /> <script class="js-extraPhrases" type="application/json"> { "lightbox_close": "Close", "lightbox_next": "Next", "lightbox_previous": "Previous", "lightbox_error": "The requested content cannot be loaded. Please try again later.", "lightbox_start_slideshow": "Start slideshow", "lightbox_stop_slideshow": "Stop slideshow", "lightbox_full_screen": "Full screen", "lightbox_thumbnails": "Thumbnails", "lightbox_download": "Download", "lightbox_share": "Share", "lightbox_zoom": "Zoom", "lightbox_new_window": "New window", "lightbox_toggle_sidebar": "Toggle sidebar" } </script> <div class="bbImageWrapper js-lbImage" title="snBdGIR.png" data-src="/community/proxy.php?image=http%3A%2F%2Fi.imgur.com%2FsnBdGIR.png%3F1&amp;hash=875dd9c4393fad7a6c6a6e83352ea3b1" data-lb-sidebar-href="" data-lb-caption-extra-html="" data-single-image="1"> <img src="/community/proxy.php?image=http%3A%2F%2Fi.imgur.com%2FsnBdGIR.png%3F1&amp;hash=875dd9c4393fad7a6c6a6e83352ea3b1" data-url="http://i.imgur.com/snBdGIR.png?1" class="bbImage" data-zoom-target="1" style="" alt="snBdGIR.png" title="" width="" height="" loading="lazy" /> </div><br /> <br /> I haven&#039;t advertised on FB in a while, so maybe they really did change it. I don&#039;t see why they would, though.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><b><span style="color: #003366">Go to 0:54 - 1:02 for how to deal with haters or listen listen / watch the whole thing, but remember that part.</span></b><br /> <br /> <b><span style="font-size: 18px">Axwell - Nothing But Love (Official Music Video)</span></b><br /> <br /> <div class="bbMediaWrapper" data-media-site-id="youtube" data-media-key="ZXukKc0iB8Q"> <div class="bbMediaWrapper-inner"> <iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZXukKc0iB8Q?wmode=opaque" loading="lazy" width="560" height="315" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="true"></iframe> </div> </div></div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">My Self-esteem is not dependent on what others think about me, bad or good. My self-esteem is internally sourced.<br /> <br /> Therefore it&#039;s of no relevance or importance what some dumb a$$ thinks about me.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">You NEED haters!<br /> <br /> <div class="bbMediaWrapper" data-media-site-id="youtube" data-media-key="yuPPCbT-_y0"> <div class="bbMediaWrapper-inner"> <iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/yuPPCbT-_y0?wmode=opaque" loading="lazy" width="560" height="315" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="true"></iframe> </div> </div></div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">Just forget them and don&#039;t think about them. <br /> <br /> They hate us cause they anus. <br /> <br /> <div class="bbMediaWrapper" data-media-site-id="youtube" data-media-key="hHgD-rcp1-E"> <div class="bbMediaWrapper-inner"> <iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/hHgD-rcp1-E?wmode=opaque" loading="lazy" width="560" height="315" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="true"></iframe> </div> </div></div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 20868" data-quote="Coalission" data-source="post: 438028" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=438028" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-438028">Coalission said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> That&#039;s weird, they must have changed it. The words should be under &quot;Page Moderation&quot;, like the screenshot of one of my old page settings below:<br /> <br /> I haven&#039;t advertised on FB in a while, so maybe they really did change it. I don&#039;t see why they would, though. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> Yeah thats where I entered them. But nothing was showing up in the spam section in the activity log. <br /> <br /> Today I wondered why I saw no comments on my ads since yesterday evening. Nothing under spam again.<br /> <br /> But now I see the auto-hidden new comments under my ad and can approve them <img src="/community/imgs/emoticons/em-smile2.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" data-shortname=":)" />. Was just looking in the wrong place. Apparantly only posts to page show up in the spam section and comments dont..</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">&quot;The best revenge is massive success&quot; - Jim Rohn<br /> <br /> You should be thankful to have haters if you do.<br /> <br /> Haters are a good thing.<br /> <br /> Haters mean your doing it right.<br /> <br /> Haters mean your they angry at themselves for not pushing themselves to success like you are.<br /> <br /> It&#039;s just noise. Noise does nothing but distract you from your goals.<br /> <br /> Wolves don&#039;t care about the opinions of sheep.<br /> <br /> Stay focused, be the wolf, not the sheep.</div>
 
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<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 10703" data-quote="DennisDuty" data-source="post: 437818" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=437818" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-437818">DennisDuty said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> <ol> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Haters don&#039;t know what they&#039;re talking about. They THINK they know, but they&#039;re wrong</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Children don&#039;t know what they&#039;re talking about. They THINK they know, but they&#039;re wrong<br /> </li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Treat haters the same way you treat children.</li> </ol>Imagine a child who tells you it&#039;s &quot;impossible&quot; for planes to fly because &quot;they&#039;re too heavy&quot;. No matter how many arguments you give them explaining how planes fly, they keep finding arguments for why it&#039;s impossible.<br /> <br /> It&#039;d take an insecure adult to get into an argument with a child. A slightly older child might get into a legit argument with the young child.... but an adult never will. They&#039;ll just smile and say &quot;sure thing champ.&quot; In the end, what the child thinks has no impact on the adult or actual reality.<br /> <br /> This is what MJ is talking about when he says &quot;Your reality doesn&#039;t affect mine&quot;. It doesn&#039;t matter what the kids say or what reality children live in, it doesn&#039;t affect you, it ultimately doesn&#039;t matter.<br /> <br /> I now filter most of what my friends, family, media, etc. say through this children lens. It&#039;s a little amusing, it makes me smile when I hear cute things like &quot;It&#039;s impossible&quot;. I don&#039;t get angry, I don&#039;t talk down, I don&#039;t argue, I just smile and say &quot;sure thing champ.&quot; </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> Thanks that really helped out and put a smile on my face.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">What&#039;s a hater?</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 23590" data-quote="Andy Black" data-source="post: 604252" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=604252" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-604252">Andy Black said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> What&#039;s a hater? </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> <div class="bbImageWrapper js-lbImage" title="latest" data-src="/community/proxy.php?image=http%3A%2F%2Fvignette3.wikia.nocookie.net%2Fcartooncharacters%2Fimages%2F9%2F98%2FMad-hatter-1.jpg%2Frevision%2Flatest%3Fcb%3D20101213012354&amp;hash=07041e45d989cc2be30a42634e5d822f" data-lb-sidebar-href="" data-lb-caption-extra-html="" data-single-image="1"> <img src="/community/proxy.php?image=http%3A%2F%2Fvignette3.wikia.nocookie.net%2Fcartooncharacters%2Fimages%2F9%2F98%2FMad-hatter-1.jpg%2Frevision%2Flatest%3Fcb%3D20101213012354&amp;hash=07041e45d989cc2be30a42634e5d822f" data-url="http://vignette3.wikia.nocookie.net/cartooncharacters/images/9/98/Mad-hatter-1.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20101213012354" class="bbImage" data-zoom-target="1" style="" alt="latest" title="" width="" height="" loading="lazy" /> </div> <br /> <br /> This guy? The Mad Hater.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">I enjoy having haters. It means I am doing something well.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/attachments/upload_2017-4-23_11-9-31-webp.14691/" target="_blank"><img src="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/data/attachments/11/11321-47f42891037da28062d48d8229109ef7.jpg?hash=cTEwV8WNdy" class="bbImage " style="" alt="upload_2017-4-23_11-9-31.webp" title="upload_2017-4-23_11-9-31.webp" width="237" height="200" loading="lazy" /></a><br /> <br /> How much do you want to bet that they will end up asking you for advice later on?</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/members/37424/" class="username" data-xf-init="member-tooltip" data-user-id="37424" data-username="@TheGrind">@TheGrind</a> and <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/members/8202/" class="username" data-xf-init="member-tooltip" data-user-id="8202" data-username="@Vigilante">@Vigilante</a> share my sentiments. Haters are absolutely essential to gauging your success. If you&#039;re not being hated on, you&#039;re probably not very successful.<br /> <br /> Embrace your haters!</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">You don&#039;t have to deal with them. Let your actions and success talk for yourself.</div>
 
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<div class="bbWrapper">I&#039;m often my biggest hater and fan.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 34879" data-quote="lowtek" data-source="post: 604296" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=604296" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-604296">lowtek said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> I wish I were successful enough to have haters. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>I&#039;m obviously doing something wrong too.<br /> <br /> Must.Try.Harder.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'">Most people are discontent with their life<br /> and they lash out at other people to release<br /> their lives frustration <br /> <br /> I understand where they are coming from <br /> so I empathize the way a father would to <br /> a crying baby </span></div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">Haters? They&#039;re people who secretly wish to be you!</div>
 
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<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 23590" data-quote="Andy Black" data-source="post: 604312" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=604312" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-604312">Andy Black said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> I&#039;m obviously doing something wrong too.<br /> <br /> Must.Try.Harder. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> You have some.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><span style="font-size: 15px"> <blockquote data-attributes="" data-quote="" data-source="" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> How do you deal with Haters? </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> Question?<br /> <br /> Why do haters need to be &quot;dealt&quot; with?<br /> <br /> Haters are haters. A fact of life whenever you&#039;re doing something that grabs public attention.<br /> <br /> How to deal with haters is like asking how to deal with the rain during the Costa Rican rainy season. <b> It is, what it is. </b> <br /> <br /> Bring an umbrella and go about your business.<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 8202" data-quote="Vigilante" data-source="post: 604257" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=604257" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-604257">Vigilante said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> I enjoy having haters. It means I am doing something well. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote></span>Yea, it means your work is starting to penetrate in a bigger scale. Not something to fret about, something to celebrate.</div>
 
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