How do you deal with Haters?

[theag]

@theag I used to have a master list of words that I would just add to the profanity filter in the Page Settings, so pretty much every comment was auto-hidden, and then daily I'd just go in and approve the good ones to show. Saves a lot of time.

Damn, thanks, you just saved me so much headaches! Bunch of forum cash coming your way

 

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[theag]

@theag I used to have a master list of words that I would just add to the profanity filter in the Page Settings, so pretty much every comment was auto-hidden, and then daily I'd just go in and approve the good ones to show. Saves a lot of time.

Doesnt seem to work on newsfeed ad comments

 

[Coalission]

Doesnt seem to work on newsfeed ad comments

That's weird, they must have changed it. The words should be under "Page Moderation", like the screenshot of one of my old page settings below:

I haven't advertised on FB in a while, so maybe they really did change it. I don't see why they would, though.

 

[Daniel A]

Go to 0:54 - 1:02 for how to deal with haters or listen listen / watch the whole thing, but remember that part.

Axwell - Nothing But Love (Official Music Video)

 

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[socaldude]

My Self-esteem is not dependent on what others think about me, bad or good. My self-esteem is internally sourced.

Therefore it's of no relevance or importance what some dumb a$$ thinks about me.

 

[MendeGames]

Ignore them and use them as motivation.

 

[miked_d]

You NEED haters!

 

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[Journey2Million$]

Just forget them and don't think about them.

They hate us cause they anus.

 

[theag]

That's weird, they must have changed it. The words should be under "Page Moderation", like the screenshot of one of my old page settings below:

I haven't advertised on FB in a while, so maybe they really did change it. I don't see why they would, though.

Yeah thats where I entered them. But nothing was showing up in the spam section in the activity log.

Today I wondered why I saw no comments on my ads since yesterday evening. Nothing under spam again.

But now I see the auto-hidden new comments under my ad and can approve them . Was just looking in the wrong place. Apparantly only posts to page show up in the spam section and comments dont..

 

[borntodominate]

F*ck them til they love me

 

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[The Grind]

"The best revenge is massive success" - Jim Rohn

You should be thankful to have haters if you do.

Haters are a good thing.

Haters mean your doing it right.

Haters mean your they angry at themselves for not pushing themselves to success like you are.

It's just noise. Noise does nothing but distract you from your goals.

Wolves don't care about the opinions of sheep.

Stay focused, be the wolf, not the sheep.

 

[shubham525]

Sometimes it becomes very difficult to stay calm.

 

[shubham525]

1. Haters don't know what they're talking about. They THINK they know, but they're wrong
2. Children don't know what they're talking about. They THINK they know, but they're wrong
   
3. Treat haters the same way you treat children.

Imagine a child who tells you it's "impossible" for planes to fly because "they're too heavy". No matter how many arguments you give them explaining how planes fly, they keep finding arguments for why it's impossible.

It'd take an insecure adult to get into an argument with a child. A slightly older child might get into a legit argument with the young child.... but an adult never will. They'll just smile and say "sure thing champ." In the end, what the child thinks has no impact on the adult or actual reality.

This is what MJ is talking about when he says "Your reality doesn't affect mine". It doesn't matter what the kids say or what reality children live in, it doesn't affect you, it ultimately doesn't matter.

I now filter most of what my friends, family, media, etc. say through this children lens. It's a little amusing, it makes me smile when I hear cute things like "It's impossible". I don't get angry, I don't talk down, I don't argue, I just smile and say "sure thing champ."

Thanks that really helped out and put a smile on my face.

 

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[Andy Black]

What's a hater?

 

[KSR]

What's a hater?

This guy? The Mad Hater.

 

[InspireHD]

Block out the haters

 

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[Vigilante]

I enjoy having haters. It means I am doing something well.

 

[MetalGear]

How much do you want to bet that they will end up asking you for advice later on?

 

[mrarenare]

@TheGrind and @Vigilante share my sentiments. Haters are absolutely essential to gauging your success. If you're not being hated on, you're probably not very successful.

Embrace your haters!

 

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[psycho.cop]

You don't have to deal with them. Let your actions and success talk for yourself.

 

[MisterBHZ]

 

[KSR]

I'm often my biggest hater and fan.

 

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[lowtek]

I wish I were successful enough to have haters.

 

[Andy Black]

I wish I were successful enough to have haters.

I'm obviously doing something wrong too.

Must.Try.Harder.

 

[Deleted20833]

Most people are discontent with their life
and they lash out at other people to release
their lives frustration

I understand where they are coming from
so I empathize the way a father would to
a crying baby

 

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[luniac]

A happy man doesn't get triggered by haters.

Look within yourself for answers.

 

[Argue]

Haters? They're people who secretly wish to be you!

 

[TonyStark]

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tyubEwigfUY

 

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[Vigilante]

I'm obviously doing something wrong too.

Must.Try.Harder.

You have some.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

How do you deal with Haters?

Question?

Why do haters need to be "dealt" with?

Haters are haters. A fact of life whenever you're doing something that grabs public attention.

How to deal with haters is like asking how to deal with the rain during the Costa Rican rainy season. It is, what it is.

Bring an umbrella and go about your business.

I enjoy having haters. It means I am doing something well.

Yea, it means your work is starting to penetrate in a bigger scale. Not something to fret about, something to celebrate.