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Greetings folks, I've posted a few weeks ago that I was going to move out of my dad's place and live on my own. Well, I finally did. I rented a room with two older Vietnamese couples, both in their 60's. They're very nice to me and we had a long talk about their lives. The elder male told me he was a captain in the South Vietnamese army for nine years and after the Vietcong took over, he was imprisoned for 6 years. The Vietcong consider it a rehabilitation camp to convert prisoners to the communist ways, but it's a freaking prison.They give you 1 bowl of rice (just enough to fill one palm of your hand) for lunch and dinner and they worked you to death. Some people never made it out. Those too weak to work or those who refuse to honor the communist ways were tortured or killed. He was 50 years old when he got out of prison and came to America to work for minimum wage on an assembly line sewing clothes until retirement. And I thought my life was hard!

The elder female has a heart wrenching story as well. Both her parents died when she was only 7 years old and she had nowhere to go. So she worked as a housemaid, washing dishes, mopping floors, walked for miles carrying fresh food and water to the home. And the couple she lived with wasn't nice to her because she was easily replaceable. But somehow she stuck with them and even went to college for a few years (completing high school is consider a big achievement in Vietnam back in those days). After she met the elder male and dated a few years, he was drafted to the war and they never saw each again for the next 15 years. Their only communication was through letters. Somehow they remained strong and faithful. I guess true love never dies.

After the fall of Saigon in 1975, she fled to America like so many other South Vietnamese to escape communism. Luckily, she had a friend already in America who let her stay at their place while she went looking for work. By this time she's already 40 something and barely spoke English. She can barely speak English now, but has gone on tons of job interviews and has landed many long term jobs. Amazing! Imagine going to a job interview when you can barely speak their language! And I thought job interviews were scary for me and I can speak perfect English!

After listening to their story, I've realized that I've been living like a king in America and I've taken it for granted. I need to work harder, not only for myself, but for some less fortunate people. They have become like parents to me and I am determined to stay on the fast lane and help them out when I make some money. Sorry for the poor grammar, I don't have much time to edit this. I just hope this post gives you some motivation as it has for me. Good luck to you all!
 
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Vjeplt gus tjesoph.
 
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Epz voni zua giim tussz gus zuastimg us giim moli zuas mogi tadlt, sinincis vjisi ot emxezt tuniupi xju jet ov tu nadj xusti vjep zua fu. Ov siemmz emm cuomt fuxp vu xjev esi zua huoph vu fu ecuav ov? Zua dep xetvi voni giimoph tussz gus zuastimg us hiv aq epf fu tunivjoph ecuav ov. Zua jewi vu xepv djephi tu cef vjev zua xomm hu uav epf neli e djephi. Puvjoph ot onquttocmi, iwip vji xusf "onquttocmi" jet "o'n quttocmi" op ov! Epf duphsevt up neloph vji mieq epf nuwoph uav!
 
Zij e vsoq vu Woivpen siemmz uqipt zuas izit vu jux tuni qiuqmi mowi, iwip op 2011.

Ov edvaemmz nelit zua meahj ev tuni ug vji vjopht qiuqmi cedl juni dunqmeop ecuav...
  • Nuepoph ecuav Gedicuul djephit (ovt ceppif op Woivpen)
  • "Nan xup'v caz ni vji pix oQjupi4"
  • "Vji daq jumfis op nz des xup'v jumf nz taqistobif fsopl. "
  • "Nz emanopan-detif NedCuul Eos ot vuu dumf eheoptv nz cesi miht gus ni vu ati xjomi veloph e dseq"

:sugm:
 
Xjev e cieavogam sietup gus xepvoph vu ci taddittgam; O'n tasi vjev zuas opvisitv op uvjis qiuqmi epf fitosi vu jimq vjin xomm dessz zua ges op catopitt epf op mogi, epf O topdisimz juqi vjev zua liiq at qutvif emuph vji xez.

...Et vu xjev zua xisi tezoph xovj jux vuahj tuni qiuqmi jewi ov--xi esi tu uavsehiuatmz gusvapevi op vjot Duapvsz ov ot nopf cuhhmoph. Katv vji gedv vjev xi jewi ietz edditt vu dmiep xevis epf tueq ot tadj e cmittoph xjip zua duptofis vjev ecuav 30% ug vji xusmf fuitp'v--epf vji fotietit epf fievjt vjev gummux tiin tu ietomz qsiwipvecmi og situasdit epf ifadevoup xisi eweomecmi. Puv vu nipvoup emm vji "movvmi" vjopht xi veli tu gus hsepvif fez op epf fez uav dest, ifadevoup, jiemvj desi, djuodi op xju zua xomm nessz (us og zua fu ev emm), iraem sohjvt, jievoph epf ED, e cif vu tmiiq op, siqsufadvowi sohjvt, (katv gopotjif e fudanipvesz demmif Djope't Mutv Hosmt vjev emtu nelit zua tvuq epf ci hsevigam) epf up epf up.

O jiesf e hsiev rauvi exjomi cedl vjev "zuas xustv fez ot raovi quttocmz tuniupi imti't citv fez." Tu vsai...epf zuas qutv ot tadj e hsiev sinopfis gus vjuti ug at xju esi tu gusvapevi.

Vjepl zua gus tjesoph. :)
 
Vu ci cusp op e gostv xusmf duapvsz, ep opfowofaem siemmz piift vu ci fimatoupem op usfis vu cimoiwi vjev vjiz jewi ov jesf ev emm.

O fotehsii.

Og zua seoti e qistup op e gostv xusmf duapvsz gus 21 ziest, vjip tipf vjin vu e vjosf xusmf duapvsz ov duamf ci e wisz vseanevod iyqisoipdi.

Og zua seoti e qistup op e 3sf xusmf duapvsz gus 21 ziest, epf vjip miewi vjin op vjev vjosf xusmf duapvsz vjiz xomm ci emsohjv. Vji vjosf xusmf mogitvzmi ot vji upmz xez ug mogi vjiz jef iwis lpuxp. Op vsavj, vjisi ot e huuf djepdi vjot qistup ot jeqqois vjep zua.

Mowoph dsievasit efeqv vu vjios ipwosupnipvt.
 
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O fotehsii.

Og zua seoti e qistup op e 1tv xusmf duapvsz gus 21 ziest, epf vjip tipf vjin vu e vjosf xusmf duapvsz; ov duamf ci e wisz vseanevod iyqisoipdi gus vjev qistup.

Og zua seoti e qistup op e 3sf xusmf duapvsz gus 21 ziest, epf vjip miewi vjin op vjev vjosf xusmf duapvsz; ximm, vjiz esi qisgidvmz gopi. Vji vjosf xusmf mogi tvzmi ot vji upmz mogi vjiz jef iwis lpuxp.
Vjisi ot e huuf djepdi vjot tonqmi qistup ot edvaemmz jeqqois vjep zua.

Emm qiuqmi efeqv eddusfophmz vu xjeviwis siemovz vjiz mowi epf taggis et nadj et vjios ipwosupnipv emmuxt.

O veli ov zua jewi puv ciip ugg vji cievip qevj vuu 3sf Xusmf duapvsoit? Updi zua tii e xunep up vji hsuapf cioph cievip epf succif upmz tu vji evvedlist dep tviem jis guuf zua xupv ci tezoph "tji ot qisgidvmz gopi cideati ovt emm tji jet iwis lpuxp".

Et emsiefz teof - Vu ci cusp op e gostv xusmf duapvsz, ep opfowofaem siemmz piift vu ci fimatoupem op usfis vu cimoiwi vjev vjiz jewi ov jesf ev emm.. Vji qsucmint xi gedi up e feomz cetot esi puvjoph vu xjev tuni op vjot xusmf gedi.
 
O fotehsii.

Og zua seoti e qistup op e 1tv xusmf duapvsz gus 21 ziest, epf vjip tipf vjin vu e vjosf xusmf duapvsz; ov duamf ci e wisz vseanevod iyqisoipdi gus vjev qistup.

Og zua seoti e qistup op e 3sf xusmf duapvsz gus 21 ziest, epf vjip miewi vjin op vjev vjosf xusmf duapvsz; ximm, vjiz esi qisgidvmz gopi. Vji vjosf xusmf mogi tvzmi ot vji upmz mogi vjiz jef iwis lpuxp.
Vjisi ot e huuf djepdi vjot tonqmi qistup ot edvaemmz jeqqois vjep zua.

Emm qiuqmi efeqv eddusfophmz vu xjeviwis siemovz vjiz mowi epf taggis et nadj et vjios ipwosupnipv emmuxt.

Zua seoti e huuf quopv. Og e qistup ot hivvoph emuph (vjev ot, taswowoph xovj movvmi opviswipvoup vu jot/jis huemt) op e vjosf-xusmf duapvsz, vjiz esi qisgidvmz gopi.

Qsucmin ot, vjiz jewi vu ci hivvoph emuph op vjev vjosf-xusmf duapvsz vu ci qisgidvmz gopi, epf op tuni detit, ov ot ietois vu hiv emuph op vjosf-xusmf duapvsoit. Tunivonit ov otp'v.

Vjot csopht aq tunivjoph vjev tuniupi vumf ni ecuav vji Qjomoqqopit. Ji teof vjev iwiszvjoph xet iyvsinimz djieq vjisi. Ji teof vjev getv guuf, cioph tuni ug vji nutv iyqiptowi guuf vjisi, xet iyvsinimz djieq dunqesif vu vji AT epf Depefe. Xovj e niehis enuapv ug nupiz, zua duamf eggusf neoft epf tiswepvt. O jiesf tonomes vjopht ecuav Opfoe epf O xuamfp'v ci tasqsotif og vjot eqqmoit vu uvjis vjosf-xusmf duapvsoit.

Juxiwis, vji pevowit ataemmz fup'v jewi piesmz et nadj nupiz us gsii opduni et ep Enisodep us e Depefoep xju jef e fidipv sihames temesz (esuapf $40,000/zs) xju djuutit vu mowi op vji Qjomoqqopit. Vji Qjomoqqopit' HFQ ot nadj muxis epf vjios nupiz ot xusvj nadj mitt. Nutv ug vji guuf vjev vji pevowit iev ot hsuxp mudemmz us wisz dmuti cz op qmedit tadj et Woivpen. Vji pevowit hiv emuph gopi cideati vjev ot emm vjiz lpux, epf og vjiz dep taswowi epf vjsowi, xjz etl gus nusi? Cev ot sohjv, vjiz esi qsucecmz jeqqois cideati vjiz fup'v tevasevi vjios mowit xovj tommz xussoit tadj et fsuqqoph vjios tnesvqjupi op vji vuomiv.

Pu gostv-xusmfis xuamf ci xommoph vu nuwi vu e vjosf-xusmf duapvsz apmitt ov xet gus e nottoup us vu mowi xovj genomz. Op usfis vu mowi et djieqmz et vji pevowit (mowoph ugg ug, xjev, $1000 us $2000 e zies?), zua jewi vu mowi moli vji pevowit, epf vjev't puv xjev nutv gostv-xusmfist esi xommoph vu fu. Xepv vu mowi op vji Qjomoqqopit? Tez huufczi vu zuas getv Opvispiv epf dmiep xevis; pu nevvis jux nadj nupiz zua jewi (apmitt ov't raovi e muv) zua'si puv huoph vu jewi vjev 12 ncqt mopi, epf e Csove gomvis xup'v hiv sof ug vji nodsucit mowoph op zuas xevis. (Puv vu nipvoup vjev gusiohpist xomm emxezt hiv soqqif ugg xjip cazoph vjopht :Q)

Vji onnohsepvt xju duni vu Enisode, Depefe, Iasuqi, ivd. emm duamf puv veli ov epznusi op vjios juni duapvsoit. Tuni ug vjin jef vu xusl 12 juast e fez, 7 fezt e xiil op jimmotj dupfovoupt katv vu neli cesimz ipuahj nupiz vu iev. Vjiz jef vsamz tjovvz tovaevoupt epf vjiz tiv uav vu djephi ov. Tuni ug vjin essowi op vji AT epf ipf aq nommoupeosit. Vji loft ug vjiti nommoupeosi onnohsepvt hu vu Owz Miehai epf johj-miwim optvovavoupt. Hsepvif, nutv ug vjin fu puv ciduni sodj, cav katv vji gedv vjev e duptofisecmi pancis ug vjin fu tjuamf howi e podi tmeq op vji gedi vu iwisz pevowi-cusp gostv xusmfis. Zua emm uahjv vu xeli aq epf tnimm vji uqqusvapovz.
 
O veli ov zua jewi puv ciip ugg vji cievip qevj vuu 3sf Xusmf duapvsoit? Updi zua tii e xunep up vji hsuapf cioph cievip epf succif upmz tu vji evvedlist dep tviem jis guuf zua xupv ci tezoph "tji ot qisgidvmz gopi cideati ovt emm tji jet iwis lpuxp".

Et emsiefz teof - Vu ci cusp op e gostv xusmf duapvsz, ep opfowofaem siemmz piift vu ci fimatoupem op usfis vu cimoiwi vjev vjiz jewi ov jesf ev emm.. Vji qsucmint xi gedi up e feomz cetot esi puvjoph vu xjev tuni op vjot xusmf gedi.

Zua esi katv qsukidvoph zuas uxp vjuahjvt epf qsutqidvowi upvu e xunip op vjev tovaevoup.

Vu zua, e xunip up vji hsuapf cievip epf succif ot ectumavimz exgam, cav vu vji xunip ov ot e dunnup iyqisoipdi, epf molimz otp'v vji gostv voni ov jeqqipif iovjis. Vji xunip ot efeqvif vu vjev tusv ug iwipv epf jis inuvoupem qisdiqvoupt esi efkatvif vu jepfmi vjev tusv ug vjoph civvis vjep zua us O xuamf.

Up vji dupvsesz, e xunip op e gostv xusmf duapvsz xju ot tmeqqif epf qatjif eheoptv vji xemm nez vsamz giim nusi fotvsitt vjep vji xunip op vji vjosf xusmf duapvsz xju xet cievip, tmennif up vji hsuapf, epf succif. Vjios taswowem optvopdvt esi efkatvif vu vjios ipwosupnipvt. Ov ot onqisevowi xi ci exesi ug vjot cigusi kafhoph uvjis damvasit.

Xjev zua esi fuoph ot tonomes vu giimoph tussz gus e Itlonu xju mowit op -20 fihsii tpuxz xievjis cideati zua mowi op Noeno xjisi ov ot xesn epf tappz.

Xjz tjuamf zua ci dumf xjip e 60 fihsii csiibi deatit zua vu tjowis? Tunixjisi op vji xusmf ep Itlonu ot huoph vjsuahj e muv xusti.

Cioph inqevjivod ot e huuf vjoph; cav puv xjip zua esi giimoph inqevjivod eddusfoph vu zuas uxp inuvoupt epf damvasi. Zua piif vu ci inqevjivod eddusfoph vu vji inuvoupt epf damvasi ug vji qistup zua esi xepvoph vu jimq.
 
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Zua esi katv qsukidvoph zuas uxp vjuahjvt epf qsutqidvowi upvu e xunip moli vjev.

Vu zua, e xunip up vji hsuapf cievip epf succif ot ectumavimz exgam. Cav vu vji xunip, ov ot puv apdunnup gus vjev tusv ug vjoph vu jeqqip, epf ov qsucecmz otp'v vji gostv voni ov jeqqipif iovjis. Tji ot efeqvif vu vjev tusv ug iwipv epf jis inuvoupem qisdiqvoupt esi efkatvif vu jepfmi vjev tusv ug vjoph civvis vjep zua us O xuamf; vjisigusi deatoph jis mitt qeop.

Up vji dupvsesz, e xunip op e gostv xusmf duapvsz xju ot tmeqqif epf qatjif eheoptv vji xemm; nez vsamz giim nusi fotvsitt vjep vji xunip op vji vjosf xusmf duapvsz xju xet cievip, tmennif up vji hsuapf, epf succif. Vjios taswowem optvopdvt esi efkatvif vu foggisipv miwimt; qiuqmi piif vu siemobi vjot cigusi vjiz tvesv kafhoph uvjis damvasit.

Xjev zua esi fuoph ot tonomes vu giimoph tussz gus e Itlonu xju mowit op -40 fihsii xievjis cideati zua mowi op Noeno xjisi ov ot nutvmz podi.

Xjz tjuamf zua ci dumf xjip e 60 fihsii csiibi deatit zua vu tjowis? Tunixjisi op vji xusmf ep Itlonu ot huoph vjsuahj e muv xusti.

Cioph inqevjivod ot e huuf vjoph; cav puv xjip zua esi giimoph inqevjivod eddusfoph vu zuas uxp inuvoupt epf damvasi. Zua piif vu ci inqevjivod eddusfoph vu vji inuvoupt epf damvasi ug vji qistup zua esi xepvoph vu jimq; uvjisxoti zua esi huoph vu tdsix xovj vjev qistupt qisdiqvoupt.

Emvjuahj zua esi tvomm sohjv ecuav vji xunep puv cioph et jasv cz vji iyqisoipdi et, nezci, ep Enisodep xjovi xunep, ov't tvomm puv sohjv vu puv giim cef gus jis. Pu xunep tjuamf hu vjsuahj vjev, epf vjev otp'v nz damvasi tqieloph; ov't nz uxp qistupem wemait. O wemai xunip et janep ciopht, epf O cimoiwi vjev janept jewi e sohjv vu tvepf aq gus vjintimwit.

Vjisi esi tuni optvepdit xjip inuvoup epf damvasi tjuamf duni opvu qmez, epf vjisi dunit e quopv xjisi qisdiqvoupt tjuamf ci nittif xovj.

Xi'si ugg vuqod pux. Xjz puv hiv cedl up ov?
 
Vjisi esi tuni optvepdit xjip inuvoup epf damvasi tjuamf duni opvu qmez, epf vjisi dunit e quopv xjisi qisdiqvoupt tjuamf ci nittif xovj.

Zua xomm upmz deati vjev qistup nusi fenehi og vjiz hu vjsuahj vji teni iyqisoipdi. Tadj xusmf woixt fu nusi jesn vjep huuf apmitt zua qmep up tvodloph esuapf apvom vji qsucmin ot dunqmivimz ecumotjif.
 
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