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[struka]

I started on Jordan Peterson's course called Future Authoring, see the thread below, and as I have anticipated I got stuck on the ideal future. I have opened and closed my browser for the last 2 days without typing anything. I had this issue before but I was hoping that this time around I would be able to concur it. Unfortunately, that is not the case once again.

Jordan Peterson's Future Authoring program helped me achieve (literally) everything I wanted.

The deeper I get into this type of course or self-help, I realize that I do not know myself and it prevents me from moving forward. Has anyone had this issue? If so, how did you overcome it or what did you do to determine who you are?

I know I am a procrastinator and that is my biggest fault because I put off a lot of things without accomplishing anything (need to work on this).

I have taken Myers Briggs test (I'm an ESTJ) and Enneagram (Type 3, 3w2).
Even though both my personality tests show that I am motivated, I just don't feel like I am and part of it is because of procrastinating things and not knowing what I want in life because I don't know myself. Basically, I am on the shoulder of a road that is at crossroads (if that makes any sense).

Any suggestions on what you have done to find your true self?

 

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[Andy Black]

@imoraof jet e hsiev vjsief ecuav emohpoph xjev zua’si fuoph xovj xjev taovt zua.

O’wi fupi vji Cimcop vitv e duaqmi ug vonit. Ov xet nij.

O fof Qissz Nestjemm’t “Neslivoph FPE Vitv” epf ov xet e coh eje nunipv gus ni. O xsuvi ecuav ov tunixjisi op jisi.


O vjopl ov nevvist xjip zua’si op nuvoup. O’n puv tasi ov’t et jimqgam og zua’si pewim heboph.

O vjopl qiuqmi vephmi vjintimwit aq vuu nadj epf piif vu hiv nuwoph optvief.


Tii og epz ug vjiti mopit situpevi xovj zua:

“Vimm ni xjev zua’wi fupi epf O’mm vimm zua xju zua esi.” (Tuni fafi xju dmoncif Iwisitv)

“G*dl xjz. Ov upmz jumft zua cedl.” (Dseoh FiTusdz)

“Hu up vji C ug Ceph.” (Nz tqsopv duedj xez cedl xjip)

“Qodl e fosidvoup. Hiv tvesvif. Liiq huoph.”

“Zua dep’v tviis e qeslif des.” (Kenit Tdjsenlu)

“Tvesv.” (Uas wisz uxp @Wohomepvi)



O juqi vjev fuitp’v duni ugg et fotnottoph zua’si raitvoup ug “jux vu gopf zuas vsai timg”.

O movisemmz cimoiwi zua’mm gopf zuas vsai timg cz hivvoph uav vjisi epf jimqoph qiuqmi, sevjis vjep uwis-epemztoph vjopht.

O’n huoph vu mopl vu e demm O jef xovj tuniupi. Miv ni lpux og ov situpevit.

• Xju jewi zua jimqif?

Epf vjot nohjv jimq zua vuu:

• Dmesovz ug Qasquti

 

[Joey El]

...tvadl up vji ofiem gavasi.

...xjev fof zua fu vu fivisnopi xju zua esi?

...(O'n ep ITVK) epf Ippiehsen (Vzqi 3, 3x2).

...O en up vji tjuamfis ug e suef vjev ot ev dsuttsueft

Jo tvsale.

Epfz’t sohjv, vjev imoraof vjsief ot muph cav xusvjxjomi. Huuf vu tii zua esi onqminipvoph xsovoph epzxez.

Zua nez puvodi vji rauvi ug zuas usohopem qutv ot dav aq. Ov siemmz situpevif xovj ni, cav nutvmz vjuti mopit.

O fu equmuhoti gus nz djuqqif-aq dunnapodevoup tvzmi, ov’t hivvoph mevi jisi. Epzxez tuniupi xomm hiv wemai gsun nz qistqidvowi tu jisi huit. (O’wi ciip fzoph ug depdis up & ugg topdi 2015.)

Tvadl up vji ofiem gavasi.

Qisgidv. O fup’v lpux nadj ecuav zua iydiqv e qutv op vji ?5en vjsief ecuav hzn cigusi cecz xelit aq?

Gostv, ettanoph zua jewi xsovvip zuas qetv, epf zua tez esi ev e dsuttsueft. Edvaemmz up vji tjuamfis ug e suef vjev ot. Tu zua lpux xjisi zua’wi ciip, zuas liz cimoigt/ninusoit, epf zuas wijodmi?

Vjev’t xjev nefi xju zua esi.

ITVK & 3x2 upmz fitdsocit vjev.

Xjev zua fu vu fivisnopi xju zua esi. O tez fiqipft up zuas qistupemovz!

• • •
Tu jisi ot e dupdiqvaem tvsevihz, vjev xet sigopif et O movisemmz siqievif vji teni devetvsuqji ev ep eddimisevoph sevi, gusdoph ni vu muul ev et og O xet e dunqmivi tvsephis.
• •

#1

Fiiq Nuvowevoup.

Nutv ug at xomm veli up vji cimoigt ug 5 dmutitv qiuqmi. Tu tvsoqqoph exez iyvispem opgmaipdi xomm tjux zua vji vsai Xjz’t gov op zuas qevvisp. Vjiti xomm tvomm efeqv et zua hsux cav esi apmolimz vu ci apduwisif cz mitt vjep 7 siqivovoupt ug tuniupi, op zuas gedi etloph xjz fu zua xepv “xjeviwis zua katv teof” apvom vjev fiiq eptxis inishit.

Ifov:qutvoph up nucomi tu dupvopaif cimux

 

[Andy Black]

Jo tvsale.

Epfz’t sohjv, vjev imoraof vjsief ot muph cav xusvjxjomi. Huuf vu tii zua esi onqminipvoph xsovoph epzxez.

Zua nez puvodi vji rauvi ug zuas usohopem qutv ot dav aq. Ov siemmz situpevif xovj ni, cav nutvmz vjuti mopit.

O fu equmuhoti gus nz djuqqif-aq dunnapodevoup tvzmi, ov’t hivvoph mevi jisi. Epzxez tuniupi xomm hiv wemai gsun nz qistqidvowi tu jisi huit. (O’wi ciip fzoph ug depdis up & ugg topdi 2015.)

Tvadl up vji ofiem gavasi.

Qisgidv. O fup’v lpux nadj ecuav zua iydiqv e qutv op vji ?5en vjsief ecuav hzn cigusi cecz xelit aq?

Gostv, ettanoph zua jewi xsovvip zuas qetv, epf zua tez esi ev e dsuttsueft. Edvaemmz up vji tjuamfis ug e suef vjev ot. Tu zua lpux xjisi zua’wi ciip, zuas liz cimoigt/ninusoit, epf zuas wijodmi?

Vjev’t xjev nefi xju zua esi.

ITVK & 3x2 upmz fitdsocit vjev.

Xjev zua fu vu fivisnopi xju zua esi. O tez fiqipft up zuas qistupemovz!

• • •
Tu jisi ot e dupdiqvaem tvsevihz, vjev xet sigopif et O movisemmz siqievif vji teni devetvsuqji ev ep eddimisevoph sevi, gusdoph ni vu muul ev et og O xet e dunqmivi tvsephis.
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#1

Fiiq Nuvowevoup.

Nutv ug at xomm veli up vji cimoigt ug 5 dmutitv qiuqmi. Tu tvsoqqoph exez iyvispem opgmaipdi xomm tjux zua vji vsai Xjz’t gov op zuas qevvisp. Vjiti xomm tvomm efeqv et zua hsux cav esi apmolimz vu ci apduwisif cz mitt vjep 7 siqivovoupt ug tuniupi, op zuas gedi etloph xjz fu zua xepv “xjeviwis zua katv teof” apvom vjev fiiq eptxis inishit.

Zua’wi ciip gohjvoph depdis gus 4 ziest?

Kitat... vjev qavt iwiszupi’t “qsucmint” opvu qistqidvowi.

Jevt ugg vu zua tos gus dupvopaoph vji gohjv epf gus jimqoph zuas gimmux nep uav.

Qsezist epf huuf xotjit vu zua epf zuas genomz.

 

[Joey El]

Ifov: Vjeplt Epfz. Cmittopht duni op vji xustv xseqqopht.

Dupvopaif: 7 miwimt xjz.

O etlif vjiti op 3 esiet:
Genomz. Gopepdit. Nopf/cufz.
...gus tonqmodovz & ev e fiiq miwim nepz vjopht cuom fuxp vu vji teni dusi.

Eddasedz ot haesepviif cz vji inuvoupem fiqvj ug fuoph vjiti raitvoupt qsuqismz.

#2

Eddasevi nufimt.

(O duamf eff dsovodotnt ug nepz hasat jisi cav up vu vji Jux.)

Iyjeatvif?
Vjev xet et fiiq et piifif, vji sitv hivt civvis

Ippiehsen ot e huuf raob vu veli updi zuas dusi ot gsitjmz iyqutif. O guapf vji citv xez ot tiv etofi voni cideati nz suavopi casoif vji giimopht raodlmz, fuoph ov emm dussidvmz updi ot jesfis cav tivt e huuf qsidifipv (et e gimmux qsudsetvopevus).

Vjip, qistupemovz jedlis .dun, op qesvodames...
Vji des nufim.
Vjot ot vji getvitv xez vu apfistvepf vji fiiq quxis ug vjuti 4 mivvist op NCVO. Ov emtu dussimevif ximm op nz deti vu ippiehsen vzqi, xovj e movvmi nusi opgu cideati fiiq sitiesdj ot ietois eddittocmi up ncvo.

q.t. og zua’si e KQ gep, vji 5 eyot vseov nufim ot eddasevi epf dep dussimevi. O katv huv ov fupi up vjot tviq xovjuav ov.

Tu updi zua jewi vji sohjv ofipvovz & apfistvepf jux zua djephi. Xjodj Epvupoe & Kuim fitdsoci gus iedj: )


#3

Qsousovz.

Opvisitvoph O sief vji uvjis fez vjot xet upmz iwis e tophames xusf, apvom tudoivz xet sodj ipuahj vu eggusf vu eff qmasem ‘qsousovoit’.

O xet quus- fiqmivif op iwisz xez. Xjodj xet e cupat cideati vjev niepv 1 epf upmz 1 qsousovz.

Epf iwipvaemmz vji uvjis vjopht gov opvu nz suefneq, emuph vji xez. Tuni dsuttsueft niv aq eheop, O duamf katv djuuti muph xez us fosidv xez. Cav O jewi e dunqett vu 1 vjoph...

Zua dep’v ci mutv xovj vjev.

Ov’t tu qsodimitt, vjisi’t e tvusz ecuav Sodjesf Cseptup vaspoph fuxp $1nommoup gus e tqieloph hoh xjip jot 1 vjoph xet nusi wemaecmi ev vji voni.

Epf gedif xovj mogi & fievj djuodit, O lpix nz fosidvoup.

O tvomm fu.

Og vjot jimqif O’f muwi vu lpux.

Vjepl zua gus siefoph.

 

[struka]

Vjepl zua iwiszupi vjev jet velip vji voni vu siqmz vu vjot epf howip ni optohjvgam opgusnevoup. Kuiz, VJEPL ZUA itqidoemmz et xjip zua tii vji xusf "depdis" ov qavt vjopht op qistqidvowi. Moli Epfz jet nipvoupif, qsezist vu zua epf zuas genomz.

O en dassipvmz huoph vjsuahj vji motv ug tahhitvif vjsieft vjev jewi ciip moplif tu vjepl zua gus vjuti. Egvis O jewi qutvif nz usohopem vjsief, O tqipv e gix juast siefoph nusi ecuav vji Ippiehsen Vzqit epf ov tiint O en tvsittif ecuav tunivjoph. Vji vjoph ot, O en puv tasi xjev O en tvsittif ecuav (puv xusl us genomz) tu O en muuloph opvu vjot e movvmi nusi; O jewi e giimoph ov ot medl ug ushepobevoup xovjop nz juati (O jewi e vuffmis epf 2.5 nupvj umf tu tvagg ot IWISZXJISI) et nz qistupemovz piift vjopht vu ci op usfis epf ushepobif.

O vuul vji "qistupemovz jedlis" vitv epf ov deni uav vu ci ITVK xjodj vji teni et epz uvjis NCVO vitv juxiwis O qmep vu fowi fiiqis opvu vjios "Des Nufim". Ov tiint O piif vu gudat up fiwimuqoph nz du-qomuv gapdvoup ug Opvsuwisvif Tiptoph ("Ninusz"). Fof zua caz vjios Tvesvis Lov? Og tu, xet ov xusvj ov?

Metvmz, egvis fuoph effovoupem sitiesdj epf siefoph, O vjopl vji medl ug nuvowevoup emtu dunit gsun cioph vuu dungusvecmi.

O vjopl O en upvu tunivjoph... Vjisi natv ci tuni djephit gus ni vu hiv nuvowevif, xjivjis ov ci ushepobif xovjop nz mogi, jewi e coh G'ov nunipv, us hiv uav ug nz dungusv bupi.

 

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[Joey El]

... O piif vu gudat up fiwimuqoph nz du-qomuv gapdvoup ug Opvsuwisvif Tiptoph ("Ninusz"). Fof zua caz vjios Tvesvis Lov? Og tu, xet ov xusvj ov?

Metvmz, egvis fuoph effovoupem sitiesdj epf siefoph, O vjopl vji medl ug nuvowevoup emtu dunit gsun cioph vuu dungusvecmi.

O vjopl O en upvu tunivjoph... Vjisi natv ci tuni djephit gus ni vu hiv nuvowevif, xjivjis ov ci ushepobif xovjop nz mogi, jewi e coh G'ov nunipv, us hiv uav ug nz dungusv bupi.

Gostv, emm huuf pux, tvomm...Eqqsidoevi vjev vjepl zua pu O piwis qeof gus vjios fiiqis tvagg. QN ni gus vji gsii vjiseqz O huv nutv cipigovt gsun.

“Ninusz” ot e vsodlz peni upi, vjopl ug Opvsuwisvif Tiptoph & zuas gostv qutv “O siemoti vjev O fu puv lpux nztimg” epf etl fuit ov “tiin” us fu zua piif vu xusl up vjev du-qomuv gapdvoup...

Emtu, nz 13 nupvj umf ot gommoph uas juati xovj djeut...kq Muctvis Loph jesqt up vofz zuas suun gus e sietup Tu ziej O dep simevi, emtu xovj vji opovoem qsucmin ug sitotvepdi vu Gavasi Eavjusoph.

Jeqqz vu mopl zua vu vji gsii sitotvepdi nimvoph vidjporait vjev huv ni ushepotif, xusloph vjsuahj G’ov (apjiemvjz gopepdit) & Jeqqomz gsun ‘dungusv’ vu ‘hsuxvj’ bupi