I refuse to let some a**hole make me feel bad for being a 61 y/o, married, educated, semi-retired white guy.
I refuse to let some a**hole make me feel bad for being a 25 y/o, but looking like 35. Lol.
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Free registration at the forum removes this block.I refuse to let some a**hole make me feel bad for being a 61 y/o, married, educated, semi-retired white guy.
He owns several burger joints in poorer areas of rural Texas. I asked him how business is going at the new restaraunts. (He had just opened 3 new ones the last time I saw him) He said he literally can’t find enough employees in the area. Why? Because of government programs out bidding him. These folks literally get paid more to voluntarily stay a SLAVE to the government than to start working their way out by making some money and learning how a business works.
Okay. I was poor growing up. My mom was on welfare, dad was gone. The only money I had was from shit jobs. Cleaning horse stables was a shit job. Delivering papers at 4:00 am was a shit job.
I chose not to be a victim. Pleasure did not come from what my parents gave me. My siblings and I found our own ways to be happy. All of us have been successful in our own ways.
I got my first apartment on $1.85 per hour plus some overtime. There was no way to pay for a car repair, dining out, movies, cable tv on the wages. I paid my rent on time, worked hard, and fixed my own car.
There was no help from the outside.
Life was fun though. We did things that did not take a lot of money like picnics, bbq's, hikes in the mountains, lots of parties, etc.
I would have been one of the under privileged that did not graduate high school.
If there were people that had a head start on me.... I did not see or care about them. The focus was on what needed to be done.
There is free education if you are a minority should you chose this path. You may start out steps behind but don't need to stay there. Hard work and perseverance will carry you forward in most cases.
Victimhood is the real disadvantage.
Any of us that have visited a developing country know that.I think if you’re born in America, you should be considered “privileged”.
Progressive thinkers, in their desire to out 'privilege' as the problem with society, are falling into the same deterministic trap that far-right politicians use to support bigoted policy
So while we may all start in different spots at age 12, it doesn't really translate to where we end up at age 50.
Yep In Canada, we have Employment Insurance for layoffs - not sure if this is the same thing in US. Anyway, I have a ton of friends who are on EI and just sit around doing nothing. It's insane, the things I'd be able to get done with all expenses paid and 14 free hours per day.
Very admirable, great meaning and purpose.
Yes. And I'm sure some may not agree, but I think us as entrepreneurs have a responsibility to reach out and help people who aren't as lucky, I think it's the meaning of life. That's why I admire MJ - he helped open the door for many other people who may not have come to the realisation themselves. My ultimate goal is to have enough money to fund inner city programs for children.
When I reenlisted, after the birth of our second child we qualified for food stamps and WIC. That pissed me off. I'm trying to do the military career thing and I qualify for food stamps? Just F*cking WOW! After my next promotion, we no longer qualified. We were no better off financially but it sure felt better.The problem isn't being a victim, the problem is we've turned into a nation of liars who lie to themselves.
Whenever I've been victimized, ultimately, I'm usually the one to blame; a poor decision, a poor action, something. No one takes responsibility for their actions (or lack of action) and their default inclination is to blame someone, something, or some institution.
Well I will disagree with you here. I'm guessing too many people on welfare feel they deserve it. They're special for no reason other than they breathe. In fact, the feel they're not getting enough. It's called entitlement.
We've had some folks here on welfare who absolutely hated being on it. I'm feeling they're the minority.
The problem isn't being a victim, the problem is we've turned into a nation of liars who lie to themselves.
Whenever I've been victimized, ultimately, I'm usually the one to blame; a poor decision, a poor action, something. No one takes responsibility for their actions (or lack of action) and their default inclination is to blame someone, something, or some institution.
Well I will disagree with you here. I'm guessing too many people on welfare feel they deserve it. They're special for no reason other than they breathe. In fact, the feel they're not getting enough. It's called entitlement.
How do you blame a kid for not succeeding when his entire life he was surrounded by negativity, abuse, neglect? How can he be expected to know any better?
I can’t think of a policy more “bigoted” than affirmative action.
"The right to be a victim", or "The right to be victimized"
when a person receives something that they feel, or know, that they have not earned and/or deserve, they hate the person or institution that gave it to them
This is an interesting question I often think about. I think the ultimate goal is you have to believe free will exists, and you can do anything to get out of your situation. Otherwise, what else can you do? That being said, I have a close friend, his brother died when he was 10 (gang violence), his mom went crazy, she was a prostitute. His dad was a loser, etc - just a complete MESS of an upbringing. He's done okay, but I don't think the idea that he is capable of anything is in his head. How can he, coming from that environment?
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