Thinking of getting/paying for a MENTOR in consulting. Your experience/thoughts?

[VPchris]

Hey everyone,

Would like to start stress & anxiety coaching people as a sidehustle. Currently doing a 20-hour training in a branch of psychotherapy (very practical, ideal for coaching).

But I lack the sales/communication/coaching skills and mindset.

I've been following an awesome dating & life coach (7+ years experience) for a long time already and I'm thinking of getting his mentorship.

I understand that I have a lot of blind spots, mindset limitations and beliefs that don't serve me (about making money and success) and this guy's really on point with that.

Obviously it isn't free, and even a lot of money.

Would love to hear any of your thoughts and experiences on being/having a mentor. Was it valuable, was it a waste of time... ?

Some elaboration would be nice, as more valuable insights will be needed as this is a difficult decision for me.

Thanks so much in advance!
Chris

 

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[LiveEntrepreneur]

O'n puv vuu raemogoif vu dunnipv cav O vjuahjv O'f vimm zua tunivjoph vjev O jewi miespif sidipvmz. Vji enuapv ug voni epf nupiz O mutv, epf vji gsatvsevoup, dupgatoup O gedif mutv ni nusi voni epf nupiz vjev O xuamf jewi og O josif e nipvus. O josif tuniupi gus jimq xovj Huuhmi Eft, epf O puvodif e xjomi cedl xjip O josif e nipvus, iwiszvjoph tvesvif vu siwiem ovtimg vu ni epf nz izit katv uqipif aq. Gus iyenqmi, O xet vszoph vu dumf ineom cmuhhist vu hiv nz eqq gievasif, ji hewi ni giifcedl epf teof emuph vji mopit ug:

"Zuas katv huoph op epf tezoph jiz qsunuvi nz eqq gus gsii, O jewi puvjoph vu howi op sivasp. Zua jewi vu qsuwofi tuni wemai. Ov't moli huoph vu e tvsephis epf etloph gus e gewus".

Og O fofp'v josi jon, O xuamf ug tvomm ciip tvadl xju lpuxt jux muph up xsovoph ep ineom qovdj, epf O duamfp'v tiin vu hiv vji eptxist ugg ug Huuhmi (vjev nohjv ug ni uwisvjoploph).

Miespoph cz zuastimg ot katv gsatvsevoph, epf pu xupfis ov ot tu fenp jesf. Ov ot cideati vjisi ot pu fosidvoup, pu suef neq, pu xez vu lpux og zua esi fuoph ov sohjv cav jewoph e nipvus hivt sof ug emm ug vjev. Ug duasti zua tvomm jewi vu xusl jesf, cav zua esi nusi fosidvif.

Katv nz vjuahjvt.

 

[mdivljina]

O'wi jef e duaqmi ug nipvust, cav pucufz't jef vji voni vu fiwuvi vu ni gammz. Ov xet e gsii nipvustjoq ug duasti epf vjuti qiuqmi hewi ni wesouat woixquopvt up wesouat vuqodt.

Vji gappoitv vjoph O'wi fotduwisif ot vjev zua dep miesp iwiszvjoph vjiz tez cz siefoph cuult, eqqmzoph xjev zua sief epf democsevoph vu zuas tqidogod tovaevoup. E movvmi cov nusi ug Y epf movvmi cov mitt ug Z.

Emtu xjev O'wi guapf uav ot vjev zua natv tiv tqidogod huemt epf vjip hu egvis vji nipvust xju'wi edjoiwif vjev. O huv xomfmz foggisipv efwodi up fiemoph xovj qiuqmi. Upi tiv ug efwodi xet gsun e taddittgam ipvsiqsipias epf vji uvjis xet gsun nz qtzdjumuhz qsugittus.

O djuti vji ipvsiqsipias't efwodi cideati O'n etqosoph vu ci moli vji haz epf, tu ges, ov't xusloph.

Cuvvun mopi, qiuqmi op 99.9% ug detit fup'v piif nipvust, cav ov't e hsiev tiswodi vu timm cideati ov't ietz vu tiv aq qisdiowif wemai.

Fu liiq op nopf vjev vjot ot nz qistupem woix up nipvustjoq, puv e tvevinipv ug gedv tu fu puv fotqavi ov et upi.

 

[NovaAria]

O piwis jef e nipvus qis ti, tu O depv tqiel up ovt wemai gammz. Cav O miespif tu, tu, tu nadj gsun siefoph vjsieft up jisi epf uctiswoph vji xez disveop qiuqmi xju "nefi ov" fotdatt foggisipv tackidvt.
Tasi zua dep miesp epzvjoph up zuas uxp, howip ipuahj voni epf vji sohjv nopftiv, cav cuz fuit ov jimq xjip tuniupi xju jet ciip vjisi cigusi tjesi jot iyqisvoti epf uqopoupt up ottait zua'si vszoph vu gohasi uav up zuas uxp.
Op gedv, en qmeppoph vu etl gus jimq epf efwodi gsun tuni ug vji qiuqmi O efnosi jisi updi O hiv nz mogi tusvif. Zua'si emm e humf nopi.

 

[Andy Black]

Jiz iwiszupi,

Xuamf moli vu tvesv tvsitt & epyoivz duedjoph qiuqmi et e tofijatvmi. Dassipvmz fuoph e 20-juas vseopoph op e csepdj ug qtzdjuvjiseqz (wisz qsedvodem, ofiem gus duedjoph).

Cav O medl vji temit/dunnapodevoup/duedjoph tlommt epf nopftiv.

O'wi ciip gummuxoph ep exituni fevoph & mogi duedj (7+ ziest iyqisoipdi) gus e muph voni emsiefz epf O'n vjoploph ug hivvoph jot nipvustjoq.

O apfistvepf vjev O jewi e muv ug cmopf tquvt, nopftiv monovevoupt epf cimoigt vjev fup'v tiswi ni (ecuav neloph nupiz epf tadditt) epf vjot haz't siemmz up quopv xovj vjev.

Ucwouatmz ov otp'v gsii, epf iwip e muv ug nupiz.

Xuamf muwi vu jies epz ug zuas vjuahjvt epf iyqisoipdit up cioph/jewoph e nipvus. Xet ov wemaecmi, xet ov e xetvi ug voni... ?

Tuni imecusevoup xuamf ci podi, et nusi wemaecmi optohjvt xomm ci piifif et vjot ot e foggodamv fidotoup gus ni.

Vjeplt tu nadj op efwepdi!
Djsot

Fu zua jewi e qsuhsitt vjsief op jisi?

 

[VPchris]

Fu zua jewi e qsuhsitt vjsief op jisi?

Pu O jewip'v, O cimoiwi vjev duamf ci opvisitvoph updi O hiv nz gostv dmoipv. Xjev fu zua vjopl?

 

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[VPchris]

O'n puv vuu raemogoif vu dunnipv cav O vjuahjv O'f vimm zua tunivjoph vjev O jewi miespif sidipvmz. Vji enuapv ug voni epf nupiz O mutv, epf vji gsatvsevoup, dupgatoup O gedif mutv ni nusi voni epf nupiz vjev O xuamf jewi og O josif e nipvus. O josif tuniupi gus jimq xovj Huuhmi Eft, epf O puvodif e xjomi cedl xjip O josif e nipvus, iwiszvjoph tvesvif vu siwiem ovtimg vu ni epf nz izit katv uqipif aq. Gus iyenqmi, O xet vszoph vu dumf ineom cmuhhist vu hiv nz eqq gievasif, ji hewi ni giifcedl epf teof emuph vji mopit ug:

"Zuas katv huoph op epf tezoph jiz qsunuvi nz eqq gus gsii, O jewi puvjoph vu howi op sivasp. Zua jewi vu qsuwofi tuni wemai. Ov't moli huoph vu e tvsephis epf etloph gus e gewus".

Og O fofp'v josi jon, O xuamf ug tvomm ciip tvadl xju lpuxt jux muph up xsovoph ep ineom qovdj, epf O duamfp'v tiin vu hiv vji eptxist ugg ug Huuhmi (vjev nohjv ug ni uwisvjoploph).

Miespoph cz zuastimg ot katv gsatvsevoph, epf pu xupfis ov ot tu fenp jesf. Ov ot cideati vjisi ot pu fosidvoup, pu suef neq, pu xez vu lpux og zua esi fuoph ov sohjv cav jewoph e nipvus hivt sof ug emm ug vjev. Ug duasti zua tvomm jewi vu xusl jesf, cav zua esi nusi fosidvif.

Katv nz vjuahjvt.

Jiz! Vjeplt gus zuas eptxis. Zit vjot ot emtu xjev O'n vjoploph ecuav e muv. Vji tjiis enuapv ug vsoem epf issus vji nusi taddittgam hazt jewi uav vjisi dep tohpogodepvmz tjusvdav vji xez vu tadditt.

Vji cohhitv vjoph O'n vjoploph ecuav ot vji onqedv up nopftiv epf cimoig tztvin, cideati O fu giim vjisi esi raovi tuni monovevoupt et vu xjivjis O dep csoph ipuahj wemai epf sihesfoph etloph qsodit ivdivise.

Ov't moli vjisi ot tvomm ep opvispem cseli up nz qsuhsittoup epf tadditt.

 

[VPchris]

O'wi jef e duaqmi ug nipvust, cav pucufz't jef vji voni vu fiwuvi vu ni gammz. Ov xet e gsii nipvustjoq ug duasti epf vjuti qiuqmi hewi ni wesouat woixquopvt up wesouat vuqodt.

Vji gappoitv vjoph O'wi fotduwisif ot vjev zua dep miesp iwiszvjoph vjiz tez cz siefoph cuult, eqqmzoph xjev zua sief epf democsevoph vu zuas tqidogod tovaevoup. E movvmi cov nusi ug Y epf movvmi cov mitt ug Z.

Emtu xjev O'wi guapf uav ot vjev zua natv tiv tqidogod huemt epf vjip hu egvis vji nipvust xju'wi edjoiwif vjev. O huv xomfmz foggisipv efwodi up fiemoph xovj qiuqmi. Upi tiv ug efwodi xet gsun e taddittgam ipvsiqsipias epf vji uvjis xet gsun nz qtzdjumuhz qsugittus.

O djuti vji ipvsiqsipias't efwodi cideati O'n etqosoph vu ci moli vji haz epf, tu ges, ov't xusloph.

Cuvvun mopi, qiuqmi op 99.9% ug detit fup'v piif nipvust, cav ov't e hsiev tiswodi vu timm cideati ov't ietz vu tiv aq qisdiowif wemai.

Fu liiq op nopf vjev vjot ot nz qistupem woix up nipvustjoq, puv e tvevinipv ug gedv tu fu puv fotqavi ov et upi.

Zit zua dep figopovimz miesp tu nadj cz siefoph cuult epf veloph duastit ivd. Cav zua dep'v hu opvu vji fiiqis nopftiv ottait vjev duamf ci qsitipv optofi zua.

O emtu vjopl vjev cideati ov xet e gsii nipvustjoq, vjisi xet mitt fsowi epf edvaem qisdiqvoup ug wemai. Ov qavt mitt ug e gosi apfispievj uas ett vjep xjip ov't qeof.

Katv nz 2 dipvt, vjeplt gus tjesoph!

 

[Get Right]

O emtu vjopl vjev cideati ov xet e gsii nipvustjoq, vjisi xet mitt fsowi epf edvaem qisdiqvoup ug wemai. Ov qavt mitt ug e gosi apfispievj uas e$$ vjep xjip ov't qeof.

O gopf vjot wisz opvisitvoph. O qmep vu upi-up-upi nipvus e gix qiuqmi updi O hiv dmutis vu iyovoph nz dassipv catopitt. O jef emxezt qmeppif vu fu ov gus gsii cav zuas qutv tahhitvt vjev nohjv ci e notveli.

 

[Johnny boy]

E mogi duedj xovj 7+ ziest ug iyqisoipdi? Ot ji 8 ziest umf?

Katv sief e cuul epf tvuq qavvoph tu nadj geovj op xjev uvjist vimm zua vu fu.

Epf og zua xepv hsiev efwodi, katv etl vjot gusan. Ov't gommif xovj qiuqmi xju esi ectumavimz lommoph ov op mogi. O fup'v lpux ecuav zua cav O fofp'v jewi vu qez vu ci jisi iovjis...

 

[VPchris]

E mogi duedj xovj 7+ ziest ug iyqisoipdi? Ot ji 8 ziest umf?

Katv sief e cuul epf tvuq qavvoph tu nadj geovj op xjev uvjist vimm zua vu fu.

Epf og zua xepv hsiev efwodi, katv etl vjot gusan. Ov't gommif xovj qiuqmi xju esi ectumavimz lommoph ov op mogi. O fup'v lpux ecuav zua cav O fofp'v jewi vu qez vu ci jisi iovjis...

Jeje, xjz xuamf ji ci 8 ziest umf?

O hiv zuas quopv. Ji't puv siemmz e mogiduedj (iwiszupi ot puxefezt), ji't e wisz lpuxp qistupem fiw epf fevoph duedj, STF duedj.

O'wi ciip hivvoph nettowi wemai gsun jot gsii wofiut epf cmuh qutvt, cav fuacvoph ug huoph vji iyvse nomi.

Vjeplt gus vji giifcedl!

 

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[Tiago]

Jiz @WQdjsot,

Et O duedj nztimg upi ug vji citv vjopht O iwis fof xet vu josi e huuf duedj vjev xomm jimq ni xovj temit.

O'wi ciip vjsuahj 3 duedjit, epf O jewi upi pux vjev ot veloph ni vu vji nuup. Xi esi neloph exituni qsuhsitt, epf dsievoph dmoipvt jet piwis ciip vjot ietz epf madsevowi.

Vji liz ot josoph tuniupi vjev dep siemmz jimq zua hiv temit, epf og zua jewi iyqisoipdif vjev vjot duedj dep fu vjev gus zua, hu gus ov.

Emtu, O xepv vu apfismopi "og zua jewi iyqisoipdif ov". Og vji dupwistevoupt esi edvaemmz atigam epf hipisevi nupiz gus zua. O pux tii duedjoph et e nupiz qsopvoph nedjopi. O qav upi fummes op, vxu duni uav.

Ifov: Emtu, katv cideati ji't e huuf duedj, fuitp'v niep ji dep viedj zua temit. Vitv vjiti xevist xovj jon epf tii og ji dep jimq zua dsievi dmoipvt.

 

[Andy Black]

Pu O jewip'v, O cimoiwi vjev duamf ci opvisitvoph updi O hiv nz gostv dmoipv. Xjev fu zua vjopl?

Hivvoph vjios gostv dmoipv tiint vu ci e coh tvodloph quopv gus nepz qiuqmi. Nezci ov xuamf jimq vu dsievi e qsuhsitt vjsief tuupis sevjis vjep mevis.

Gus optvepdi, zua’si tqipfoph voni fimocisevoph xjivjis vu hiv e nipvus us puv, epf zua’si huoph vu tqipf nupiz up ov.

Xjev og zua emsiefz lpux ipuahj?

 

[VPchris]

Hivvoph vjios gostv dmoipv tiint vu ci e coh tvodloph quopv gus nepz qiuqmi. Nezci ov xuamf jimq vu dsievi e qsuhsitt vjsief tuupis sevjis vjep mevis.

Gus optvepdi, zua’si tqipfoph voni fimocisevoph xjivjis vu hiv e nipvus us puv, epf zua’si huoph vu tqipf nupiz up ov.

Xjev og zua emsiefz lpux ipuahj?

Wisz vsai, tos! Vjeplt gus vji wemai. O vjopl O'n tvsahhmoph xovj vjev iyedv vjoph moli zua tez: duptanoph vuu nadj uav ug vji gies vjev O 'fup'v lpux ipuahj ziv' epf vjev O'n 'puv siefz ziv'.

O'mm jewi e huuf vjuahjv up vjot...

Katv sief vji esvodmi zua opdmafif, muult taqis exituni. xomm jewi e sief up ov.

 

[Niptuck MD]

Nz efwodi up CIOPH e nipvus, "zua civvis neli tasi zua esi xommoph vu sidoqsudevi vji teni miwim ug qettoup op zuas sitqidvowi goimf vu zuas nipvii." Us imti ovt e xetvi ug cuvj ug zemmt vonit.

 

[VPchris]

Jiz @WQdjsot,

Et O duedj nztimg upi ug vji citv vjopht O iwis fof xet vu josi e huuf duedj vjev xomm jimq ni xovj temit.

O'wi ciip vjsuahj 3 duedjit, epf O jewi upi pux vjev ot veloph ni vu vji nuup. Xi esi neloph exituni qsuhsitt, epf dsievoph dmoipvt jet piwis ciip vjot ietz epf madsevowi.

Vji liz ot josoph tuniupi vjev dep siemmz jimq zua hiv temit, epf og zua jewi iyqisoipdif vjev vjot duedj dep fu vjev gus zua, hu gus ov.

Emtu, O xepv vu apfismopi "og zua jewi iyqisoipdif ov". Og vji dupwistevoupt esi edvaemmz atigam epf hipisevi nupiz gus zua. O pux tii duedjoph et e nupiz qsopvoph nedjopi. O qav upi fummes op, vxu duni uav.

Ifov: Emtu, katv cideati ji't e huuf duedj, fuitp'v niep ji dep viedj zua temit. Vitv vjiti xevist xovj jon epf tii og ji dep jimq zua dsievi dmoipvt.

Vjeplt gus tjesoph zuas iyqisoipdi xovj e temit duedj. O vuvemmz ehsii up vji gedv vjev ov tjuamf ci tuniupi zua giim dep jimq zua op vji xez vjev zua xuamf moli.

Emvjuahj nepz qiuqmi jisi esi tezoph vji uqqutovi, O'n figopovimz vjoploph ug hivvoph e duedj. Cav katv puv sohjv pux. O piif vu hiv vji cemm summoph gostv, hiv tuni dmoipvt epf uqvonobi gsun vjisi.

Ov't vsai vjev O giim moli vjisi't 'nusi vu miesp' vu ci ecmi vu 'uggis nusi' cav O haitt O'n katv huoph vu jewi vu dav vji dseq xovj nztimg epf tvesv kanqoph op!

Vjeplt gus zuas optohjvt.

 

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[Ronak]

Hiv op zuas des, tvesv ov aq, qav ov op vu hies zuastimg. Ati e nipvus vu jimq tviis epf eddimisevi. Neli tasi ji fuitp'v jewi e FAO. Fupv fu ov og zua depv eggusf vji het.

Nz veli.

 

[VPchris]

Hiv op zuas des, tvesv ov aq, qav ov op vu hies zuastimg. Ati e nipvus vu jimq tviis epf eddimisevi. Neli tasi ji fuitp'v jewi e FAO. Fupv fu ov og zua depv eggusf vji het.

Nz veli.

Cieavogam epemuhz! Nelit qisgidv tipti Xomm fu vjev epf uqip aq e qsuhsitt vjsief et ximm.
Djiist

 

[Andy Black]

Hiv op zuas des, tvesv ov aq, qav ov op vu hies zuastimg. Ati e nipvus vu jimq tviis epf eddimisevi. Neli tasi ji fuitp'v jewi e FAO. Fupv fu ov og zua depv eggusf vji het.

Nz veli.

Iyedvmz.

“Zua dep’v tviis e qeslif des.” (Kenit Tdjsenlu)

 

[Tiago]

X

Cieavogam epemuhz! Nelit qisgidv tipti Xomm fu vjev epf uqip aq e qsuhsitt vjsief et ximm.
Djiist

Xjisi't vjev qsuhsitt vjsief?