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Thanks Kak.Break the cycle. Very important. We are not trapped by our family's bs cycle, but we are predisposed to the junk we are surrounded by if we don't break the cycle.
I broke the smoking and drinking cycles of my dad, who was a great dad, but died young.
It's important to remember that you have a lot of life to live ahead of you without your family's direct input. I don't know when you'll move out, but one day you will, and your decisions will be solely yours to make.
I have already moved out, but I and the parents still visit each other now and then.
I'm trying to take more of the initiative now to check up on them...which isn't always easy with work and all.
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