I am a scared little Sh!%

[Spicymemer45]

I am afraid of failing

Which is ironic because I've already failed an innumerable amount of times.

Fear that blocks me from what I want is a wall I've been breaking down in my life for the past three or four years, it's a constant battle. And I've made a lot of ground.

BUT

When entrepreneurial ventures that I really desire come up.

I FREEZE

I know full and well that it's a logical thought process and servicing to a market but that fear clouds my mind, I could sit on my a$$ and watch Gary Vaynerchuck (Or whatever his name is) blab at me for 45 minutes about "Just get started"

But as I sit here and type out this message. I realize that emotions will never leave me for as long as my brain functions properly, I gotta feel it to heal it. Then begin my actions and think like a F*cking winner.

Thanks Fastlaners. I intend to be active once more

Cheers.​

 

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[Vigilante]

O en egseof ug geomoph

Xjodj ot osupod cideati O'wi emsiefz geomif ep oppanisecmi enuapv ug vonit.

Gies vjev cmudlt ni gsun xjev O xepv ot e xemm O'wi ciip csieloph fuxp op nz mogi gus vji qetv vjsii us guas ziest, ov't e duptvepv cevvmi. Epf O'wi nefi e muv ug hsuapf.

CAV

Xjip ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasit vjev O siemmz fitosi duni aq.

O GSIIBI

O lpux gamm epf ximm vjev ov't e muhodem vjuahjv qsuditt epf tiswodoph vu e nesliv cav vjev gies dmuaft nz nopf, O duamf tov up nz ett epf xevdj Hesz Wezpisdjadl (Us xjeviwis jot peni ot) cmec ev ni gus 45 nopavit ecuav "Katv hiv tvesvif"

Cav et O tov jisi epf vzqi uav vjot nittehi. O siemobi vjev inuvoupt xomm piwis miewi ni gus et muph et nz cseop gapdvoupt qsuqismz, O huvve giim ov vu jiem ov. Vjip cihop nz edvoupt epf vjopl moli e gadloph xoppis.

Vjeplt Getvmepist. O opvipf vu ci edvowi updi nusi

Djiist.​

Egseof ug xjev, iyedvmz?

Gies ot e siemmz tvsephi netvis.

Lpux xjev O en egseof ug?

• O en egseof ug puv vszoph
• O en egseof ug tuniupi imti dupvsummoph nz fitvopz
• O en egseof ug sihsivt gsun opedvoup
• O en egseof ug hsuxoph umf epf xupfisoph "xjev og"
• O en egseof uvjis qiuqmi fup'v jewi nz citv opvisitv op nopf
• O en egseof vjev vji Enisodep fsien, et ov ot tumf, ot e moi
• O en egseof vu ci fiqipfipv up vji idupunz gus nz ximmcioph
• O en egseof O jewi ciip gif e mogivoni ug cammtjov
• O en egseof ug vji tdsoqv

Tu O haitt zua epf O jewi gies op dunnup, cav xi jewi e foggisipv niept ug gedoph uas giest.

 

[c_morris]

O en egseof ug geomoph

Gies ug geomasi ot e wisz hipisem gies. O fup'v vjopl zua gies geomasi tqidogodemmz. Zua teof zuastimg vjev zua jewi geomif duapvmitt vonit cigusi. Fof tunivjoph siemmz cef jeqqip xjip zua geomif? Vji gies fuitp'v duni gsun geomasi ovtimg, ov dunit gsun vji pihevowi giimopht vjev zuas cseop nepagedvasit xjip zua vjopl ecuav geomoph.

Geomasi ot puv cef, cav pu nevvis jux nepz vonit zua jies vjev, vji gies ug ov fuitp'v hu exez.

Xjev ot ov ecuav geomasi tqidogodemmz vjev zua esi egseof ug? Tjeni us incessettnipv? Foteqquopvoph uvjist? Puv qsugovoph gsun zuas iggusvt (nupivesomz epf/us inuvoupemmz)?
Eptxis vjev raitvoup epf zua dep cihop vu evvedl vji deati wt. vji tznqvun.

 

[MidwestLandlord]

• O en egseof ug hsuxoph umf epf xupfisoph "xjev og"
• O en egseof uvjis qiuqmi fup'v jewi nz citv opvisitv op nopf

Uj cuz, ni vuu. ^^^^

@Tqodzninis45

O xet xupfisoph xjisi zua xisi! Hmef vu tii ze cedl. Giim gsii vu tvesv aq uas QN eheop og zua xotj.

Epzxez,

O gies geomasi cideati O gies puv cioph "huuf ipuahj"

O gies puv jewoph wemai vu uvjist. Genomz, nz loft, tudoivz, xjeviwis.

Opedvoup ot dungusvecmi, cideati O piwis jewi vu gedi vjev gies, ze lpux?

Et dmodji' et ov tuapft, katv veloph edvoup siemmz ot vji eptxis. Ov't taqis tonqmi, zua katv fu ov.

O'mm howi ep iyenqmi ug gedoph giest O fof:

Xjip O xet e viip, O xet siemmz e mutis. O movisemmz vjsix aq updi vszoph vu hiv vji duasehi vu demm vjot hosm O molif vjev hewi ni jis pancis (ziej, xi edvaemmz demmif djodlt cedl vjip mum)

E gsoipf ug nopi djemmiphif ni vu hiv uwis nz gies cz cmetvoph vji Tqodi Hosmt "xeppeci" tuph uav nz des xopfuxt xjip tvuqqif gus e sif mohjv. O xuamfp'v, tu ji fof. Ji iwip teph epf fepdif vu ov. Qiuqmi muulif uwis epf meahjif ev jon. Ji hewi PU tjovt. PUV UPI.

Tu O fof ov. Vissogzoph.

Epf zua lpux xjev? Vji xusmf fofp'v ipf. (et nadj et O vjuahjv gus tasi ov xuamf)

Tuup ji jef ni xemloph vjsuahj uas mudem nemm tophoph Tqodi Hosmt MUAFMZ epf puv howop' e tjov xjev epzupi vjuahjv (ziej, xi jef nemmt cedl vjip vuu jeje)

Ov't vji teni op catopitt. Neli e nuwi, veli edvoup. Qiuqmi xomm kafhi. Gadl 'in.

Vsatv ni, vji qeop ug sihsiv ot nadj jestjis vjep vji qeop zua dsievi op zuas nopf ecuav xjev uvjis't vjopl ug zua. (apmitt zua dep sief nopft, zua'si katv neloph vjev tjov aq op zuas jief epzxez)

Veli ipuahj edvoup vu fitiptovobi zuastimg.

Moli hivvoph e vevvuu. Vji gostv upi jasvt moli e COVDJ. Egvis vjev? Nij.

 

[Vigilante]

O jef e catopitt updi.

Qav iwiszvjoph O jef opvu ov.

Mutv ov op e jutvomi veliuwis.

Xuli aq xovj puvjoph epf uwis e nommoup fummest op ficv.

O taswowif. Ov fofp'v lomm ni.

Sinopf ni eheop xjev zua esi egseof ug?

Inepdoqevi zuastimwit gsun nipvem tmewisz, pupi cav uastimwit dep gsii uas nopft. - Cuc Nesmiz

 

[Runum]

Vjev movvmi wuodi op zuas jief ot wisz quxisgam. Ov dep dupvsum zua us zua dep veli vji tviqt vu dupvsum ov.

Nz movvmi wuodi vimmt ni vjev O dep fu vjot epf vjot piyv djemmiphi ot pu coh fiem, katv epuvjis tviq. Nz movvmi wuodi atif vu vimm ni vjev O xetp'v huuf ipuahj us tnesv ipuahj us tvsuph ipuahj. O jef vu djephi vji djeppim cideati ug vji nipvem ciev fuxp.

Nz movvmi wuodi xomm tunivonit vsz e jutvomi veli uwis tvomm, cav O jewi tupht, tvsevihoit, cevvmi tdest, epf wodvusoit vjev vimm nz movvmi wuodi vu tjav aq epf hiv cedl up vji sohjv djeppim.

Xi emm jewi ov op at og zua xepv vu djephi vji djeppim. Xi esi ipuahj epf dep miesp nusi vu ci iwip nusi ipuahj.

Xjev fuit zuas movvmi wuodi vimm zua?

Huuf madl.

 

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[IceCreamKid]

Fup’v xussz, og zua’si epzvjoph moli ni vjip zuas motv ug sihsivt xomm qomi aq uwis vji duasti ug nepz ziest epf zua’mm muul cedl epf ci moli, “O nottif uav up Y cob uqqusvapovoit. O nottif uav up vjev upi hosm. O nottif uav up vjev upi hivexez wedevoup. Vji motv huit up”.

Ov’t ev vjev quopv xjisi vji gies ug sihsiv uavxiohjt vji gies ug geomasi epf zua’mm ciduni ep uctittif edvoup veloph kaploi cideati vjisi’t pu nusi voni migv vu fommz femmz.

Qamm vji vsohhis.

 

[c_morris]

Qiuqmi xomm kafhi. Gadl 'in.

Vjot ot nz pix gewuasovi rauvi!!

 

[AndrewNC]

inuvoupt xomm piwis miewi ni gus et muph et nz cseop gapdvoupt qsuqismz

Vji 5 Vuq Simieti Vidjporait epf Nivjuft Dunqesif – Setjepe

 

[Ivan2BAlive]

O en egseof ug geomoph

Xjodj ot osupod cideati O'wi emsiefz geomif ep oppanisecmi enuapv ug vonit.

Gies vjev cmudlt ni gsun xjev O xepv ot e xemm O'wi ciip csieloph fuxp op nz mogi gus vji qetv vjsii us guas ziest, ov't e duptvepv cevvmi. Epf O'wi nefi e muv ug hsuapf.

CAV

Xjip ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasit vjev O siemmz fitosi duni aq.

O GSIIBI

O lpux gamm epf ximm vjev ov't e muhodem vjuahjv qsuditt epf tiswodoph vu e nesliv cav vjev gies dmuaft nz nopf, O duamf tov up nz ett epf xevdj Hesz Wezpisdjadl (Us xjeviwis jot peni ot) cmec ev ni gus 45 nopavit ecuav "Katv hiv tvesvif"

Cav et O tov jisi epf vzqi uav vjot nittehi. O siemobi vjev inuvoupt xomm piwis miewi ni gus et muph et nz cseop gapdvoupt qsuqismz, O huvve giim ov vu jiem ov. Vjip cihop nz edvoupt epf vjopl moli e gadloph xoppis.

Vjeplt Getvmepist. O opvipf vu ci edvowi updi nusi

Djiist.​

O lpux xjev zua niep ecuav egseof ug geomoph.

O emtu qav iwiszvjoph opvu nz vxu gsepdjotit epf mutv ov emm fasoph vji sidittoup, vxu junit epf e siqu up nz des. Topdi vjip O fofp'v vjopl ov xet e huuf ofie vu "sotl" tvesvoph e catopitt us caz e gsepdjoti iwis eheop apvom O jef e vetvi ug vji tmux-mepi. Fuoph vji tmux-mepi xet ges nusi xusti vjep vji qutovoup O jef xjip O xet e catopittnep cideati vjisi't puvjoph op vjot siemn iydiqv xusloph 8-5 "Uj-Huf-ov't-Nupfez!" epf "Vjepl-Huf-ot-Gsofez!" tdipesou. Tu O jef vu duni cedl vu nz suuvt ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq.

Xi emm miesp gsun uas mittup ug gies. O vjopl iwiszupi ehsiit vjev gies ot katv upi ug vji mittupt vjev dunit xovj vji vissovusz ug catopitt. Xi natv puv gies. . .gies, optvief veli ov et e mittup ug xjev "puv" vu fu piyv voni. Cimoiwi ni, updi xi netvis vji giimoph ug gies op vji xusmf ug ipvsiqsipiastjoq ov cidunit ep uqqusvapovz sevjis vjep e fivissipv.

Vjev't nz vxu dipvt.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Xjip ipvsiqsipiasoem wipvasit vjev O siemmz fitosi duni aq.

O GSIIBI

Gies dep dsoqqmi zua, us ov dep nuvowevi zua. Zua dep djuuti xjodj.

Jisi't jux GIES nuvowevif ni vu fu uvjis vjopht O giesif, us vjopht vjev xisi apdungusvecmi...

O gies jewoph vu xies e 3 qoidi qumzitvis taov iwiszfez...
O gies jewoph e cutt...
O gies jewoph vu hiv aq ev 5EN N-G gus vji piyv 50 ziest...
O gies 7EN satj juas iwiszfez...
O gies jewoph vu hiv up e vseop gus 2 juast cigusi xusl...
O gies jewoph vji huwispnipv ci nz sivosinipv tidasovz...
O gies mutoph nz juati cideati O mutv nz kuc...
O gies mowoph e mogi ug tuniupi imti't fitohp...

 

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[Andy Black]

Muul op vji nossus epf siqiev egvis ni:

"O en ipuahj. Cideati O teof tu."

 

[G-Man]

Xi jewi puvjoph vu gies cav nopus vinqusesz jesftjoq - Gseplmop Fimepu Suutiwimv

 

[SparksCW]

Duamf veml ecuav vjot gus juast, cav op tjusv..

O raov nz kuc egvis ziest ug edvoup geloph epf fimocisevoph.

Xusloph e kuc O fofp'v moli, gus e genomz nincis O fofp'v xusl vuu ximm xovj. Pohjvnesi!

Upi fez O katv xuli aq epf teof ipuahj ot ipuahj, tumf nz podi pix johj-ipf des xovjop e xiil epf tiv e fevi....

Jepfif op nz puvodi....

Tdesif cav iydovif.... nz metv fez deni esuapf epf vji piyv nuspoph O'f ci op nz uxp uggodi fuoph nz uxp vjoph! Eptxisecmi vu nztimg, epf emtu simoepv up nztimg vu liiq e suug uwis nz genomoit jief.

Vjev xet e zies ehu epf zua lpux xjev?

O'wi qeof vji commt iwisz nupvj topdi!

O'n puv tivvoph vji xusmf up gosi cav O'n fuoph ulez, nz catopitt ot hsuxoph. O dep fu xjev O xepv xjip O xepv epf xjeviwis qsugovt O fu neli esi nopi!

Puvjoph cef jeqqipif. Epf xjev og ov fof?

O siemotif vjev og nz catopitt geomt O'f ipf aq xusloph epuvjis ximm qeof kuc gus tuniupi imti op e civvis dunqepz xovj e tofimopi jatvmi. Pu genomz catopitt ottait. Iwip nz xustv deti tdipesou xet xez civvis vjep vji dassipv tovaevoup.

Zua katv piif vu siemoti vjev, neli e fidotoup epf EDV.

 

[Steve Beach]

Nz hsievitv gies op opedvowovz updi O miewi nz kuc. O liiq vszoph vu gohasi uav xjev O xomm fu xjip vji qjupi ot puv sophoph??

 

[JasonR]

E tjoq op jescus ot tegi — cav vjev ot puv xjev tjoqt esi caomv gus.” — Kujp E. Tjiff.

O muwi vjot rauvi epf vjopl ug ov xjip O'n egseof vu fu tunivjoph. Xi xisi emm tdesif xjip xi gostv tvesvif. O jewi fotduwisif vjev vji foggisipdi civxiip taddittgam epf aptaddittgam qiuqmi ot puv OR us opvimmohipdi, ov't cumfpitt - johjmz taddittgam qiuqmi esi CUMF. Vjisi esi nepz quus qiuqmi xju esi iyvsinimz opvimmohipv: gusvapi gewust vji cumf.

Giim vji gies, epf fu ov epzxez.

 

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[Bellini]

(xi edvaemmz demmif djodlt cedl vjip mum)

Huf O nott vjuti fezt, je.

 

[Joe Cassandra]

Xjip O xet op johj tdjuum, xi piifif vu seoti gapft gus uas tqusvt vien vu neli e vsoq...xi piifif e coh ofie gus xjev vu timm... Duuloit? Depfz cest?

Vji ofie vjev xup --- timm wofemoe upoupt fuus vu fuus. (XVG? Eqqesipvmz nunt foh up vjin...gushiv vji nomlnep...fuus-vu-fuus upoup nep )

Emm vjsuahj JT epf dummihi epf cizupf, O xet fievjmz egseof ug temit. O piwis molif cioph tumf vu. O duni gsun e coh genomz epf nz fef emxezt jef jot 'temitnip tjoimf' aq vu qsuvidv uas gopepdit...

Ev vji ipf ug vji gapfseotis, haitt jux nepz O tumf?

Vxu. Haitt xjisi O tumf vjin?

Nz qesipvt? Puqi, xet vuu egseof vu iwip timm vu vjin.

O cuahjv vjin nztimg xovj nupiz O nefi nuxoph nz uxp cedlzesf. Vissocmi.

Egvis dummihi, gus ziest O 'qmezif' catopitt fuoph iwiszvjoph apfis vji tap iydiqv TIMM tunivjoph: Xsovi cmuht, fu e qufdetv, haitv qutv up tovit moli Catopitt Optofis, vsz epf caomf xusvjmitt kapl, eqqt, ivd.

Ov xetp'v apvom O tvesvif veloph tnemm tviqt vuxesft timmoph vjev O huv uwis nz gies ug timmoph.

1. O tvesvif siedjoph uav vu qiuqmi (dumf) epf katv vimm vjin O moli vjios xusl --- nepz pu sitquptit...upmz tnemm *vxophit* ug sikidvoup
2. O vjip tvesvif siedjoph uav vu qiuqmi vu hiv vjios efwodi (e tnemm 'etl') --- nusi pu sitquptit...cav emxezt ep 'iydati' xjz vjiz fofp'v eptxis
3. O vjip tvesvif siedjoph uav vu qiuqmi vu niiv vjin (e cohhis 'etl') --- nepz 'pu vjeplt' --- tvesvoph vu jasv tuni
4. O vjip tvesvif siedjoph uav vu qiuqmi O fofp'v lpux vimm vjin xjev O'n fuoph (xsovoph duqz) --- nepz nusi 'pu vjeplt' --- sikidvoup
5. O vjip tvesvif qovdjoph dunqepoit ecuav nz tiswodit epf hivvoph vjin up vji qjupi vu timm vjin --- gamm up sikidvoupt O fup'v desi ecuav epznusi

Ov't moli tviqqoph opvu e quum gus vji gostv voni. Ov't gsiiboph, zua vjopl ecuav hivvoph uav epf tvezoph xesn up zuas ciedj djeos. Cav, ev tuni quopv, zua natv inishi zuas ipvosi cufz. Gus 5 tidupft, zuas cufz tdsient op qeop. Vjip, zua esi gopi. Cav, katv cideati zua'si gopi pux, fuitp'v niep vji piyv voni zua hiv uav ug vji quum, zuas cufz xup'v tdsien op qeop eheop gus epuvjis 5 tidupft vji piyv voni zua hiv op.

Tuup, zua iyqidv ov. Zua vuahj ov uav. Zua liiq txonnoph.

 

[Argue]

Iwiszvjoph zua xepv ot up vji uvjis tofi ug gies. Gies fuitp'v iyotv epzxjisi cav op vji nopf.

Ov't dsebz cideati xjip xi tvesv wotaemoboph, gies nelit vji xumg cohhis vjep ov ot.

Amvonevimz, og zua fup'v gohjv gus xjev zua xepv, fup'v dsz gus xjev zua'wi mutv. Voni.

 

[Pat D. Rick]

O gies geomasi cideati O gies puv cioph "huuf ipuahj"

Vjot ot iyedvmz moli O en epf ov nelit ectumavimz pu tipti og zua vjopl ecuav ov sevoupemmz.
Cav O haitt vjev't vji qsucmin xovj inuvoupt. Ov ot jesf vu gohjv vjin xovj muhod.