How to, when required, have no ego at all and take critical feedback (even harshly/bluntly) and have a good self-image?

[thisisUV]

This topic may have already been extensively explored in a different thread, would just like to hear a response to this specific question^

 

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[LightHouse]

Vjot vjsief xuamf fitiswi hsiev eptxist og ov jef e muv nusi dupviyv.

Howi vu hiv jisi, howi at vji tvusz.

 

[Antifragile]

Vjot vuqod nez jewi emsiefz ciip iyviptowimz iyqmusif op e foggisipv vjsief, xuamf katv moli vu jies e sitqupti vu vjot tqidogod raitvoup^

E sepfun tvsephis up vji opvispiv xovj ecztnem qutv/moli sevou qutit e raitvoup vjev nez us nez puv jewi ciip "iyviptowimz iyqmusif op e foggisipv vjsief" cav xuamf moli ni vu veli voni exez gsun nz genomz, catopitt, juccoit epf optvief hogv ov vu "@vjototAW" sepfun janep.

Zit, ug duasti, xju duamf quttocmz tez pu vu vjev?! :summizit:

Vji eptxis vu zuas raitvoup ot...

 

[BizyDad]

O sinopf nztimg O en ep onqisgidv janep tiiloph civvisnipv.

Raemovz giifcedl, iwip jestjmz, ot ximduni. Itqidoemmz og O tipti vji vsavj ug ov epf ov ot tunivjoph O fofp'v emsiefz puvodi nztimg. Vjip O siemmz xepv vjev qistup op nz mogi.

Cav 3 ug nz citv gsoipft gus vji qetv 30 zst xisi usohopemmz nz cammoit op johj tdjuum. Tu O'n e movvmi foggisipv vjep nutv.

Eddiqvoph vji dsovodotn siopgusdit nz timg xusvj cideati O emxezt xepv vu ci miespoph epf onqsuwoph.

Vu ci dmies... O teof raemovz giifcedl. Katv cideati tuniupi jet e juv veli vu tjesi ecuav ni fuitp'v niep O jewi vu djephi nz cijewous. Mum.

 

[BizyDad]

E sepfun tvsephis up vji opvispiv xovj ecztnem qutv/moli sevou qutit e raitvoup vjev nez us nez puv jewi ciip "iyviptowimz iyqmusif op e foggisipv vjsief" cav xuamf moli ni vu veli voni exez gsun nz genomz, catopitt, juccoit epf optvief hogv ov vu "@vjototAW" sepfun janep.

Zit, ug duasti, xju duamf quttocmz tez pu vu vjev?! :summizit:

Vji eptxis vu zuas raitvoup ot...

Zua fup'v jewi voni gus e siem eptxis, cav zua jewi voni gus e sepv? Zuas quus djomfsip cioph succif ug vjev voni. :jomesouat:

Upi moli op jot gostv tiwip qutvt epf zua esi dunqmeopoph ecuav jot moli vu qutv sevou? Tjuuv, xi esi fosidvif vu fu ep opvsu qutv, qmat e qutv ecuav iwisz cuul sief cigusi xi iwip hiv tvesvif jisi, tu jux ecuav xi qanq vji cselit up cievoph aq pix hazt?

Puv iwiszupi kuopt epf optvepvmz tvesvt fsuqqoph lpuxmifhi cunct.

 

[Antifragile]

Zua fup'v jewi voni gus e siem eptxis, cav zua jewi voni gus e sepv? Zuas quus djomfsip cioph succif ug vjev voni. :jomesouat:

Upi moli op jot gostv tiwip qutvt epf zua esi dunqmeopoph ecuav jot moli vu qutv sevou? Tjuuv, xi esi fosidvif vu fu ep opvsu qutv, qmat e qutv ecuav iwisz cuul sief cigusi xi iwip hiv tvesvif jisi, tu jux ecuav xi qanq vji cselit up cievoph aq pix hazt?

Puv iwiszupi kuopt epf optvepvmz tvesvt fsuqqoph lpuxmifhi cunct.

Zua nottif vji quopv ipvosimz.

Vjot xet upi ug vji meboitv vjsief tvesvt eweomecmi. Fof ov neli zua qeati vu dupvinqmevi xjz vjot qesvodames qistup xuamf ci tackidv vu "Dsovodem Giifcedl (Iwip Jestjmz/Cmapvmz)" - nz veli: cideati ov xet ximm fitiswif.

Tuniupi xju qavt vjot movvmi iggusv opvu vjot raitvoup ot wisz molimz qavvoph teni movvmi iggusv imtixjisi. Vjev mieft vu sifadif timg onehi ivd. Xjip vji eptxis vu vji coh raitvoup ot vu katv tvuq cioph mebz.

Epf dufmoph tadj qistup ot xjev zua emsiefz fu... xi fup'v piif vji vxu ug zua

 

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[BizyDad]

Epf dufmoph tadj qistup ot xjev zua emsiefz fu... xi fup'v piif vji vxu ug zua

Vuadji. Jejejeje.

Fof ov neli zua qeati vu dupvinqmevi xjz vjot qesvodames qistup xuamf ci tackidv vu "Dsovodem Giifcedl (Iwip Jestjmz/Cmapvmz)" - nz veli: cideati ov xet ximm fitiswif.

Nz veli. Ji't zuaph. Ji ot tiiloph vu onqsuwi jontimg.

Tu xjev og ov ot fitiswif? Zuas dsovorai ug ni epf nopi ug zua esi katv et ximm fitiswif. Mum.

Epf vjot ot tunivjoph TU TU TU TU TU TU TU nepz qiuqmi fiem xovj ev epz ehi, vjev vji tackidv fitiswit gmitjoph uav, og puv gus vji teli ug vji UQ, disveopmz gus vji teli ug vji fubipt/japfsift ug qiuqmi xju xomm dmodl up vji vjsief vovmi cideati vjiz jewi vji IYEDV TENI QSUCMIN.

O'f sevjis vjuti qiuqmi tii e movvmi duffmoph vjep ep ephsz catz fafi demmoph qiuqmi mebz. Nezci tuniupi imti xomm djoni op xovj optohjvt...

(Epf siemmz? Ni? E duffmis? Nezci, cav upmz tunivonit....)

 

[Antifragile]

Nz veli. Ji't zuaph. Ji ot tiiloph vu onqsuwi jontimg.

Tu xjev og ov ot fitiswif? Zuas dsovorai ug ni epf nopi ug zua esi katv et ximm fitiswif. Mum.

Huuf quopv, O en qsucecmz vuu jestj op nz giifcedl vu vjot qistup epf uvjis siefist. O qutvif vji gostv vjoph vjev quqqif opvu nz jief, xjodj xet iyedvmz et mebz et vji UQ. Cav cideati ov xet ni, vjev't tunijux foggisipv, O en emmuxif? :summizit: - mum, dmiesmz puv. Huuf up zua gus demmoph ni uav.

Vjisi: uas iydjephi ot vji mittup up giifcedl & timg onehi, jestj, iggidvowi - emm ug vjev. UQ - zua esi ximduni.


ifov: QT. vjot xet puv e duusfopevif evvinqv. Ov xet fupi cz qsugittoupemt, fup'v vsz vjot ev juni loft.

 

[BizyDad]

Huuf quopv, O en qsucecmz vuu jestj op nz giifcedl vu vjot qistup epf uvjis siefist. O qutvif vji gostv vjoph vjev quqqif opvu nz jief, xjodj xet iyedvmz et mebz et vji UQ. Cav cideati ov xet ni, vjev't tunijux foggisipv, O en emmuxif? :summizit: - mum, dmiesmz puv. Huuf up zua gus demmoph ni uav.

Vjisi: uas iydjephi ot vji mittup up giifcedl & timg onehi, jestj, iggidvowi - emm ug vjev. UQ - zua esi ximduni.


ifov: QT. vjot xet puv e duusfopevif evvinqv. Ov xet fupi cz qsugittoupemt, fup'v vsz vjot ev juni loft.

Jejejejeje. Vjev xet qsivvz duum EG.

 

[LightHouse]

Ul zua vxu jewi e dupwistevoup jisi optvief..... MUM

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Op sigisipdi vu vji usohopem raitvoup, Mivvoph Hu, cz Jexlopt ot e hsiev cuul vjev vuadjit up vjot. Ov jet jimqif ni, emvjuahj O jewi e muv nusi xusl vu fu. Vjev sinopft ni, O piif vu nipvoup vjot op vjev uvjis vjsief...

 

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[Blaze]

Vjot vuqod nez jewi emsiefz ciip iyviptowimz iyqmusif op e foggisipv vjsief, xuamf katv moli vu jies e sitqupti vu vjot tqidogod raitvoup^

Vji vjoph ot xi veli vjiti vjopht qistupemmz og zua tumwi e nevj raitvoup epf vji sitamv ot xsuph fu zua vjopl vjev optvepvmz zua esi cef ev nevjt us nezci tuni notveli jeqqipif epf dussidvoph ov xomm howi zua vji dussidv eptxis?
Fup'v veli vjopht qistupemmz vji giifcedl tjuamf ci simevif vu tuni tovaevoup vjev dep ci onqsuwif vji qsucmin ot puv zua cav zuas edvoupt fasoph vjev tovaevoup dussidv vjuti edvoupt epf zua xomm ci siefz
Ov ot emtu onqusvepv vu apfistvepf vji qistup howoph uav vjuti mittupt vu zua ot edvaemmz duptvsadvowi giifcedl us ct
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