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Great start. :smx9:
-Russ H.
Great start. :smx9:
-Russ H.
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Free registration at the forum removes this block.By being afraid of loans you are missing one of the most powerful investment tools available: Leverage. This is what helped a few here to make millions. Instead of being afraid of debt maybe you need to study it a little bit to see when it is right to use it, and how.And I don't want to EVER take a loan. I've never been in a real debt and I intend to keep it that way. I've heard too many horror stories about loans and I just don't feel good knowing I owe money to someone. If I'm buying a house, for example, it's gotta be from savings, or a payday from some investment. I don't want a big house anyway.
By being afraid of loans you are missing one of the most powerful investment tools available: Leverage. This is what helped a few here to make millions. Instead of being afraid of debt maybe you need to study it a little bit to see when it is right to use it, and how.
Part II: Taking Action
...the first question of TAKING ACTION is: How little can I live on?
What do I need to survive?
And once you know the bare minimum it will take . . . how much does that survival existance cost, per month?
If you are motivated, try to write down what you think your current expenses are (rent or mortgage, prop tax, insurance, car expenses, etc) each month. For expenses that occur only once a year (like dental appts or vehicle registration), divide by 12.
You're on your way to determining your "bare essentials"!
-Russ H.
OK, let's recap:
If you're truly, madly, deeply involved in this exercise, by now you've:
1. Identified your CORE values and characteristics
2. Examined your needs, wants, and likes.
3. Started to TAKE ACTION-
-tracking your daily expenses
-identified some spending habits and expenses that are, well, eye-opening
Part Three: WAKING UP! (taking stock of what is essential)
If you've been doing the exercises, chances are you've had a few big surprises, especially this last phase-- tracking every penny going into and out of your life.
What Happened?
If you're in shock right now, that's absolutely normal. For some of you, this is the first time you'e started to become financially aware of what's going on in their day to day lives.
Kinda like waking up from a dream.
When I first did this exercise, I felt like I had awakened and was now living-- a NIGHTMARE!
My first reaction was shock. Then denial ("these expenses were unusual this month"). Then, after I'd tracked expenses for a few months, I discovered-- to my horror-- that I had "unusual" expenses each and every month.
Dang.
Turns out, I was just being a typical American consumer. Eating out, driving my car(s), and buying stuff.
Buying LOTS and LOTS of stuff.
A sickening amount of stuff.
Stuff that I never used. Or used only occasionally.
Stuff, stuff, stuff.
Those of you that are pack rats know just how much stuff you buy and never use-- it accumulates and takes over your life.
And those of you who are adept at "purging" things that aren't used have been spared the awful truth: That you are essentially working hours/weeks/months, to buy STUFF . . . much of which, you never (or rarely) use. By getting rid of it (giving it away, loaning it to friends, throwing it out, or (gasp!) selling it cheap)-- you are like a tub full of money with a slow leak at the bottom. As you constantly get rid of the things you don't use, you don't realize just how much all of this STUFF is costing you.
Voluntary Simplicity
The route I took, once I realized how much STUFF was weighing me down, was inspired by a quote from Henry David Thoreau:
"Our life is frittered away by detail. Simplify, simplify."
I looked at my life, and at what I spent-- and for virtually everything-- I asked:
"Is this essential to my life? My happiness?"
And most important:
"Can I live without this?"
After doing this for a few weeks, I was stunned.
Virtually *everything* in my life was "nice to have around", but not "essential".
Another way to look at this is: If my house was on fire and I can only save what I can carry, what do I choose? (this assumes that every living creature in your home is already out safely).
What I would grab?
My answers (back when I first did this exercise as a single guy, 15 years ago):
I'd grab my photos from traveling the world. And my guitar.
That's it.
Everything else could go.
Everything else was not essential to me-- and was replaceable, on some level.
Note that this was 15 years ago, when I was a younger, single guy. Now, my list is shorter:
Nothing.
The only things that are absolutely essential to me are my family and pets (which were excluded in the above exercise).
Everything else, while nice to have, is just STUFF.
It can be replaced. And if it can't, I could live just fine without it.
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I know what you're thinking.
"He's full of cr*p. He'd grab something if he had the chance."
You're right.
I'd grab my laptop, or backup hard drive, because I have so much of my life in there (past work, etc), and my wallet, because it has my ID and credit cards (enough to survive without anything else).
But both of those things are not ESSENTIAL to my continued existence. I could live without them.
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Time for some fun. Remember, this is not a REAL fire (in a real fire, you get you and your loved ones out, right away, and don't go back inside!).
What would you grab?
Could you live without ALL of your stuff?
If not: What is ESSENTIAL to your life?
What are the things you cannot live without? (remember, people and pets are excluded from this exercise).
(Let's assume that, if you have insurance, it would cover the losses within 30 days).
-Russ H.
OK, time to extend the "STUFF" concept:
If you've been following along, you now know what you absolutely need in case of a fire-- your bare minimum essentials that are irreplaceable, or at least (in the case of prescription drugs), essential to survival.
Now comes the hard part:
Let's assume you HAVE to move, and you must leave most of your belongings behind.
Similar to the fire exercise-- with one catch:
You WILL NOT replace anything. What you take now, is all you will have to live on.
And here's the kicker: You need to bring only the things that will keep you happy, and allow you to continue living the life you choose.
Whatever you do, remember the 2 rules:
1. You need to keep things required for day to day survival, at a minimum
2. You need to keep anything that you feel is essential to your happiness.
...look at each and every item you own, and ask, "How does this contribute to my life?"
I did this w/an excel spreadsheet, putting estimated replacement value in the column next to each item, and using another column to mark the item as essential, or not essential, and which non-essentials I needed b/c they made me happy.
-Russ H.
Next steps? I truly haven't had critical mass on the last step (expected it to be a bigger "aha" for those doing the exercises), so I haven't added additional items.
Let me assume that it's my shortcoming for not communicating the last step better.
I'll work on how to do this first, and post.
-Russ H.
Chris-
As one of our posters has in her sig:
"Speed is irrelevant if you're going in the wrong direction."
Good to hear you're getting back on track-- looking forward to seeing your exercises!!! :banana:
-Russ H.
I guess I've been hoping for a few "AHAs!" here--
After you started tracking your expenses, and looking at all the STUFF you owned, what happened?
Any AHAs?
Or . . . start a toy library. Get a storage space that you open 3x a week for 3-4 hours, staff it w/volunteers.KWerner said:Buy your kids' toys at garage sales (you can get them for next to nothing) - then, when they outgrow them, you can resell them on Craigslist and make a profit (I know it's silly, but it's funny, and it's true)
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