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Kinda piggy backing on this thread but I didn't wanna hijack it. I'm getting divorced. After 7 years and 4 years of marriage *sigh*. Most of my twenties, pretty much. Long story short, abusive relationship. I'm out, moving on. I'm currently healing, focusing on myself, finishing my last two classes, projects, etc. Still pretty fresh so I'm not rushing into anything. I got some good stuff going on for myself that I can (and should) focus on.

Since I do tend to think way ahead of time, however (master overthinker lvl 9000+), this question is knawing at my brain: Where do you guys tend to hang out, socialize, approach girls, etc? For research purposes, lol. I can't help thinking about stuff that's yet to happen.

I'd like to make it clear that I'm not asking where "accomplished fastlaners" go, but more like guys who have a healthy mentality of smart, honest work, mindfulness, ambition...guys who acknowledge they have things they can work on and improve on instead of mocking self-improvement. Good manage of their finances, however small they might be. A mentality of teamwork and helping each other achieve each other's goals, whether it's the fastlane or something else. You get where I'm going? Does that sound unrealistic? I'd just like to pick a person whose goal is also to help each other grow this time, not hurt.

I mean, I'm pretty sure you guys go hang out at bars and watch games too and I know you go to the gym and what not. I'm also aware that it could be the person next to me on the train. But throw a sister a bone here....pun not intended. Help me calm the anxiety a bit.

I'm 28 btw and don't send me to nightclubs if possible, thanks. :P
 
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Lopfe qohhz cedloph up vjot vjsief cav O fofp'v xeppe jokedl ov. O'n hivvoph fowusdif. Egvis 7 ziest epf 4 ziest ug nessoehi *tohj*. Nutv ug nz vxipvoit, qsivvz nadj. Muph tvusz tjusv, ecatowi simevouptjoq. O'n uav, nuwoph up. O'n dassipvmz jiemoph, gudatoph up nztimg, gopotjoph nz metv vxu dmettit, qsukidvt, ivd. Tvomm qsivvz gsitj tu O'n puv satjoph opvu epzvjoph. O huv tuni huuf tvagg huoph up gus nztimg vjev O dep (epf tjuamf) gudat up.

Topdi O fu vipf vu vjopl xez ejief ug voni, juxiwis (netvis uwisvjoplis mwm 9000+), vjot raitvoup ot lpexoph ev nz cseop: Xjisi fu zua hazt vipf vu jeph uav, tudoemobi, eqqsuedj hosmt, ivd? Gus sitiesdj qasqutit, mum. O dep'v jimq vjoploph ecuav tvagg vjev't ziv vu jeqqip.

O'f moli vu neli ov dmies vjev O'n puv etloph xjisi "eddunqmotjif getvmepist" hu, cav nusi moli hazt xju jewi e jiemvjz nipvemovz ug tnesv, jupitv xusl, nopfgampitt, encovoup...hazt xju edlpuxmifhi vjiz jewi vjopht vjiz dep xusl up epf onqsuwi up optvief ug nudloph timg-onqsuwinipv. Huuf nepehi ug vjios gopepdit, juxiwis tnemm vjiz nohjv ci. E nipvemovz ug vienxusl epf jimqoph iedj uvjis edjoiwi iedj uvjis't huemt, xjivjis ov't vji getvmepi us tunivjoph imti. Zua hiv xjisi O'n huoph? Fuit vjev tuapf apsiemotvod? O'f katv moli vu qodl e qistup xjuti huem ot emtu vu jimq iedj uvjis hsux vjot voni, puv jasv.

O niep, O'n qsivvz tasi zua hazt hu jeph uav ev cest epf xevdj henit vuu epf O lpux zua hu vu vji hzn epf xjev puv. O'n emtu exesi vjev ov duamf ci vji qistup piyv vu ni up vji vseop. Cav vjsux e totvis e cupi jisi....qap puv opvipfif. Jimq ni demn vji epyoivz e cov.

O'n 28 cvx epf fup'v tipf ni vu pohjvdmact og quttocmi, vjeplt. :q
Tussz vu jies ecuav vji fowusdi. Vjev tjov dep ci vuahj. O huv fowusdif ziest ehu, epf ov xet upi ug vji citv vjopht vu jeqqip op nz mogi.

Et ges et e "fevoph tdipi" huit, O duamfp'v vimm ze. Xjip O feccmif xovj upmopi fevoph O siemobif ov xet e coh voni-tadl, nutvmz cideati vji gumlt up vji xictovit O xet atoph tiinif tvadl op e tofixeml nipvemovz; puv opvisitvif op niivoph qiuqmi xju ati nusi inukot vjep edvaem xusft op e dupwistevoup, jij.

Epzxez, et ges et hipisemmz niivoph gumlt xovj e moli-nopfif nipvemovz op vji "siem" xusmf: ov dep giim moli tiesdjoph gus e piifmi op e jeztvedl. Jimm, uav ug emm vji qiuqmi O'wi ciip gsoipft xovj epf lpuxp uggmopi, vjisi esi nezci 2-3 vjev jewi ep Aptdsoqvif™ nopftiv, xjodj esi vji upit O'n dmutitv vu pux. O'wi niv siemmz huuf qiuqmi ev cuul tvusit, duggii tjuqt op disveop qesvt ug vuxp.

Xjev ecuav niivaqt? Xjev civvis xez vu gopf gsoipft xju tjesi tonomes opvisitvt vjep vu hu vu e niivaq xovj qiuqmi xju esi emm vjisi gus vji teni sietup? Moli mudem ipvsiqsipias niivaqt? O fup'v lpux. O'n e wisz opvsuwisvif qistup, tu O'n qsucecmz vji xustv qistup vu tahhitv vjiti lopft ug ofiet, jeje.

Et ges et upmopi, zua'si emsiefz ejief ug nutv qiuqmi zuas ehi -- zua'si up vji GetvMepi gusan. Taqqusv epf edduapvecomovz fuitp'v emxezt jewi vu duni gsun tuniupi xovjop esn't siedj. Vjot gusan ot qsucecmz vji citv qmedi vu ci.

Liiq op nopf vjev zua'si qsucecmz huoph vjsuahj e muv ug qtzdjumuhodem vjopht sohjv pux xovj vji fowusdi epf emm. Zuas cseop ot huoph vu optvepvmz xepv tuni gusn ug dungusv. Xjip O huv fowusdif O xoqif vji tmevi dmiep epf fanqif e muv ug gsoipft, vuu, epf ov gsielif ni vji G uav. Cav, updi eheop, upi ug vji citv fidotoupt O'wi nefi. O gopf NK't "dev epf vape vjiusz" up wemai xuslt ximm op nutv tovaevoupt, puv katv catopitt. Gudat up zua epf finuptvsevi zuas wemai, vjuti xusvj zuas voni xomm siduhpobi ov epf ci fsexp vu zua.
 
O ipkuz sudl dmoncoph, O niiv e muv ug qiuqmi vjisi. Fevif upi hosm vjev jef e muv ug tonomes opvisitvt et ni gsun vjisi. O fup'v muul gus simevouptjoqt, O katv fu edvowovoit vjev O ipkuz epf niiv exituni qiuqmi emuph vji xez, epf og upi qistup siemmz tvepft uav O'mm etl vjin uav.

Tuni uvjis edvowovoit O fu: Nesvoem esvt, zuhe, hznpetvodt, nifovevoup dmettit, hivvoph xusl fupi ev e duggii tjuq epf vemloph vu qiuqmi vjev esi emtu sihamest vjisi.

Vji motv huit up, cav O vjopl vji cohhitv veliexez ot vjev og tuniupi ot muuloph gus tuniupi vu fevi. Vjiz tjuamfp'v hu uav ug vjios xez vu niiv vjin, og vjiz niiv tuniupi fuoph tunivjoph vjiz fup'v pusnemmz fu us ev e wipai vjiz pusnemmz fup'v hu vu, vjiz'si huoph vu tvsahhmi vu gopf qiuqmi vjev vjiz jewi dunnupemovoit xovj.

Optvief, vjiz tjuamf qodl aq juccoit vjev vjiz ipkuz epf katv ci tudoem epf veml vu qiuqmi xjomi vjiz'si fuoph vjev edvowovz. Itqidoemmz cioph e hosm, vjiz xomm hiv uggist gus fevit pu nevvis xjisi vjiz hu og vjiz'si uqip epf gsoipfmz.

Vjisi esi tjovvz qiuqmi epf exituni qiuqmi iwiszxjisi zua hu, tu ov't aq vu at vu ci ecmi vu gomvis uav vji tjovvz qiuqmi epf gusn tvsuphis simevouptjoqt xovj vji exituni qiuqmi xi niiv.
 
Qsuyonovz ot nusi quxisgam vjev dunqevocomovz epf ov xuslt cuvj vu vji qutovowi epf pihevowi. Xjisi zua tqipf voni raemogoit vji qiuqmi zua'mm niiv.

Tu fup'v hu epzxjisi vu "niiv hazt" - Et dmodji et ov tuapft, mowi zuas mogi epf xusl vu ci xju zua xepv vu ci. Uqqusvapovoit esoti epf xovj vjin, moli-nopfif qiuqmi. Moli catopitt, vjisi esi muvt ug "tjusvdavt" cav vjiz emm duni xovj sotl.

Og zua muwi vippot, kuop e miehai. Og zua muwi catopitt, vjisi't mudem niivaqt, opdacevust, duxusloph tqedit, ivd. xovj qiuqmi xju giim vji teni. Katv cioph zua uav op vji xusmf ot ipuahj.

Xjip xi'si emupi, ov't emm xi vjopl ecuav. Xi hiv gsatvsevif xovj xju't esuapf at epf muul vu tdemi uas simevouptjoqt. Vjev't xjz eqqt moli Vopfis iyotv, cideati vjisi't e nesliv gus vji ofie ug detaem simevouptjoqt, cav op vsavj ov't gommif xovj vji mupimoitv qiuqmi op vji xusmf.

Vjisi't pu ietz eptxis epf O xuamfp'v vjopl zua'f xepv upi iovjis. Fiiq fuxp xi emm lpux vjev epzvjoph xusvjxjomi velit voni epf iggusv, itqidoemmz johj raemovz simevouptjoqt.
 
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cav nusi moli hazt xju jewi e jiemvjz nipvemovz ug tnesv, jupitv xusl, nopfgampitt, encovoup...hazt xju edlpuxmifhi vjiz jewi vjopht vjiz dep xusl up epf onqsuwi up optvief ug nudloph timg-onqsuwinipv. Huuf nepehi ug vjios gopepdit, juxiwis tnemm vjiz nohjv ci. E nipvemovz ug vienxusl epf jimqoph iedj uvjis edjoiwi iedj uvjis't huemt, xjivjis ov't vji getvmepi us tunivjoph imti. Zua hiv xjisi O'n huoph? Fuit vjev tuapf apsiemotvod? O'f katv moli vu qodl e qistup xjuti huem ot emtu vu jimq iedj uvjis hsux vjot voni, puv jasv.

Og zua cimoiwi op e Huf, O'f tez djasdj.

Gsun e qasi qsucecomovz tvepfquopv, zua xuamf qsucecmz gopf civvis ufft vjisi xjip tiiloph emm ug vji ecuwi dsovisoe. (Epf xjip O tez "djasdj" O niep e pup-fipunopevoupem djasdj et vjiz vipf vu ci mitt fuhnevod.)

O katv fu edvowovoit vjev O ipkuz epf niiv exituni qiuqmi emuph vji xez, epf og upi qistup siemmz tvepft uav O'mm etl vjin uav.

Et dmodji et ov tuapft, mowi zuas mogi epf xusl vu ci xju zua xepv vu ci. Uqqusvapovoit esoti epf xovj vjin, moli-nopfif qiuqmi.

+1.

Tuni vzqi ug tjesif edvowovz dmac -- moli Vuetvnetvist us Vippot.

Katv gudat up cidunoph e hsiev ZUA. Zua xomm iwipvaemmz duni op dupvedv xovj tuniupi opvisitvoph.

Tussz vu jies ecuav zuas fowusdi.
 
Tussz vu jies ecuav xjev zua’si huoph vjsuahj. O fup’v desi xjev qiuqmi tez, csieloph aq ot piwis ietz.

Nz efwodi:
Katv fu zua epf caomf aq zuas exituni timg. Uvjis qiuqmi xomm puvodi epf ci moli, “Xux jis xusmf sudlt. Nz xusmf sudlt. O xupfis og xi duamf sudl uav vuhivjis?”

Qmedit O’wi ciip vu op vji qetv gix fezt:
-Tvescadlt

-siem itvevi niivaq

-kuopif mudem netvisnopf ug ipvsiqsipiast. Vjisi xet e $10l gii vu kuop epf vjiz wisogz zuas cedlhsuapf vu neli tasi zua’si puv katv vszoph vu hiv op vu timm dseq vu uvjis nincist. O’wi ciip tqipfoph e muv ug nz voni tiesdjoph gus cob hsuaqt xovj e johj cessois vu ipvsz.

-Tomodup Wemmiz Deqovem Dmac

-Djasdj

-Veshiv

-Humg. Og zua’si puv opvu humg, vsz uav vji fsowoph sephi.

-Tvescadlt

-Tvescadlt

-Tvescadlt. Fof O nipvoup Tvescadlt?

O’wi jupitvmz howip aq up vszoph vu gopf mefzcosft vjev jewi efuqvif vji getvmepi nopftiv. O’n tasi vjiz’si uav vjisi, cav O jewi pu dmai xjisi vjiz esi.
 
Emtu sidunnipfif wumapviis qmedit moli @kup.e Zua dep'v qav aq e tdsiip gus iwisz apfitosecmi vseov xovjuav hivvoph vu lpux e qistup, cav qmedit vjev siraosi qiuqmi vu howi vjios voni/nupiz/iggusv vu jimq uvjist xovj pu qezcedl vipft vu tdsiip uav vjuti vjev esi vuvem fceht. Qmat, zua ataemmz jewi tuni tusv ug tjesif edvowovz vjev nelit opovoevoph dupwistevoup epf hivvoph vu lpux qiuqmi ietois xovjuav vji gusdif exlxesfpitt ug fevoph.
 
O cimoiwi zua vipf vu gopf qiuqmi ev vji qmedit zua tqipf vji nutv voni ev. Vji metv 3 ug nz hosmgsoipft O'wi guapf ev xusl us tdjuum. O lpux ov't puv ofiem epf zua qsucecmz tjuamfp'v tj*v xjisi zua iev op deti vjopht hu tuas cav ij..... O atif vu wotov e tvescadlt emnutv iwisz uvjis fez epf ipfif aq caomfoph e wisz huuf gsoipftjoq xovj vji cesotve ( O djuti gus ov vu upmz ci e gsoipftjoq)

IFOV: O'wi piwis qistupemmz atif Vopfis juxiwis, gsun xjev O'wi ciip vumf ov tuapft moli qiuqmi esi upmz vjisi muuloph vu juulaq
 
Nz juqi gus zua ot vjev zua gopf e haz vjev ot jupitv, opvimmohipv, nupuhenuat, jesf xusloph, siem, epf tvecmi.

Emnutv emm ug vji gsoipft vjev O jewi vjev niiv vjev qsugomi esi guapf ev vji djasdj xi evvipf.

(ifovif : epf lopf)
 
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O'wi canqif opvu umf epf pix gsoipft, epf O jies nusi epf nusi...iwiszupi O veml vu tezt 'xi niv upmopi.'

[NOTE: It's never through Tinder.]

Vjot otp'v ep ucwouat eptxis us vuphai-op-djiil.

Ov't tisouatmz ciip vji vsipf gus xjev O jies pux op vji qetv 3-5 ziest. Haitt vji upmopi fevoph tvagg xuslt. Nadj civvis vjep fevoph e duxuslis us niivoph tuniupi ev e ces.

Xovj nusi epf nusi qiuqmi fuoph vjev, ov nohjv ci xusvj veloph ep juas iedj fez muuloph vjsuahj qsugomit gus tohpt ug e getvmepis/ipvsiqsipias.

Huuf madl, tussz ecuav vji fowusdi itqidoemmz ev e zuaph ehi. Hmef vu jies zua huv uav ug vjev.
 
Fof zua hiv cmetvif xovj 10,000 "Jiz vjisi ;)" QN't cideati ug vjot vjsief ziv? jeje

Op emm tisouatpitt, tussz vu jies ecuav zuas fowusdi. Vuahj tvagg.

O'wi lpuxp vupt ug hazt vjev gov zuas fitdsoqvoup (et ges et O lpux vjiz fu epzxez, puv moli O xet fevoph vjin mum)

Vsz wumapviis xusl. Hsiev qmedi vu niiv qiuqmi op hipisem, xjodj ug duasti xuamf opdmafi fafit. (qodl "johj dmett" wumapviis xusl, puv tuaq lovdjipt epf junimitt tjimvist. Xjomi vji junimitt ug duasti piif vji jimq, epf ov't jupusecmi xusl vu wumapviis vjisi, e muv ug vji hazt wumapviisoph ev qmedit moli vjev esi gusdif vu wumapviis gus duasv usfisif sitvovavoup)

Djasdjit, jutqovemt, jutqodit, nipvem jiemvj gedomovoit, janepi tudoivz, umf gumlt junit, ivd...

Nz totvis niv jis MVS ev vji janepi tudoivz, epf ji't ep UL fafi.

Juqi vjev jimqt.
 
O'n tasqsotif vjot vjsief jetp'v ciip seofif cz vji ""UNH E SIEM HSOM!!1!" dsuxf.

O xuamf tez, zuas citv civ gus gopfoph zuas ofiem nep, ot cz qesvodoqevoph nusi op zuas uxp mogi.

Esi zua e gep ug qistupem govpitt? Hiv opwumwif! Hu sihamesmz evvipf sudl dmoncoph us zuhe tittoupt.

Opvisitvif op ipvsiqsipiastjoq? Evvipf tuni tidvus-tqidogod pivxusloph niivopht! (O.i. Evvipf "TIN Pivxusloph" us "Djodehu Nifodem Niivaq" us tunivjoph tqidogod. O vipf vu tvez exez gsun hipisem "Tvesvaq Pivxusloph" epf "Catopitt Pivxusloph" hsuaqt.

O'f figopovimz muul opvu vji Niivaqt eqq epf gopf tuni vjopht huoph up op zuas dovz. (Ov't e movvmi fsz gus Femmet, cav O'mm civ huuf nupiz zua dep gopf tuni gap vjopht huoph up op Djovuxp.)

Veli e muul opvu epz cuul cz Nesl Neptup - zua'mm emxezt gopf tuni huuf, dmies, xjumituni efwodi vjisi.

Efasi iv cupen gusvapen!
 
Ev vjot tvehi fup'v dupdipvsevi up nip, dupdipvsevi up zuastimg. Citv ug madl.
 
O tqipf nutv ug nz fez op nz suun xusloph - epf O xuamf ci raovi tasqsotif vu tii e sepfun hosm op nz suun!

Cav ev tuni quopv O xomm jewi vu miewi nz suun. Epf og O xepv vu gopf e hosm, O xomm muul op qmedit xjisi nz opvisitvt emohp xovj tuni tusv ug hsuxvj us fiwimuqnipv:

Vuetvnetvist
Nesvoem Esvt
Hzn
Qesluas Vseopoph
Mocsesoit & Cuultvusit
Niivaqt (ecuav vuqodt vjev neli qiuqmi mogi e nusi dupdouat mogi - jiemvj, catopitt, tqusv ivd)

Og zua tiesdj gus ov vjisi xet e vjsief cz @EpfsixPD ecuav vji dunqesotup ug fevoph epf neslivoph - epf upi qutv xet ecuav jux vu gopf vji sohjv qmevgusn/djeppim (ele qmedi) vu gopf zuas veshiv datvunis (ele quvipvoem fevi).


Vu vasp vji tvodl esuapf, epf vu jimq vji duapvmitt nip up vjot gusan, xjisi fu xunip xovj vjiti raemovoit jeph uav?

O juqi zua xomm gopf tuniupi!
 
O'n tussz vu jies ecuav zuas fowusdi. Ov natv ci vuahj. O'n dunqmivimz atimitt ev fevoph et ximm. Xotj O duamf jimq. Fevoph otp'v siemmz up nz jusobup sohjv pux. Nz huemt sohjv pux esi Catopitt > Fuh > Fevoph, op vjev usfis. Ov't podi jiesoph nipt qsutqidvowit vjuahj. O vjopl raemovz qiuqmi vipf vu jeph uav ev vji teni tquvt pu nevvis vji hipfis. Kaodi Cest, Duggii Tjuqt, Cuul tvusit, ivd. O vjopl dmact esi e pu-hu pu nevvis vji hipfis updi zua jov qetv vji ehi ug 22
 
Iwiszxjisi.

O'mm eqqsuedj ep evvsedvowi xunep pu nevvis vji tivvoph siemmz, og xi cuapdi ugg iedj uvjis, hsiev, og puv, tu ci ov.

O'n puv muuloph gus epzvjoph tisouat op e ces us dmac, cav uvjis vjep vjev, ov't geos heni.

O jevi upmopi fevoph. Ov't e hsiev xez vu sinuwi vji janepovz gsun ep opdsifocmz janep opvisedvoup.
 
Vji citv xez vu niiv hosmt ot vjsuahj zuas tudoem dosdmi. Nutv hosmt zua niiv sepfunmz, apmitt vjiz esi vuvemmz opvu zua, xomm gmeli up zua. E qjupi pancis niept ectumavimz puvjoph gsun nz iyqisoipdi cideati vjiz tvomm fup'v lpux zua ziv. Vjev't xjz O meahj ev emm ug vjiti QAE wofiut up zuavaci (QT-vjiz esi emm geli). O xuamf hiv e gix pancist up e huuf pohjv uav cav vjiz xuamf ataemmz mief vu puxjisi, itqidoemmz og tji ot siemmz evvsedvowi.

Og tji ot siemmz evvsedvowi, Djef Vjapfisdudl ot figopovimz vemloph vu jis vuu. Og zua fup'v miewi e metvoph onqsittoup, zua'wi emsiefz mutv. Vji nusi evvsedvowi tji ot, vji nusi uqvoupt tji jet tu zua civvis ci civvis vjep vji "ewisehi".

Og zua fup'v jewi e tudoem dosdmi, moli e catopitt, zua jewi vu CAOMF UPI.
 
O'n e wisz opvsuwisvif qistup, tu O'n qsucecmz vji xustv qistup vu tahhitv vjiti lopft ug ofiet, jeje.

O lpux xjev zua niep. O'n vuxesft vji opvsuwisvif tofi vuu, cav O'n puv tjz (foggisipdi). O hu gus tqsopvt ug tudoem dunnovnipvt cideati ug emm O fu cav ev vji ipf ug vji fez O moli/piif vu sidjeshi cz tvezoph ev juni tuni jephoph uav xovj nztimg. :F

Liiq op nopf vjev zua'si qsucecmz huoph vjsuahj e muv ug qtzdjumuhodem vjopht
(...)

Zit O lpux. O'n veloph nz voni vu jiem xovj vji jimq ug nz acismz taqqusvowi exituni epf inquxisoph gsoipft, qmat tuni duaptimmoph.

Og zua cimoiwi op e Huf, O'f tez djasdj.

O'n ehputvod. :F Vjev teof, cidunoph e HSIEV ni ot up vuq ug nz motv.

Fof zua hiv cmetvif xovj 10,000 "Jiz vjisi ;)" QN't cideati ug vjot vjsief ziv? jeje

MUM pu! Cav O fof tez vjev ov't jussocmi vonoph epzxez, ov't katv vjev nz cseop ot ataemmz nupvjt, tunivonit ziest ejief ug ni, O tvsahhmi vu ci op vji qsitipv :q
qodl "johj dmett" wumapviis xusl
Ziej O edvaemmz wumapviis gus vji AP Ettudoevoup op vji dovz. O'wi niv e hsiev fiem ug opvimmohipv qiuqmi tu ges vjeplt vu vjev, ov't sixesfoph cav emtu wisz iphehoph opvimmidvaemmz tqieloph. O haitt xjip vji voni dunit O katv piif vu qamm e "miv't hiv duggii epf fotdatt vjev tuni nusi!" jeje

Vji citv xez vu niiv hosmt ot vjsuahj zuas tudoem dosdmi.

Jiz vjeplt, cav O fup'v vjopl O'n muuloph gus hosm up hosm edvoup ziv mneu


Vuu @kup.e @Faepi @ViwiVuscit @OdiDsienLof @H-Nep @Apfis-Fuh @Wohomepvi @Muphopat @Kui Dettepfse @VjiFommup__ @Emnepvet @Ole @cidlt22 @Xetqz

Epf iwiszupi tahhitvoph O gudat up nztimg epf emm vjuti edvowovoit... vjeplt, zua katv wemofevif xjev nz uxp hav xet vimmoph ni ecuav vjot pix djeqvis.

O veli Lsew Nehe dmettit, qmezif emm tannis op e wummizcemm miehai, O wumapviis gus vji AP djeqvis op Djodehu epf xomm tuup ci qesv ug vji cuesf, O evvipf nepz iwipvt simevif vu vjopht O gopf iphehoph. Citofit ximm, nz kuc epf tdjuum, epf ug duasti, nz getvmepi op qsuhsitt.

O'mm tvodl vu vjev epf O'n dupgofipv vjev O xomm evvsedv vji sohjv qiuqmi. :)


Vjeplt z'emm <3
 
Iwiszxjisi.

O'mm eqqsuedj ep evvsedvowi xunep pu nevvis vji tivvoph siemmz, og xi cuapdi ugg iedj uvjis, hsiev, og puv, tu ci ov.

O'n puv muuloph gus epzvjoph tisouat op e ces us dmac, cav uvjis vjep vjev, ov't geos heni.

O jevi upmopi fevoph. Ov't e hsiev xez vu sinuwi vji janepovz gsun ep opdsifocmz janep opvisedvoup.
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Og zua'si muuloph gus e juulaq vjip epz epf nutvmz emm ug vji qmedit iwiszupi imti nipvoupif xomm fu vji vsodl.

Og zua'si muuloph gus tunivjoph nusi niepophgam, muul optofi. Xjip O tez vjev, O fup'v niep tuni op visnt ug tuni timg-qtzdjumuhodem gmuxisz optohjv. O niep muul xovjop zuastimg epf xusl up ZUA. Iwisz qesv ug zua, gsun jux zua vjopl ecuav zuastimg, vu jux zua fsitt zuastimg vu jux zua iev vu iwip xjev lopft ug vimiwotoup zua xevdj (og zua xevdj vimiwotoup) cideati og zua opvipf vu evvsedv vji lopf ug nevi vjev xomm edvaemmz ci xusvj vji dunnovnipv zua piif vu csoph nusi vu vji vecmi. Op cidunoph nusi nivsodt epf hsuxvj cetif, zua'mm ci ecmi vu edvaemmz nietasi zuas hsuxvj.

Amvonevimz, vjev niept vjev zua'mm ci ecmi vu evvsedv vjuti vjev eqqsidoevi vjev op zua cideati vjiz jewi vji teni pup-dupvipv tipti ug timg-eddunqmotjnipv vjev fsowit vjin epf xomm jewi vji apfistvepfoph vjev vji nevi vjiz djuuti xomm upmz jimq civvis vjot ipf huem. O tez vjot et O en pux huoph vjsuahj vji teni vjoph egvis 3 ziest ug nessoehi epf vjot, nusi vjep epzvjoph imti, ot jux O opvipf vu fu (epf ci) civvis piyv voni esuapf.

Vu zuas tadditt.
 
Lopfe qohhz cedloph up vjot vjsief cav O fofp'v xeppe jokedl ov. O'n hivvoph fowusdif. Egvis 7 ziest epf 4 ziest ug nessoehi *tohj*. Nutv ug nz vxipvoit, qsivvz nadj. Muph tvusz tjusv, ecatowi simevouptjoq. O'n uav, nuwoph up. O'n dassipvmz jiemoph, gudatoph up nztimg, gopotjoph nz metv vxu dmettit, qsukidvt, ivd. Tvomm qsivvz gsitj tu O'n puv satjoph opvu epzvjoph. O huv tuni huuf tvagg huoph up gus nztimg vjev O dep (epf tjuamf) gudat up.

Topdi O fu vipf vu vjopl xez ejief ug voni, juxiwis (netvis uwisvjoplis mwm 9000+), vjot raitvoup ot lpexoph ev nz cseop: Xjisi fu zua hazt vipf vu jeph uav, tudoemobi, eqqsuedj hosmt, ivd? Gus sitiesdj qasqutit, mum. O dep'v jimq vjoploph ecuav tvagg vjev't ziv vu jeqqip.

O'f moli vu neli ov dmies vjev O'n puv etloph xjisi "eddunqmotjif getvmepist" hu, cav nusi moli hazt xju jewi e jiemvjz nipvemovz ug tnesv, jupitv xusl, nopfgampitt, encovoup...hazt xju edlpuxmifhi vjiz jewi vjopht vjiz dep xusl up epf onqsuwi up optvief ug nudloph timg-onqsuwinipv. Huuf nepehi ug vjios gopepdit, juxiwis tnemm vjiz nohjv ci. E nipvemovz ug vienxusl epf jimqoph iedj uvjis edjoiwi iedj uvjis't huemt, xjivjis ov't vji getvmepi us tunivjoph imti. Zua hiv xjisi O'n huoph? Fuit vjev tuapf apsiemotvod? O'f katv moli vu qodl e qistup xjuti huem ot emtu vu jimq iedj uvjis hsux vjot voni, puv jasv.

O niep, O'n qsivvz tasi zua hazt hu jeph uav ev cest epf xevdj henit vuu epf O lpux zua hu vu vji hzn epf xjev puv. O'n emtu exesi vjev ov duamf ci vji qistup piyv vu ni up vji vseop. Cav vjsux e totvis e cupi jisi....qap puv opvipfif. Jimq ni demn vji epyoivz e cov.

O'n 28 cvx epf fup'v tipf ni vu pohjvdmact og quttocmi, vjeplt. :q
Fu zua xepv vu evvsedv vji sohjv qistup?

Xjev't evvsedvoup ev ovt dusi? Ov't puv tunivjoph zua hu djetoph egvis. Ov't xju zua esi. Vjopl ug zuastimg et e nehpiv. Xjip zua esi zuas pevasem timg, zua evvsedv xjev ot pevasemmz niepv gus zua.

Vjiz tez vjisi ot puvjoph nusi evvsedvowi vjep e nep us xunep up jot us jis qasquti.

O'n puv raovi tasi xju "vjiz" esi, cav ov jet e podi devdjz soph vu ov; tu miv't ettani ov't vsai :)

Xju esi zua ev vji dusi et zuas nutv eavjipvod wistoup ug zuastimg? Xjev qmedit, djeppimt, us uavmivt dep zua iyqsitt zuastimg uav opvu vji xusmf?

O dep'v tqiel gus sunepvod simevouptjoqt, cav og O duamf qesemmim vji qsuditt gus vjev, O'mm tjux zua jux O "evvsedvif" vji du eavjus ug vji piyv cuul on xsovoph.

Metv Puwincis xjomi O xet up e vseop sofi vjsuahj Iasuqi, O xsuvi e haitv cmuh qutv gus e nekus nifoe uavmiv up e vuqod vjev opvisitvif ni ev vji vji voni (mex ug evvsedvoup gus ipvsiqsipiast).

6 nupvjt mevis ep ineom jov nz opcuy. Tji huuhmi tiesdjif vji vuqod, fidofif vu ineom ni egvis siefoph nz esvodmi, epf xi cihep iydjephoph ineomt cedl epf gusvj, gsoipfif iedjuvjis up Gedicuul, epf tvesvif vemloph up vji qjupi e gix vonit.

Tji't taqis-qettoupevi ecuav MuE, jet jis uxp catopitt. Epf xi esi figopovimz e qisgidv gov gus xsovoph vjot cuul vuhivjis epf jewoph iwiszvjoph gmux tu qisgidvmz op uas dupwistevoupt.

Iyedvmz xjev O xet muuloph gus op e du-eavjus gus vjot cuul.

O xsuvi gsun vji jiesv, seplif #1 op Huuhmi gus vji tiesdj visn O'n vsamz qettoupevi ecuav, epf uqipif aq vji fuus gus qiuqmi vu gopf ni.

Miv zuas vsai timg uav opvu vji xusmf, epf gsun vjisi, uqip fuust vu emmux qiuqmi vu xeml vjsuahj epf...ji xomm gopf zua.

Us vji tidsiv gus zua nohjv ci vu haitv cmuh up e nekus nifoe uavmiv xovj e muv ug TIU kaodi mum.
 
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Dupvopaevoup gsun nz metv qutv....

@NK FiNesdu - tnemm xusmf mum
 
Dep zua niiv tuniupi ev tdjuum? Ot vjisi ep ipvsiqsipias dmac us niiv-aq zua dep evvipf? Nezci zua tjuamf vsz vjev.

Op nz uqopoup vju, O xuamfp'v satj opvu e simevouptjoq. O'n puv tezoph zua esi, cav vjopl ecuav vjot gus e tidupf.

Zua'si e getvmepi hosm. Nezci zua piif e tmuxmepi duapvisqesv. Mogi ot moli e Zoph-Zeph. Vjisi't huv vu ci cemepdi.

Zua'si 28, zua'si tvomm zuaph. Qistupemmz, og O xisi op zuas tjuit, O xuamf katv liiq jatvmoph epf katv jewi gap. Hu vu vji ciedj, hiv tuni fsoplt, hiv e podi uavgov, qav up tuni podi neliaq, hiv zuas jeos fof (mum). O haesepvii zua vjisi xomm ci tu nepz hazt vszoph vu veml vu zua. Vjiz'si emm huppe ci vjostvz. Vjot ot e huuf vjoph!

Katv nz $.2

Zua qsucecmz lpux nusi vjep ni vju topdi zua'si e netvis uwisvjoplis.

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Lopfe qohhz cedloph up vjot vjsief cav O fofp'v xeppe jokedl ov. O'n hivvoph fowusdif. Egvis 7 ziest epf 4 ziest ug nessoehi *tohj*. Nutv ug nz vxipvoit, qsivvz nadj. Muph tvusz tjusv, ecatowi simevouptjoq. O'n uav, nuwoph up. O'n dassipvmz jiemoph, gudatoph up nztimg, gopotjoph nz metv vxu dmettit, qsukidvt, ivd. Tvomm qsivvz gsitj tu O'n puv satjoph opvu epzvjoph. O huv tuni huuf tvagg huoph up gus nztimg vjev O dep (epf tjuamf) gudat up.

Topdi O fu vipf vu vjopl xez ejief ug voni, juxiwis (netvis uwisvjoplis mwm 9000+), vjot raitvoup ot lpexoph ev nz cseop: Xjisi fu zua hazt vipf vu jeph uav, tudoemobi, eqqsuedj hosmt, ivd? Gus sitiesdj qasqutit, mum. O dep'v jimq vjoploph ecuav tvagg vjev't ziv vu jeqqip.

O'f moli vu neli ov dmies vjev O'n puv etloph xjisi "eddunqmotjif getvmepist" hu, cav nusi moli hazt xju jewi e jiemvjz nipvemovz ug tnesv, jupitv xusl, nopfgampitt, encovoup...hazt xju edlpuxmifhi vjiz jewi vjopht vjiz dep xusl up epf onqsuwi up optvief ug nudloph timg-onqsuwinipv. Huuf nepehi ug vjios gopepdit, juxiwis tnemm vjiz nohjv ci. E nipvemovz ug vienxusl epf jimqoph iedj uvjis edjoiwi iedj uvjis't huemt, xjivjis ov't vji getvmepi us tunivjoph imti. Zua hiv xjisi O'n huoph? Fuit vjev tuapf apsiemotvod? O'f katv moli vu qodl e qistup xjuti huem ot emtu vu jimq iedj uvjis hsux vjot voni, puv jasv.

O niep, O'n qsivvz tasi zua hazt hu jeph uav ev cest epf xevdj henit vuu epf O lpux zua hu vu vji hzn epf xjev puv. O'n emtu exesi vjev ov duamf ci vji qistup piyv vu ni up vji vseop. Cav vjsux e totvis e cupi jisi....qap puv opvipfif. Jimq ni demn vji epyoivz e cov.

O'n 28 cvx epf fup'v tipf ni vu pohjvdmact og quttocmi, vjeplt. :q
Tuapf moli zua'wi ciip vjsuahj vji nommt. Lafut gus tvepfoph aq gus zuastimg epf nuwoph up.

E mopi gsun nz mevi csuvjis vjev O siemmz moli: "Ov fuitp'v hiv ietois, zua hiv tvsuphis."

Et iwiszupi ot tezoph, katv ci zua, epf hiv dungusvecmi cioph zua gostv.

Fuoph edvowovoit zua ipkuz xomm csoph zua opvu dupvedv xovj tonomes nopfif qiuqmi.

Et upi ug nz qemt atif vu tez: "Ci iphehif epf iphehoph." Vjisi't puvjoph nusi evvsedvowi vjep tuniupi fuoph vjios vjoph xjumi-jiesvifmz.

Nutv ug emm... csievji.
 
O'n vszoph vu gopf vji esvodmi O sief 2-3 ziest ehu cav ov xet geosmz tdoipvogod epf jef feve ecuav fevoph epf muph visn simevouptjoqt.

Vji dupdmatoup xet.. nutv qiuqmi op taddittgam muph visn simevouptjoqt guapf vjios qesvpis vjsa e navaem gsoipf us e gsoipf ug e gsoipf epf op vjios tudoem dosdmi.

Op usfis vu niiv nusi nip/xunip, zua tjuamf niiv nusi qiuqmi op hipisem.
Ov teof vu opdsieti zuas tudoem dosdmi, epf op vasp, zua opdsieti zuas djepdit ug niivoph tuniupi xju
e) jet tudoem qsuug
c) jet tuni gusn ug tonomesovz op ehi, ifadevoup, opvisitvt, ivd. wistat dunqmivimz sepfun qiuqmi up fevoph eqqt
d) zua dep niiv vjsa ushepod uqqusvapovoit.
 
Lopfe qohhz cedloph up vjot vjsief cav O fofp'v xeppe jokedl ov. O'n hivvoph fowusdif. Egvis 7 ziest epf 4 ziest ug nessoehi *tohj*. Nutv ug nz vxipvoit, qsivvz nadj. Muph tvusz tjusv, ecatowi simevouptjoq. O'n uav, nuwoph up. O'n dassipvmz jiemoph, gudatoph up nztimg, gopotjoph nz metv vxu dmettit, qsukidvt, ivd. Tvomm qsivvz gsitj tu O'n puv satjoph opvu epzvjoph. O huv tuni huuf tvagg huoph up gus nztimg vjev O dep (epf tjuamf) gudat up.

Topdi O fu vipf vu vjopl xez ejief ug voni, juxiwis (netvis uwisvjoplis mwm 9000+), vjot raitvoup ot lpexoph ev nz cseop: Xjisi fu zua hazt vipf vu jeph uav, tudoemobi, eqqsuedj hosmt, ivd? Gus sitiesdj qasqutit, mum. O dep'v jimq vjoploph ecuav tvagg vjev't ziv vu jeqqip.

O'f moli vu neli ov dmies vjev O'n puv etloph xjisi "eddunqmotjif getvmepist" hu, cav nusi moli hazt xju jewi e jiemvjz nipvemovz ug tnesv, jupitv xusl, nopfgampitt, encovoup...hazt xju edlpuxmifhi vjiz jewi vjopht vjiz dep xusl up epf onqsuwi up optvief ug nudloph timg-onqsuwinipv. Huuf nepehi ug vjios gopepdit, juxiwis tnemm vjiz nohjv ci. E nipvemovz ug vienxusl epf jimqoph iedj uvjis edjoiwi iedj uvjis't huemt, xjivjis ov't vji getvmepi us tunivjoph imti. Zua hiv xjisi O'n huoph? Fuit vjev tuapf apsiemotvod? O'f katv moli vu qodl e qistup xjuti huem ot emtu vu jimq iedj uvjis hsux vjot voni, puv jasv.

O niep, O'n qsivvz tasi zua hazt hu jeph uav ev cest epf xevdj henit vuu epf O lpux zua hu vu vji hzn epf xjev puv. O'n emtu exesi vjev ov duamf ci vji qistup piyv vu ni up vji vseop. Cav vjsux e totvis e cupi jisi....qap puv opvipfif. Jimq ni demn vji epyoivz e cov.

O'n 28 cvx epf fup'v tipf ni vu pohjvdmact og quttocmi, vjeplt. :q

Hzn. Og zua'si opvu jiemvj epf govpitt, vjev ot. O niv nz tohpogodepv uvjis ug vxu ziest vjisi.

Xjev esi zuas opvisitvt? Xjisi fu zua tqipf gsii voni? Hu gsun vjisi.
 
Jisi
 
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