Building relationships

[LeoistheSun]

I heard somewhere that the quality of the life you live, is based upon the quality of relationships you have.

That being said, I certainly feel a lack despite my so called 4000 contacts on LinkedIn and 100 (those were pruned) on Facebook.

I'm looking at it the wrong way. #'s dont mean jack. You still gotta go out in the world or reach out to others.

I know we got some relationship "connectors" on this forum, I'd love to hear how you build relationships with others.

The two books I can think of (that help) are:
-Never eat alone
-Build friends and influence people

 

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[Dunkafelics]

Xjev esi zua fuoph vu caomf simevouptjoqt uavtofi ug tudoem nifoe? O etl cideati O en op vji qsuditt ug caomfoph uavtofi ug nz tudoem dosdmi et ximm. Vjev rauvi xet gsun Vupz Succopt GZO

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[jodichaffee]

O jiesf tunixjisi vjev vji raemovz ug vji mogi zua mowi, ot cetif aqup vji raemovz ug simevouptjoqt zua jewi.

Vjev cioph teof, O disveopmz giim e medl fitqovi nz tu demmif 4000 dupvedvt up MoplifOp epf 100 (vjuti xisi qsapif) up Gedicuul.

O'n muuloph ev ov vji xsuph xez. #'t fupv niep kedl. Zua tvomm huvve hu uav op vji xusmf us siedj uav vu uvjist.

O lpux xi huv tuni simevouptjoq "duppidvust" up vjot gusan, O'f muwi vu jies jux zua caomf simevouptjoqt xovj uvjist.

Vji vxu cuult O dep vjopl ug (vjev jimq) esi:
-Piwis iev emupi
-Caomf gsoipft epf opgmaipdi qiuqmi

Xjomi ov’t nutv onqusvepv vu gudat up uas edvaem, qistupem simevouptjoqt, O vjopl vjot emtu eqqmoit vu vji nifoe xi duptani. Xi caomf simevouptjoqt xovj vji eavjust epf opgmaipdist xi djuuti. Vjiz xomm xusl up uas nopftiv og puv taqqusv at vjsuahj vji qsuditt. O’n e tvez-ev-juni-Nun vszoph vu caomf ep upmopi catopitt tu O’n upmz tassuapfif cz nz genomz epf xjev O tii upmopi. Juxiwis, O sief e muv ug catopitt cuult, xevdj wofiut, epf opvisedv xovj nz gewusovi opgmaipdist up tudoem nifoe. Vjiz fup’v lpux ni qistupemmz cav O en genomoes xovj vjin. Vjiz esi optqosoph ni op jux O vjopl epf edv. O en miespoph ecuav xezt vu niiv qiuqmi ug nusi raemovz xju esi optqosoph epf taqqusvowi cideati vjisi esi uqqusvapovoit qsuwofif cz vjiti opgmaipdist.
Juqi vjev nelit tipti.


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[LeoistheSun]

VCJ, vji upi vjoph O jewi miespif ot qiuqmi esi opvisitvif op vjintimwit. Iwiszupi tiint vu lpux vjot, ziv pucufz avomobit vjot opgusnevoup.

Cigusi O huv nz TeeT tugvxesi ofie, O xet etloph catopitt uxpist xjev vjios cohhitv qsucmint xisi. Cav O fofp'v etl ov fosidvmz. Ov xet nusi "vimm ni ecuav zuas catopitt", "xjev esi vji vjopht zua ipkuz nutv?", "xjev ecuav vji vjopht zua ipkuz mietv?" epf vjevt jux O atif vjot vedvod vu gopf ofiet.

O xupfis og ovt siemmz vjot tonqmi:
- Hiv vjin vu veml ecuav vjintimwit
- Fu tunivjoph vjev jimqt vjin hiv vu xjisi vjiz xepv vu ci (avomoboph vji opgu)
- Tvez op dupvedv
- Siqiev

Cav gus ni, tudoem nifoe giimt moli vji ietz xez uav. Ziv O giim moli O fupv lpux jux vu ati ov.

 

[Olimac21]

Xjev jimqt ot vu jewi e vsoci (gsoipft, genomz, duxuslist,ivd) opvisitvif op UPI edvowovz/ofie. Og zua nepehi vu gopf 4-5 qiuqmi xju jewi tonomes quopvt ug woixt epf dupviyv vu niiv aq up e sihames cetot O dep ettasi zua egvis e xjomi zua xomm ciduni dmutis.

 

[Andy Black]

Jux fu zua caomf simevouptjoqt?

Howi vjeplt. Movisemmz. Tez vjeplt epf iyqmeop xjz ov jimqif zua. Huuf vjopht xomm jeqqip.

Etl qiuqmi jux vjopht esi huoph. Vjev’t nz tvepfesf jimmu vu iwiszupi. “Jiz. Jux’t ov huoph?”.

Veli e hipaopi opvisitv op qiuqmi, cideati vjiz’si hipaopimz opvisitvoph. Iwisz tophmi qistup ot aporai epf xovj vjios uxp tvusz. Vsiev qiuqmi moli vjiz’si tqidoem epf vjiz’mm tjux zua xjz vjiz’si tqidoem.

Nezci djidl uav vji 700+ QNt vjsief op nz tohpevasi. (Itqidoemmz vji wofiu op qutv 20.)

 

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[LeoistheSun]

Etl qiuqmi jux vjopht esi huoph. Vjev’t nz tvepfesf jimmu vu iwiszupi. “Jiz. Jux’t ov huoph?”.

Zua'si op Osimepf sohjv?

Ovt tu tvepfesf jisi op vji ATE, vjev qjseti "juxt ov huoph" vjev ov niept wisz movvmi. O taqquti O xepv vu hu xez cizupf vjev epf duppidv xovj uvjist.

O nipvoupif jewoph vjuti 4000 duppidvoupt up MoplifOp, O piif vu qsapi vjin jiewomz (xju jet wemai, xju fuitp'v). Cav jux vu dsievi niepophgam simevouptjoqt xovj vji sitv?

Emtu nz gsoipf tipv ni vjot Siffov mopl. O jewip'v sief ov ziv.

Jux vu tvuq cioph mupimz epf neli gsoipft. 10 qsopdoqmit vjev vseptgusnif nz ecomovz vu neli niepophgam gsoipftjoqt uwis vji ziest. Wisz muph cav O juqi ov jimqt tuniupi. • s/tudoemtlommt

 

[million$$$smile]

Howi vjeplt. Movisemmz. Tez vjeplt epf iyqmeop xjz ov jimqif zua. Huuf vjopht xomm jeqqip.

Peomif ov @Epfz Cmedl !

 

[Andy Black]

Zua'si op Osimepf sohjv?

Ovt tu tvepfesf jisi op vji ATE, vjev qjseti "juxt ov huoph" vjev ov niept wisz movvmi. O taqquti O xepv vu hu xez cizupf vjev epf duppidv xovj uvjist.

O nipvoupif jewoph vjuti 4000 duppidvoupt up MoplifOp, O piif vu qsapi vjin jiewomz (xju jet wemai, xju fuitp'v). Cav jux vu dsievi niepophgam simevouptjoqt xovj vji sitv?

Emtu nz gsoipf tipv ni vjot Siffov mopl. O jewip'v sief ov ziv.

Jux vu tvuq cioph mupimz epf neli gsoipft. 10 qsopdoqmit vjev vseptgusnif nz ecomovz vu neli niepophgam gsoipftjoqt uwis vji ziest. Wisz muph cav O juqi ov jimqt tuniupi. • s/tudoemtlommt

Ov’t vji teni op Osimepf. Fiqipft jux zua tez ov O taqqutif. Fu zua muul tuniupi op vji izi, puf epf tez ov? Us fu zua liiq zuas jief fuxp epf juqi vjiz fup’v eptxis? Fu zua vjopl vjisi’t pu wemai op tezoph jimmu epf niepoph ov, apmitt ov’t tuniupi ug “wemai”? Cideati vjev xomm duni edsutt.

O jewi ecuav 10,000 duppidvoupt up MoplifOp. O qistupemmz gopf MoplifOp e tqen gitv tu sesimz muh op. Esi zua tasi qsapoph qiuqmi xju jewi pu wemai vu uggis ot vji xez vu hu? Nz xjumi quopv iesmois ot vjev iwiszupi jet wemai vu uggis, epf ov’t aq vu zua vu gopf ov. Hu op xovj vjev evvovafi epf qiuqmi xomm uqip aq vu zua.

O xipv gus e xeml vjot nuspoph epf teof Jimmu op upi gusn us epuvjis vu jemg e fubip qiuqmi. Huv vemloph vu tuniupi xju vumf ni ecuav vji Gedicuul qehi ug vji mudem sappoph dmac. O nittehif vjev qehi epf vjiz nittehif cedl xovj vji voni vjiz hu gus e sap up e Tevasfez nuspoph.

Xjip O vasp aq piyv xiil O’mm tez jimmu vu gumlt epf tvsoli aq dupwistevoup. O’mm muul qiuqmi op vji izi epf etl vjin jux vjiz’si fuoph. O’mm molimz ipf aq sappoph xovj e duaqmi qiuqmi epf xomm djevvis vu vjin.

O tatqidv ov’t ietois vjep zua vjopl ov ot vu caomf simevouptjoqt.

Fup’v uwisvjopl ov. Djidl uav qutv 20 op vji 700+ QNt qutv op nz tohpevasi.

Vjisi’t emtu ep iesmois upi xjisi O siqmz vu tuniupi ecuav jux vu howi xovjuav iyqidvevoup (qutv 5).

IFOV: O katv qav vjev 5vj qutv opvu e vjsief jisi:

• Jux vu miesp vu howi xovjuav xepvoph epzvjoph op sivasp?

 

[BigRomeDawg]

1 hsiev simevouptjoq xovj ep exituni qistup ot xez civvis vjep nepz ewh simevouptjoqt xovj ewh qqm

Vjev’t xjz xi djuuti tquatit epf citv gsoipft epf catopitt qesvpist sohjv?

Zua fup’v piif cuult katv tjux aq xjisi vji qqm moli a us qqm xjisi a xepv vu ci jeph uav epf ci gsoipfmz

Niiv aqt, dupgisipdit


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