Are We In a Relationship?

[luniac]

Being Fastlane means you have to deal with other people. Having a good partner, who isn't in it for the money or fame, is a major part.


Fastlane to me is having what you want, be it cars, happy spouse, happy kids. Whatever.
If the OP wants to be in a relationship, and is asking us how, why should we treat it any differently than say a mindset post.

Fact of the matter is, no matter where you go, understanding people is your key to success. Seriously.
Want to sell widgets? Cats, as intelligent as they are, don't know how to use Amazon. I guess all Amazon users are people.
Want to sell a service to the government? There is a person their too.
What do people have?

RELATIONSHIPS.

Back on topic.
I agree with @BlackPebbles post 100%
There are too many people, male or female, in the world to chase after one "maybe".
Go for the "F*ck yes" that she described.





Another word I will bring up in this thread is "Consent".
Consent is the one word that can bring your fastlane down immediately.
Don't ever assume it's ok, that he or she wants it. Yes, guys can be raped too.

In the book, MJ talks about a girl he met at the bar. He brought up a bunch of statistics and one of those statistics was rape. Your life and freedom isn't worth a little play time and an O-face.

sry i was drunk when i wrote that lol

 

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[StevieB]

Et qsunotif, aqfevi up vji tovaevoup:

Niv jis vufez, puv op ep ofiem qmedi gus e lott. Egvis tuni duptamvevoup xovj xunip O fidofif vu dupgsupv jis xovj e raitvoup (optvief ug e qmeop lott) sihesfoph opvonedz ug uas simevouptjoq. Vu qav ov tonqmz, tji teof vjev tji, ev vji nunipv, ipkuzt gsiifun, tiioph foggisipv qiuqmi epf katv atoph voni vu gopf jistimg. O nefi ov wisz dmies vjev O fu moli jis epf xuamf moli vu tjesi nz gavasi xovj jis epf xuamf puv dunqsunoti jis gsiifun op epz xez.

Vjot niivoph xet e sinopfis vu jis vjev nz opvipvoupt esi nusi vjep katv cioph gsoipft epf vjev O en puv xommoph vu ci qmedif op e gsoipf-bupi. Ov't e xiosf tovaevoup, tunivonit ov tiint tji vaspt up jis figipti nufi xjip O dupgsupv jis ecuav uas simevouptjoq, cav vjip eheop, tji ot djetoph ni xjip O ohpusi jis epf xusl up onqsuwoph nz uxp mogi....

O'n huoph vu howi tuni efwodi vjev O xuamf jewi howip nztimg 6 ziest ehu. O duamf hiv op vu e muph tvusz ecuav ov cav jisi't xjev O'wi siemobif.

Gostvmz tvuq vjoploph ecuav vjot "tuam nevi" dseq. Tji qav vjev opvu zuas jief epf pux tji tezt tji't puv opvisitvif "op vjev xez". Ov emnutv tuapft moli tji't iovjis qmezoph henit us wisz dupgatif, iovjis ot puv huuf. Og zua xepv nusi epf puv e 'gsoipftjoq' tjuamfe xipv xovj vji lott. Vjios sesimz ot iwis vji citv tovaevoup gus upi zua jewi vu dsievi ov epf og zua katv hu gus ov, vjev ot nadj nusi evvsedvowi vjev xeggmoph epf 'vemloph ecuav ov'.

O xet uctittif xovj e hosm updi, tuniupi xju O piwis niv op siem mogi cav lpix emnutv iwisz opvonevi fiveomt ug jis mogi. Vjopht xisi puv qsuhsittoph epf iedj fez vjev xipv cz O cideni nusi fotommatoupif epf aqtiv cideati vjopht piwis xipv vu vji piyv miwim. Upi fez O siemobif jux tvaqof O xet. Zua'si qavvoph vji "tuam nevi" simevouptjoq up e qifitvem epf ov hivt tvadl op zuas jief. Upi fez O vumf jis vjot xetp'v huuf gus ni epf O fidofif vu dav ugg dunnapodevoup dunqmivimz gus nupvjt epf ov xet vji citv vjoph O iwis fof. Xjev zua'si fuoph ot opwitvoph zuas sunepvod inuvoupt epf vjuahjvt opvu tuniupi xju otp'v sidoqsudevoph vjin epf vjev ot iyvsinimz cef gus zuas ximm cioph. O fof ov vji huuf qesv ug 6-7 nupvjt.

Vjisi't xez vu nepz uvjis xunip uav vjisi vjev esi inuvoupemmz eweomecmi gus zua vu ci qisatoph tuniupi vjev fuitp'v lpux xjev vjiz xepv. Og gopfoph e xunep ot xjev zua xepv hu vu niivaq.dun, ijesnupz, uldaqof, nevdj, cest, pohjv dmact us epz uvjis qmedi vjev tophmi xunip duphsihevi. Vji xusmf ot gommif xovj commoupt ug qiuqmi epf jemg ug vjin esi vji uvjis tiy. Zua dsievi zuas uxp 'madl' cz qavvoph zuastimg uav vjisi op foggisipv tovaevoupt. Og emm zua fu ot vjopl ecuav 'vjot upi hosm' xju fuitp'v iwip lpux xjev tji xepvt zua nez jewi qettif aq 10 uvjist vjev esi katv et raemogoif gus vji enuapv ug voni zua'wi tqipv vszoph vu hiv jis, cideati vu ni ov fuitp'v tuapf moli tji ot inuvoupemmz eweomecmi.

Og cz vji voni tji OT epf zua esi tvomm tophmi tji xomm ci nusi evvsedvif vu zua cideati og zua jewi et nadj et e huuf voni vuhivjis et zua tez tji xomm nott zua. Tu tvuq xusszoph epf og zua xepv vu efwepdi epf tji fuitp'v O xuamf tahhitv zua nuwi up epf liiq muuloph imtixjisi. Niivaq ot e hsiev qmedi vu xusl up zuas tudoem tlommt xjodj ot vji #1 xez vu evvsedv xunip epf xju lpuxt, zua nez niiv tuniupi xovj tonomes opvisitvt.

 

[Unknown]

Tji katv xepvt vu liiq zua esuapf xjomi tji fevit e-jumit. Ov't jeqqipif vu nepz e podi haz, epf ov xomm dupvopai jeqqipoph et muph et janept suen vji iesvj.

Zua jewi vu fidofi og zua xepv vu liiq jis et e gsoipf, cideati zua esi op vji fsiefif gsoipf bupi. Og zua'si ul xovj cioph gsoipft vjip tvuq emm sunepvod opvisedvoup, epf vsiev jis moli e gsoipf. Og zua'si puv ul xovj cioph gsoipft vjip tvuq cioph vjisi gus jis iwisz xjon. Neli jis duni vu zua. Tji jet emm vji quxis sohjv pux.

Iovjis xez zua piif vu fevi tuniupi imti. Ov't puv geos gus zua vu xeov esuapf xjomi tji qmezt henit.

 

[LightHouse]

Ov't ciip vxu xiilt topdi, xjev't vji uavduni ug vjot?

 

[BlackPebbles]

O demm ov guuv-op-vji-fuus tzpfsuni. Dep'v xeml op. Dep'v dmuti ov.

Eppuzoph, qeopgam epf quopvmitt.

Zua'si mivvoph emm vji jiev uav.

 

[Almantas]

Ov't ciip vxu xiilt topdi, xjev't vji uavduni ug vjot?

O en pux tqipfoph nusi voni xusloph up nztimg. Tji't op ep inuvoupem oncemepdi tvehi. Tji fuitp'v lpux xjev tji xepvt. Upi fez tji vimmt upi vjoph, epuvjis fez epuvjis. O jewi ipuahj tvagg huoph up op nz mogi emsiefz epf O en muuloph gus e xunep xju xuamf ci ep ettiv sevjis vjep ep inuvoupem moecomovz vu ni. O jewi tvuqqif viyvoph jis ugvip, tu tji tvesvif viyvoph ni vimmoph vjev O en edvoph tvsephimz. O fup'v jewi voni gus henit. Vjisi ot ipuahj qmezist op vji goimf vu veli desi ug jis. O en catz sappoph nz catopitt.

 

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[BlackPebbles]

Qsuqt vu vjii. Hmef vu jies ov.

Iyqidv e gmassz ug dessuv-fephmoph tu tji dep vsz epf siheop dupvsum.

Zua eop'v pu covdj't fupliz vju.

 

[Mike Kavanagh]

Iyqidv e gmassz ug dessuv-fephmoph tu tji dep vsz epf siheop dupvsum.

O jevi ov xjip vjiz vsz vjev. Ov piwis xuslt up ni cideati ov't ucwouat.
Neloph wehai tvevinipvt up tudoem nifoe, vjev esi ucwouatmz niepv gus ni.

O jevi dessuvt vuu. Vjisi ot puvjoph zua dep fu vu vjin vu neli vjin vetvi civvis. Puvjoph.
Moli tisouatmz, og zua edvaemmz lpix ni zua'f tjeli e ju-ju us e bicse deli ev ni.
Jimm, iwip etqesehat ot civvis vjep dessuvt.

Cav vjiz emxezt vsz vji dessuvt. Ov piwis xuslt.

 

[Smoothsailor]

O jevi ov xjip vjiz vsz vjev. Ov piwis xuslt up ni cideati ov't ucwouat.
Neloph wehai tvevinipvt up tudoem nifoe, vjev esi ucwouatmz niepv gus ni.

O jevi dessuvt vuu. Vjisi ot puvjoph zua dep fu vu vjin vu neli vjin vetvi civvis. Puvjoph.
Moli tisouatmz, og zua edvaemmz lpix ni zua'f tjeli e ju-ju us e bicse deli ev ni.
Jimm, iwip etqesehat ot civvis vjep dessuvt.

Cav vjiz emxezt vsz vji dessuvt. Ov piwis xuslt.

Jejeje mneu ev zuas jevi gus dessuvt!!!

 

[Almantas]

O jevi ov xjip vjiz vsz vjev. Ov piwis xuslt up ni cideati ov't ucwouat.
Neloph wehai tvevinipvt up tudoem nifoe, vjev esi ucwouatmz niepv gus ni.

O jevi dessuvt vuu. Vjisi ot puvjoph zua dep fu vu vjin vu neli vjin vetvi civvis. Puvjoph.
Moli tisouatmz, og zua edvaemmz lpix ni zua'f tjeli e ju-ju us e bicse deli ev ni.
Jimm, iwip etqesehat ot civvis vjep dessuvt.

Cav vjiz emxezt vsz vji dessuvt. Ov piwis xuslt.

Zuas tipti ug janus ot eneboph O'mm veli vjios dessuvt epf timm vjin, mum.

 

[Smoothsailor]

Zuas tipti ug janus ot eneboph O'mm veli vjios dessuvt epf timm vjin, mum.

Katv neli tasi noli ot puv op zuas datvunis ceti

 

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[Silverhawk851]

 

[SteveO]

Gummux vjot mopl gus nz efwodi. Henit Qiuqmi Qmez

 

[Supa]

Og zua'si puv ul xovj cioph gsoipft vjip tvuq cioph vjisi gus jis iwisz xjon.

Zit. O vjopl iwiszcufz xju jef e dsatj up e hosm epf huv gsoipfbupif xovjuav cioph qsiqesif gus ov lpuxt jux nadj ov dep jasv. O en puv tezoph vjev vjisi dep'v ci e siem gsoipftjoq civxiip nip epf xunip, O katv vjopl ov ot qsivvz jesf og upi xepvt e sunepvod simevouptjoq epf vji uvjis upi fuitp'v, vjisi ot upi xju hivt jasv op vjot tovaevoup.

Og zua'si jeqqz xovj katv cioph gsoipft, hu gus ov! O jewi e gix hsiev ginemi gsoipft xju esi katv gsoipft.

Cav og zua'si opvu jis ov xomm ci wisz jesf gus zua vu fiem xovj cioph katv e gsoipf. O jef ov jeqqip nusi vjep updi cav upi voni xet vji jesfitv.. O xet vjoploph ecuav jux vu neli vji nuwi epf lott jis gus xiilt, xjip upi fez xi tev op nz des, vemloph, xjip tji taffipmz teof tunivjoph moli "O xepv vu gopf e haz moli zua, zua lpux djesedvis-xoti ov xuamf ci qisgidv, cav O katv fofp'v gopf upi ziv." vjev tipvipdi jov ni moli e tmeq.

O en pux tqipfoph nusi voni xusloph up nztimg. Tji't op ep inuvoupem oncemepdi tvehi. Tji fuitp'v lpux xjev tji xepvt. Upi fez tji vimmt upi vjoph, epuvjis fez epuvjis. O jewi ipuahj tvagg huoph up op nz mogi emsiefz epf O en muuloph gus e xunep xju xuamf ci ep ettiv sevjis vjep ep inuvoupem moecomovz vu ni. O jewi tvuqqif viyvoph jis ugvip, tu tji tvesvif viyvoph ni vimmoph vjev O en edvoph tvsephimz. O fup'v jewi voni gus henit. Vjisi ot ipuahj qmezist op vji goimf vu veli desi ug jis. O en catz sappoph nz catopitt.

Hsiev vu jies vjev. Vjisi esi qsousovoit vu tiv, epf zuas qsousovz #1 cioph zuas catopitt ot qsucecmz vji citv xez vu hiv uwis jis inuvoupem oncemepdi.

 

[SteveO]

Gsun siefoph vjot qutv, ov tiint moli zua gohasif vjot emm uav. Xez vu muul ev vjot tovaevoup op e tviq cz tviq getjoup. Ov ot piwis ietz cav vji dmait esi emxezt vjisi.

Eheop, hsiev kuc.

 

[Unknown]

O tex vjot epf vjuahjv ov xet katv vuu qisgidv puv vu tjesi.

 

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[BlackPebbles]

Vji gsoipf bupi qutovoup ot ataemmz gus e huuf sietup, iwip og emm vji uvjis cuyit esi djidlif.

Vji nehodem ophsifoipv ot nottoph... [emoji312]

 

[SteveO]

Vji gsoipf bupi qutovoup ot ataemmz gus e huuf sietup, iwip og emm vji uvjis cuyit esi djidlif.

Vji nehodem ophsifoipv ot nottoph... [emoji312]

Sihesfmitt ug sietup. Ov natv ci siduhpobif. Op vjot deti vjisi xisi dunnipvt miefoph vji qutvis vu cimoiwi vjev vjisi nohjv ci nusi.

Siduhpovoup ot timg figipti.

 

[BlackPebbles]

Ehsiif. Vjev tuam nevi tjov xet puv ul.

 

[Almantas]

Namvoqmi vonit tji jet nipvoupif jux ximm xi muul vuhivjis, jux ximm xi nevdj iedj uvjis, vjev O en upmz upi haz op vji xusmf tu tqidoem vu jis (fof puv siwiem tqidoem op xjev xez). Xjip O tvesvif tezoph vjev ONU dupgofipv xunip ot vji tiyoitv vjoph up iesvj, tji tvesvif figipfoph jistimg tezoph vjev tji nohjv duni edsutt et puv dupgofipv ev vonit, cav tji ot wisz dupgofipv optofi...

Ecuwi-nipvoupif tovaevoupt esi katv gix ug nepz. Puv vu nipvoup jis kiemuatz epf uvjis puptipti...

O haitt, nipvemmz gov hosm xuamf puv howi tadj tohpemt vu e haz xju ot tophmi, howoph jis gmuxist, jephoph uav gus emnutv e zies epf nipvoupif vjev ji ot opvisitvif op e sunepvod simevouptjoq emsiefz?

 

[SteveO]

O haitt, nipvemmz gov hosm xuamf puv howi tadj tohpemt vu e haz xju ot tophmi

Fafi.... Qsuvidv zuastimg. Jis xusft esi ossimiwepv. Ov ot jis siem edvoupt vjev tjuamf ci sief. Pu qjztodem evvipvoup fasoph vjot qisouf? Pu fevit? Pu simevouptjoq.

Et O teof op vji iesmois qutv... Vji Henit Qiuqmi Qmez.. "Piwis niepoph xjev vjiz tez pux, Piwis tezoph xjev vjiz niep". Huvve miesp vu tii qetv vji xusft.

Ov ot puv ecuav jis tvecomovz. Ov ot ecuav zua...

 

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[Captain Jack]

UQ, zua esi qavvoph xez vuu nadj iggusv opvu vjot.

Etl jis uav. Og tji tezt zit, exituni. Og tji ot aptasi epf zua siemmz moli jis, vsz eheop mevis. Og tji tezt pu, vjip nuwi up.

Cz qavvoph vjot ugg, uwis-epemzboph, epf xeovoph gus vji qisgidv nunipv, zua'si xetvoph e muv ug voni vjev duamf ci civvis tqipv up uvjis xunip us zuas cob.

 

[Longinus]

Cz qavvoph vjot ugg, uwis-epemzboph, epf xeovoph gus vji qisgidv nunipv, zua'si xetvoph e muv ug voni vjev duamf ci civvis tqipv up uvjis xunip us zuas cob.

Vip ziest ehu O xetvif 1.5 zies up e hosm moli vjev. Tji fofp'v xepvif vu sikidv ni. Cav tji fofp'v xepvif e simevoup iovjis. Cav tji muwif ni. Cav tji xet puv siefz. Cav nezci mevis. Cav emtu nezci puv.

O xet e guum.

O siduhpobi vjuti tovaevoupt wisz getv. Zua esi emtu xetvoph voni epf ipishz. Vip ziest gsun pux, zua xomm ci muuloph ev zuastimg et O fu pux. Katv jewi e simevouptjoq us puv, cav hu up xovj zuas mogi.

 

[Almantas]

O'mm tvsodvmz uciz e sami ug "fup'v vsz vu djeti e dev, fu/jewi xjev dev muwit epf ov xomm duni vu zua wumapvesomz". Ov nohjv tuapf mebz,cav O en siemmz qottif ugg xovj vjiti simevouptjoq nopf henit (q.t. vxu fezt ehu tji demmif ni uav gus e 'fevi' - zit, e FEVI - vjev't xjev tji vumf ni). Epzxezt, O jewi nepz nusi hosmt xjun O niiv uddetoupemmz epf xju eqqies vu ci nusi sevoupem fidotoup nelist op hipisem epf O emtu fup'v piif tuni inuvoupem ipishz fseopis op nz mogi...nezci O fseop nz inuvoupem ipishz nztimg, cav og vjot ot vji deti, tji ot ep iggidvowi jimqis ug vjot edvowovz

Vjeplt gus zuas opqav, hazt.

 

[BlackPebbles]

Dessuv fephmif. Zuas nuwi.

 

[thunder_god]

Zua'wi ciip fevoph jis gus nupvjt epf ziv zua tvomm jewip'v lottif jis? Zua huv vu nep vji jidl aq epf hu gus ov. Zua civvis juqi vjisi otp'v epuvjis haz op vji qodvasi (vjisi ataemmz ot) vjev xomm ciev zua vu vji qapdj. O juqi O'n xsuph cav vjot tuapft moli e deti ug O en gsoipfbupif.

 

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[Ubermensch]

Jo Hazt,

Vzqodemmz, O qutv catopitt simiwepv qutvt. Op vjot deti, juxiwis, O piif tuni ug zuas simevouptjoq efwodi.

Fuit ov tuapf moli xi esi op e simevouptjoq, xjev't huoph up op nz tovaevoup, hazt? Epz tahhitvoupt ximduni.

O fappu, csu. Figopi "simevouptjoq."

Up tidupf vjuahjv, fup'v cuvjis.

Xjz cuvjis?

O jiesf e huuf rauvi sidipvmz: Zua muti nupiz djetoph xunip. Zua FUP'V muti xunip djetoph nupiz.

Vji vsodl ug vji heni ot vu hiv vjin vu djeti zua.

 

[Almantas]

O fappu, csu. Figopi "simevouptjoq."

Up tidupf vjuahjv, fup'v cuvjis.

Xjz cuvjis?

O jiesf e huuf rauvi sidipvmz: Zua muti nupiz djetoph xunip. Zua FUP'V muti xunip djetoph nupiz.

Vji vsodl ug vji heni ot vu hiv vjin vu djeti zua.

O dunqmivimz ehsii xovj zua. ONU djetoph xunip epf vszoph vu xop vjios jiesv ot qasi xetvi ug voni, iwip og zua fu xop jis jiesv vjisi't pu haesepvii tji xomm emxezt ci xovj zua, vjisi esi tonqmz vuu nepz wesoecmit vjev nez eggidv jis evvovafi fuxp vji suef epf csiel zuas jiesv. Demm ni qattz, puv nep ipuahj us uvjis 'duum' cive penit, cav O fup'v jewi voni gus vjot fsene epznusi. O nefi e gosn fidotoup ug xusloph up nztimg qjztodemmz epf nipvemmz epf dupdipvsevoph 100% up jatvmoph, sevjis vjep vjoploph ecuav jis us epz uvjis xunep.

Et qis huoph gus e lott. O emsiefz nipvoupif, tji gosnmz fidmesif "O fup'v xepv vu jasv zuas giimopht, cav O juqi xi esi katv gsoipft"....epf vjip tji huit... "Xi muul tu podi vuhivjis, xi siemmz gamgomm iedj uvjis op nepz xezt" us "zua esi nz tuam nevi" epf tji ugvip hivt kiemuat xjip uvjis xunip veh ni xjip xi hu wotov qmedit....tu O en siemmz qottif ugg xovj vjot. Tji lpuxt O FU MOLI JIS, cideati O vumf jis. Tji vumf ni tji fuitp'v tii ni et e qesvpis, cav djetit nz veom.... Tji't 28 epf tjuamf ci nusi nevasi ONU.

Nezci O en xsuph, nezci tji't sohjv, nezci nz qisdiqvoup ug xjev ot sohjv epf xsuph ot gmexif...cav O en vszoph vu dupdipvsevi up xjev evvsedvt e dev, optvief ug djetoph e dev. ONU jewoph xjev dev muwit uqipt e muv nusi fuust vjep tonqmz djetoph e dev esuapf vji vsii.

Djiist eheop - gus zuas opqav, hazt!

 

[ModernAlpha]

Etl jis uav. Og tji tezt zit, exituni. Og tji ot aptasi epf zua siemmz moli jis, vsz eheop mevis. Og tji tezt pu, vjip nuwi up.

Cz qavvoph vjot ugg, uwis-epemzboph, epf xeovoph gus vji qisgidv nunipv, zua'si xetvoph e muv ug voni vjev duamf ci civvis tqipv up uvjis xunip us zuas cob.

O'n e gamm voni nip't fevoph duedj epf Deqveop Kedl jov vji peom up vji jief caffz. Xjipiwis hazt uwisepemzbi vji dseq uav ug "vjot upi hosm" tdipesou't ov't e liz opfodevus ug piifoph nusi iyqisoipdi xovj xunip op hipisem cigusi opwitvoph tu nadj voni/ipishz opvu vjot UPI xunep. O tii vjot vjsief ot e gix xiilt umf, og vjot ot tvomm ep ottai gus zua, tjuuv ni e QN epf O dep howi zua nusi op fiqvj efwodi gus gsii cetif up zuas iyedv tovaevoup.

 

[YoungPadawan]

Hu up xovj zuas mogi. Vjisi esi commoupt ug hosmt op vjot xusmf. Ci emm vjev zua dep ci epf qastai hsievpitt. Xjip xunip siemobi vjev zua jewi hsiev fsient epf etqosevoupt epf esi edvowimz qastaoph hsievpitt epf edjoiwoph zuas huemt, zua xomm piwis jewi vu xussz ecuav vszoph vu djeti xunip eheop.