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Humans are wired for “omg what if I fail” thinking. Losses are felt stronger than gains and so most of us focus on “safety”.
Problem is, when you have a lot of safety, you play too much defence. Ironically the best defence is offence. And that’s where it falls apart for so many.
This may be a great fortuitous thing indeed or a start to a few bad habits. It depends… I found that in life nothing motivates like desperation. When you have nothing to fall back on, like the story of Cortez wrecking his ships so the only way back was to defeat the Aztecs.
I am not saying to ruin your life putting a bet at a casino on red with all the money you got + borrowed. I am saying that too many people focus on failing too damn munch.
We humans are creative creatures. Don’t believe me? Look at what we’ve accomplished on this planet in terms of inventions. That same creativity is useful in business problem solving. Even if thing go bad (and they always do!), there is always a way forward, a way to solve for it. But if the safety net is comfortable , our lizard brain takes the easy out. Creativity is replaced with “but I’m only human, I did what I could” giving up.
That’s why I advocate for people to focus on success. Even your back up plan should be about success. And the back up to the back up plan too.
This.
Problem is, when you have a lot of safety, you play too much defence. Ironically the best defence is offence. And that’s where it falls apart for so many.
I'm in a fortunate position where I can take a whole year off work and focus on this as needed.
This may be a great fortuitous thing indeed or a start to a few bad habits. It depends… I found that in life nothing motivates like desperation. When you have nothing to fall back on, like the story of Cortez wrecking his ships so the only way back was to defeat the Aztecs.
I am not saying to ruin your life putting a bet at a casino on red with all the money you got + borrowed. I am saying that too many people focus on failing too damn munch.
We humans are creative creatures. Don’t believe me? Look at what we’ve accomplished on this planet in terms of inventions. That same creativity is useful in business problem solving. Even if thing go bad (and they always do!), there is always a way forward, a way to solve for it. But if the safety net is comfortable , our lizard brain takes the easy out. Creativity is replaced with “but I’m only human, I did what I could” giving up.
That’s why I advocate for people to focus on success. Even your back up plan should be about success. And the back up to the back up plan too.
go in with the conviction that you will win.
This.