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This guy nailed it.
Also, an individual on this site gets a shout-out!
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dmLTLkCBSN8
This is for anyone that is going through the early self-help stages.
I feel like the stages of self-help are:
1. Consume & Do Nothing
2. Consume & Action Fake
3. Consume & Reflect
4. Real Action & Learn Exponentially
I feel like most people get caught in Step 2 because they never take a step back, stop consuming mindlessly, and reflect on a better path for themselves. This was monumental for me. I realized that I had been doing all this action faking for years and still getting no where.
That was probably my biggest "F this" moment. Following the paths laid out by gurus for YEARS and still hating life. Not ideal. Luckily I got out of the endless cycle and didn't drop thousands on self-help seminars, though I did get pretty close a few times.
Also, an individual on this site gets a shout-out!
This is for anyone that is going through the early self-help stages.
I feel like the stages of self-help are:
1. Consume & Do Nothing
2. Consume & Action Fake
3. Consume & Reflect
4. Real Action & Learn Exponentially
I feel like most people get caught in Step 2 because they never take a step back, stop consuming mindlessly, and reflect on a better path for themselves. This was monumental for me. I realized that I had been doing all this action faking for years and still getting no where.
That was probably my biggest "F this" moment. Following the paths laid out by gurus for YEARS and still hating life. Not ideal. Luckily I got out of the endless cycle and didn't drop thousands on self-help seminars, though I did get pretty close a few times.
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