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<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 55234" data-quote="Antifragile" data-source="post: 1102687" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102687" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102687">Antifragile said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/attachments/53324/" target="_blank">View attachment 53324</a>this guy is a F*cking legend of investing </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>I never understood why anyone put a slob used car salesman like that on TV just to yell and wave his arms about stonks.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">It’s f’ing weird the type of things people will do for YouTube views.<a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/attachments/img_3530-webp.53330/" target="_blank"><img src="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/data/attachments/49/49946-3434b68c121148cf3be1516d484693c7.jpg?hash=M2WkcWTmcU" class="bbImage " style="" alt="IMG_3530.webp" title="IMG_3530.webp" width="272" height="200" loading="lazy" /></a><br /> And it’s also sad that it’s effective.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 125467" data-quote="Jrjohnny" data-source="post: 1102747" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102747" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102747">Jrjohnny said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> It’s f’ing weird the type of things people will do for YouTube views.<a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/attachments/53330/" target="_blank">View attachment 53330</a><br /> And it’s also sad that it’s effective. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> This is the new strategy in marketing where it&#039;s OK to use thumbnails that are complete lies, fabrications, or fake.<br /> <br /> But marketers don&#039;t care because &quot;It&#039;S eFfeCtIve aNd MarKetinG GurU SaiD it OK To MaKE ShiT uP.&quot;<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 125591" data-quote="Nostalgia" data-source="post: 1102692" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102692" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102692">Nostalgia said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> How do you get the speedway pass role? </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> I believe 100+ posts.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 125467" data-quote="Jrjohnny" data-source="post: 1102747" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102747" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102747">Jrjohnny said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> It’s f’ing weird the type of things people will do for YouTube views.<a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/attachments/53330/" target="_blank">View attachment 53330</a><br /> And it’s also sad that it’s effective. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>It works, but it&#039;s very shortsighted. It&#039;s similar to prioritizing shareholders over customers: it makes more money in the short term at a huge loss in the long term. I&#039;ve definitely watched videos with fabricated thumbnails so it got a view. But then I blocked the channel entirely.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 43957" data-quote="Jon822" data-source="post: 1102815" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102815" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102815">Jon822 said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> It works, but it&#039;s very shortsighted. It&#039;s similar to prioritizing shareholders over customers: it makes more money in the short term at a huge loss in the long term. I&#039;ve definitely watched videos with fabricated thumbnails so it got a view. But then I blocked the channel entirely. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>But more is at risk: reputation.<br /> <br /> Reputation is what holds everything together. If you have the cure to cancer and know how to sell but have a bad reputation, good luck getting blood out of a stone.<br /> <br /> Many YouTubers with clickbait content have been hated on, and removed.<br /> <br /> Basically: don’t mess up your reputation or else if you mess it up your screwed</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">Hi everyone,<br /> <br /> I&#039;m looking for very experienced developers to speak with on the phone.<br /> <br /> Ideally, those that understand api integrations and are full stack developers..<br /> <br /> I am really trying to figure out how to get something I need built, and what I should realistically be expecting to pay. some people are telling me $2000 some $20000 I really don&#039;t know who to believe. <br /> <br /> We have customers who are waiting to buy this product but we need this one feature..<br /> <br /> Anyone? or anyone know someone? Thank you</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 1" data-quote="MJ DeMarco" data-source="post: 1102811" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102811" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102811">MJ DeMarco said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> This is the new strategy in marketing where it&#039;s OK to use thumbnails that are complete lies, fabrications, or fake.<br /> <br /> But marketers don&#039;t care because &quot;It&#039;S eFfeCtIve aNd MarKetinG GurU SaiD it OK To MaKE ShiT uP.&quot; </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> The saddest thing is that this is almost a requirement at this point. If you don&#039;t use it, your video will be most likely ignored. In the end, it&#039;s always the same thing with every platform. People who deceive, manipulate, or don&#039;t care about ethics are on top.<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 43957" data-quote="Jon822" data-source="post: 1102815" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102815" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102815">Jon822 said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> It works, but it&#039;s very shortsighted. It&#039;s similar to prioritizing shareholders over customers: it makes more money in the short term at a huge loss in the long term. I&#039;ve definitely watched videos with fabricated thumbnails so it got a view. But then I blocked the channel entirely. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> On average, I&#039;d imagine that if you were to analyze 1,000 successful channels, probably at least 80% of them would use some kind of a fabricated thumbnail. So I think it works over the long term as well. People are just used to this, even if it annoys them.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 104487" data-quote="mikecarlooch" data-source="post: 1102822" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102822" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102822">mikecarlooch said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Hi everyone,<br /> <br /> I&#039;m looking for very experienced developers to speak with on the phone.<br /> <br /> Ideally, those that understand api integrations and are full stack developers..<br /> <br /> I am really trying to figure out how to get something I need built, and what I should realistically be expecting to pay. some people are telling me $2000 some $20000 I really don&#039;t know who to believe.<br /> <br /> We have customers who are waiting to buy this product but we need this one feature..<br /> <br /> Anyone? or anyone know someone? Thank you </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> You&#039;re welcome to talk to me if you like. I have significant full stack experience and have also worked with API integrations extensively. You can see my github here: <a href="https://github.com/richpeck" target="_blank" class="link link--external" rel="noopener">richpeck - Overview</a><br /> <br /> Some API integration code, if you wanted to see an example of previous work, is below.<br /> <br /> This is the top part of a script which takes Shopify order data and pushes it to Google Sheets. Presently, what you see is production code but we&#039;ll be moving to a more substantive engine soon so no problem in me sharing it: -<br /> <br /> <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/attachments/code2-webp.53343/" target="_blank"><img src="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/data/attachments/49/49959-487c747589f5f699cfa093fc6c87c1de.jpg?hash=o5CQBiGmsH" class="bbImage " style="" alt="code2.jpg" title="code2.jpg" width="237" height="200" loading="lazy" /></a><br /> <br /> I&#039;d be happy to look over what you need and provide suggestions on an appropriate way to approach it - you&#039;re welcome to DM if you want. No need to pay for advice.<br /> <br /> I am in the UK so would need to do Skype, Google Meets etc if you wanted to talk directly.</div>
 
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<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 5905" data-quote="MTF" data-source="post: 1102883" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102883" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102883">MTF said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> The saddest thing is that this is almost a requirement at this point. If you don&#039;t use it, your video will be most likely ignored. In the end, it&#039;s always the same thing with every platform. People who deceive, manipulate, or don&#039;t care about ethics are on top.<br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> On average, I&#039;d imagine that if you were to analyze 1,000 successful channels, probably at least 80% of them would use some kind of a fabricated thumbnail. So I think it works over the long term as well. People are just used to this, even if it annoys them. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 47734" data-quote="Black_Dragon43" data-source="post: 1102890" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102890" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102890">Black_Dragon43 said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> And when I say this, the fastlane community flogs me <img src="/community/imgs/emoticons/em-rofl.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="ROFL :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /> (esp. <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/members/72777/" class="username" data-xf-init="member-tooltip" data-user-id="72777" data-username="@BizyDad">@BizyDad</a>) </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Since I was tagged, just for clarity. I &quot;flog&quot; when I perceive BD telling people this is how they should be to compete. I perceive MTF to be bemoaning a general state of affairs, not espousing a &quot;can&#039;t beat &#039;em, join &#039;em&quot; philosophy.<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="member: 5905" data-quote="MTF" data-source="post: 1102883" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102883" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102883">MTF said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> On average, I&#039;d imagine that if you were to analyze 1,000 successful channels, probably at least 80% of them would use some kind of a fabricated thumbnail. So I think it works over the long term as well. People are just used to this, even if it annoys them. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> FWIW, not sure what spaces you guys are in, but I haven&#039;t noticed this to be an issue on the YT channels I frequent. I suspect this advice hasn&#039;t seeped out there to &quot;everyone&quot; and is more a reflection of the niches you guys are looking through.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 72777" data-quote="BizyDad" data-source="post: 1102959" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102959" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102959">BizyDad said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> FWIW, not sure what spaces you guys are in, but I haven&#039;t noticed this to be an issue on the YT channels I frequent. I suspect this advice hasn&#039;t seeped out there to &quot;everyone&quot; and is more a reflection of the niches you guys are looking through. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> Yeah I mostly tend to watch videos in the &quot;I love watching your mouth wide open in shock&quot; niche and &quot;let&#039;s use a half-naked beautiful woman who doesn&#039;t appear in the video to sell it&quot; niche.<br /> <br /> Jokes aside, I&#039;ve seen it in business, investment, fitness, self-improvement, language learning, and many more niches. Not necessarily from the channels I follow but the stuff I get recommended by YouTube.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 72777" data-quote="BizyDad" data-source="post: 1102959" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102959" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102959">BizyDad said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> FWIW, not sure what spaces you guys are in, but I haven&#039;t noticed this to be an issue on the YT channels I frequent. I suspect this advice hasn&#039;t seeped out there to &quot;everyone&quot; and is more a reflection of the niches you guys are looking through. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>I was just trying trying to watch some NFL week 17 highlights<img src="/community/imgs/emoticons/em-cringe.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":arghh:" title="Arghh :arghh:" data-shortname=":arghh:" /></div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">Found on my today&#039;s DailySumo, words of wisdom for everyone, not just young people...<br /> <br /> The thing is... I tend to view the world differently just every few years, I don&#039;t need 30.<br /> <br /> <a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/attachments/1704391592771-webp.53351/" target="_blank"><img src="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/data/attachments/49/49967-18dc875c8a6dfff7c02194e27cc29c0b.jpg?hash=ESVe19TWTn" class="bbImage " style="" alt="1704391592771.webp" title="1704391592771.webp" width="200" height="412" loading="lazy" /></a></div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 47734" data-quote="Black_Dragon43" data-source="post: 1103101" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1103101" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1103101">Black_Dragon43 said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Buuuuut, if people who are unethical are on top, doesn’t that mean that you should be willing to be unethical if you want to climb to the top? I’m usually simply telling people that if they want to reach the very pinnacle of success materially speaking, then holding fast to their moral principles will be a hindrance.<br /> <br /> This doesn’t mean that there won’t be people for whom their moral values will be more important than success. Nor does it mean that material success should be more important than moral values. Just that IF success is more important than moral values, then you should be willing to do what it takes. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Hello Black Dragon,<br /> Having read your post, I suspect that you are correct.<br /> <br /> However, I that that where BizyDad has a problem is in this logical leap:<br /> <br /> &quot;if they want to reach the very pinnacle of success&quot; -----&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; &quot;that IF success is more important than moral values&quot;.<br /> <br /> Not speaking from experience, I suspect that you can reach a net worth of $10bn without needing to do anything unethical, it just seems to me that there is that much opportunity in the world.<br /> <br /> So, in terms of advice given on this forum, no-one here (AFAIK) needs to think in terms of compromising ethics in order to achieve material results, it just doesn&#039;t apply to us. (Or Youtubers who aren&#039;t on the forum).<br /> <br /> However, if Elon Musk came back to the forum and asked us &quot;Have you got any ideas on how I can become a trillionaire?&quot; and we worked out that the money was very important to him, then we might give him your advice that he would need to do whatever it takes to get that result.<br /> <br /> It&#039;s worth mentioning though that going from $250bn to $1trn net worth, wouldn&#039;t improve someone&#039;s quality of life. It would just be an ego trip or some kind of power play.<br /> <br /> As an aside, I suspect that if you want to do well in politics in the western world, that having ethics would be a hindrance. It certainly looks that way to me in the UK anyway.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 104487" data-quote="mikecarlooch" data-source="post: 1102822" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1102822" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1102822">mikecarlooch said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Hi everyone,<br /> <br /> I&#039;m looking for very experienced developers to speak with on the phone.<br /> <br /> Ideally, those that understand api integrations and are full stack developers..<br /> <br /> I am really trying to figure out how to get something I need built, and what I should realistically be expecting to pay. some people are telling me $2000 some $20000 I really don&#039;t know who to believe.<br /> <br /> We have customers who are waiting to buy this product but we need this one feature..<br /> <br /> Anyone? or anyone know someone? Thank you </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><a href="https://www.thefastlaneforum.com/community/members/6168/" class="username" data-xf-init="member-tooltip" data-user-id="6168" data-username="@FastNAwesome">@FastNAwesome</a> ?</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 47734" data-quote="Black_Dragon43" data-source="post: 1103101" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1103101" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1103101">Black_Dragon43 said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Buuuuut, if people who are unethical are on top, doesn’t that mean that you should be willing to be unethical if you want to climb to the top? I’m usually simply telling people that if they want to reach the very pinnacle of success materially speaking, then holding fast to their moral principles will be a hindrance.<br /> <br /> This doesn’t mean that there won’t be people for whom their moral values will be more important than success. Nor does it mean that material success should be more important than moral values. Just that IF success is more important than moral values, then you should be willing to do what it takes. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Reminds me of the book &quot;Give and Take&quot;. The Givers are at the bottom as they don&#039;t look out for themselves. The Matchers and Takers are ahead of them. The Givers appear again at the top. They Give, but have boundaries.<br /> <br /> It&#039;s a book of course, but he did a load of studies.<br /> <br /> At the end of the day I feel it&#039;s down to what we choose to believe, the type of life we want to live, and the type of person we aspire to be.</div>
 
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<div class="bbWrapper">If you&#039;ve done the certification courses DigitalMarketer offers, did you, your employer, or others find them valuable? <br /> <br /> Because I&#039;m about to do a sprint from January to April 2024 to learn/relearn as much about marketing as possible, I need to be selective with where I put my time and energy.<br /> <br /> Are there other learning resources you recommend? Thank you!</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">Some people are just on another level.<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="" data-quote="" data-source="" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Ioannis Ikonomou (Greek: Ιωάννης Οικονόμου; born 1964) is a Greek translator who has been working for the European Commission in Brussels since 2002.[1] Considered a notable contemporary example of a polyglot, <b>he knows 32 living languages </b>including Greek, English, German, Italian, Spanish, French, Finnish, Danish, Russian, Swahili, Hebrew, Arabic, Mandarin and Bengali, and reportedly <b>as many as 47 languages including dead languages</b> like Old Church Slavonic. He speaks 21 out of 24 official EU languages.<br /> <br /> (...)<br /> <br /> Inspired by foreign tourists visiting Crete,[7] he began to study foreign languages at a young age: English at age five, when he moved to Athens with his family, German at seven, Italian at 10, Russian at 13, East African Swahili at 14, and Turkish at 16.[8] <b>He had learned 15 languages by the age of 20.</b> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote></div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 5905" data-quote="MTF" data-source="post: 1103266" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1103266" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1103266">MTF said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Some people are just on another level. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> Alien DNA.<br /> <br /> Joking aside, I think these people have access to areas of the brain most of us do not.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 1" data-quote="MJ DeMarco" data-source="post: 1103270" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1103270" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1103270">MJ DeMarco said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Joking aside, I think these people have access to areas of the brain most of us do not. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> What I find most impressive is that he could speak 15 languages by the time he was 20. Most people don&#039;t even speak properly their own native language when they&#039;re 20 lol.<br /> <br /> I can currently speak 3 languages and am learning the fourth (and can speak it a little already). I think that my practical limit (to keep them fresh and not forget any) is probably 5-6 langues at most. I can&#039;t imagine maintaining 32 languages.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 5905" data-quote="MTF" data-source="post: 1103273" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1103273" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1103273">MTF said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Most people don&#039;t even speak properly their own native language when they&#039;re 20 lol. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Lol. More like ever. <br /> <br /> I&#039;m going to say only 60 percent of people are fluent and literate in a single language.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">The following is from <a href="https://freedivingsafety.com/" target="_blank" class="link link--external" rel="noopener">a freediving newsletter</a> but this is such powerful life advice (also applies to this forum):<br /> <br /> <blockquote data-attributes="" data-quote="" data-source="" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> As someone who has been a full-time instructor since 2005 and taught over 1,000 students, I think I&#039;m qualified to give you some advice on<b> how to get the most out of your freediving class.<br /> <br /> <br /> LISTEN!</b><br /> <br /> <br /> It&#039;s a simple word, it&#039;s a simple action, but I&#039;m shocked to see how much energy some students put into NOT LISTENING.<br /> <br /> <br /> Constantly looking at their phone. Your &quot;twitters&quot; are not as important as the $1,000 you spent on the class.<br /> <br /> <br /> Combative &amp; argumentative attitude:<br /> <br /> <br /> &quot;That won&#039;t work for me.&quot;<br /> <br /> <br /> &quot;No one I know does that.&quot;<br /> <br /> <br /> &quot;That won&#039;t work for spearfishing.&quot;<br /> <br /> <br /> &quot;That has too many steps.&quot;<br /> <br /> <br /> &quot;Why can&#039;t I just do it my way?&quot;<br /> <br /> <br /> Some of my students are awesome, but I&#039;m amazed at how much energy some students put into not learning.<br /> <br /> <br /> <b>My advice is simple: listen.<br /> <br /> <br /> Here are 4 great goals for your class:</b><br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> <br /> #1<b> I want to absorb more information</b> from this instructor than anyone in the class.<br /> <br /> <br /> #2<b> I want to implement the techniques </b>the instructor is teaching more than any other student in the class.<br /> <br /> <br /> #3<b> I commit to raising my hand and asking a question</b> if I&#039;m unsure of something during the classroom or pool session.<br /> <br /> <br /> #4 <b>I commit to asking for more feedback</b> if I think I&#039;m not executing a technique correctly.<br /> <br /> <br /> That&#039;s how you get your money&#039;s worth from a class. Notice there is a competitive aspect to these goals. Absorb more than anyone, implement more than anyone.<br /> <br /> <br /> Many freediving students are hyper-competitive, so now you have a worthy goal to compete for as opposed to diving deeper than everyone or holding your breath longer than everyone.<br /> <br /> <br /> Most students goals are:<br /> <br /> <br /> I want to <b>dive to the maximum depth</b> of the class.<br /> <br /> <br /> I want to <b>hold my breath to the maximum</b> allowed in the class.<br /> <br /> <br /> I want to prove to everyone in the class that <b>I know more than anyone.</b> - <i>these people are the worst </i><script class="js-extraPhrases" type="application/json"> { "lightbox_close": "Close", "lightbox_next": "Next", "lightbox_previous": "Previous", "lightbox_error": "The requested content cannot be loaded. 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<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 5905" data-quote="MTF" data-source="post: 1103266" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1103266" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1103266">MTF said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Some people are just on another level. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote><br /> Yeah, this is why it’s very difficult to change or convince someone’s religious/political and world views.<br /> <br /> I remember when I was 16 years old I used to always hear a loud a$$ train pass by in the middle of the night. It was clearly a train hauling a$$ blowing its air horn. And yet, there is no train in that area. There is no train even close. I would ask my family if they heard anything and they would say no.<br /> <br /> Later I found a Facebook group that someone made making fun of the mysterious train that passes by at 3am. “The train that passes by XYZ area at 3am” . We would all make fun of and be dumb struck at how we all hear a train in the middle of the night. It was bizarre. Like WTF? Only certain people would hear it. <br /> <br /> Some people are just wired to access certain parts of reality and others are not.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper">Is there a preferred book on how to write a non-fiction book? I see there are many books on Amazon, none of them appeared to stand out. Is there a &quot;standard&quot; or &quot;bible&quot;? This would be for a book demonstrating how some computer algorithms work.<br /> <br /> I&#039;m mostly concerned about all the legalese and attributions in the first few pages of a technical book.<br /> <br /> On a side note, I find myself skipping over almost all &quot;Kindle Unlimited&quot; books that I could read for free. I have read so many that were garbage, I actually look for books that cost some money to read. With the Kindle Unlimited, the books may be free, but my time isn&#039;t, so I gave up on them. Has anyone else experienced this?</div>
 
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<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 1" data-quote="MJ DeMarco" data-source="post: 1103270" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1103270" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1103270">MJ DeMarco said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Alien DNA.<br /> <br /> Joking aside, I think these people have access to areas of the brain most of us do not. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>That&#039;s the crux of it. But it&#039;s there and interest is the key to unlocking it. Individual potential is so underestimated.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 5905" data-quote="MTF" data-source="post: 1103277" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1103277" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1103277">MTF said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> The following is from <a href="https://freedivingsafety.com/" target="_blank" class="link link--external" rel="nofollow ugc noopener">a freediving newsletter</a> but this is such powerful life advice (also applies to this forum): </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Yep. That&#039;s a frustration for all instructors and coaches, regardless of subject.</div>
 
<div class="bbWrapper"><blockquote data-attributes="member: 23590" data-quote="Andy Black" data-source="post: 1103546" class="bbCodeBlock bbCodeBlock--expandable bbCodeBlock--quote js-expandWatch"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-title"> <a href="/community/goto/post?id=1103546" class="bbCodeBlock-sourceJump" rel="nofollow" data-xf-click="attribution" data-content-selector="#post-1103546">Andy Black said:</a> </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-content"> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandContent js-expandContent "> Yep. That&#039;s a frustration for all instructors and coaches, regardless of subject. </div> <div class="bbCodeBlock-expandLink js-expandLink"><a role="button" tabindex="0">Click to expand...</a></div> </div> </blockquote>Yup. Here’s a surprisingly common lesson problem I run into:<br /> <br /> Me: play it slower<br /> Student plays at the same speed<br /> Me: no, I said play it slower<br /> Student plays faster<br /> Me: no, slower *demonstrates*<br /> Student: oh, you mean play it slowly<br /> <br /> I’m convinced 90% of my in person teaching over the last decade could be replaced with a tape recorder that alternates between “do it again” and “play it slowly”</div>
 
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