Stop getting married because you think "its what people do". No. Screw that. Thats IMO a huge reason why so many marriages fail. Pressure to get married in the first place. Being married is not "work". Not in the way some make it out to be. If you feel it is, you probably have a shitty marriage. You probably don't enjoy the company of the person you married. You probably got married to someone you like, not someone you love. Maybe you felt you were getting to an age where you "gotta do it, all my friends are". Stop it. Be together for a good looooong time before getting married, see if you still enjoy each other by then. Live together for a loooong time before getting married. See if its still a good idea.
Me and my fiance have been together for 15 years and have lived together for 10 years. We got engaged 8 years ago to no fan fare. No newspaper write ups. We have been through more together then many of these divorced couples could dream of and are still going strong in large part because we have each other.
Someday we will probably file the paperwork. But who really cares? We have other things to focus on for now.
Me and my fiance have been together for 15 years and have lived together for 10 years. We got engaged 8 years ago to no fan fare. No newspaper write ups. We have been through more together then many of these divorced couples could dream of and are still going strong in large part because we have each other.
Someday we will probably file the paperwork. But who really cares? We have other things to focus on for now.
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