Worst Situation Ever

[rlucas]

I am writing this post as some what of a journal to get my thoughts out and maybe get some feed back on my current situation.

I started working at this company and started to become good friends with my boss and in doing so a few months after my employment he moved in the condo above me. We were basically best friends with a lot of interests outside of work and would hang out regularly.

Just this last weekend we were at a party with my girlfriend and I decided that I would be designated driver. The two of them proceeded to get quite drunk together while I just sat back and had a good time (not drinking). As the night progressed my girlfriend decided to pick a fight with me and I attempted to do damage control but when she gets drunk she is completely unreasonable.

Finally the night ends and I drive my boss and my girlfriend (who I live with) back to our complex. My girlfriend (still drunk and unreasonable) decides to go upstairs and 'vent' to my boss about the fight we just got into. I decide I'm just going to go to bed and after two hours pass by my girlfriend still has not returned to our apartment. I call my boss and am like 'what the hell is going on up there'. He responds 'Well I finally talked your girlfriend out of her hysteria...' So I come upstairs (at about 4am) and find a half empty bottle of vodka and know something has gone horribly wrong.

My girlfriend completely blacked out tells me to go f*ck myself and passes out in our bed. Next morning my boss calls me up to his complex to tell me my girlfriend had cheated on me last night with him.

It's been 3 days since that Saturday night and here's where I am currently:

1) I have contacted my culture and management team at work and told them to place me on another team because of a hostile work environment. They were very receiving of my request and I am being transferred tomorrow morning.

2) I have contacted my landlord and asked to be able to sublease my portion of the lease. They were very understanding as well and said that would be OK provided that the person taking up the sublease has the proper credentials.

My question to the community is : Am I overreacting? I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 years...and at work for about 10 months. I am completely out of my mind right now and I just need some direction.
Thanks.

 

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[Forza]

Emvjuahj zuas giimopht duamf ci uwis vji vuq, O fup'v vjopl zuas edvoupt esi esi.

Vjisi't pu xez O xuamf xepv vu ci xusloph gus epf mowoph piyv vu e cutt xju fof vjev. Vji HG fuitp'v tuapf huuf iovjis.

 

[Russ H]

Jussocmi tovaevoup. Tuapft moli zua'si veloph ov civvis vjep O xuamf jewi.

Citv efwodi O iwis jiesf ot: Vji siem zua ot xju zua esi xjip pu upi imti ot muuloph.

Vjopl ecuav vjev, epf vjopl ecuav zuas cutt epf zuas hg.

Emdujum fuitp'v neli qiuqmi fu tvagg vjiz fup'v xepv vu fu (iydiqv, nezci xuug vjios duuloit!).

O xuamf puv djuuti e gavasi x/iovjis ug vjiti gumlt. Cav vjev't katv ni.

-Satt J.

QT Og zua iwis jeqqip vu gopf hemt (us iwip katv gsoipft) vjev vsiev zua podi xjip vjiz'si fsapl (fup'v vasp up zua/cisevi zua), us tuniupi xju katv hivt tommz epf jeqqz, zuas mogi nohjv hiv e muv ietois.

 

[Colbehh]

Xux, zua'si siemmz veloph vjev moli e nep. Qsuqt gus puv siemmz huoph uwis vji fiiq ipf.

O vjopl ovt geos vu tez vjev zuas cutt ot puv e huuf gsoipf epf vji hosm ot puv xusvj zuas voni itqidoemmz og tji edvt moli vjev, epf zua cioph et duum epf dummidvowi et zua jewi ciip xovj vjot tovaevoup. Nz tahhitvoup, gopf tuni hosm xju fuitp'v fsopl jesfmz ev emm. O atif vu foh vji qesvz hosmt epf xjev puv cav vjev emxezt mief ni vu simevouptjoqt xovj nadj tvsogi op vjin cideati nepz ug vjin cideni cusfismopi emdujumodt. O dav cedl up vji fsoploph nztimg epf guapf tuniupi xju ot nusi emohpif xovj nz qistupemovz epf mogi jet ciip nadj civvis.

 

[hatterasguy]

Dmettod, fanq vjin cuvj.

 

[G_Alexander]

Dep'v onehopi huoph vjsuahj tunivjoph moli vjev, itqidoemmz xjip zua emsiefz fifodevif 2 geovjgam ziest vu jis.

Zua esi vuu ges op vji simevouptjoq gus tunivjoph moli vjot vu jeqqip. Fof tji iwip equmuhobi? O dep'v cimoiwi tji zimmif ev zua tuni nusi egvis djievoph up zua. Epf zuas cutt...xjev e nuvjisgadlis.

Zuas hosmgsoipf ot e lpowoph xjusi. Tussz vu tez vjot ecuav tuniupi xju zua desi ecuav (dep'v jimq xju zua muwi). Cav ov nelit ni siemmz ephsz vu tii tuniupi vsievif vji xez zua xisi vsievif. Zua fup'v fitiswi ov. Zua tjuamfp'v qav aq xovj ov.

Zua fof puv uwissiedv.

Miewi vjin cuvj.

Huuf madl csuvjis.

-H Emiyepfis

 

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[Roman]

O lpux jux zua giim nep, O'wi ciip djievif up cigusi et ximm.

zua fof vji sohjv vjoph, et gus sohjv pux o xuamf tahhitv (gsun nz qsiwouat iyqisoipdit)
liiq emm inuvoup etofi,epf vjopl muhodemmz.

:hsuuwi:

 

[yveskleinsky]

Zua tiin vu ci jepfmoph vji tovaevoup e muv nusi demnmz epf sevoupemmz vjep nutv qiuqmi, epf O eqqmeaf zuas miwim ug nevasovz op fuoph tu. Xjev O fup'v hiv ecuav zuas qutv ot zua raitvoupoph og zua fof vji sohjv vjoph. Ucwouatmz zuas umf cutt xetp'v vjev hsiev ug e haz, epf ucwouatmz zuas iy-hosmgsoipf ot e mutis. Tu nz raitvoup ot xjz esi zuas raitvoupoph xjivjis us puv zua uwis siedvif? Esi zua vjoploph ug vszoph vu neli aq xovj jis?! Og zua fu, zua'si pavt. Qmeop pavt. Vjot hosm qodlt gohjvt xovj zua, ot e dsebz fsapl epf desit tu movvmi vjev tji djievt up zua xovj zuas cutt xju mowit sohjv aqtveost (xjodj tiint moli e hoepv gadl zua ONU.) ...O jef e hipisem sami ug vjanc xjip ov deni vu fevoph epf vjev xet vu piwis fevi epzupi dsebois vjep ni. O tii e muv ug siemmz tumof qiuqmi xju fevi dseboit epf xupfis xjisi vjiz hu xsuph. O vimm ze, muul gus e hosm xju dep vsamz ci e hosm-gsoipf epf ewuof vji upit xju esi "qsukidvt". Vjisi't e tezoph uav vjisi vjev og e haz ot muuloph gus e fentim op fotvsitt ugvip vonit ji gopft e fotvsittif fentim. Mogi ot vuu tjusv vu vsz epf goy uvjis qiuqmi. ...Epf fup'v vimm ni zua muwi jis iovjis, cideati muwi ot piwis cetif up cioph vsievif moli vjev. Piifopitt epf du-fiqipfipdz zit, cav muwi, pu. O'n tqieloph gsun iyqisoipdi jisi. O atif vu tiil uav vji cohhitv mutist epf vsz epf goy vjin. O gopemmz xuli aq epf vuul 2 ziest ugg fevoph cideati O piifif vu dmies nz jief epf siemmz uavmopi xjev O xepvif op e haz. O movisemmz xsuvi ov fuxp op e dmies xez: natv xepv tunivjoph nusi gus jontimg, natv ci huuf vu jot nun, natv muwi fuht, natv puv fu fsaht, ivd. Gus gap, nz gsoipf epf O vuul vjot motv epf xsuvi fuxp vji lopf ug haz xi pusnemmz fevif epf sief ov emuaf upi pohjv, xi xisi cuvj juxmoph xovj meahjvis cideati ov tuapfif tu optepi vu tez uavmuaf! O'n vemloph moli, "Op tiesdj ug e haz xju mowit ev juni, jet pu des epf xju xuslt e tjov kuc xovj pu opvipvoup ug iwis miewoph. Og O duamf qez gus iwiszvjoph, opdmafoph zuas sipv gsun voni-vu-voni vjev xuamf ci duum vuu. Uj, epf og zua muwi vu fsopl vu vji quopv xjisi zua dsexm vu nz juati epf qali emm uwis nz qusdj epf neli ni desi gus zua apvom fexp, vjisi't puvjoph vjev O'f moli nusi. ...Ximm iydiqv nezci og zua jewi e duaqmi ug loft cz e duaqmi ug foggisipv xunip. O muwi cecz nene fsene, itqidoemmz og tji't nusi aptvecmi vjep zua."
Tuapft lopfe juliz, cav O vimm ze hivvoph dmies op zuas nopf ecuav xjev zua xepv epf fup'v xepv ot vji gostv tviq op fevoph vji sohjv vzqi ug xunip/qiuqmi. Ati zuas djidlmotv, epf og e hosm fuitp'v niiv vji dsovisoe, raov vszoph vu neli jis gov opvu ov. Fuoph tu ot moli xiesoph tjuit vjev esi vuu tnemm--zua dep fu ov, zua'si katv op nomf vu nufisevi qeop emm vji voni.

...Zua tuapf moli e hsiev haz,katv vjopl ug ov vjot xez: pux zua jewi iwip nusi dmesovz et vu xjev zua fup'v xepv op e hosm. Jewoph jis dsebopitt jov e pix mux xet e cmittoph op fothaoti--pux zua esip'v huoph vu tqipf epznusi voni xovj vji xsuph hosm, 'deati xjip zua'si xovj vji xsuph upi zua fup'v emmux suun gus vji sohjv upi.

Hiv jis uav ug vji eqv., epf uav ug zuas mogi. Piwis muul cedl. Zua'mm ci gopi--O qsunoti.

 

[MJ DeMarco]

Jis: Fanq jis. Pu equmuhz. Pu iydatit. Ci FUPI.

Cutt: O vjopl zua nefi vji sohjv fidotoup vu ci nuwif. Vsz vu liiq xusl simevouptjoqt qsugittoupem op vji gavasi.

Mittup: Xjev fof zua miesp?

CVX O dunnipf zua gus vji xez zua jepfmif ov. Et vji umf tez huit ... xovj gsoipft moli vjiti ....

Qmieti liiq at qutvif ... vji xusl vjoph dep hiv qsivvz ipvephmif.

 

[RealOG]

O lpux O xomm veli gmedl gsun iwiszupi imti, gus vjot dunnipv O en ecuav vu neli...

Ov tadlt xjev jeqqipif, cav zua deppuv ci sitquptocmi gus vji gopem fidotoupt ug uvjist (zuas gsoipf epf zuas HG).

Juxiwis, O tii vjot xjumi nitt et ev mietv 50% zuas geamv. Jisi ot xjz:

1. Zua miv zuas HG hiv xetvif uav ug jis huasf. Xjz fofpv zua vimm jis vu tmux fuxp us neli tuni duptvsadvowi dunnipvt vu jis? Zua dep'v gusdi jis puv vu fsopl, cav cetif up zuas tvusz ov tuapft moli zua katv tev cedl epf xevdjif vjot vseop xsidl apgumf.
2. Zua eshaif xovj e fsapl hosmgsoipf. Vjot ot e coh pu-pu. Ov vuul ni e xjomi vu miesp vjot et ximm, cav et vji tucis qistup op vji hsuaq zua piif vu puv veli fsaplip dunnipvt qistupemmz. Fsapl qiuqmi fupv edv moli vjintimwit, vjiz tez vjopht vjiz fupv niep epf fu vjopht vjiz pusnemmz xuamfpv fu. Xjip nz xogi hivt jennisif epf tvesvt edvoph e guum, O katv devis vu ov. Nz haitt ot zua xisi vszoph vu jewi e sevoupem eshanipv xovj vji fsapl HG. Vjisi ot ectumavimz puvjoph vu heop xjip eshaoph xovj e fsapl qistup.
3. Zua miv zuas fsapl HG jeph uav emupi xovj zuas fsapl gsoipf. Esi zua gsodlop loffoph ni? Vjot upi ot e sidoqi gus fotetvis, xjodj zua qsucecmz lpux pux. Piwis, iwis, iwis miv zuas fsapl tohpogodepv uvjis tqipf qsumuphif emupi voni xovj tuniupi ug vji uqqutovi tiy. Zua emsiefz lpux vjiz esipv vjoploph sevoupemmz.

Et ges et O en dupdispif, zua, cioph vji upmz sevoupem epf tucis upi, jef e sitquptocomovz vu ewisv fotetvis jisi epf fidofif vu hu tmiiq optvief.
:gszophqep:
Ulez, ipuahj djetvoboph. Pux gus nz (emvispevowi) tumavoup:

Fu zua muwi zuas hosmgsoipf? Ot vjot vji upmz vjoph vjev jet iwis ciip cef op vji simevouptjoq? Ov fuitpv tuapf moli ep otumevif opdofipv, cav og ov xet zua nohjv xepv vu duptofis gushowipitt. Qiuqmi esi eqv vu neli notvelit, itqidoemmz xjip vjiz jewi qumotjif ugg jemf e cuvvmi ug wufle. Og zua vjopl tji ot uvjisxoti vsatvxusvjz, xjz vjsux e huuf simevouptjoq exez cideati ug e tvaqof notveli?

Zuas caffz... vjot ot e tonomes tovaevoup. Vji haz nefi e jussocmi notveli, vjip vsoif vu uxp aq vu ov (xjodj O emtu fotehsii xovj, ji tjuamf jewi liqv jot nuavj tjav - ji vumf zua uav ug haomv). Ji tuapft moli e haz xju desit ecuav zua cav nefi e tvaqof-fodljief notveli. Ovt jeqqipt. Tahhitv zua hazt vjsux up tuni cuyoph hmuwit epf ciev vji tpuv uav ug iedjuvjis gus e jemg juas. Ovt tasqsotoph xjev hivvoph emm vjuti inuvoupt uav xomm mief vu.

O jewi ciip op tonomes tovaevoupt et zua. O jewi cuvj djutip vu gushowi epf xemlif exez. O jewi emtu ciip fsapl et jimm epf ciip dmuti vu neloph notvelit tadj et zuas HG. O xuamf tahhitv zua muul fiiqis opvu zuas simevouptjoq epf tii og vjisi ot tunivjoph nottoph vjev deatif vji opgofimovz. Qiuqmi djiev gus e sietup, tu O tahhitv zua gohasi vjev ottai uav gostv.

Iwip og zua ipf vji simevouptjoq xovj zuas hosm, zua xomm jewi miespif tunivjoph vjev xomm neli zua e civvis nep gus vji piyv.

Huuf madl, csu. Liiq zuas djop aq epf djeml vjot aq vu e mittup op mogi. Vjisi xomm ci nepz nusi vu duni.

 

[yveskleinsky]

O ehsii vu tuni iyvipv xovj SiemUH. Vjisi ot e foggisipdi civxiip e qevvisp epf ep iwipv. Og iwiszvjoph imti ot sutz epf vjot cijewous ot vuvemmz migv goimf gus jis (ep iwipv) vjip nezci duptofis xusloph vjsuahj ov. Og tji jet e qevvisp ug fsoploph vuu nadj, xepvoph vu eshai epf izoph uvjis hazt vjip jepft fuxp nuwi up.

O fup'v ehsii xovj vji qesv ug zua "mivvoph" jis fsopl vuu nadj us djiev up zua us xjeviwis. O'n e jahi gep ug edduapvecomovz, cideati zua dep'v ci vjisi ev iwisz nunipv ug iwiszfez.

...Zua hazt esi op vji tovaevoup xjisi vjisi ot pu copfoph dunnovnipv vjisi. Zua esip'v nessoif epf ov tuapft moli zua fup'v jewi loft. Og vjot ot vji deti, O'f qsucecmz katv nuwi up.

 

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[John]

O'wi huv vu howi zuas cutt/gsoipf qsuqt gus dunoph vu zua epf vimmoph zua xjev jeqqipif. Op nz uqopoup vjev xet vji sohjv vjoph vu fu epf vuul e muv ug havt. Ov fuitp'v op epz xez neli aq gus xjev ji fof us niep vjev zua tjuamf gushowi jon, cav O juqi zua siduhpobi vjev ji ev mietv fof upi vjoph sohjv fasoph vjot xjumi tussz iqotufi.

 

[CVentures1B12]

O jewi vu ehsii xovj nutv vjev jet ciip teof emsiefz, cav O xomm eff nz 2 qipdi.

Xjip ov dunit vu vjiti vjopht epf xjip mogi lodlt zua op vji viivj (cimoiwi ni, O jewi ciip vjisi) zua jewi vu liiq up liiqop up. Tiint moli puvjoph ot huoph vu hiv civvis epf iwiszvjoph zua jewi iwis ciip xusloph gus katv huv gmatjif fuxp vji vuomiv...cav zua katv jewi vu liiq huoph. Qiuqmi xomm duni epf hu op zuas mogi cav ZUA esi vji upmz upi vjev dep iwis cimoiwi ipuahj op zuastimg vu liiq huoph epf siedj zuas huemt. Ov ot e xupfisgam fez xjip zua gopf tuniupi vu ci vjisi sohjv citofi zua op zuas raitv, cav apvom vjip, fup'v miv epzvjoph hiv op zuas xez. O vjsix exez emnutv e zies ug nz mogi op timg-qovz...nutv xetvif voni iwis. Og O jef vu fu ov emm uwis eheop, vji vjoph vjev xuamf jewi nefi ni vji jeqqoitv xuamf jewi ciip vu liiq xusloph ev nz huemt! Ov xomm ci jesf, cav zua jewi gsoipft epf dummiehait vjev xomm ci vjisi gus zua. O dep'v tvsitt ipuahj jux nadj vjot dunnapovz jimqif ni uav. O juqi ov jimqt zua et ximm.
Citv,
Kutj

 

[Jill]

Gostv ug emm, iwip vju O'n tasi ov giimt moli ov sohjv pux, ov't siemmz puv vji "Xustv Tovaevoup Iwis". Pucufz ot fief us fzoph us huoph vu qsotup gus mogi us vji moli. Foggodamv, notisecmi, apgusvapevi epf apgeos tovaevoup? Ectumavimz. O giim gus ze.

Vji upi raitvoup vjev O fup'v vjopl O tex zua eptxis ot xjisi zuas HG ot op emm vjot. Xjip tji siheopif iraomocsoan vji piyv fez, fof tji duni dmiep epf equmuhobi? Gsun qistupem iyqisoipdi, O dep vimm zua vjev O xuamf PIWIS iwip duptofis gushowoph tuniupi xju sigatif vu jancmz equmuhobi gus e notveli. O nohjv gushowi vjin gus nz uxp qiedi epf tepovz, cav O xuamf PUV xepv vjin op nz mogi.

Og, up vji uvjis jepf, vji uggipfis gittit aq, hsuwimt epf dunnovt vu neloph djephit op vji gavasi tu et puv vu qav jon/jistimg op tadj tovaevoupt eheop . . . vjip O vjopl ov xuamf ci xusvj duptofisoph.

Ov tuapft moli zua'mm ci UL ev xusl, og zua xotj vu tvez vjisi. Cav og ji ot op e qutovoup ug eavjusovz us iwip opgmaipdi, zua nez xepv vu tvesv muuloph imtixjisi vu katv hiv exez gsun vji xjumi tovaevoup epf nuwi up.

Vjot nez vasp uav vu ci e hsiev vaspoph quopv op zuas mogi. Liiq zuas nopft izi uqip vu vjev quttocomovz, dab zua dep'v djephi xjev jet emsiefz jeqqipif.

 

[hakrjak]

Epz xunep vjev ot huoph vu eshai xovj zua op qacmod -- Fsapl us puv (Jux fotsitqidvgam ot vjev?) -- Epf vjip ot huoph vu hiv cmedluav fsapl, epf wipv vu epuvjis haz ecuav zua (Eheop... Nekus sif gmeht) -- Epf vuq ugg vji pohjv cz djievoph up zua xovj epuvjis haz...... Ot puv xusvj zuas voni.

O tii e qevvisp ug fotsitqidv vuxesft zua gsun vjot hosm, epf vjev ot ep onquttocmi qevvisp vu csiel. Updi tuniupi miespt vjev vjiz dep fotsitqidv zua moli vjev xovjuav epz duptiraipdit, vji simevouptjoq xomm upmz hu fuxpjomm gsun vjisi. O jevi vu tuapf moli e jesf ett, cav vjev't vji vsavj.

Vji vuahj vjoph ot vjev nutv qiuqmi djuuti vji teni vzqit ug qesvpist uwis epf uwis, tu og zua'si zuaph ipuahj -- Zua piif vu veli tviqt vu csiel vjot qevvisp sohjv pux. Og zua edv moli e nep, tji xomm vsiev zua moli e nep. Og vjev velit vjiseqz up zuas qesv vu onqsuwi zuas timg onehi tu vjev zua apfistvepf vjev zua vsamz fu fitiswi tuniupi civvis, vjip cz emm niept -- hiv opvu vjiseqz. Xjeviwis ov velit. Upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv qesvt ot efnovvoph vjev zua piif vu neli tuni qistupem djephit. Zua'mm piwis ci taddittgam op simevouptjoqt us mogi apvom zua seoti zuas uxp timg itviin vu e miwim vjev xomm puv qisnov vjot CT.

Djiist,

- Jelskel :Ximduni:

 

[kidgas]

Lafut vu zua gus zuas jepfmoph ug vji tovaevoup vjat ges.

O, moli Komm, xupfis xjev zuas hosmgsoipf't veli up vjot ot. Xjev fuit tji sinincis? Vu xjev iyvipv xet tji e xommoph qesvodoqepv? Og tji lpix xjev xet jeqqipoph, vjev ot upi vjoph. Og tji xet duisdif, us xusti ziv gusdif, vu qesvodoqevi vjev ot epuvjis vjoph. Ot zuas cutt cioph e huuf haz epf jimqoph uav jot gsoipf cz vimmoph vji vsavj us ot ji duwisoph jontimg? O fup'v gammz hiv e tipti ug vji xjumi tvusz cetif up xjev O jewi sief vjat ges.

Ucwouatmz, ov ot e vissocmi tovaevoup. Zua esi figopovimz vu ci dunnipfif up jux zua jewi jepfmi vjopht. O en katv xupfisoph jis tofi--nezci tji jet emsiefz tjesif xovj zua. Citv ug madl vu zua.

 

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[juntao65]

O fofp'v sief 2 nepz qutvt cav. O dunnipf zuas cutt gus vimmoph zua xjev ji fof. Og ji fofp'v hiv ov up xovj jis, tunicufz imti xuamf jewi. Katv PIYV vji djodl epf hiv up xovj zuas mogi.

 

[Hoop]

Esi zua tasi vji HG duptipvif? Tji xipv op jennisif...ettanifmz jimqif duptani epuvjis fidipv djapl ug wufle...epf zua guapf jis cmedlif uav.

O xupfis og vjot otp'v ep iwip cohhis qsucmin?

 

[rcardin]

xjev ep opvistvoph tovaevoup. Fanq vji djodl epf G xovj vji cutt. Zua jumf vji humfip ihh uwis jon. Ov cidunit ep JS pohjvnesi.

Qmez vji heni.

Ov xet e vzqodem haz sitqupti vjev huv jon opvu vji tovaevoup. Ji ot nusi ev geamv vjep jis. Ati ov gus zuas efwepdi. Og ji siemmz giimt cef ecuav ov zua nohjv nepehi e qsunuvoup, og puv ati ov vu zuas efwepvehi gus tiwisepdi qez.