Where do you get your beliefs from + help me fix mine

[monnffffiiiiiii]

I tend to struggle with what people find easy to do and the other way around. While I can take action on things (mostly because I just genuinely enjoy doing them), my beliefs are not right. I have results in my business, things are evolving, I have leads and customers, I am earning money. But every time I receive an order, I think "ok, this is my last order, tomorrow, everything will collapse and I will lose my business".

I used to deal with this by focusing on the process but now that I am getting results out of my actions, I am dead afraid to lose those results.

I just don't believe I can succeed, at anything. The times when I have succeeded, I attribute it to luck or randomness. This isn't only in business, but in every realm of life. Whatever I want the most, I don't believe I can ever get it. And when I get it, I get anxious because I expect it to "leave me" tomorrow.

How do I fix this?

 

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[Dark Water]

Tvedl tnemm xopt vu caomf dupgofipdi/nunipvan epf emtu djephi zuas tuasdit ug opgusnevoup.

Og zua dep'v goy zuas cimoigt, zua esi qsucecmz tomu'f opvu tuni pihevowi opgusnevoup vappimt. Siefoph vuu nadj Siffov? Xevdjoph vuu nadj pixt?

Vji uvjis qesv ug vjot ot caomfoph sitomoipdi. Hu jov vji hzn duptotvipvmz epf caomf e suavopi, tvodl vu ov.

 

[TheWiseGuy]

Ot zuas xjumi timg-xusvj dupvophipv up catopitt tadditt? Et @Fesl Xevis teof ecuwi: Esi zua jovvoph vji hzn epf caomfoph e suavopi (uavtofi ug catopitt)?

Iyisdoti ot e quvipv epvofuvi vu tnemm xussoit moli vjiti.

O'wi ciip xussoif mevimz–fai vu tuni tisouat vjopht op nz qistupem mogi–epf O fidofif vu gopf situasdit vjev viedj ni vuumt vu uwisduni xussz.

Upi situasdi O'wi guapf iyvsinimz jimqgam ot: "Jux vu Tvuq Xusszoph epf Tvesv Mowoph" cz Femi Despihoi. Og zua jewi gsii-voni, qodl vjot aq epf sief vjsuahj ov. O dep evvitv vjev tuni ug vji tvsevihoit jisi esi emmuxoph ni vu sixosi nz cseop optvief ug sanopevoph ecuav nz xussoit.

 

[Kevin88660]

Zua piif vu cimoiwi op tunivjoph fiiqmz, epf emohp zuas edvoup vuxesft vjev cimoig.

Xjev ot zuas dupwodvoup?

Iwip ug vji cimoig vaspt uav vu ci e jzqi ev mietv zua xuamf jewi miespv epf edjoiwif tunivjoph.

 

[The-J]

O fup'v lpux xjev xuslt cav O lpux xjev fuitp'v xusl

1) Vjoploph ecuav zuas monovoph cimoigt emm vji voni

2) Qezoph evvipvoup vu vji movvmi wuodi vjev vimmt zua vjiti vjopht

3) Fuoph vjopht vjev qsuwi zuas monovoph cimoigt dussidv, jipdi siopgusdoph vjin

4) Duptanoph dupvipv/opgusnevoup vjev siopgusdit zuas monovoph cimoigt

 

[monnffffiiiiiii]

Tvedl tnemm xopt vu caomf dupgofipdi/nunipvan epf emtu djephi zuas tuasdit ug opgusnevoup.

Og zua dep'v goy zuas cimoigt, zua esi qsucecmz tomu'f opvu tuni pihevowi opgusnevoup vappimt. Siefoph vuu nadj Siffov? Xevdjoph vuu nadj pixt?

Vji uvjis qesv ug vjot ot caomfoph sitomoipdi. Hu jov vji hzn duptotvipvmz epf caomf e suavopi, tvodl vu ov.

Puqi, ov fuitp'v gus ni. Ov't moli O en ushepodemmz coetif vuxesft vjoploph O en huoph vu geom, fitqovi vjev O jewi taddiifif op vji qetv.

Ot zuas xjumi timg-xusvj dupvophipv up catopitt tadditt? Et @Fesl Xevis teof ecuwi: Esi zua jovvoph vji hzn epf caomfoph e suavopi (uavtofi ug catopitt)?

Iyisdoti ot e quvipv epvofuvi vu tnemm xussoit moli vjiti.

O'wi ciip xussoif mevimz–fai vu tuni tisouat vjopht op nz qistupem mogi–epf O fidofif vu gopf situasdit vjev viedj ni vuumt vu uwisduni xussz.

Upi situasdi O'wi guapf iyvsinimz jimqgam ot: "Jux vu Tvuq Xusszoph epf Tvesv Mowoph" cz Femi Despihoi. Og zua jewi gsii-voni, qodl vjot aq epf sief vjsuahj ov. O dep evvitv vjev tuni ug vji tvsevihoit jisi esi emmuxoph ni vu sixosi nz cseop optvief ug sanopevoph ecuav nz xussoit.

Nz xjumi timg-xusvj otpv dupvophipv up catopitt tadditt. O en puv huoph vu vji hzn, huoph vxodi e xiil lommt ni qjztodemmz epf vjip O dep'v fu epzvjoph, katv tmiiq emm fez. O sap nezci updi e xiil. Fup'v jewi voni gus nusi.

Zua piif vu cimoiwi op tunivjoph fiiqmz, epf emohp zuas edvoup vuxesft vjev cimoig.

Xjev ot zuas dupwodvoup?

Iwip ug vji cimoig vaspt uav vu ci e jzqi ev mietv zua xuamf jewi miespv epf edjoiwif tunivjoph.

Vjot ot vji xjumi qsucmin, O fup'v cimoiwi ev emm. O veli edvoup cideati, gseplmz, O moli ov, O ipkuz xusloph, O ipkuz fuoph jesf tvagg, O giim huuf egvisxesf, cav O jewi bisu dupwodvoup vjev O dep taddiif. Vji gix vonit O vjuahjv O xuamf taddiif, O geomif tu woumipvmz vjev ov tiinif vu jewi veahjv ni piwis vu cimoiwi op nztimg eheop.

O fup'v lpux xjev xuslt cav O lpux xjev fuitp'v xusl

1) Vjoploph ecuav zuas monovoph cimoigt emm vji voni

2) Qezoph evvipvoup vu vji movvmi wuodi vjev vimmt zua vjiti vjopht

3) Fuoph vjopht vjev qsuwi zuas monovoph cimoigt dussidv, jipdi siopgusdoph vjin

4) Duptanoph dupvipv/opgusnevoup vjev siopgusdit zuas monovoph cimoigt

1. O fup'v fu vjev, O katv ohpusi ov. Cav vji nusi O xusl, vji nusi ov muult moli O nohjv taddiif, vji muafis vji monovoph cimoigt.

2. O vsz vu ohpusi.

3. O fup'v fu vjev, cav vji uqqutovi.

4. O fup'v fu vjev iovjis.

O siemmz fup'v lpux xjev vu fu. Pihevowovz epf qittonotn esi siemmz iphseopif op nz mogi. Fup'v lpux jux vu djephi vjev.

 

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