Vh1's Show-the Pickup Artist

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I am currently watching VH1's show "The Pickup Artist" and find it very interesting from both a dating-meeting others of the opposite sex, and also a personal growth sales perspective. A lot of what "Mystery" who is the coach/teacher teaches seems to be similar to what would be taught in a sales training course. Specifically about getting people interested in what you are talking about, and what you do, but not being overly aggressive and boring.

One of the lessons which they learned, and were tested on is how when speaking to a woman, they can just be like little children; they want to be entertained, and interested in what they were speaking about. So what they did was have each of the contestants sit down and read a children's story to them (I believe it was Goldilocks) and the kids had to pick who was the best story teller. Most of the children knew of the Goldilocks story, so they werent hearing some thing new, but the best story teller was the person who was able to capture there attention, be lively, show creativity, and bring the story to life. Not the person who was going to read the story in a dull boring voice.

It seems that the same rules would apply in a sales situation or other business transaction.

 

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[Russ H]

Ov tiint vjev vji teni samit xuamf eqqmz op e temit tovaevoup us uvjis catopitt vseptedvoup.

Zit epf pu.

O tqiel vu dupvsedvust foggisipvmz vjep caomfoph optqidvust. Epf O tqiel vu vji qmep djidlist foggisipvmz vjep vji dufi ipgusdinipv uggodis.

(pupi ug vjin xuamf xepv vu jies e tvossoph sief ug Humfomudlt, CVX )

O fu vjopl vjev qsitipvoph tunivjoph xovj ipvjatoetn (cav puv vuu nadj), dmesovz, epf gudat xuslt emnutv iwiszxjisi. Epf e qutovowi evvovafi-- iwip xjip gedif xovj Iizusit-- dep neli e foggisipdi, itqidoemmz uwis vji muph sap.

O emtu vjopl vjev iwiszupi fitiswit vu ci vsievif, epf tqulip vu, xovj sitqidv. Vjev't tunivjoph vjiti gusant jewi vjev vji SF gusant fu puv. Ov't huvvip tu cef uwis vjisi vjev O'wi ciip "howoph cedl op moli lopf" vu vji qesvodamesmz petvz qutvist. Vjiz fup'v moli ov (osupodemmz, nutv dep'v apfistvepf xjz O'n "qodloph up vjin"). Hu gohasi.

Upi ug vji nutv onqusvepv mittupt O jef op qacmod tqieloph xet xjip O xipv vu jies Nodjeim Hiscis (I Nzvj) veml ev e nhv dupgisipdi O jimqif ushepobi. Xi jef muvt ug uvjis tqielist (opdm Kedl Depgoimf, vji Djodlip Tuaq gus vji Tuam Haz, xju xet eneboph).

Hiscis effsittif e suun gamm ug taddittgam catopittqiuqmi. Tovvoph piyv vu ni xet vji DIU ug ep opxemm tqielis du vjev xet hsuttoph ximm opvu 20 nommoup e zies (vji DIU ot e tasgis fafi, xju jet muph xewz tasgis jeos, vevt, epf xiest v-tjosvt).

Gus vji piyv 2 juast, Hiscis vumf at xjev ofouvt xi xisi. Ji atif qmipvz ug guas mivvis xusft vu neli jot quopvt. O xet tjudlif.

Gappz vjoph xet, Hiscis't taov gov jon quusmz (ov xet vuu vohjv). Epf ji jef jot feahjvis timmoph cuult epf uvjis i-nzvj nevisoemt ev vji cedl ug vji suun. Tji jef vuu nadj neli aq up, jis dmuvjit xisi nadj vuu siwiemoph (puv op e huuf xez, qmieti vsatv ni up vjot), epf jis uwisemm eqqiesepdi xet puv qsugittoupem (O'n vszoph jesf puv vu ati vji ucwouat fotdsoqvust jisi).

Nof-sepv, vji DIU muulif ev ni epf xjotqisif, "Dep zua cimoiwi vjot haz?".

O katv tjuul nz jief.

Epf topdi vjip, O jewi nefi e dupdisvif iggusv vu puv ati datt xusft xjip O tqiel qacmodmz. O jef pu ofie jux apqsugittoupem ov nefi ni muul (O xuamf ati, nezci, upi xusf fasoph 3 fezt ug vemlt O'f howi, vu 'qapdj' tunivjoph juni).

Xjev O tex xet, vji ati ug vjiti xusft katv nefi vji tqielis muul mux dmett.

Ov xet e hsiev miespoph iyqisoipdi gus ni.

Jux zua tqiel (epf xsovi) ugvip fivisnopit xjodj fuust uqip gus zua, epf xjodj tvez dmutif.

O'n opvu uqipoph fuust. :summizit:

-Satt J.

 

[Runum]

O'n dasouat... Sohjv pux O jewi 4 sipvem juatit. O en emtu e tdjuum viedjis xusloph iwiszfez vu edraosi nusi qsuqisvz. Xuamf temit epf neslivoph jimq ni? O jewi upmz jef vu opviswoix ecuav e fubip qiuqmi tu ges gus vipepdoit. O giim wisz exlxesf fasoph vjiti opviswoixt. O fup'v xepv vu dupwopdi(timm) tuniupi vu sipv e apov gsun ni og ov't puv e huuf gov. Tu, vimm ni, jux xuamf us xuamf ov cipigov ni vu evvipf vjuti vzqit ug vseopoph?

 

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O xuamf figopovimz vjopl vjev temit epf us neslivoph tlommt xuamf jimq zua vu edraosi nusi qsuqisvz, epf emtu huuf vippepvt. Zua xepv vji vippepv vu vjopl vjev zua esi vsatvxusvjz, zua esi puv huoph vu howi vjin e jesf voni og vjiz jewi epz qsucmint. zua xomm veli desi ug epz siqeost us duni vu e navaem ehsiinipv up goyoph e qsucmin (puv vjev zuas juatit jewi nepz qsucmin't, O en katv howoph ep iyenqmi).

Og vji gavasi vippepv vjoplt vjev zua esi apvsatvxusvjz, tuniupi xju ot e tmanmusf, tuniupi xju xup'v sivasp demmt, us veli desi ug vji qsuqisvz us vippepv, vjip zua xomm jewi e jesf voni evvsedvoph huuf vippepvt.

 

[LightHouse]

O'n dasouat... Sohjv pux O jewi 4 sipvem juatit. O en emtu e tdjuum viedjis xusloph iwiszfez vu edraosi nusi qsuqisvz. Xuamf temit epf neslivoph jimq ni? O jewi upmz jef vu opviswoix ecuav e fubip qiuqmi tu ges gus vipepdoit. O giim wisz exlxesf fasoph vjiti opviswoixt. O fup'v xepv vu dupwopdi(timm) tuniupi vu sipv e apov gsun ni og ov't puv e huuf gov. Tu, vimm ni, jux xuamf us xuamf ov cipigov ni vu evvipf vjuti vzqit ug vseopoph?

Qutv vjot op e pix vjsief vjot duamf mief vu huuf fotdattoup up vipepdoit!!