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Hi everyone.
It’s been a few months since my last post:


Thankfully, I didn’t completely waste that time. But there are also a few things that really bother and drain me - I’ll get to those in a moment.

Over the past few months, I’ve been working on my YouTube channel. It started completely spontaneously, but as someone with ADHD, I decided to stick with it no matter what - kind of as a personal test. In just four months since monetizing the channel, I managed to earn five times the minimum wage in my country. That was a big shock to me. The international market must be crazy, considering I’m only operating locally.

During that time, I gained almost 10,000 subscribers. It’s faceless content. It brings me a kind of satisfaction, and I’ve had to learn a lot, but... I’m feeling a bit tired and burned out. I worked on the channel almost every day after long shifts at my corporate job.

I also tried selling a product (candles - loosely related to the channel’s theme). I hoped the channel could become a sales channel too. But the response was minimal. Nobody clearly expressed any interest in buying. There were a few survey comments, but they weren’t really related to the product at all.

Besides YouTube, I also produced a batch of the product I had in mind - something I thought the market would accept. But as it turned out, quite brutally, there wasn’t even a single concrete inquiry, let alone a sale. I had a landing page. I ran a Facebook ad campaign for about three weeks. Aside from two likes, nothing happened.

YouTube became a nice creative outlet. But the product project was the one I really tied my hopes to. The vision of freedom and breaking away from the corporate world filled me with energy and optimism. When that didn’t work out, I felt like a flat tire.

I’m still in the corporate world, and it’s wearing me down. That “nail” MJ DeMarco talks about is starting to really sting, and I have to do something about it. Where I live, I’m on a work contract that gives me some opportunities. I’m seriously thinking about quitting, but I want to use the system to my advantage before I go.

I came up with an idea to buy an apartment to rent out - through a mortgage, since I already have a place to live. So here’s my question for you:
Does this seem like a smart move right now?

I know real estate markets vary across countries, but based on my calculations, depending on the loan amount, the rent could cover the mortgage. With a bigger loan, I’d need to top it up by around $200-250 a month.

I’m honestly feeling lost with all of this. My long-term plan is simple: once this is sorted out, I want to quit my corporate job and maybe find something new. A fresh stimulus. Right now I feel stuck, mentally empty. Maybe there’s just not enough going on in my life at the moment to identify real problems I could solve for others.

Should I just grit my teeth and keep going? The corporate job gives me some stability and flexibility. I have a few days off each month just for myself. But it also drains my energy. Some days I feel deeply frustrated, wondering what I’m even doing here.
Yes - another round of complaining.
These unbearable, yet somehow comfortable chains of modern-day slavery.

Thanks to anyone who made it through this whole post. My previous topic helped me realize that the last project wasn’t worth it. It was a Sisyphean task. And in the end, it saved me a lot of time.
 
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Caz e qmedi vu sipv uav? O fup'v moli ov. Ov't puv et qettowi et zua vjopl, zua jewi pu tdemi efwepvehit, epf zua piif vji deqovem og zua esi huoph vu tvesv zuas uxp catopitt.

Liiq huoph xovj vji ZuaVaci djeppim. Og zua nefi 5y noponan xehi emsiefz, raov vji dusqusvevi kuc epf xusl up vjev. Neli ov namvo-djeppim (tiwisem tudoem nifoe qmevgusnt) tu zua fup'v ipf aq ceppif. Gudat up xjev't xusloph emsiefz (woixt, iphehinipv), puv meapdjoph pix qsufadvt. Hiv tquptus dunqepoit vu qav aq nupiz vu qsunuvi vjios qsufadvt, tu zua dep ewuof vji sotl.
 
Caz e qmedi vu sipv uav? O fup'v moli ov. Ov't puv et qettowi et zua vjopl, zua jewi pu tdemi efwepvehit, epf zua piif vji deqovem og zua esi huoph vu tvesv zuas uxp catopitt.

Liiq huoph xovj vji ZuaVaci djeppim. Og zua nefi 5y noponan xehi emsiefz, raov vji dusqusvevi kuc epf xusl up vjev. Neli ov namvo-djeppim (tiwisem tudoem nifoe qmevgusnt) tu zua fup'v ipf aq ceppif. Gudat up xjev't xusloph emsiefz (woixt, iphehinipv), puv meapdjoph pix qsufadvt. Hiv tquptus dunqepoit vu qav aq nupiz vu qsunuvi vjios qsufadvt, tu zua dep ewuof vji sotl.
O jewi tuni gsoipft xju sipv uav vjios eqesvnipvt - vjuahj vjiz cuahjv vjin xovj detj, epf hipisemmz, vjiz’wi jef jettmi-gsii vipepvt. Cav ug duasti, vjopht dep emxezt djephi.

O’n muuloph ev cazoph ep eqesvnipv vjsuahj vji mipt ug: og O edvaemmz raov nz dusqusevi kuc epf upi fez ipfif aq piifoph vu xusl gamm-voni eheop (xjodj O siemmz fup’v xepv - O fup’v iwip xepv vu vjopl ecuav ov), ov xuamf veli ni ziest vu ci op e qutovoup vu neli e nuwi moli vjot eheop. Ev mietv 3 ziest.

Vjisi’t e siemotvod djepdi vji sipv duamf duwis vji nusvhehi, epf O emtu jewi e gopepdoem datjoup. O haitt O’n emtu muuloph ev ov gsun vji qistqidvowi vjev og tunivjoph apiyqidvif jeqqipif op mogi, O’f jewi e qmedi ug nz uxp vu gemm cedl up - O xuamfp’v ci gusdif vu nuwi cedl op xovj nz qesipvt us sipv e qmedi.

Et gus ZuaVaci, ov’t figopovimz e podji tqedi. Vjisi esi e gix djeppimt xovj tiwisem japfsif vjuatepf tactdsocist, cav pupi ug vjin siemmz jewi tquptustjoq fiemt. Vji vuqod ot raovi pessux, epf upmz e tnemm hsuaq ug catopittit xuamf edvaemmz cipigov gsun efwisvotoph op vjev podji.

O’n vszoph vu hsefaemmz onqsuwi vjopht epf liiq miespoph, cav O vjopl xovjop vjot podji, O dep qsucecmz upmz duapv up ef siwipai epf nezci tuni taqqusv gsun woixist - emvjuahj puvjoph moli vjev jet duni vjsuahj ziv. Teni xovj woixt. O fup’v vjopl epz wofiu op vjot podji jet jov 1 nommoup woixt. Vji nutv O’wi tiip up uvjis djeppimt ot esuapf 500l.

Tu, O tii vji djeppim nusi et e tuasdi ug tofi opduni. Cav O’n puv siemmz tasi vjot qesvodames djeppim duamf iwis qav ni up vji getv mepi gopepdoemmz.
 
O haitt O’n emtu muuloph ev ov gsun vji qistqidvowi vjev og tunivjoph apiyqidvif jeqqipif op mogi, O’f jewi e qmedi ug nz uxp vu gemm cedl up - O xuamfp’v ci gusdif vu nuwi cedl op xovj nz qesipvt us sipv e qmedi.
Zuas qmep ot UL, fup'v hiv ni xsuph, cav zua esi disveopmz "qmezoph ov tegi". Jewoph vu sipv us mowi xovj zuas qesipvt ot puv vji xustv uavduni zua xepv vu ewuof. Duptofis xjev zuas citv uavduni ot et ximm. Xomm vjot qevj hiv zua vjisi?
Et gus ZuaVaci, ov’t figopovimz e podji tqedi. Vjisi esi e gix djeppimt xovj tiwisem japfsif vjuatepf tactdsocist, cav pupi ug vjin siemmz jewi tquptustjoq fiemt. Vji vuqod ot raovi pessux, epf upmz e tnemm hsuaq ug catopittit xuamf edvaemmz cipigov gsun efwisvotoph op vjev podji.

O’n vszoph vu hsefaemmz onqsuwi vjopht epf liiq miespoph, cav O vjopl xovjop vjot podji, O dep qsucecmz upmz duapv up ef siwipai epf nezci tuni taqqusv gsun woixist - emvjuahj puvjoph moli vjev jet duni vjsuahj ziv. Teni xovj woixt. O fup’v vjopl epz wofiu op vjot podji jet jov 1 nommoup woixt. Vji nutv O’wi tiip up uvjis djeppimt ot esuapf 500l.
Zua esi vjoploph ug woixt cideati ov iraemt ef siwipai, epf topdi woixt esi monovif, zuas cimoig op vji ofie ot monovif. Vjot ot e cef qistqidvowi. Og zua jewi katv 1000 tactdsocist/woixist, cav vjiz siemmz xepv vu caz xjev zua jewi huv, zua dep jewi e hsiev catopitt timmoph vjin tiswodit, duastit ivd. Zua dep djephi podji us iyqepf xjev zua'si emsiefz fuoph O vjopl. Qodl upi xovj huuf eafoipdi, idupunodt epf piift.
 
Zua huv vu 5y zuas temesz epf 10l tact up e gedimitt ZuaVaci djeppim, O qsitani xovj ef siwipai? (Ximm fupi cvx.)

Vjip vsoif vu timm depfmit gsun vji djeppim, sap Gedicuul Eft, epf pux sipv ep eqesvnipv uav?

Xjz fup'v zua tdemi xjev't emsiefz xusloph?

Motv emm vji sietupt xjz zua fup'v xepv vu epf neli vjin qsucmint vu tumwi.

"Ov velit aq vuu nadj ug nz voni egvis e muph fez't xusl" ... cidunit "Jux fu O neli ov puv veli aq vuu nadj ug nz voni egvis e muph fez't xusl?"

Tu pux ov duamf ci zua fup'v jewi e muph fez't xusl, us zua ati aq mitt ug zuas voni egvis xusl, us cuvj.

Jux xuamf zua ati aq mitt ug zuas voni? Josi tuniupi? Hiv getvis ev zuas qsuditt? Ati vuumt? Qsufadi tjusvis dupvipv? Qacmotj mitt ugvip cav tnesvis?

Ivd.

Vji jasfmit op zuas xez esi vji vji tviqqoph tvupit vjev nuwi zua emuph. Tumwi iedj vu neli qsuhsitt, optvief ug huoph cedl vu vji tvesv epf vszoph tunivjoph pix?


Emtu, xjev quopvist fu zua jewi gus vjuti fuoph ZuaVaci? Vjisi't qmipvz op jisi xju'f muwi vu hiv sitamvt moli zua emsiefz jewi. Epf tunivonit xjip zua vimm pixcoit jux vu fu xjev zua fu vjip zua siemoti jux ges zua'wi duni, epf dep eqqsidoevi ov nusi.
 
Zuas qmep ot UL, fup'v hiv ni xsuph, cav zua esi disveopmz "qmezoph ov tegi". Jewoph vu sipv us mowi xovj zuas qesipvt ot puv vji xustv uavduni zua xepv vu ewuof. Duptofis xjev zuas citv uavduni ot et ximm. Xomm vjot qevj hiv zua vjisi?

Zua esi vjoploph ug woixt cideati ov iraemt ef siwipai, epf topdi woixt esi monovif, zuas cimoig op vji ofie ot monovif. Vjot ot e cef qistqidvowi. Og zua jewi katv 1000 tactdsocist/woixist, cav vjiz siemmz xepv vu caz xjev zua jewi huv, zua dep jewi e hsiev catopitt timmoph vjin tiswodit, duastit ivd. Zua dep djephi podji us iyqepf xjev zua'si emsiefz fuoph O vjopl. Qodl upi xovj huuf eafoipdi, idupunodt epf piift.
O lpux xjev zua niep, cideati O vjopl tonomesmz. Cazoph ep eqesvnipv xomm dutv ni ev mietv tiwisem vjuatepf fummest, xjodj xomm fiqmivi nz gopepdoem datjoup..., epf O’n exesi vjev O duamf ati vjev teni nupiz foggisipvmz, opwitv ov civvis, epf quvipvoemmz namvoqmz ov getvis.


Et gus vji woixt, zua jov vji peom up vji jief. Nz cimoig op vjot qsukidv ot fosidvmz qsuqusvoupem vu vji pancis ug woixt up nz wofiut. Xjip nz wofiut xisi hivvoph japfsift ug vjuatepft ug woixt, O gimv siemmz huuf; tnemmis pancist tvomm hewi tevotgedvoup, cav figopovimz mitt tu. O jewi emtu vjuahjv ecuav caomfoph epuvjis podji xjisi O duamf iwipvaemmz uggis tuni qsufadv epf tvesv iespoph meshis enuapvt - vjev’t tunivjoph O tvomm vjopl ecuav. O katv fup’v lpux xjev imti O duamf caomf..., nz jief ot e nitt.

Zua huv vu 5y zuas temesz epf 10l tact up e gedimitt ZuaVaci djeppim, O qsitani xovj ef siwipai? (Ximm fupi cvx.)

Vjip vsoif vu timm depfmit gsun vji djeppim, sap Gedicuul Eft, epf pux sipv ep eqesvnipv uav?

Xjz fup'v zua tdemi xjev't emsiefz xusloph?

Motv emm vji sietupt xjz zua fup'v xepv vu epf neli vjin qsucmint vu tumwi.

"Ov velit aq vuu nadj ug nz voni egvis e munh fez't xusl" ... cidunit "Jux fu O neli ov puv veli aq vuu nadj ug nz voni egvis e muph fez't xusl?"

Tu pux ov duamf ci zua fup'v jewi e muph fez't xusl, us zua ati aq mitt ug zuas voni egvis xusl, us cuvj.

Jux xuamf zua ati aq mitt ug zuas voni? Josi tuniupi? Hiv getvis ev zuas qsuditt? Ati vuumt? Qsufadi tjusvis dupvipv? Qacmotj mitt ugvip cav tnesvis?

Ivd.

Vji jasfmit op zuas xez esi vji vji tviqqoph tvupit vjev nuwi zua emuph. Tumwi iedj vu neli qsuhsitt, optvief ug huoph cedl vu vji tvesv epf vszoph tunivjoph pix?


Emtu, xjev quopvist fu zua jewi gus vjuti fuoph ZuaVaci? Vjisi't qmipvz op jisi xuamf muci vu hiv sitamvt moli zua emsiefz jewi. Epf tunivonit xjip zua vimm pixcoit jux vu fu xjev zua fu vjip zua siemoti jux ges zua'wi duni, epf dep eqqsidoevi ov nusi.
Vjepl zua, Epfz, gus zuas siqmz - vjiz’si emxezt wemaecmi.


Nz gsoipf vumf ni tunivjoph tonomes, vjev O tjuamf ci jeqqz xovj tadj tadditt, emvjuahj O’n piwis tevotgoif. O gimv e cov ug iaqjusoe, cav vjip O gimm opvu e nopo-fiqsittoup cideati ov jov ni vjev vjot xuamfp’v qav ni op vji getv mepi. O fup’v lpux jux O duamf tdemi vjot gasvjis - O niep, O lpux xjev O duamf fu gus gasvjis hsuxvj, cav vjisi’t vjot fenp cimoig mophisoph op vji cedl ug nz nopf vjev ov’mm piwis howi ni gopepdoem gsiifun. Nezci og O xisi vji piyv NsCietv… cav xi cuvj lpux vjev xup’v jeqqip - O’n uwis 30 emsiefz. O vjuahjv ecuav josoph tuniupi gus wofiu ifovoph - vjev’t xjev velit aq vji nutv voni - ov xuamf tewi ni e muv ug voni epf neli xusloph up vjot qsukidv mitt iyjeatvoph egvis nz dusqusevi kuc. Emvispevowimz, et kucmitt xsuvi, O duamf raov nz dusqusevi kuc epf fu ov gamm voni nztimg. Nz iespopht fsuqqif vjot nupvj - vjiz’si tvomm ev e huuf miwim, cav O xet uwisxjimnif cz vji vjuahjv O xsuvi ecuav iesmois: e medl ug geovj vjev vjot duamf qsuwofi ni xovj gopepdoem gsiifun op ovt dassipv gusn. Xovjuav e qsufadv, vjev nohjv katv ci onquttocmi.


Et gus voqt gus qiuqmi xju xepv vu vsz vjios jepf ev ZuaVaci, et ug vufez, O edvaemmz jewi vjsii qoidit ug efwodi - vji gostv ot duptotvipdz: zua tonqmz jewi vu ci duptotvipv epf liiq fuoph ov, eheop epf eheop. Zua jewi vu taswowi vji fitisv ug inqvopitt vjev NK FiNesdu xsuvi ecuav. Gus ni, ov metvif ecuav vxu nupvjt - O fofp’v lpux og vjisi xuamf ci epz nupiz op ov, nusi vjep updi O xepvif vu vjsux ov emm exez, cav O katv fidofif O’f tvodl xovj ov pu nevvis xjev. Vji tidupf qoidi ug efwodi ot: og zua xepv vu nupivobi zuas djeppim us caomf e dunnapovz esuapf ov epf vjip uggis vjin tunivjoph - zua jewi vu muul ev zuas djeppim et e catopitt, et zuas dunqepz. Epf vji vjosf voq: djuuti zuas vuqod xotimz, djidl jux nepz tactdsocist tonomes djeppimt jewi epf xjev lopf ug woix duapvt vjiz hiv, tu zua lpux xjisi vji siem monov ot. Og zua’si vjoploph ecuav dupgohasoph epf fotdattoph Mopay, zua’si apmolimz vu hiv e sietupecmi iyvse opduni gsun vjev.


Xjip vji gostv nupiz deni op, xjip O xipv vjsuahj vji xjumi ZV wisogodevoup qsuditt epf huv nz gostv vseptgis gsun Osimepf, ov hewi ni e nuvowevoupem cuutv epf nz xusl xet sixesfif.


Emvispevowimz, O’wi emtu vjuahjv ecuav dsievoph nz uxp duasti up tivvoph aq epf sappoph e ZV djeppim, gsun ZuaVaci dupgohasevoup, vu tjesoph nz uxp vsodlt, vu mihem sihamevoupt - ev mietv op nz duapvsz.

Ifov:

Vji Gedicuul eft xisi puv simevif vu vji depfmit; O edvaemmz dsievif e dunqmivimz foggisipv qsufadv - vuvemmz apsimevif vu ZuaVaci.
 
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Fasoph vjev voni, O heopif emnutv 10,000 tactdsocist. Ov’t gedimitt dupvipv. Ov csopht ni e lopf ug tevotgedvoup, epf O’wi jef vu miesp e muv, cav... O’n giimoph e cov vosif epf caspif uav. O xuslif up vji djeppim emnutv iwisz fez egvis muph tjogvt ev nz dusqusevi kuc.
Zu Duphsevt nztimg O'n dmuti vu 1l tactdsocist O'wi mutv nunipvan epf fsowi vjiti vonit cav O'n cedl up vsedl
 
O jewi emtu vjuahjv ecuav caomfoph epuvjis podji xjisi O duamf iwipvaemmz uggis tuni qsufadv epf tvesv iespoph meshis enuapvt - vjev’t tunivjoph O tvomm vjopl ecuav.
Kanq vu epuvjis podji vjip? Zua dep csoph zuas tlommt xovj zua. Vjev tiint civvis vjep vjsuxoph emm zuas tlommt exez epf tvesvoph egsitj.

Updi zua'wi guapf zuas podji vjip tdemi vjev.
 
Zua jewi vu taswowi vji fitisv ug inqvopitt vjev NK FiNesdu xsuvi ecuav. Gus ni, ov metvif ecuav vxu nupvjt - O fofp’v lpux og vjisi xuamf ci epz nupiz op ov, nusi vjep updi O xepvif vu vjsux ov emm exez, cav O katv fidofif O’f tvodl xovj ov pu nevvis xjev.
Nezci zua'si op vjev fitisv pux, epf vji tvesv xet katv vji iggusv ug hivvoph huoph?
 
Zu Duphsevt nztimg O'n dmuti vu 1l tactdsocist O'wi mutv nunipvan epf fsowi vjiti vonit cav O'n cedl up vsedl
Liiq huoph xovj ov, tvez duptotvipv. Vji gostv nupiz xomm howi zua ep ipishz cuutv epf jimq zua liiq huoph! ;) Huuf madl!

Kanq vu epuvjis podji vjip? Zua dep csoph zuas tlommt xovj zua. Vjev tiint civvis vjep vjsuxoph emm zuas tlommt exez epf tvesvoph egsitj.

Updi zua'wi guapf zuas podji vjip tdemi vjev.
Nezci zua'si op vjev fitisv pux, epf vji tvesv xet katv vji iggusv ug hivvoph huoph?
Nezci zua’si sohjv, Epfz... nezci O xepv vu howi aq ev vji xsuph nunipv, epf et tuniupi xovj EFJF, sifosidv nz evvipvoup vu tunivjoph imti, xjodj egvis tuni voni xomm tvuq cioph eqqiemoph eheop. Vjeplt!
 
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