Hello everyone!
As the title suggests this post is going to be about relationships and partying. However, I'm going to specifically be relating it to my age: 21.
So I want to know what your thoughts are on this subject.
Quick about:
I'm 21 and basically trying to pull in to a successful life as early as I can. I have had past relationships and have had a decent amount of 'fun' with other females--so I'm not lacking in that department *wink*.
I'm also a huge lover of going out and partying. I don't do drugs, never have and never will. However, yes I do drink.
My mind switch:
I wanted to get a girlfriend with the winter months coming, yes snuggling is fun. I found said girl but didn't make it official. I actually cut things off! This was because I felt like it was a huge waste of time as most days would be spent procrastinating (she had a netflix account, I don't watch TV but got hooked). I find most girls my age don't have the same mind set. They just want the standard plain toast route: 9am to 5pm and the same old weekends. Therefore, this leads on to limited growth as a person and relationships should be all about growing as a couple.
This leads me on to going out at this age on weekends to party. I love socializing, however I recently realized that it is such a huge waste of time. I spend most my weekends now working on my business ideas and learning. Even though it sounds lonely (I live alone) I feel like it's a much greater use of time.
What I want to know:
With this mind switch I'm not sure if my decisions are good ones or bad. I'm obviously very young and don't have a great deal of life experience. Therefore, I'm hoping to get some opinions and views on this topic of having a girlfriend at this age and going out and partying.
Overall I currently feel /TLDR:
- I want a girlfriend who has the same mindset/drive to make their own story...
- But I don't really care about getting one.
- I'm missing out on partying, meeting new people and meeting girls...
- But instead I'm learning a lot from staying in
Many thanks,
Aaron
As the title suggests this post is going to be about relationships and partying. However, I'm going to specifically be relating it to my age: 21.
So I want to know what your thoughts are on this subject.
Quick about:
I'm 21 and basically trying to pull in to a successful life as early as I can. I have had past relationships and have had a decent amount of 'fun' with other females--so I'm not lacking in that department *wink*.
I'm also a huge lover of going out and partying. I don't do drugs, never have and never will. However, yes I do drink.
My mind switch:
I wanted to get a girlfriend with the winter months coming, yes snuggling is fun. I found said girl but didn't make it official. I actually cut things off! This was because I felt like it was a huge waste of time as most days would be spent procrastinating (she had a netflix account, I don't watch TV but got hooked). I find most girls my age don't have the same mind set. They just want the standard plain toast route: 9am to 5pm and the same old weekends. Therefore, this leads on to limited growth as a person and relationships should be all about growing as a couple.
This leads me on to going out at this age on weekends to party. I love socializing, however I recently realized that it is such a huge waste of time. I spend most my weekends now working on my business ideas and learning. Even though it sounds lonely (I live alone) I feel like it's a much greater use of time.
What I want to know:
With this mind switch I'm not sure if my decisions are good ones or bad. I'm obviously very young and don't have a great deal of life experience. Therefore, I'm hoping to get some opinions and views on this topic of having a girlfriend at this age and going out and partying.
Overall I currently feel /TLDR:
- I want a girlfriend who has the same mindset/drive to make their own story...
- But I don't really care about getting one.
- I'm missing out on partying, meeting new people and meeting girls...
- But instead I'm learning a lot from staying in
Many thanks,
Aaron
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